Thread: I need to get out

Erm!

This thread is turning into a relationshit advice column.

There are only two options:

1. Be yourself and don’t get “involved”.

2. Be a doormat.

There is no option 3.

Treat her like a celebrity and she will treat you like a fan!

Originally Posted by Montauk

Just go. You're a grown man. Say "I'm going to the gym." and go.

Or just leave the whole relationship.

Not sure what you're asking about. Divorce laws?

No kidding. She should be thrilled he's exercising, or maybe she expects him to have a perfect V-shaped physique without ever working out. It's his body. He should be able to work out whenever he wants to. It's bizarre that a woman would think she should have control over that.

I was MGTOW for a number of years until I met someone who really made an effort and did everything for me. She hates feminism, is traditional, does the cooking and cleaning. After a couple years we got married.

You made two mistakes here:

1. Fall for the "I hate feminism" BS
2. Get married

My issue is that she’s very controlling. If I want to go to the gym, do something with friends it requires a lot of negotiating and coaxing to be allowed. This then follows with an argument. If I want to stay up late? Same thing applies.

This is the part where you do what you wanna do regardless of her demands and you're an adult right? Grow a spine or face being taken advantage of by people like your "wife".

Any advice?

Your best bet is to start getting a divorce lawyer ready in case she decides to take you to the cleaners.

Originally Posted by Unregistered

I was MGTOW for a number of years until I met someone who really made an effort and did everything for me. She hates feminism, is traditional, does the cooking and cleaning. After a couple years we got married. After a few months I’m growing to hate it. My issue is that she’s very controlling. If I want to go to the gym, do something with friends it requires a lot of negotiating and coaxing to be allowed. This then follows with an argument. If I want to stay up late? Same thing applies. I have tried to explaining this problem but I feel now it’s time to just break it off. Any advice?

I was MGTOW for a number of years until I met someone who really made an effort and did everything for me.

You were never MGTOW. Once you are MGTOW then it's forever since you have seen the truth. You were a spirit trapped in purgatory and you chose hell.

She hates feminism, is traditional, does the cooking and cleaning.

She suckered you in by being a chameleon. Granted I have met traditional women who liked playing homemaker but they were the ones who demanded they have their asses kissed.

After a couple years we got married.

You signed your balls over to her and the state. She cracks the whip while you have a ball gag in your mouth while the state f**ks you up the ass. Don't even think of complaining cause pimp daddy government will bend you over a bridge, shove a telephone pole up your ass, and you'll pick out splinters for the rest of your life.

After a few months I’m growing to hate it.

I am so surprised. *rolls eyes*

My issue is that she’s very controlling. If I want to go to the gym, do something with friends it requires a lot of negotiating and coaxing to be allowed. This then follows with an argument. If I want to stay up late? Same thing applies.

It's what you signed up for. It's why I say you weren't MGTOW. If you were then you would've understood female nature and avoided it. You can tell her to f**k off but I promise everyone you know will blame you.

[QUOTE] I have tried to explaining this problem but I feel now it’s time to just break it off. Any advice? [/QUOTE]

Trying to make peace with a woman is impossible. I have better odds of waking up fine if I fell asleep on the highway. You are only a few months married? Cut your losses quick. But be prepared for your own family to blame you and to start over. She has everyone fooled by her actions before marriage where she put on a show of being perfect. No one will believe she the real her. People will tell you that its your problem and to grow a pair if you say anything.

The only way to avoid (apart from Tower's crazy advice) getting fucked after marriage is to NOT GET MARRIED IN THE FIRST PLACE.
It isn't that fucking difficult man.

Bite the bullet.
Divorce her.
Take whatever punishment everyone (and the government) dishes out to you.
Move on.

You can't play pretend MGTOW.
We say the same shit all the time. Our advice never changes.

Originally Posted by Juggernaut

The only way to avoid (apart from Tower's crazy advice) getting fucked after marriage is to NOT GET MARRIED IN THE FIRST PLACE.
It isn't that fucking difficult man.

Bite the bullet.
Divorce her.
Take whatever punishment everyone (and the government) dishes out to you.
Move on.

You can't play pretend MGTOW.
We say the same shit all the time. Our advice never changes.

FYI, the line between insane and genius is often indistinguishable.

Originally Posted by Juggernaut

The only way to avoid (apart from Tower's crazy advice) getting fucked after marriage is to NOT GET MARRIED IN THE FIRST PLACE.
It isn't that fucking difficult man.

Bite the bullet.
Divorce her.
Take whatever punishment everyone (and the government) dishes out to you.
Move on.

You can't play pretend MGTOW.
We say the same shit all the time. Our advice never changes.

Wow.

Calling another member’s advice insane is not only against site policy, but it shows your own ignorance.

Yeah, don’t get married in the first place – easy isn’t it?

If only life was so straight forward that we all had the foresight to see what life holds for us.

This guy fucked up. He knew about MGTOW and probably thought he needed to see for himself if what we say holds true. Now he knows better.

“divorce her”?

Is this your sagely advice? Throw yourself into the system to get screwed over by said system and pay divorce attorneys through the nose?

Fuck that!

He fucked up. He knows he fucked up. Maybe divorce is the right route, but it’s a costly one. If there’s an alternative it should be explored.

The deed is done. He’s in and there’s no getting out. He should have known better but he didn’t. Telling him he shouldn’t have gotten married in the first place is of ZERO use to him.

Originally Posted by mgtower

Women make men walk on eggshells, and for that deed I say return the favor with broken glass. Control her with her own temptations and use them to destroy the relationship. Don't stop them from smashing all the glass, just leave them standing in it.

I like this! Easier said than done with modern women but if you can pull off turning the tables at all, it's gotta be done.

Originally Posted by Blizzardtime

I like this! Easier said than done with modern women but if you can pull off turning the tables at all, it's gotta be done.

There's no turning the tables, bargaining, or plea.

Men are "expected" to support and encourage, whiles on our side of "the table", when we need support and encouragement we receive scolding and belittling, thereby forming a ratchet drive that only turns one way except for the illusion when it's going the other way to reengage the cog and continue to turn the table in one overall direction.

My answer to this insanity of bargaining for shit position, is let them take their methodical manipulations and quantum mechanics some where else more fitting or tolerated.

The best way to bargain with a professional hustler is to turn around and walk away, your wellbeing is not even on their list, all you are is a resource to be exploited, extracted, then throw away.