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    Young but with a hell of an experience (Long)

    As background, I grew up in an athletic family, usually gifted with talents in art/performance. I have had the same friends since elementary school and to this day, are still close to few. I found that going into freshman year of high school, relationships became a social norm. "who are you with?" "who are you talking to?" I was always more focused on sports, academics, etc etc. When it came to my sophomore year, a junior caught my attention. A very attractive female with a social personality, but who had many problems I looked past, especially for our age. After it ended with me questioning my manhood, I had this overwhelming feeling of "fuck women." I had not realized until this year but I had decided to become a bachelor before I was even out of high school. I was often regarded as a "player" or "fuckboi" but I would only date maybe a few weeks here and there and not even sleep with them in most cases. I was focused on making my way into the Naval Academy. Long story short I got a congressional recommendation but got on the wait list.

    Going to engineering school, it did not leave me with a lot of free time or spare thought for females. Once again, it all happened my sophomore year. A female made her way into my life. I was genuinely interested because she went out of HER way to show how much she liked ME. Bottom line, it turned into me walking around campus with a leech on my leg it felt like. My friends were her friends, my plans were her plans, my way of thinking became our way of thinking. Safe to say I did my best to let her down easy, but I ended up leaving that school after that semester anyway (50k a year adds up).

    Once I got back home, I completed community college for an associates in science and math. I was working with a construction company part time, paying all my bills, had a nice car, etc etc, then went full time after school. So 19 y/o making good money. Girl on social media sees im back home and immediately makes a move. Goes out of her way (once again) to show how she likes me. Things go very well for a couple months, but suddenly get caught in this toxic cycle. At the time I didnt realize it, but I set boundaries for myself. I would threaten to leave if she was behaving or treating me a certain way (gets it from her mom btw) so id ghost her for a week, shed come back, act a certain way, then by the time a month goes by, right back to arguing(over something stupid). After a year of this emotional dance, I end things. I had saved up good money, I had degrees, but i wanted more purpose, so i applied for the marines.

    Fitness scores all above average or perfect(i suck at running), asvab 95, and only 2 months from going to MEPS to get checked medically. I mess around on dating sites. Think ive found the perfect girl, take her on a grande date. Starts with a beach walk, then spontaneously a helicopter ride, stroll through a halloween store, then finally olive garden(im 20 so no drinks). Its around 8pm when i drop her off, she invites me up.....................

    Fast forward to the day I am getting driven back home by my recruiter from meps. I had sworn in to the marines and cleared physically. I get a call from an investigator saying i s3xually assaulted the female previously mentioned. I am shocked, stunned, confused, but mainly scared. We had talked a week after that night? What happened? Overall the only case she had was no condom use. When asked to stop, I stopped. 0 force. Thought nothing of it. I get a great lawyer, who was female, who was also scared for my life because of the #metoo movement. The case did not even get by the preliminary court. The state hires an attorney from maryland because no one will take the case. Feminist. Says that because she wanted a condom, it was b@p3.

    The day after my older brothers wedding, i am handcuffed and put into a police vehicle for the first time of my life. Am bailed, thank god for the support of my family/friends. It is kept on the low thank god. Fast forward 4 years of just working in construction. Putting in about 50 hours a week to cover lawyer cost/fees, college debt, and rent. But also doing community service. These are some of the lowest moments of my life. Without even going to trial i had been through hell. I am physically, and mentally exhausted. The thing that i got to do each day that kept me going? I'd get on discord(gaming virtual meeting app) and play games with my friends. Something so simple while out on the road.

    During my final year, i get linked with a female through mutual friends. High value, but i look past that. I take my time in pursuing a relationship with her. Throughout our time together, i pick up small red flags. ones i didnt realize would lead to my demise. i thought i was going to marry this woman, after knowing/dating her for 2 years. her friends would tell her what decisions to make in the relationship, pressure me to make changes, discuss our issues with other people, or would manipulate conversation(ask my opinion on something serious, then act like the question was a joke). But all of it lead up to her one day deciding she is gone. Sat me down at a dinner, explained why it wont work out. i shook her hand and speed off. (come to find out later, she was fucking her gym trainer, and when he ghosted her, she tried to crawl back 7 months later to me, to which she got no reply)

    The past 2 experiences with women are what really brought me here. For the past 3 years I have been single. I have focused on myself and my career and it is beginning to show. at 25 years old, almost all of my debt is almost gone, and i am now contracting the jobs i used to supervise on. Ive now gotten my mindset back to that similar of that in high school, and it is literally not caring about females and focusing on myself. My record is currently cleared thanks to my lawyer. It sucks i have to go through all of that, but its better to learn now than later. Thank you for reading through this, and if you have any questions or want more details i would be glad to answer them.

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    Re: Young but with a hell of an experience (Long)

    Thank you for your story, and I am glad to read that your renewed focus on yourself is starting to show its fruit.

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    Re: Young but with a hell of an experience (Long)

    I would only mentioned that now as you're finally starting to get your life back on track perse, you will find women trying latch on to you when they start noticing your success and improved financial status.

    If you haven't already look into marriage & divorce statistics, it will help form a strong base of knowledge incase you ever think of diving into dating or relationships again, after what you've been through try to avoid them period lest you encounter another clusterfuck of a situation and actually end up in jail while being innocent.

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    Re: Young but with a hell of an experience (Long)

    Quote Originally Posted by JustWannaRetireFk View Post
    I would only mentioned that now as you're finally starting to get your life back on track perse, you will find women trying latch on to you when they start noticing your success and improved financial status.

    If you haven't already look into marriage & divorce statistics, it will help form a strong base of knowledge incase you ever think of diving into dating or relationships again, after what you've been through try to avoid them period lest you encounter another clusterfuck of a situation and actually end up in jail while being innocent.
    They always tried their shit when I was about to accomplish a large personal goal. It was like the devil himself sent a most suitable distraction to tempt me into weakness. Many times in life, I was seduced and every time it seemed as though it was the same wretched split-tail, just in a different body…A delusion it seemed, that played out over and over so many times, that there is no way that it was a coincidence…

    They always came when I was nearing a pinnacle.

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    Re: Young but with a hell of an experience (Long)

    Quote Originally Posted by JustWannaRetireFk View Post
    I would only mentioned that now as you're finally starting to get your life back on track perse, you will find women trying latch on to you when they start noticing your success and improved financial status.

    If you haven't already look into marriage & divorce statistics, it will help form a strong base of knowledge incase you ever think of diving into dating or relationships again, after what you've been through try to avoid them period lest you encounter another clusterfuck of a situation and actually end up in jail while being innocent.

    It was really just as simple as a group coming together and saying hey, by the way, your life does not revolve around the opposite sex. It was really that simple. Squashing a small bug in the back of my head i did not even know existed. i have done my best to educate my friends without even mentioning mgtow.


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