Thread: MGTOW Validated

Hey guys, I wanted to share my MGTOW success story. It took nearly a decade to have my MGTOW beliefs validated, so here is my story.

In high school I started hooking up with one of my cousins friends who was 3 years older and in college. She was a hard-core feminist, but I thought it was just a phase for her in college. I had no problem putting up with it back then. I kept that chick around for 7 years and got sucked into Simp Hell.

Needless to say, her nasty feminist side was not a phase. After she graduated college she struggled to find a job with her English degree. She eventually took a job 50 miles away for $15 an hour at some feminist magazine. Of course she refused to commute, so she moved away and told me "you figure out how to keep us together".

By then, I had dropped out of college and was running a highly successful business in the mortgage and insurance industry. So I moved my business out that way and Simped along.

I had this plan how we (me) were going to pay off her student loans, buy a house, get married.

A year later, when I was 22, I bought a house, right down the street from her feminist rag office. I got the cutest little puppy from the pound, put the puppy in a crate in the living room and brought her over to show her "our plan for our future". Hahahahaha!!!!!

I brought her over and she looked at me and said, "this isn't what I want. My dream since I was a little girl was to be a writer in NYC (and get more pole than Carrie Bradshaw). I'm applying to jobs in NYC and if I get one, I'm moving. You'll have to figure out how to keep us together".

Within 6 months she had met some other dude at a party with her TownBike friend and told me my problem was, "you love me too much".

Every year on her birthday I would check her Instagram. At first because I was a BetaSimp, but as the years went on and I discovered MGTOW in 2014, more just for laughs about her endless "cats of instagram" posts.

Then in 2019, 9 years after we broke up, her birthday post was of some Simp on one knee, with a ring for her. I had NEVER seen a single photo of him on her IG, NOT ONE SINGLE PIC. I completely thought she was a single cat lady.

That is when I realized, I COULD HAVE BEEN THAT GUY. That invisible tool who none of her friends or beta orbiters knew about. In fact, I was that guy for a while. I wasn't allowed around her new friends after she moved when we were together.

For 9 years that guy had been Simping to his feminist queen, and he was invisible, a nobody, until he "put a rock on it" and then he got his one photo on her precious IG feed. Hahahahaha!!! What a loser.

That was the moment when I realized my MGTOW values were validated. It took 9 years, and 5 since I had found MGTOW, for that to happen, but in the end it was worth it.

It's going to be a long road, fellas. But if you stick with it, it will work out for you.

The cherry in top is, she lives in an apartment they rent together, home prices in Orange County, California are so absurd now, she will never be able to afford a home on her salary, and SHE COMMUTES 40 MILES to her job!!!!

She was forced to settle for all that, and she NEVER got her big break in NYC!

Watch her be divorced within 5 years when the current simp can’t figure out how to keep them together through the grind of marriage…that could’ve been you too. She will probably end up being one of these 40+ yr old women with cats that nobody will ever want other than meaningless pump and dumps or the occasional fling that might last a few months. Shocking how many of those I see locally on FB. The ones pushing 40 or beyond with a kid seem to almost never find long term partners.

Your story is why I will never try to argue with a woman who claims that marriage is horrible for women and that women shouldn't get married. If I understood your story correctly, you were ready to put a rock on it...but she was the one who prevented it. Like you said, that man on his knee now could have been you. Sometimes, you dodge a bullet and sometimes, the bullet dodges you. Which way doesn't matter...the important thing is that you and the bullet don't meet.

Congratulations for having the bullet dodge you, but coming close enough to teach you the lesson. Here's hoping the current guy doesn't get burned too badly.

I wouldn't be surprised if that was her trajectory. I haven't checked her IG since 2019, don't really care at this point!

My favorite part was how she hated her mom for being a feminist and leaving her dad for some rich dude in Marin County. She's too dense to realize SHE is her mom.

Her dad was a really good man too, a man I respected.

Surprisingly, she wasn't the girl that made me go MGTOW. After her, I dated a girl who was a genuinely good person. She wanted to marry me, but her brother didn't like me. Even back then, my rule was that I don't fight family or try to prove myself. So I split. She met a dude in the Marines who wanted to marry her and they moved to Wisconsin when he got relocated.

Then I met Christine on POF. After a handful of dates, I got her out of her bra and down to her panties but she shut me down. I Simped and said, "you're worth waiting for". I was even such a chucklehead back then that I made sure to tell her again in the morning so she knew what a "good guy I was".

A few weeks later she went to visit her girlfriend in Chicago and spent the week getting piped by some dude she met on the plane.

She came back and told me all about it, with the sparkles in her eyes and the tingles in her UsedUp.

I Simped even harder, telling myself, "now she will see what a good man I am". Hahahahahaha!!!!!

I took her on a trip to San Francisco thinking this was going to be my big break. I got us some $400 a night hotel downtown..... I remember her making a fool of me when she asked the girl at the hotel check-in if we could have a room with 2 beds.

We stopped talking for nearly a year, and then Christine hit me up one day when her dad died.

I Simped EVEN harder, went to the funeral, and took her on a trip to San Diego. After a Padres game and a few drinks, she says she doesn't want to get a hotel and wants to go home. I'm driving and we get trapped in a DUI checkpoint. I get waved through without even talking to the cops because they've got somebody pulled over already. Easily could have gone to jail that night and destroyed my life.

I Simp EVEN harder until she meets this scumbag who is 34 with a kid in college. He's a total controlling Jackov, and she loves it. By this time, I had found MGTOW because of her, but I wasn't able to embrace it yet.

She is infatuated with this dude and she is talking about how cute it will be when they have kids together. She's only 12 years older than this guys kid. What a "family"....

After she married that guy, he went through my Facebook two years in the past and screenshots this comment I made about Christine. It was this paragraphs long rant about how unfair it was that Christine was such a wh**e and I'm a total tool for taking it. Well, Christine texts me that screenshot and I apologize profusely telling her how she is such a great girl and she didn't deserve what I said about her. Never heard from her again.

After I completely emasculated myself apologizing to her, I began to embrace MGTOW to its fullest. I was already on the right track with my FB post about her, but that made me really embrace it.

7 years later, I am a better man for it. It was a process, but it worked out for the best in the end. I am disgusted with myself for the way I handled that situation for 2 years. Now I look back and laugh at what a complete toolbag I was.

My last Relationshit was some college chick I picked up in Flagstaff while taking an Avalanche Safety class. I stayed with her for a year until she graduated and said she had to move to Hawaii with her mom. I said no way am I moving to an island with you and your mom.

Now I enjoy mountaineering, climbing, hiking and being out in the backcountry. I'm no longer the Simp who takes women to Europe or other big cities. I do what I want in the Backcountry when I go on vacation.

Jadedoldman65 - You bet I was. I had the Tiffany diamond and setting all picked out. I was going to be that man of her dreams.....

I was going to be the Simp my father was. That was the only way I knew. My parents bought their first home in San Diego in the late 1970s. Today the home is worth over a million. My dad spent his life constantly buying "dream homes" for my mom and fixing them up.

After owning homes in California for 45 years, they moved and are the only people I know who LOST money selling their home and moving out of the state.

That was because he spent his life working for that next dream home for my mom, which restarted and raised their property taxes each time, reset their mortgage to 30 years each time and led them to a point where they could have been millionaires from property alone, but lost money in the end.

Guy worked 6 days a week his entire life to pay interest to the mortgage companies every time they had to move and start a new 30 year mortgage.

They ended up taking out a FOURTH MORTGAGE AT 7.5% (in 2019 when rates were at 3.25%) to get dear old mom her dream home out of state. This was when he was age 65. They did sell off their properties with the other 3 mortgages, but that solidly made me commit to MGTOW.

It was NEVER about stability for the family, we had to move 5 times in the same town before I graduated high school. It was ALL ABOUT keeping my stay at home mom happy.

Of course, my mom's latest "dream home" is 3 miles from my sister and her kids who moved across the country.

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Thank you, and welcome.

OP, thanks for sharing. That is hilarious for you to go through all that and in the end dodge those bullets. Most men in your position would've simped hard for a girl in college if they were in high school.

But you are in a better place now. If you are not already, I would stop looking at past ex social media. Nothing good can come of it. Just enjoy and live your life.

Opensource - I learned a lot of lessons in my 20s. Finally went full MGTOW at 26 or 27 and am now here trying to help younger dudes avoid what I went though. I'm 35 now and in a much better place. Like I said in another reply, I haven't checked out her IG since I saw that photo in 2019.

That was a Pinnacle moment in my MGTOW career, and there is no looking back now.

ThotPolice, thanks for your stories. Very illuminative!

No Wife, Happy Life!