Thread: Member Introduction: Delmore Schwartz

It is always difficult to know where to begin with these things, but anyway, here goes.

British (English actually, although I currently live in Perth, Scotland), mid-40's and going through the divorce process (the fire that burns of my nom-de-guerre)

One kid, a girl who will be 15 in May and who has been programmed by the usual forms of female alienation to hate me despite not having any grounds to do so. My bitch wife used the usual methods to keep me from seeing my daughter (accusations of domestic violence and child abuse), none of which are true, but I suspect you guys knew that.

Started dating, then stopped in a hurry when I came to the conclusion that all the females on dating sites and real life had:
1. Lists of demands that were ridiculous (height, weight, earning expectations, fitness levels)
2. Were almost universally overweight, ugly, radical feminists or just plain nuts
3. Brought nothing to the table other than their toxic personalities and mental health issues.

As someone who had been "Off the Market" for nearly 20-years this was something of a surprise, but it caused me to start to use Google and in that process I came across first the PUA communities (which I understand, but don't align with) and then the Red Pill communities, first with ex US Military you tuber Terrance Popp and to a lesser extent Sandman (although I find his presentation style turgid).

So from that perspective I suppose that I am a pure-Red Piller, having previously been throughout my marriage to my wife, a true Blue Piller. I kind of sympathise with the feminists of my mothers era because my father was a sadistic bastard who would hit his wife and his kids as soon as say hello to them.

The radical 3rd wave feminists you come across nowadays though are total whack-jobs who need to be certified, not displaying their psychosis on YouTube and Tumbler. Certainly all of this stuff about weird, fucked-up genders and "Headmates" is complete looney tunes.

Since I'm not dead below the waist (never having been a practicing Catholic priest), I still feel the urge now and then but have been getting by with pay for play (visited Pattaya in Thailand during 2014 and 2016), but cannot see any possibility of finding a unicorn, so suspect that I will go to my grave with just the single strike against me (i.e. the divorce in progress).

I enjoy sex, but in recent years, it hasn't been as big a driver for me, presumably because my testosterone levels are lower so the Big Head has some control over the Little Head

One of the first things that I did when becoming "Red Pill" was to go to a private clinic here in the UK and have a vasectomy. I did this not for any pressing reason (as no girlfriend or FWB was on the horizon), but rather as a statement of intent that I was not going to get suckered again by some heartless harpy.

Forewarned was forearmed though as they wanted to discuss the matter with my wife before going through with the vasectomy, but I had filled in the form as "Single" and simply lied that I was not married - I mean how could they tell - but that is something to be aware of for other MGTOW's. Cost was nearly £500 including post-vasectomy screening for sperm, but well worth the money for the peace of mind.

I work in IT as an IT contractor in the Energy Regulation sector (EMIR and REMIT), this pays well but I have long stretches between contracts where I get to do my own thing which is worth more to me than the money.

When I get free time, I enjoy spending it in water - I can sail Dinghy's (RYA Level 2) and have my RYA competent crew certification for yachts although I haven't been on one in a while because I've been too focussed in work and divorce related bullshit. When I get the chance later this year I intend to start on my PADI, but need to lose some weight first so I can buy a wetsuit that actually fits.

Not sure what else to add really.

I hate it for you, man...Once you get through the divorce crap, I hope it's all uphill from there...I've seen a lot of guys squeezed pretty hard, and the ones that survive fall back into the same trap...As if false accusations are not a serious warning sign...

Good for you for thinking ahead...

Welcome.

Welcome to the forum.

Thanks Malinois and Eddie. Nice to be here.

Originally Posted by Malinois

I hate it for you, man...Once you get through the divorce crap, I hope it's all uphill from there...I've seen a lot of guys squeezed pretty hard, and the ones that survive fall back into the same trap...As if false accusations are not a serious warning sign...

Good for you for thinking ahead...

Welcome.

In fairness I have got some ammunition behind me because the bitch is having trouble negotiating the divorce settlement as I am very mobile and none of my major assets or income streams are UK related. I'm in Perth, Scotland at the moment because I had a contract here until the end of last year, but my next role is likely to be in mainland Europe or the US.

Just playing the waiting game to get a better offer of settlement from her.

She'll get bored eventually and settle because she needs the divorce settlement more than I do and she's having to pay for the lawyer herself (no recourse to joint funds as none available and she earns too much to get legal aid).

There is no way I am getting married again so I don't actually need a piece of paper saying she is a cheating whore, but no doubt the guy she was fucking during our marriage is still on the hook and she needs to get that fish landed and gutted.