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    Hello ever'one,
    Been lurking here for some time now plus the now defunct site as well.
    A little about me: 51 years old as I type this, never married, dated some...real s-it show that was...never again.

    I live in MI's Upper Peninsula and enjoy the peace and quiet of not only living in the country, but without some harpie constantly nagging me.
    My experience with weemins isn't really any different than most here (I know-obvious), was raised as a traditional BP cuck...you know: women good, men bad and have to put up with anything and everything women do...got fed some RPs back then; but of course during my teenage years, the dreaded hormones took over.

    Got this fool idea that NAWALT, and just needed understaaannnnnding.
    Yes, I was THAT guy...the BP orbiter, pathetic, I know. Couldn't figure out for many years why women would keep going for Chad when they'd tell me what they were looking for in a man was just the opposite (pretty much described me at the time). I pointed that out to a few of them, and either got laughed at, or looked down on, or both.
    Now I'm not saying I was the greatest looking fella, but I wasn't bad looking either...was slim, clean, probably at least a 6, but what one would call a "nice guy." Went through this many times before asking myself WTF?

    Came up with the idea of acting like a Chad once or twice just as an experiment: total 180 on how women viewed me.
    Problem is: I could not keep that up or fake it long enough, plus their behavior towards me (quite sl-tty) disgusted me as I was starting to see just how big of sl-ts these women actually are.
    I was quite naive about 'em prior to that, thinking they were the epitome of morality...NOPE.
    Guess I was just seeing what I wanted to see beforehand.

    Still, I believed that NAWALT, and I would find a "decent" girl to marry, as I was raised and pressured to do.
    However, I paid closer and closer attention to womens' (mis)behavior and became more purple pilled, with the purple turning more and more Red all the time.

    What finally turned me full RP was I was perusing the web trying to understaaannnnd womens' behavior when I stumbled on the old defunct site.
    Suddenly it all made perfect sense to me, what with many many men experiencing the exact same things as I.

    I can't count how many pages I read that night. It cleared up so many things.
    One thing that sticks out is the quote: "She's never yours, just your turn."
    For many years prior, I could actually sense that from them.

    One in particular that I was interested in pulled that on me.
    I called her to ask her out years ago...never answered the phone and wouldn't return my calls.
    After the 3rd try, I just said F it, didn't bother with her again.

    About 6 or 7 years later, a mutual acquaintance mentioned that said woman was interested in me and asked if I would consider dating her.
    I was still a BP cuck, but not totally dumb.
    My response, which was quite liberating, was "No thanks." Even before I'd heard of the "one chance per woman, per lifetime," I had adopted that strategy as my thoughts were that I was not going to allow any woman to treat me that way, regardless as to how much I was attracted to her.

    Ran into her a few years later and tried to avoid direct contact, but she wouldn't have that and tried talking to me.
    Don't think I said any more than 1/2 dozen words to her. Haven't seen her since.

    The way I see it, using another quote here: "if I wasn't good enough for you during your prime, don't bother me during your decline."
    This waiting at the finish line after years on the carousel is not going to work for me.

    Meanwhile, I have a house that's almost paid for, both my trucks were bought and paid for in cash, money in the bank, though I'm far from wealthy...all this impossible with a wife/ex-wife plus the divorce raping I would've received. Bullet dodged.

    I know I've rambled on and apologize for that.
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    Re: Long time lurker

    The great wall of text! Looks like a drive in movie screen! My eyes! My eyes!

    If reading was cliff climbing there's no foot or handholds, not even a crack!

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    Re: Long time lurker

    Sorry 'bout that.
    I just edited it for easier reading.
    Hope that helps.

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    Quote Originally Posted by NorthwoodsHermit View Post
    Hello ever'one,
    Been lurking here for some time now plus the now defunct site as well.
    A little about me: 51 years old as I type this, never married, dated some...real s-it show that was...never again.

    I live in MI's Upper Peninsula and enjoy the peace and quiet of not only living in the country, but without some harpie constantly nagging me.
    My experience with weemins isn't really any different than most here (I know-obvious), was raised as a traditional BP cuck...you know: women good, men bad and have to put up with anything and everything women do...got fed some RPs back then; but of course during my teenage years, the dreaded hormones took over.

    Got this fool idea that NAWALT, and just needed understaaannnnnding.
    Yes, I was THAT guy...the BP orbiter, pathetic, I know. Couldn't figure out for many years why women would keep going for Chad when they'd tell me what they were looking for in a man was just the opposite (pretty much described me at the time). I pointed that out to a few of them, and either got laughed at, or looked down on, or both.
    Now I'm not saying I was the greatest looking fella, but I wasn't bad looking either...was slim, clean, probably at least a 6, but what one would call a "nice guy." Went through this many times before asking myself WTF?

    Came up with the idea of acting like a Chad once or twice just as an experiment: total 180 on how women viewed me.
    Problem is: I could not keep that up or fake it long enough, plus their behavior towards me (quite sl-tty) disgusted me as I was starting to see just how big of sl-ts these women actually are.
    I was quite naive about 'em prior to that, thinking they were the epitome of morality...NOPE.
    Guess I was just seeing what I wanted to see beforehand.

    Still, I believed that NAWALT, and I would find a "decent" girl to marry, as I was raised and pressured to do.
    However, I paid closer and closer attention to womens' (mis)behavior and became more purple pilled, with the purple turning more and more Red all the time.

    What finally turned me full RP was I was perusing the web trying to understaaannnnd womens' behavior when I stumbled on the old defunct site.
    Suddenly it all made perfect sense to me, what with many many men experiencing the exact same things as I.

    I can't count how many pages I read that night. It cleared up so many things.
    One thing that sticks out is the quote: "She's never yours, just your turn."
    For many years prior, I could actually sense that from them.

    One in particular that I was interested in pulled that on me.
    I called her to ask her out years ago...never answered the phone and wouldn't return my calls.
    After the 3rd try, I just said F it, didn't bother with her again.

    About 6 or 7 years later, a mutual acquaintance mentioned that said woman was interested in me and asked if I would consider dating her.
    I was still a BP cuck, but not totally dumb.
    My response, which was quite liberating, was "No thanks." Even before I'd heard of the "one chance per woman, per lifetime," I had adopted that strategy as my thoughts were that I was not going to allow any woman to treat me that way, regardless as to how much I was attracted to her.

    Ran into her a few years later and tried to avoid direct contact, but she wouldn't have that and tried talking to me.
    Don't think I said any more than 1/2 dozen words to her. Haven't seen her since.

    The way I see it, using another quote here: "if I wasn't good enough for you during your prime, don't bother me during your decline."
    This waiting at the finish line after years on the carousel is not going to work for me.

    Meanwhile, I have a house that's almost paid for, both my trucks were bought and paid for in cash, money in the bank, though I'm far from wealthy...all this impossible with a wife/ex-wife plus the divorce raping I would've received. Bullet dodged.

    I know I've rambled on and apologize for that.
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    Re: Long time lurker

    Welcome aboard!

    You seem quite interesting to me. I look forward to your posts.
    Stay away from women. They will only break your heart.

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    Re: Long time lurker

    Welcome NorthwoodsHermit! I hope you enjoy it here as much as I do.

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    Quote Originally Posted by GDash View Post
    Welcome NorthwoodsHermit! I hope you enjoy it here as much as I do.
    Thanks, already do.

    I'd like to add that with my personal experiences with the "fairer-cough cough-sex,"
    I was for a while thinking it was just me. I was completely blown away as to how many
    other men have experienced the exact same thing as I, right down to the letter in regards
    to womens' behavior(SIC).

    Nice to know I'm far from being the only one.
    MGTOW=the best way of life thus far.
    No pressure,
    No wasting of resources,
    No nagging,
    No stupid arguments,
    No resting bid itch face to look at,
    No "that one phone call,"
    No worries of infidelity,
    No marriage,
    NO inlaws, (or outlaw inlaws),
    No divorce rape.
    No wife, no strife.

    Life ain't just gooooood,
    IT'S FREAKIN' AWESOME!!!!!

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    Re: Long time lurker

    Welcome NorthwoodsHermit.


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