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    Hello

    Hi, Iím from Trinidad and Tobago. I found MGTOW after a bad relationship. The first group I found was FB; after that I found Reddit and saw that they had a more active forum there. Fast forward till now and Reddit is anti-MGTOW and FB is not as informative as Reddit has been.

    After that bad relationship in reflecting on previous ones and 10 years of trial and error I tried what Coach Red Pill suggested and found a hobby and during that time fell into another relationship. The difference this time is that (1) Iím not and wasnít looking for a relationship and (2) any relationship that Iím in is beneficial to me. As far as relationships/interaction with women, itís a variation of blue pill interaction.

    I believe that you can be in a relationship and be MGTOW at the same time, but not married and be MGTOW. In my relationship she accepts my views and if any view causes a problem between us, we discuss it between us.

    MGTOW has allowed me to see gynocentric practices and biases; whereas before I accepted it as a norm, now, since I went my own way I first tell the individual, then go my own way.

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    Re: Hello

    >I believe that you can be in a relationship and be MGTOW at the same time,

    Yes, that's the case. Good to hear you've shifted your views as society tells us men should be "lucky" just to be in any relationship; the reality is it needs to work for you.

    Welcome to the forums NBee.

    Some of you may be wondering -- who is this Jagrmeister guy? Have a look at some of my posts from MGTOW Forums--> Jagr Archive (collection of my articles)



    Stuff I do: Box, Surf, Tennis (3.5/4.0), Downhill skiing. I lift 4x a week and have for 10 years.
    Stuff I like: Comedy shows, NBA, Reading Non-Fiction (sociology, philosophy, biographies).
    Random facts: I admire Steve Jobs. Favorite travel spots (Russia, Central America).

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    Very true, I don't just jump into those things now and it's good that I can live with my views/mindset. My current stance is the best possible option for me, be it alone or with a companion. I'm seeing how this works out.

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    Welcome aboard NBee, I agree with you that a man can be in a relationship and be MGTOW. i think a married can also be MGTOW because i dont believe that the criteria for MGTOW status to be fixed by some definition. other might disagree but that is fine because I think we have the freedom to define it for ourselves. I do think their is one central inclusion criteria and that is being 'Red pilled'. Aware of Gynocentricity, Hypergamy, Female Solipsism and Briffault's Law. Soem may argue that latter fits with one of the initial concepts I mention but I am not so sure.
    Any man aware of these concepts whether or not in a relationship is - by his own definition - going his own way. But a hard definition would be men who stay away from relationships altogether. Save for the occasional 'Pump and dump' which many arent even interested in due to the inherent dangers.

    Its not hard to be MGTOW these days to be frank. The obesity rates here in the west are astonishing and the attitudes of the majority of females reveals a supremacy of narcissism. A woman most men would rate as a 3-4 out of 10 at best will see herself as an 8-9. There is simply no point.

    Anyway - nice to meet you.

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    Welcome NBee. A married man can indeed morph into a MGTOW as his wife beats him down with her drama and selfish behavior. The red pill can be administered at any time, either by someone who has been through it all or by self realization.

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    At present compromise is minimal since we are separate, as far as money and living circumstance, but I notice compromise increases; thank goodness discussion also increases. By law, once married, although I can say much, I would end up falling under gynocentric rules


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