Thread: Finally decided to join

oooooof, I am not really a good writer, but here goes: I am 22 years old in my final semester of uni. My relationship history is small. Was never the casual dating guy, had a long 3 year relationship through out highschool, and one 2 year relationship in college. First one ended because we went to different colleges and didn't want to have a long distance relationship, and second one ended because we kept fighting over everything. I should mention that I was blue pill to the full in both relationships.

I used to spend all my money on my gfs in both relationships. From dinners to gifts and flowers. I wasted so much money.... I would often do all the work, plan everything all the dates, pick them up, ask them out. everything.

My parents are married still for 25 years now. My mom is a stay at home mom who always loves to play the martyr and victim all day even though she never does anything. My dad is a lawyer and a normal person, I can't really say anything more about him.

I have always thought the way society treats men and women was weird ever since I was 12. The whole thing about not being able to hit women BACK was one of the first thing that struck me as unfair. But I never paid too much attention to it. When feminism started blowing up in 2013 when I was 20 I started noticing more and more how retarded it was. So I started getting into the manosphere and the whole MRA shit. And I would think of MRA women and anti feminist women as special snowflakes who were different and blah blah blah. Until a few month ago I stumbled on a TurdFlingingMonkey video where it was discussing female nature and generalizing women. I refused to buy into it at first and got defensive about and even started an argument in the comments. Until I noticed that its not the laws that are unfair, its the men and women who enforce them that are unfair. There is no law that says men hitting women is worse that women hitting men, it was society, judges, and police who treated it as such. That was when I first understood a gynocentric society. And I noticed how anti feminsit/mra women didn't really talk about male issues like unfair divorce or alimony and such, because those stuff were useful to them. They talked about male issues that weren't useful to them.

The more I googled the more I ended up on this forum and lurked. Until I decided to make an account.

...and here you are.
Welcome, young Jedi.

Who else, apart from TFM, have you been watching on YT and what was your reaction?

Welcome to the forum. Perhaps you could share what the fights were about? I know it can be a bit of a nuisance, but with the growing popularity of MGTOW we're experiencing an influx of trolls and details matter as they help us determine whether you're really who you say you are.

Originally Posted by Eddie Willers

...and here you are.
Welcome, young Jedi.

Who else, apart from TFM, have you been watching on YT and what was your reaction?

Turd flinging monkey was my first introduction of mgtow( before it, I only heard of mgtow through the MRAs and anti feminist women I used to follow bash mgtow). My first reaction was getting really defensive and saying "not all women are like that, a lot of women don't act liike this blah blah blah" and tfm replied to me and we had a conversation where he explained the tendancies of women and linked me to a thinking ape video. I became more and more convinced the more I interacted with women.

I've been watching old Bar bar videos, thinking ape, TFM, and cs mgtow.

Originally Posted by Aintdealingwithyoshit

Welcome to the forum. Perhaps you could share what the fights were about? I know it can be a bit of a nuisance, but with the growing popularity of MGTOW we're experiencing an influx of trolls and details matter as they help us determine whether you're really who you say you are.

We fought about silly stuff. It just seemed like she hated everything I did. She fought me about how I would dress to go to class. studying with other female friends. I would tell her I can't go out tonight I have to study, and she would get very passive aggressive and start withholding sex. She would constantly try to make me shave my beard. It would always end up with her leaving then me texting her the next day and then we act like everything is normal. It was a nightmare.

Originally Posted by Double cheese burger

There is no law that says men hitting women is worse that women hitting men, it was society, judges, and police who treated it as such.

Boom! Although some places do have actual sexist laws on the books, generally that's not the case. And that fact is an example of how women wield "soft" power, the advantage of soft power being that it's very difficult to challenge.

Oh, and welcome to the forum. Normally I ask for a specific story about something that actually happened one day, but meh.

Welcome greenie. Do you have any hobbies or special skills? Favourite movie?

Originally Posted by John Deer

Welcome greenie. Do you have any hobbies or special skills? Favourite movie?

Hobbies... I like playing basketball, video games, and I like swimming. The closest thing I have to a special skill is probably that I'm really good at math.

My favorite movie is probably inception right now. Rewatched recently and understood 10 things I didn't understand the first time.

Welcome, glad you found us and decided to jump in!

Originally Posted by Double cheese burger

Until a few month ago I stumbled on a TurdFlingingMonkey video where it was discussing female nature and generalizing women. I refused to buy into it at first and got defensive about and even started an argument in the comments. Until I noticed that its not the laws that are unfair, its the men and women who enforce them that are unfair. There is no law that says men hitting women is worse that women hitting men, it was society, judges, and police who treated it as such. That was when I first understood a gynocentric society. And I noticed how anti feminsit/mra women didn't really talk about male issues like unfair divorce or alimony and such, because those stuff were useful to them. They talked about male issues that weren't useful to them.

Man, the above was worth repeating.

Welcome!