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    58 year old male. never too late to learn MGTOW\redpill content. saving the rest of my life.

    1. Relationship history (experience with women, red pills, what about it made you made you aware; note- you don't HAVE to have had relationships but you can speak of your interactions with women) -- it turns out trolls don't have good, realistic stories of this ilk.

    I am a 58 year old man. I have had much experience with women & female nature in my years. I have had two marriages. I dated much before, between, but not after the second marriage. I was done with it (dating\women) by the end of my second marriage.

    The first wife was my young relationship. She was a looker. I had dated several girls while in high school\university. I dated the woman that became wife #1 during our university years. She was attracted to the fact that I was becoming a doctor. Having lots of $$$$ was important to her, as she grew-up in a rich community, but her parents did not have lots of $$$$. We married young & dumb. I worked my arse-off when I first went into practice. long hours, low pay. She had her first affair (that I discovered) within 2 years of us being married. She got knocked-up @ that time. Later, I learned she did not know who the father was, me or Chad. I was dumb. I was committed to being a good doctor & provider. I thought our marriage was solid.

    When the baby arrived, she would always say, “She’s got your eyes. She’s got your personality. She looks like you.” Guys, if the wife keeps saying these things, she’s trying to convince herself & you that the baby is yours, even if it’s not. It was only after the second child that I learned about the affair during our marriage. I insisted on a paternity test for the first baby, but the damage was already done. I was devastated. She tried to make it my fault that she screwed-around. Soon after, our marriage failed completely, due to no trust, female nature and bickering arguments. I spent 25 years paying child support to that woman.

    I dated somewhat after the first divorce. There were gold diggers. @ the time, I was so blue-pilled and ignorant about female nature, I did not know what a gold digger was. I do now. I dated drama queens, feminists, single mothers, party girls, cougars, etc. I was just dating. None of them got to me, until I met my second wife.

    The second wife was an affair I had with a married woman. I didn’t care back then about dating\doing a married woman. I do now. I will never do that again. When our affair was discovered, she monkey-branched over to me and attached herself single-handedly. I had little say in that. It just happened so fast. (So be careful.) She assumed a relationship after our affair was outed. We stayed together, got married (blue-pill days) and it was a wonderful time with her. She was a really good woman for me. I loved her. We were a great couple together and I enjoyed our marriage. I would have prolly stayed blue-pilled and her domestic slave. She passed away from breast\bone cancer. We were together for 8 years. It was a really good time until she started dying. We suffered together her health falling-down and eventually she died the most painful death that is osteolytic metastatic

    I stumbled into MGTOW @ the time she was dying. Not dating after a spouse’s death and the MGTOW\redpill wisdom kept me from rebounding into another relationship. I’ve been monk-mode for 2+ years now.

    2. Awareness: your previous blue pill perspectives, how you transitioned to red pill, with enough detail about what brought you to MGTOW.

    blue-pill is ignorance, the default state of boys\men. How many older men have said now, “I wish I knew this stuff when I was young!” The blue-pill mindset last into my 50’s. :-/ But any man, @ any age, can learn redpill & MGTOW. The payback for doing so is very much worth it.

    Blue-pill is having the wrong mindset about women. White knighting for women. Doing too much for women. Listening to their mouths talk for hours and hours. Fixing things and being Mr. Nice Guy all the time. Blue-pill is being traditional.

    The more I learned redpill, the more I let go of being the nice guy. I don’t waste my time around women anymore and I don’t let them waste my time for me. As an older male, I am running-out of time on the clock. I am not giving that time away to women like that again. (and I don’t wanna be “one blowjob away from being back on the plantation…”)

    It’s been Stardusk, Sandman, Paul Elam and of course, Paul Proteus. Godspeed to Paul Proteus. I feel akin to the many men & content creators that have taught and debated MGTOW\redpill.

    The MGTOW mindset comes from learning redpill content. Redpill content is learning the difficult truths about female nature\instincts. The more I learned about women, the more MGTOW I became. Now, I have strong resistance to womens’ games when they come around.

    3. Who you are: tell us a little bit of who you are. What you like, what you do, etc.

    I’m just another ordinary/average guy, living in the USA. I am in good physical health & shape. I work out, practice boxing\sparring, ride bicycle. I build HOT RODs, street race, motorcycles. I like to camp a lot. I go to weekend music festivals. I am living a solo life now. I have lots of family & friends that run around with me. I have one grand daughter and I have very active in her life.

    I don’t know where in heck I would ever fit a woman back into my busy schedule. Some of them look good, but are <not> worth the time\trouble\expense.

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    Re: 58 year old male. never too late to learn MGTOW\redpill content. saving the rest of my life.

    Nice Intro. Thank you, and welcome!
    The two most important days in your life are the day you were born and the day you find out why. - Mark Twain

    The mass of men lead lives of quiet desperation.
    - Henry David Thoreau

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