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    My wife and I missed mortgage payments because of unpaid debts, yet she shops and hides her finances. What do I do?

    Published: Dec. 18, 2020 at 11:47 a.m. ET Yahoo dot com ĎOn a few occasions, I have suggested selling the house or considering bankruptcy to restructure our debts, but she is unwilling to consider eitherí



    " . . . Over the last two years, events have not gone in our favor, especially with COVID-19. In March, I had to have gallstone surgery, and thatís when our money problems came to the forefront. My wife and I donít discuss bills, debts, savings or even spending.

    And yet a combination of overdue bills and unpaid debts have led to us missing mortgage payments, and have created a constant and stressful reminder that she is constantly spending money, and even asking about constant vacations that we can not afford. Multiple attempts to get my wife to see the light have ended in heated arguments with no resolution.
    On a few occasions, I have suggested selling the house or considering bankruptcy to restructure our debts, but she is unwilling to consider either. I have no knowledge of her financial situation, yet Iím always transparent with mine. This has obviously become a huge problem in our marriage, and I donít know what else I can do to try and save both our relationship, and our financial future. What do I do?

    Response by Quinton Farrell: " . . . If you live in a community-property state ó Arizona, California, Idaho, Louisiana, Nevada, New Mexico, Texas, Washington, Wisconsin ó debt taken on during your marriage is community property and you are both responsible for these debts. Bankruptcy may be an unpleasant, but necessary option. You canít have a marriage without trust. If your wife doesnít cooperate, you will have a painful choice . . . "

    Commenter: Wife who won't stop spending money on vacations and whatever? Disaster A "Divorce" or Disaster B as in "bankruptcy" ? Or both?









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    Re: My wife and I missed mortgage payments because of unpaid debts, yet she shops and hides her finances. What do I do?

    Take away all her privilege and treat her like a child, or throw her out in the snow! But that's DV, and that's criminal, so don't get married in the first place, it's like giving a child a loaded gun that automatically aims at you!
    United we stand, divided we are.

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    Re: My wife and I missed mortgage payments because of unpaid debts, yet she shops and hides her finances. What do I do?

    Solution: run away to another country and change name.

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    Re: My wife and I missed mortgage payments because of unpaid debts, yet she shops and hides her finances. What do I do?

    Quote Originally Posted by Manfred View Post
    Solution: run away to another country and change name.
    Take her with you and come back without her! Some countries you can sell her with a bill of sale, or trade her for a goat!
    United we stand, divided we are.

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    Re: My wife and I missed mortgage payments because of unpaid debts, yet she shops and hides her finances. What do I do?

    Link, please.
    The two most important days in your life are the day you were born and the day you find out why. - Mark Twain

    The mass of men lead lives of quiet desperation.
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    Re: My wife and I missed mortgage payments because of unpaid debts, yet she shops and hides her finances. What do I do?

    Quote Originally Posted by Unboxxed View Post
    Link, please.
    Sounds like a line from the MATRIX.
    United we stand, divided we are.

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    Re: My wife and I missed mortgage payments because of unpaid debts, yet she shops and hides her finances. What do I do?

    Rich and powerful sociopaths weaponized female nature, and made it the law of the land that women are entitled to spend male money without any obligations in return.

    Is your enemy:
    a. Women, or
    b. Sociopaths
    ?

    Never forget who your true enemy is. Even if female nature is completely obnoxious. The sociopaths are the ones that took away your rights to mitigate female nature.

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    Re: My wife and I missed mortgage payments because of unpaid debts, yet she shops and hides her finances. What do I do?

    https://www.marketwatch.com/story/my...-do-2020-12-17
    Quote Originally Posted by Unboxxed View Post
    Link, please.


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