Thread: Why Men Don't Approach YOU! Woman "finally" Understands Why Men Stop Giving AF...

A black woman thinks she speaks for "other women that wants to be approached", and that "other women" ruin cold approaching for "other women" when men do it, because women need to stop hating men and allow men to approach women. Many older women, especially classic old fashion women of the 60s, and 70s, think men should cold approach, and thinks that men should take advice from women.

Taking advice from women???? OH my fucking god. Taking advice from women is like drinking water from the toilet, when you should drinking water from the kitchen sink. And its not the same thing. Taking advice from women is not the same thing from taking advice from men. In my experience, taking advice from women on relationship breeds trouble, and headaches. In fact, I don't take advice from women ON ANYTHING. I just know women are not good at world applications. And theirs so called advice is disastrous.

By the way, I don't know if this has been posted before. Let me know, please.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Dp5oA6bNuZY

The reason I stopped approaching women is because of a certain community, actually 2 communities.
Feminists and L…..+

Originally Posted by NewLifeNewMe

The reason I stopped approaching women is because of a certain community, actually 2 communities.
Feminists and L…..+

The only reasons I don't cold approach women, is that I get rejected or it's always "I have a boyfriend" comment. Cold approaching just doesn't work for me. So I stop doing it.

Personally, I don't like validating women. Approaching them is a form of validation. They get their egos stroked enough without me joining in.

I'm not sure why there's any reason to approach women. I also am not sure why there's a need to approach heroin dealers.

Neither has anything I want and only ends up with legal problems.

Originally Posted by UnKnownSurviving

Taking advice from women???? OH my fucking god.

It is pointless taking relationship advice from women, for 2 reasons.

1 - They lie to themselves. Even if their are sincerely trying to help, their advice is useless because it's based on lies.
2 - They are batting for team woman, and what team woman wants is a man who just gets it without needing to be told.

The very fact that you are taking advice at all means you are unworthy of it.

They are not your friends.

The risk-reward-ratio is bad and the probability of success is very low. I don't understand why anyone would participate in that other than someone who is kind of masochistic.

Originally Posted by Mr Wombat

It is pointless taking relationship advice from women, for 2 reasons.

1 - They lie to themselves. Even if their are sincerely trying to help, their advice is useless because it's based on lies.
2 - They are batting for team woman, and what team woman wants is a man who just gets it without needing to be told.

The very fact that you are taking advice at all means you are unworthy of it.

They are not your friends.

Women lie to give advice? That's interesting. For me, I know that women aren't good at world applications, and things. So whenever a woman say that she's has good experience with men in relationship, and that she knows men, I had to laugh. Also, when I was a teen, i was taking advice from women, I didn't know any better, but with experience, I realized that their advice were just shitty, and had no weight, whatsoever.

I had come to conclusion in my mid-twenties that, women's advice had no bearing on the particular subjects. Unless, a rare woman had practical knowledge of certain something, like cars, computers, and web design, then that's something. I'm sure there's women out there, but it's 1 in million.

I've seen a number of Tiktoks recently (via Taylor the Fiend) of women realizing that they are going to have to start approaching. In every case, they seem insulted by the idea that men aren't approaching them. They talk of "being the bigger" and approaching men, and perhaps most importantly, that if a woman approaches a man, he better say Yes.

That was an interesting video, and I'm glad to hear THOTS waking up and realizing that Feminists are their enemies. Not that THOTS are friends to men, by any means, but I've seen hints here and there that they are getting frustrated with the #killallmen crowd (which they are secretly a part of). One thing I can say is that since I've started seeing women as lure-predators, I've finally started noticing all the ways that they hit on me. Wish I had understood back when I was young.

I've been practicing this for years, for my own amusement. When I'm out walking and see a good looking woman in the distance coming in my direction, I make a point of not looking at her at all. I purposefully look past her and completely ignore her. It drives them crazy, I can feel the vibes. "How dare he not check me out?" "Is there anything wrong with me?" "Men always check me out". I get a good chuckle and go about my day.

I thought the video made a few good points.

But the thing is, I decided many years ago that "relationships" with women were going to stay off the table for the rest of my life. And so, I watched the video from that point of view. Academically, it was interesting. Relevant to me personally? Not one bit.

I am glad that UnknownSurviving posted it, though. It reminded me of all the M/F bullshit I no longer have to slog through, and that I did in fact, way back then, make the right call after all.

I don't approach women is because I don't give a rat's hairy ass at all. Their presence makes me uncomfortable, they look like shit run over twice. Where I live, they're old.

Originally Posted by UnKnownSurviving

Taking advice from women is like drinking water from the toilet,

EEEWWW!!!!!!

If I approach a woman and get rejected, I've wasted my time. If I approach a woman and get accepted, she is eventually going to expect me to pay/reward her for her time.

Either way, it's a losing proposition for me.

So the only potential play here is for them to approach me. That's been my position for a long time now. A woman I explained this to got a little snide with me and challenged me with the question, "Why should a woman approach you?". My answer: "Because I'm the one with the fucking money!". Everywhere else in a normally free market functioning economy, if someone has money and I'm trying to get some of it, I have to do the advertising. I have to do the marketing. And I have to make the sales pitch...".

The reason most women find it tough to approach men is not fear of rejection. It is because it requires them to acknowledge that they want/need money, and really have only one thing to offer in exchange for it. It means having to acknowledge that their need for a man's money is higher than his need for sex. It is an indication that the value of that one commodity is dropping.

Reminding yourself how much women want/need from men (money, attention, validation, protection, commitment etc etc etc), and reminding yourself that for all the list of the things they want from men, they really only have one thing to offer in exchange for all of it, you start to realize how destabilizing it is when ANYTHING comes into play that lowers the value of that one commodity. All the angst, and wailing and protest we hear lately about this is the result of men just stopping the cold approach. That's all it took, men doing nothing, to create all that destabilization.

'Makes you realize how dependent on men they really are...

I stopped approaching because I stopped caring about them. They never brought me any joy or happiness. The only thing they offer most men is a used up twat. I don't care about sex anymore anyway. I find it hilarious that men go crazy when November comes around cause of no nut or nofap. Lmao I can go months without blowing a load and it doesn't bother me.

Originally Posted by UnKnownSurviving

Women lie to give advice?

They lie to themselves. When they say a woman wants a responsible, stable guy, they really mean it.

Or ...

Maybe that's not quite right. A woman *does* want a responsible, stable guy: for beta bucks. Maybe when you ask you mom/sister/cousin/married female friend "how can I get myself a woman" and she says "be responsible and stable and considerate", the thing to do is clarify: "No, no: I meant a woman to fuck."

The courtship process is set up for the female's narcissism. Males have to ask her, win her approval, give her a chance to reject them, which she loves to do. I figured this out in elementary school, and never asked a woman out on a date in my life. This actually enraged a few women. I was in a therapy group for anxiety disorder when, out of the blue, the female therapist ordered me to ask a female patient out on a date. I declined, explaining I was not interested in dating or relationships. All three women then yelled at me, "Ask Marian out on a date!" So I went through the motions of asking her out on a date. She immediately stuck her nose in the air and said no. Then they forced me to ask another female patient who responded exactly the same way. Then they moved on to something else. They forced me to go through the motions of approaching them so they could pretend to reject me. Lol.

Originally Posted by MGTOWFOREVER

I stopped approaching because I stopped caring about them. They never brought me any joy or happiness. The only thing they offer most men is a used up twat. I don't care about sex anymore anyway. I find it hilarious that men go crazy when November comes around cause of no nut or nofap. Lmao I can go months without blowing a load and it doesn't bother me.

It is amazing ain’t it? We see tons of men out here who’s entire existence revolves around getting a crack at people whos main offer is a moist hole. I’m talking untold hours of preparation — how to approach, what to say, how to dress, what to achieve in life to impress, what kind of car to drive, how much money they need, how to smell, where to take them, how to style their hair, how to sculp their muscles in the gym. For many men you could say the first 40 years of their life is mostly spent in pursuit of moist holes. Kinda depressing when you think about it. This includes the married men who do the whole worship thing because she gives them access to the hole every once in a while….if I do xyz I might get lucky!!!!

Originally Posted by UnKnownSurviving

A black woman thinks she speaks for "other women that wants to be approached", and that "other women" ruin cold approaching for "other women" when men do it, because women need to stop hating men and allow men to approach women. Many older women, especially classic old fashion women of the 60s, and 70s, think men should cold approach, and thinks that men should take advice from women.

Taking advice from women???? OH my fucking god. Taking advice from women is like drinking water from the toilet, when you should drinking water from the kitchen sink. And its not the same thing. Taking advice from women is not the same thing from taking advice from men. In my experience, taking advice from women on relationship breeds trouble, and headaches. In fact, I don't take advice from women ON ANYTHING. I just know women are not good at world applications. And theirs so called advice is disastrous.

By the way, I don't know if this has been posted before. Let me know, please.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Dp5oA6bNuZY

Uh huh but she is just wanting me to approach. It doesn't mean she will accept my advances or even be nice about rejecting me. What she is wanting is that men just throw themselves at her so she can feel better. She will just be sitting there making snap decisions based on their height, how wealthy they appear, which way the wind is blowing that day etc.

It is all about her!

Maybe women can implement a system whereby they wear symbols one for "Stay the fuck away" another for "Come and try" etc? I don't know, nor do I care. I don't like her hairstyle and was that a skin condition on her neck or a shitty tattoo? Her attitude and mouth was also a turn off. She wants to be approached but there is nothing worthy about her.

Incompatibility, repetitious failures, other's examples, and the clincher, I started enjoying longer and longer timeslots between relationships until I finally decided to extend my vacation indefinitely which became permanently, otherwise a slow steady poisoning to kill the human heart and render it inept.

After that, my life took off like a rocket, a preverbal kid in a toy store with a pocket full of money and the other full of candy!

I'm certain wild animals learn what snares are and avoid them at all cost, no less a fish learning what a baited hook is, then living a long prosperous life whiles the younger fish get baked, fried, of fileted.

I have no regrets for the miserable wife/X-wife, child support payments and soul sucking interactions I never had nor ever shall have.

Congratulations feminism, cultural revolution, and all things misandrous, you bought the farm, now work the rocky stony scoured soil to no avail! YOU OWN IT!

Everything is about kissing her ass. Notice how everything is about her. All those things you mentioned remind me of the so called Alpha Mgtow YouTube guys. All they talk about is getting money and a nice car to impress women. I don't care what women or anyone thinks of me. Women are just a waste of time, energy, and money.

Originally Posted by Edwardhaskell

It is amazing ain’t it? We see tons of men out here who’s entire existence revolves around getting a crack at people whos main offer is a moist hole. I’m talking untold hours of preparation — how to approach, what to say, how to dress, what to achieve in life to impress, what kind of car to drive, how much money they need, how to smell, where to take them, how to style their hair, how to sculp their muscles in the gym. For many men you could say the first 40 years of their life is mostly spent in pursuit of moist holes. Kinda depressing when you think about it. This includes the married men who do the whole worship thing because she gives them access to the hole every once in a while….if I do xyz I might get lucky!!!!