Thread: When you've gone MGTOW, but your instincts still work

No matter how far down the MGTOW trail you've traveled, if you see a hot woman, your instincts will still urge you to get with her. I have a weakness for sexy language teachers. Some time back, I posted the video of the hot Arabic teacher. Now, here's the gorgeous French teacher:

https://youtu.be/NCtLkZWbqHo

Oh là à. I don't know her in real life, but her videos are extremely well made and are helping me to improve my French. But, crap, do my instincts ever distract me. Of course, it's a 100 percent guarantee that she has a zillion dudes after her. It makes me wonder what her life is like. Every time she goes to the market, are there like a bunch of dudes going, "So anyway, bebe"? Has she vine-swung a bunch of times, leaving a trail of depressed dudes? When you see beauty, your mind wants to create a fantasy of the perfect woman. But we all know where that leads.

Anyway, just curious how other MGTOWs deal with the distraction of encountering someone really good looking. With your hardwired instincts, there's no way not to notice. I was like, "Holy @#%$5!!#$%$@%#$@$%@#$%#$!"

All you have to do is hardwire it to analytical thinking, walk yourself through it, I'm sure you'll end it before it begins!

I've had knockout girlfriends, the beauty wears off instantly the moment they make you regret them. Hot chicks are high maintenance low return, real low return, so are the homely and ugly ones too, in my desperation to find love I stooped to both, but never a fat chick, that just doesn't cut it in any scenario, it's just fkn gross!

Beauty wears off and becomes the beast! Every time! My analytical thinking kicks in automatically, and when approached by a women I'm in automatic defense mode, don't want a relationship, and won't indulge in the shallow act of sex with a spiritual corpse that stinks of spiritual death.

The sexual revolution has taken its toll on society and the way men reacted to its many ominous changes.

I'm like old fish in the pond, I don't chase after sparkling lures knowing there's hooks underneath.

A hot woman would rate two or three billion men on the planet higher than me. If we were stranded on a desert island for five years, she'd still be busy. That's how it is when you get old. So, unless a bunch a money falls out of the sky, it don't matter how hot I think she is.

When I see a hot woman I fast forward to 1-2 years later in my head. I picture her being bored and her NOT HAAAAAAAPPY attitude. I also remind myself that I would most likely be eggplant number 1,652 in her carousel conga line of men.
Then I just smile to myself and count my blessings for having ingested the red pill.

Originally Posted by Chris007

When I see a hot woman I fast forward to 1-2 years later in my head. I picture her being bored and her NOT HAAAAAAAPPY attitude. I also remind myself that I would most likely be eggplant number 1,652 in her carousel conga line of men.
Then I just smile to myself and count my blessings for having ingested the red pill.

This is wisdom. Thank you. I remember when I was an exchange student working in a hotel in Germany to improve my German. One day, this gorgeous woman walked in and turned every guy's head. I got that big hormonal rush that every one of you guys know, that feeling of ecstasy. I had to have her! Turns out, I was actually able to date her. I was quite good looking myself, and being from America, speaking German with an accent, was to my advantage. Turns out she had had a lot of dudes after her, and had rejected them all since her breakup 6 months ago, but somehow I was the one who was able to keep her interest. Whenever I was out with her, I would get looks of resentment from German dudes who were no doubt thinking, "WTF, why is she with that foreigner and not with me?"

Fast forward to about a year later. I had been with her all that time, but returning to the USA to finish up my year of school trashed our relationship. I knew for certain that I could wait a year to be back with her, and I naively thought she would do the same. She ended up cheating on me with the latest dude to impress her, and she refused to take any responsibility for the cheating. It had taken me FOREVER through awful dates and suffering to finally get a girlfriend, so I wanted to keep her no matter what. I was going to finish my studies and then go back to her, marry her in Germany, and live there the rest of my life. But all it took was one flashy, handsome dude to catch her fancy and destroy it all.

And it destroyed me. I couldn't function. When I graduated college, I couldn't concentrate on building a career. My parents thought I was nuts because I wouldn't apply for good jobs. I was totally broken. It took years go recover. So all those German dudes who were resentful toward me for getting the hot girl were the lucky ones. They didn't get their lives destroyed, at least not by this woman.

I guess the saying is true. No matter how hot a woman is, there's some guy who's fed up with her bullshit.

Epilogue: The dude whom she cheated on me with, she ended up marrying, and he turned out to be a violent thug who beat the crap out of her. She ended up regretting dumping me. At one point I had thought news like that would make me happy and would make everything better, but it really didn't. All it did was make me sick to my stomach.

Originally Posted by TigPlaze

No matter how far down the MGTOW trail you've traveled, if you see a hot woman, your instincts will still urge you to get with her.

I feel anything between repelled and indifferent, because I've hardwired myself over the years to understand the problems one gets with hot women, and the peace one feels without them.

Originally Posted by Chris007

When I see a hot woman I fast forward to 1-2 years later in my head. I picture her being bored and her NOT HAAAAAAAPPY attitude. I also remind myself that I would most likely be eggplant number 1,652 in her carousel conga line of men.
Then I just smile to myself and count my blessings for having ingested the red pill.

I pretty much do the same, but all you really need to do is think of them without makeup. I'm not saying that some women aren't still attractive without makeup, but most of them are a lot LESS attractive without it. Maybe some of you have the pictures like those found at the link below, but without the makeup to shape their faces, highlight their eyes, etc, most women are very, very plain. Once you see just how much of a woman's appearance is faked, it's a lot easier to just flip the switch to ignoring them.

https://ruinmyweek.com/pictures/porn...ithout-makeup/

The secret the casinos use to keep people coming back to gamble their money away is called "Intermittent Reinforcement" - sometimes people win on the machines, sometimes they lose, but they keep coming back for the "intermittent win". I try to use this principle on hot women I meet. If you always are available and they always get what they want from you, the "intermittent principle" doesn't work. Also doesn't work if the girl finds someone else who has what she wants most - drugs, which I do not supply.

Easy.

I always tell myself it's a waste of time, it's not worth it...normally that gets the job done

if not I always ask myself questions such as ''does she already have a boyfriend?, kids? does she smoke? does she have tattoos?

all the sixth sense questions eventually could save you the hassle.

I don't go out of my way to talk to women unless she really is in front of me.

When ever I see a hot girl, most of the time I just ignore her because I know nothing will come of it

For hot girls that really Tigger that instinct, I come up with the adjective that describes her appearance, then proceed to go down to the hub once I am at home to gain post nut clarity

Everytime I see a hot chick, I think "I can't be the only one to be impressed by her" and do a quick scan around. It's amazing to see all the other men admiring her with faces that range from amazement to lust. Sometimes I've seen how other women look at her, and it's even more fun!! You can see the envy on their faces, and some just want to slut-shaming her!! Believe me, it's hilarious!!

Originally Posted by TigPlaze

This is wisdom. Thank you. I remember when I was an exchange student working in a hotel in Germany to improve my German. One day, this gorgeous woman walked in and turned every guy's head. I got that big hormonal rush that every one of you guys know, that feeling of ecstasy. I had to have her! Turns out, I was actually able to date her. I was quite good looking myself, and being from America, speaking German with an accent, was to my advantage. Turns out she had had a lot of dudes after her, and had rejected them all since her breakup 6 months ago, but somehow I was the one who was able to keep her interest. Whenever I was out with her, I would get looks of resentment from German dudes who were no doubt thinking, "WTF, why is she with that foreigner and not with me?"

Fast forward to about a year later. I had been with her all that time, but returning to the USA to finish up my year of school trashed our relationship. I knew for certain that I could wait a year to be back with her, and I naively thought she would do the same. She ended up cheating on me with the latest dude to impress her, and she refused to take any responsibility for the cheating. It had taken me FOREVER through awful dates and suffering to finally get a girlfriend, so I wanted to keep her no matter what. I was going to finish my studies and then go back to her, marry her in Germany, and live there the rest of my life. But all it took was one flashy, handsome dude to catch her fancy and destroy it all.

And it destroyed me. I couldn't function. When I graduated college, I couldn't concentrate on building a career. My parents thought I was nuts because I wouldn't apply for good jobs. I was totally broken. It took years go recover. So all those German dudes who were resentful toward me for getting the hot girl were the lucky ones. They didn't get their lives destroyed, at least not by this woman.

I guess the saying is true. No matter how hot a woman is, there's some guy who's fed up with her bullshit.

Epilogue: The dude whom she cheated on me with, she ended up marrying, and he turned out to be a violent thug who beat the crap out of her. She ended up regretting dumping me. At one point I had thought news like that would make me happy and would make everything better, but it really didn't. All it did was make me sick to my stomach.

I can relate to this. There was this hospital receptionist, a 10/10 girl. I used to visit the hospital again and again for foolish reasons and would ask her lot things. Now like her beauty, her character was beautiful too. Friendly, helpful, with zero attitude and women's fragile ego. She told me lot of things. She was 5'8 and was way out of my average fatty Baldy league, rich too with iphones. She even told me that this doctor is greedy, he gets commission for every test he prescribes and he deliberately prescribed lot of tests. But then something just turned off in me. She was great but once i got to know her, i wasn't fantasizing about her like i was doing previously when i was looking at her from a distance. And i have noticed this phenomenon lot of times that beauty looks good from a distance, once you get to know them you realise they're human beings just like us nothing special. Infact i hate to be around 9/10 with fragile ego and attitude which these majority of them have.

Yes, I have this very problem right now at work. She is fit, young, friendly, and does her work. I want to fuck her. One night after work we were is the parking lot together and she was inquiring about where I lived, “How far away do you live?”, she asked.

I responded with, “Are you trying to stalk me?”

She promptly answered, “No.” Then, hopped into her car and drove away.

I want to keep it professional at work but every so often I catch myself teasing her and she likes it.

Every night I make the wise choice and go home.

Ignore them. Resist temptation.

I had a woman try to approach me all friendly and ask me "What I'm up to?" I looked at her and said "Going home". She got all cocky cause I wasn't drooling over her and said with a shoulder shrug "Where's home?". I just looked at her and said "Home". She replied "Ya don't have to talk to me if you don't want to". I said "Bye bye".

Just think of this. Whenever a woman approaches you, its because she wants something. No matter what it is it will benefit her in more ways than you. So don't give anything. After all the pain and suffering women have caused me, I don't even give them a chance to be let in my life at all. Women are like COVID so I social distance.
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Always appreciate the honesty of such posts. Much more useful IMO than "f*ck it all, never look at women!". End of the day, we get somewhere when we break down reality, not live in a false reality, attempting to deny our actual impulses and therefore never come up with practical strategies (that don't involve staying in an angry, defensive crouch all the time).

I don't know. I have to say I do not desire them at all. They were nature's greatest illusion, but to me that illusion is 100% visual and it has been usurped by technology. On the internet I could see hundreds of supposedly attractive women in minutes. It has the same effect on me for a minute or two but quickly turns to indifference.

Yup, just this past week. It has taken a few days for the irrationality to subside. A bit of online research let me learn some things about her that tell me to remain in place.

You can contact me if all you need is french class without the distraction XD

Whenever I see a hot woman, I remind myself that she is a human being like everyone else; ie, she, too, farts, shits, has spam or spinach stuck in her teeth, has armpit hair, yeast infections 'down there', hairy legs, hairy nipples, bad breath, etc.

That reminder makes me go 'meh' and then I go on with my affairs.

Don't put women on a pedestal. Women ain't shit.

Originally Posted by MGTOWFOREVER

Ignore them. Resist temptation.

I had a woman try to approach me all friendly and ask me "What I'm up to?" I looked at her and said "Going home". She got all cocky cause I wasn't drooling over her and said with a shoulder shrug "Where's home?". I just looked at her and said "Home". She replied "Ya don't have to talk to me if you don't want to". I said "Bye bye".

Just think of this. Whenever a woman approaches you, its because she wants something. No matter what it is it will benefit her in more ways than you. So don't give anything. After all the pain and suffering women have caused me, I don't even give them a chance to be let in my life at all. Women are like COVID so I social distance.
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As a wise man once said "GIVE THEM NOTHING"