I believe in what you wrote and I advocate for exactly that when talking to others. Yet, something nags me about it in the back of my mind. I mean, if the father is relieved of all financial responsibility, then when the mother turns to welfare or other public assistance, guess who pays for that? I do. You do.
At worst, if what we advocate for came about, men could impregnate without responsibility and I'd get to help pay for it thru taxes. After all, how quickly do you think feminists and the gubmint will work together to rescue women from carrying the full financial responsibility of her choice? Heck, it would be anticipated and built into the same law that freed the menz.
I'd be paying for men's irresponsibility.
Profligate men would jump on this idea. Imagine if men started doing this
en masse, which I see as possible. Women will just pivot from these men to the gubmint for their financial assistance. There will be no female regret. She still wins.
Hello, abortion-on-demand.
So, in self-examining why I advocate for what you wrote, if there is an element of revenge to my thinking, or of turnabout-is-fair-play, or a concept of
just deserts, I may not be winning much, unless I am the guy getting her pregnant. Which ain't gonna happen.