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    What I say vs what I'd like to say

    Sometimes taking the red pill feels as though you have access to what some might call forbidden knowledge. Most of your daily life you won’t be able to be brutally honest and hand out red pill knowledge to your average social circles. Being a MGTOW is also something that you don’t really bring up in your average social circles, true for me at least and I suspect for most here on the forum.


    The following are questions or statements which I’ve been hassled with from time to time by family and friends and my genuine answers to them accordingly. But there’s always the MGTOW voice in the back of my head which laughs at most of these and spits out something that I can’t really say out loud. Sometimes the voice is too quick for me and I blurt out something that’ll get me into trouble, but most of the time I manage to be somewhat…diplomatic. Anyways enough chit chat, onward to the meat and potatoes of the post:


    Her: Where have all the good men gone? (had to start with the classic haha)

    Me: Oh I’m sure there’s someone out there for everyone.

    MGTOW me: They have been and always were out there you moron! You just made yourself completely undesirable by sleeping with the bad boys, partying hard and generally messing up your life, any good man could see that in you so you’re not going to get one.



    Him/Her: Why are you still single?

    Me: Oh I just haven’t quite found the right one yet you know.

    MGTOW me: Ahaha! Why the hell would I want to ruin the good thing I’ve got going on here, it’s a good life because I’m single, no headaches for me!




    Him/Her: I have an amazing friend who’s single too, you two should go on a date!

    Me: Umm I’m flattered but I’m not really up for dating at the moment, thanks though.

    MGTOW me: No way would I like to go on a date with your “amazing” friend. They’re always “amazing” aren’t they, well amazingly I’m too busy, I’ve got a much better date planned involving me, a slab of beer, a pizza and a movie. Tell your amazing friend to go find someone else to bother, I'm busy here.




    Him: I’m getting married!

    Me: Oh congratulations…

    MGTOW me: Oh my are you an idiot? Do you need mental help? What do you think is going to happen 2+ years (or less!) from now? More than likely you’ll be divorced, stressed out and fighting for custody of a child (which you may or may not have wanted). If you ignored all the statistics available and all the advice from a huge bunch of older guys, you can just deal with the mess you’ve made. I’m only coming for the free beer.




    Him/Her: We’re moving in together!

    Me: Oh congratulations….

    MGTOW me: Well you’re married then, pretty much same thing. Best of luck. She’ll probably behave for the first bit but then give it just a biiit longer and… POOF! You’ll be living with a needy greedy female squatter. Have a great time fighting over the chores and living with a mess maker (mess in the house and mess in your mind I guarantee it!).




    Him: I’d better ask my other half first.

    Me: Ok man you do that…

    MGTOW me: Ok you whipped simp boy, if you don’t want to come then don’t I don’t care, but if you’re serious and need to ask permission then you’re not a man, sorry. Only children have to ask before they go do stuff. You should be the only one in control of your life. Gawd I just want to shake you…




    Him: She made me sleep on the couch last night.

    Me: Oh, well that sucks man…

    MGTOW me: She made you huh? What so she dragged you out of the bed physically and threw you on the couch? Please, give me a break, you went there yourself. You’ve shown weakness now and she’s going to walk alllll over you. That bed was yours as well you know… until now… she owns that space now and she owns you.


    Cheers for reading fellas, any other ones you've had yourselves? What about your thoughts on dispensing the truth? I'd love to help out other plugged in blue guys but the few times I've tried its been either ignored or outright rejected, I guess this wisdom is something most have to arrive at themselves? Have a great day lads, stay strong!

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    Re: What I say vs what I'd like to say

    Him/her - Date night (fancy restaurant pictures posted on social media)
    Me - Enjoy your evening looks nice.
    MGTOW me - I know you are desperately trying to do something about the dead bedroom situation you have, 5 years after being married.

    Him/Her: I have an amazing friend who’s single too, you two should go on a date!
    Me: I’m flattered but I’m not really up for dating at the moment, thanks though.
    MGTOW me: I know that there's a near 100% chance that your friend is a dog ugly landwhale with a host of personality disorders.




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    Re: What I say vs what I'd like to say

    This is why I have always avoided social situations and rarely speak at work. I get tired of trying to think of the acceptable thing to say and my truth will just cause riots lol.

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    Re: What I say vs what I'd like to say

    Quote Originally Posted by Kryptic View Post
    This is why I have always avoided social situations and rarely speak at work. I get tired of trying to think of the acceptable thing to say and my truth will just cause riots lol.
    Our truth causes lynch mobs, that's why we don't speak it! We write it down here instead, subsequently getting the entire group put on the terrorist watch list!
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    Re: What I say vs what I'd like to say

    Quote Originally Posted by mgtower View Post
    Our truth causes lynch mobs, that's why we don't speak it! We write it down here instead, subsequently getting the entire group put on the terrorist watch list!
    Absolutely couldn't agree more, writing it all down here is definitely a way to vent out the real thoughts and avoid the pitch forks and torches and all that bothersome stuff. Hopefully one day when enough men take the blinders off we can all remove the filter from the brains to our mouths haha. Until then though safer to just bite the tongue, a VPN probably wouldn't hurt either for the watch list I suppose!

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    Re: What I say vs what I'd like to say

    I had one this week.

    Me in passing to bloke working outside his house:

    Me "Heyup hows it going?"

    Bloke "Another day older"

    Me "And anotherr day wiser, no doubt"

    Bloke "...and another day married"

    MGTOW Me "!"

    Me (jocular fashion) "Ah if you have a wife there's no need for wisdom, she'll do all the wisdom for you Eh?"

    Bloke "DON'T...don't...its like a recurring fucking nightmare"

    MGTOW Me "Watch your mouth Ad, calm and steady now. Say something bluepill"

    Me "Nice day today though, lovely weather, see you anon...Bye!"

    Bloke "Hmph"
    Flow with whatever may happen and let your mind be free. Stay centered by accepting whatever you are doing. This is the ultimate. Zhuangzi

    someone asked the poet Sophocles: "How are you in regard to sex, Sophocles? Can you still make love to a woman?" Hush man, the poet replied, I am very glad to have escaped from this, like a slave who has escaped from a mad and cruel master."

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    Re: What I say vs what I'd like to say

    When i talk to women i use the filter but when i'm talking to the bois i use the mgtow me. If they'll keep being simps i'd rather not talk to them at all. But i'd probably use the filter if i were in a work environment.

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    Re: What I say vs what I'd like to say

    Quote Originally Posted by mgtower View Post
    Our truth causes lynch mobs, that's why we don't speak it! We write it down here instead, subsequently getting the entire group put on the terrorist watch list!
    Sure does. No jokes at work or anywhere else. No social interactions beyond the most basic (ie Good morning), eat lunch alone, live alone, go our own way.

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    Re: What I say vs what I'd like to say

    Ahaha, that was funny, thanks for posting. I enjoyed some of those responses (e.g., to the "I'm getting married"). I have the same reaction.

    When I get the "Why are you single?" question, I respond honestly, though: "Because I want to be. Because I'm happier single and I have other things I'm interested in doing".

    I don't like answering with the "I haven't met the right one yet," because I think that's going along with the implicit assumption in the question that everyone MUST want to be coupled, because that is the best state to be in. I didn't like reinforcing those assumptions (or pretending that I'm waiting for The One), so now I just answer honestly. "I just like being single better. I have other interests I want to pursue."

    I used to give more details/reasons, but people (especially women!) got defensive. So now I just keep it general. If they press it beyond that answer for further justifications, then I feel free to unload some of the more specific reasons -- at which point they usually get defensive. But hey, they asked....

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    Re: What I say vs what I'd like to say

    friend: 'why don't you date so and so ?'

    Me: "I don't enjoy playing Russian roulette."
    ​All dogs think they're alpha, until they meet a wolf.

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    Re: What I say vs what I'd like to say

    IMO you're better off just avoiding any conflict. For "Why aren't you married," just say something vague like "I haven't found the right one" or "I'm just concentrating on my career." Or you can be even more vague with "Don't know." You don't owe an explanation to anyone. It's best not to explain MGTOW to anyone who probably won't understand. Don't bother with the marriage not passing a risk assessment or with explaining hypergamy, or anything else. The more vague you can be, the better. No one else has the right to demand an explanation of your personal life. If you want some personal touch and attention, you can hire a professional sex worker. You don't have to, but you can if you want. And that, too, is highly personal. It's no one else's business, so you don't have to tell anyone.

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    Re: What I say vs what I'd like to say

    I don't hide it anymore. Everyone i know, they know im MGTOW, they just learned not to ask me a question if they dont want an honest answer. Probably one of the reasons my "group" is so small. Easy way to get rid of unwanted woman too.

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    Re: What I say vs what I'd like to say

    I'm always walking that balance of revealing to much (I never mention the label of "MGTOW") and dropping some indisputable red pills here and there, especially when I'm talking with my non-woketard guy friends. They usually can't dispute obvious facts/statistics, but if you get too critical of women (I instead criticise "society") or sound too MGTOW, out comes the shaming language... "INCEL!!! INCEL!!! MISOGYNIST!!" My real tradcuck friends will often say things like "well if everyone lived like you, then society will fall apart", and I'll say "you mean the same society that destroyed my marriage, took my kid from me, and ruined me financially in family court?! GOOD!", or I'll say "that's not my problem, it's up to society to make their social contract more appealing to me!"

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    Re: What I say vs what I'd like to say

    I use to bite my tongue but not anymore. Now I say whatever I want (as long as its legal ofc). People dont spare me so Im the same. I get sick of the victim shit real quick. If a woman starts with that "Why can't I find a good guy?" I tell her one of 2 things depending on circumstances. I say "Look in your friend zone. Im sure you have guys waiting to be number 1 draft pick." If Im in a pissy mood then I tell her "How many good men did you reject to be with your loser ex? Think of the guy that you made fun of behind his back. That was the good guy".

    I don't tolerate bullshit. I speak my mind. If someone can't handle it and starts with threats of tossing me out like trash then i say "Do you know (insert name of highway or interstate)?" They reply yeah. I simply say "Go play hop scotch on there".

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    Re: What I say vs what I'd like to say

    Quote Originally Posted by MGTOWFOREVER View Post
    I use to bite my tongue but not anymore. Now I say whatever I want (as long as its legal ofc). People dont spare me so Im the same. I get sick of the victim shit real quick. If a woman starts with that "Why can't I find a good guy?" I tell her one of 2 things depending on circumstances. I say "Look in your friend zone. Im sure you have guys waiting to be number 1 draft pick." If Im in a pissy mood then I tell her "How many good men did you reject to be with your loser ex? Think of the guy that you made fun of behind his back. That was the good guy".

    I don't tolerate bullshit. I speak my mind. If someone can't handle it and starts with threats of tossing me out like trash then i say "Do you know (insert name of highway or interstate)?" They reply yeah. I simply say "Go play hop scotch on there".
    I tell them to go play on a runway where all the black strips are!
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