Thread: To HELL with Mother's Day!

Aside from Valentine's Day (arguably the most Gynocentric "holiday" on the calendar) Mother's Day is "simp city".

My mother gave birth to me... so what? Within five years she began mentally browbeating and physically abusing me. No one discussed this phenomena during the early 1960's, and (until the children are either severely injured, drug addicted, or killed) still pay it little mind.

Many mothers don't, but children of narcissistic women suffer just as much (or more) than abusive fathers. This problem is, and probably never will be, addressed in a prominent public forum. The victims will go unaided and the woman's crime against her own children will continue unabated, and unpunished.

Until this issue is addressed, I refuse to acknowledge this "celebration".

To HELL with "Mother's Day"!

What's interesting is that if you go to the /raisedbynarcissists reddit, I think at least half the posts by people there are about narcissistic mothers, so awareness is growing.

Happy Mother's Day!

My mum is a great mother.

I know plenty of good mothers who raised their sons and daughters well.

I don't think "To Hell With Mothers' Day" is a good representation of MGTOW.

Originally Posted by BMod

My mum is a great mother.

I know plenty of good mothers who raised their sons and daughters well.

I don't think "To Hell With Mothers' Day" is a good representation of MGTOW.

We're not the ones that tarnished mother's day, all the bad mothers did that! The ratio of bad mothers far exceeds the one in a million good mother, in fact, having a good mother myself gave me a good window into seeing what bad mothers are and why I'm not a father!

To hell with mother's day? I'm having a to-hell-with-mothers-life! You won't find me impregnating one, not ever!

Thank God my mother is dead. She was a real "piece of work" when it came to her children. My sister (the first child in the family) had mother kissing her @$$ and taking care of her every need. The remaining three boys had to "bring up the rear" and suffered her "religious" psychotic rantings as well as her unbridled wrath when her expectations weren't met.

My father was a "rock" and were the best of friends. You couldn't ask for a better role model. Had it not been for him, I would likely have wound up in a mental institution.

Originally Posted by The Captain

Thank God my mother is dead. She was a real "piece of work" when it came to her children. My sister (the first child in the family) had mother kissing her @$$ and taking care of her every need. The remaining three boys had to "bring up the rear" and suffered her "religious" psychotic rantings as well as her unbridled wrath when her expectations weren't met.

My father was a "rock" and were the best of friends. You couldn't ask for a better role model. Had it not been for him, I would likely have wound up in a mental institution.

I was lucky, both my parents were good to us, and no bad psychological telemetry, we were psychotic without their help!

I was best friends with my dad until the day he died, he embodied the word TRUST, and it was reciprocal, thick as thieves when it came to mother doesn't need to know!

I'll make it gender non-specific. To hell with socially imposed fake holidays promoted by businesses to sell more crap. If people feel like their mother/father/grandparents are highly deserving of special honors, they already have the opportunity for celebrating on Christmas, birthdays, and even anniversaries if they so desire. For those of us who experienced less stellar family environments, the extra "holidays" are just an imposition.

When I was a kid, my mother would punish me by yelling at me, spanking me and slapping me. But now that I'm full grown and we found out I have a mental disability, she has been VERY helpful in getting me treatment and benefits. Now that I'm handling that on my own and keeping up with it, she's now trying to get me to lose weight and be healthy. So she's doing her best to make sure I can be my best self. I just wish she wouldn't dictate what foods I should be eating. I mean when we go to Olive Garden, I'm only allowed to order vegetable soup, salad and water, but no bread sticks.

So she has been helpful in my adult age. So if she wants to, she can spend a few hours with me here where I live and walk around the town and go out for nice lunch. It's suppose to be a mild sunny day that day.

Originally Posted by BMod

My mum is a great mother.

I know plenty of good mothers who raised their sons and daughters well.

I don't think "To Hell With Mothers' Day" is a good representation of MGTOW.

My mother was a keeper too, but you're kicking a dead horse here. The majority of guys on this site were not so lucky and their mom's are or were awful. Their dirty deeds were what brought many of us to the MGTOW life.

Someone once started a thread asking how our mothers were. It swiftly turned into a train wreck and appears to have contributed to at least one members meltdown and being banned.

So if giving birth is so great. Why I wont not celebrate my lung helping me to breathe? It is also a IN-BORN ability.
They want praise for a IN-BRON ability, they have no control of. WOW.

IT is unproportionally celebrated compare to father's day. That is the real problem.

Good or not. Just a parasite inbetween the father and the son acting as a middleman parasite. Sucking up part of resource that should be all the sons. It is just biological facts.

I agree that the made up corporate holidays are bullshit. Many people have had terrible parents, many have had good ones, and many have had ok ones. A lot of parents did the best they could - remember they have their issues from their parents. As a parent I do my best, but I'm sure my daughters will have some issues with me or what I do. To say fuck all mothers or fuck mothers day is giving the anti-MGTOWERS ammo so they can say "That's why they hate women, because they have mommy issues." Which detracts from our real message, that women at large are pieces of shit nowadays.

Originally Posted by 2_Time_Loser

I agree that the made up corporate holidays are bullshit. Many people have had terrible parents, many have had good ones, and many have had ok ones. A lot of parents did the best they could - remember they have their issues from their parents. As a parent I do my best, but I'm sure my daughters will have some issues with me or what I do. To say fuck all mothers or fuck mothers day is giving the anti-MGTOWERS ammo so they can say "That's why they hate women, because they have mommy issues." Which detracts from our real message, that women at large are pieces of shit nowadays.

I'm not worried about them, I get death threats all the time!

I must agree the thread title is a little provocative even for us, I can only imagine how bad it's tearing through the snowflakes like an oxy acetylene torch through tinfoil!

I know the con game too well to think mother's day is worth a damn. "Women not marrying! Men too broke!" Note that men were expected to not only marry broke women, but to continue paying them if said women divorced them. Men were socially groomed to become 'providers & protectors', aka naive, Pavlovian trained idiots, and were deemed unworthy of love and affection should they fail is said endeavor. This is largely still true today. The only good thing is that, due to men opting out of marriage, most women are now under a lot of pressure to work, pay taxes, educate themselves and support themselves, freeing men of carrying such a huge, misplaced burden.

The problem is that everybody turns a blind eye to the true foundation of 'marriage', 'commitment', 'family', 'love', 'happily ever after', 'till death do us part', and on and on and on, with said foundation being state sponsored and managed prostitution. It's pretty clear, after reading the historical jurisprudence on marriage, that marriage was designed as a trap to enslave men to women and the state - and God forbid you attempt escape, because the system is destroy such disobedient men.

The illusions and enchantments never stop. The self-delusions and ignorance of one generation of blind ignoramuses are passed on to the next generation of blind ignoramuses. Nobody stops to actually pay attention, think critically and ask questions, except those of us that have awoken to the Gyno-Matrix, which is run by the State Pimps/Violence Proxies. I myself was a blind ignoramus until I hit 45. Why? Because that's what gyno-society groomed me to become - highly exploitable and highly disposable.

People treat father's day like schitt. The same goes for international men's day. So fuck mother's day and fuck international women's day. I couldn't care less. My own mother is a rotten, lying, manipulating con artist that lives fraudulently off the taxpayers because she was too lazy to get off her fat ass and work. Her mother got handed everything on a silver spoon by her father, so she figured out how to get the same by raping the taxpayers. She's pure scum.

Originally Posted by 2_Time_Loser

I agree that the made up corporate holidays are bullshit. Many people have had terrible parents, many have had good ones, and many have had ok ones. A lot of parents did the best they could - remember they have their issues from their parents. As a parent I do my best, but I'm sure my daughters will have some issues with me or what I do. To say fuck all mothers or fuck mothers day is giving the anti-MGTOWERS ammo so they can say "That's why they hate women, because they have mommy issues." Which detracts from our real message, that women at large are pieces of shit nowadays.

Place the blame where it belongs. If women say "you have mommy issues", its source came from, wait for it... MOMMY! While "locus of control" is a valid perspective, a conditioned (Pavlovian) response cannot be ignored. Nurture needs to be considered.

I am a living example of this.

Originally Posted by MannSplainer

People treat father's day like schitt. The same goes for international men's day. So fuck mother's day and fuck international women's day. I couldn't care less.

Yep, Fathers are to be exploited and are thus, disposable.

Recently a woman (and I use the term loosely) literally gave birth to a child on a Portland, Oregon sidewalk and walked away from the newborn, leaving the poor creature to die.

​Happy Mother's Day!

I understand that many MGTOWs issues stem from their Mother, I'm not arguing that. I acknowledge there are a lot of men, myself included, who's mother wasn't perfect and made mistakes. But many potential MGTOWERs who are exploring this and come across fuck mothers day and mothers could be turned off by the whole concept because they love and respect their mother. Many men have no issues with mom, they got burned by wives, girlfriends etc. I would fall into that camp.

Originally Posted by 2_Time_Loser

I understand that many MGTOWs issues stem from their Mother, I'm not arguing that. I acknowledge there are a lot of men, myself included, who's mother wasn't perfect and made mistakes. But many potential MGTOWERs who are exploring this and come across fuck mothers day and mothers could be turned off by the whole concept because they love and respect their mother. Many men have no issues with mom, they got burned by wives, girlfriends etc. I would fall into that camp.

This is one area we'll just have to hope the rookies understand. Some guys here will never forgive their mothers, and I have little doubt they deserve all the scorn they get. It's a shame things have to come to this, but these moms did it to themselves.