Thread: The old creepy charge

So, I was at my local hardware store today picking up some seeds for my hydroponics (I grow most of my food in my apartment) and just happen to see my boss there talking to some woman in front of the seed racks. I said hello to him and politely asked if I can get by as they was blocking the way. He said sure and moved out of the way and I began looking through the rack for the seeds I wanted. After a while the two parted and the woman went to looking through the seed racks beside me. Noticing that I knew him, she struck up a conversation with me. Not wanting to talk I gave no eye contact, kept looking through the seeds and kept my answers short.

Her: He's my cousin.
Me: I see.
Her: how do you know him?
Me: he's my boss.
Her: creepy.

That would have to be the weirdest conversation I have ever had with a woman. And I have had a few weird ones. I mean it doesn't even make sense. And women do make sense if you understand their motivations, you can predict their responses. I ignored her from there, finished getting my seeds and left. I wonder how this is going to play out. In retrospect I should have made something up about my association with her cousin rather then give her that info.

Originally Posted by ChrixtheGreat

Her: creepy.

Do you think she was trying to get you to join her in putting him down, your boss, so she could cause trouble later?

Originally Posted by Unboxxed

Do you think she was trying to get you to join her in putting him down, your boss, so she could cause trouble later?

I didn't get that impression. They seemed to have a fairly pleasant sounding conversation and everything that I wrote was word for word. No paraphrase. There was no attempt to say anything bad about him, or to bait me into saying anything bad about him. Her response of "creepy" was clearly directed at me, not him, and what said with a disgust tone. The closest I can think for her motivations were that she found me attractive and was trying to hit me up, until she found out how much I earned. And found me creepy because she had though of me this way. I have had young girls do this and that makes sense but that doesn't seem likely as she is in the same age group as my boss and must have been nearly 70 years old. Another possibility is she is a drama queen looking to make drama. This is my ultimate worry with this situation.

A 70 yr old bird hitting on a dude? It's not really strange, just rare. I had a customer 71 yrs flirt like she was 32 & killing it. Good shape too. I just kid her, she's actually a good source of income, & I NEVER cross that threshold, NOT with a customer, EVER. She's the only bird that knows full on that I don't date, & it disturbs her enuf to taunt me, all in fun.

Did she look all of 70, hagged out? Or good shape 'ol bitty?

Dirty old crusty man coming out here.

So let me get this straight. She comes up to you, uninvited, and starts asking you personal questions. Then two sentences later, calls you "creepy" for no reason? Sounds to me like she's the creepy one.

This sounds like the kind of shit young women do. They look for any excuse to label a guy as creepy, which is one of their favorite insults. A lot of women get off on putting men down, and will go out of their way to find opportunities to do so. They will actually approach guys just to insult them, like this rude cunt did.

Shit like this is the reason why I avoid any interaction with women at all costs. Not only do they have the conversational skills of a vegetable, but they are often rude, disrespectful, and outright hostile. Even when they like you, the interactions still tend to be negative and stressful. I have no time or patience for that shit. I just wanna be left alone.

A: You grow your own food in your apartment? Hydroponic? I plan to set up something like this in the future, because Food Security is simple, easy, and GOLD.

She realized that you were "beyond her means" and insulted you. I've been seeing more and more of this, lately... Girls who, now steeped in insecurity (due to the Wall) make furtive forays, get scared... and insult. I honestly think that this comes from the limbic region and endocrine system. I have C-PTSD, have done alot of work on trauma forums, and the ladies on these forums.. victims of sex-trafficking and attempted murder, are far more forthcoming. They seem to identify not so much as women, but as trauma-victims. When I described my abuse, at the hands of adult women... They listened. They gave-a-damn... They were my friends. There were men, here and there.. But it was mostly just girls... And my story terrified them. They could not imagine.. I think one or two of the got hard-core Redpilled because of it.

Okay, so I'm obviously drunk and rambling, but...

Well, simply put.. EWALT. Yet, most certainly.... NAWALT..

EWALT.

Originally Posted by SteelEye

Did she look all of 70, hagged out? Or good shape 'ol bitty?

Um, neither. I actually didn't check her out but I would say she had a very neutral look. neither attractive nor hideous. As a 35 year old guy, I really do not see women in this age group in a even remotely sexual way so it is hard to gauge. Though I do have a lot of older women (40-60) I know who are constantly trying to flirt with me, but they are all acquaintances, not strangers, and both parties know that it is not serious.

Originally Posted by Xanthine

So let me get this straight. She comes up to you, uninvited, and starts asking you personal questions. Then two sentences later, calls you "creepy" for no reason?

Yep. That I would have to say is a first for me. Not the first time I have been called creepy. Though rare, I was called that a few times in high school. This was just the first time that there was nothing to bring it on. In high school it would happen when trying to ask a girl out and she believed she was of higher status then me, I would be labeled as creepy. I only dated a few girls in high school and interestingly, they asked me out. I have actually never successfully asked a girl out before, though I did have quite a few girlfriends in my youth.

Originally Posted by Xanthine

This sounds like the kind of shit young women do. They look for any excuse to label a guy as creepy, which is one of their favorite insults. A lot of women get off on putting men down, and will go out of their way to find opportunities to do so.

I didn't even think of it this way. She may have just done this as some sort of power trip.

Originally Posted by devilcomeknockin

A: You grow your own food in your apartment? Hydroponic? I plan to set up something like this in the future, because Food Security is simple, easy, and GOLD.

She realized that you were "beyond her means" and insulted you. I've been seeing more and more of this, lately... Girls who, now steeped in insecurity (due to the Wall) make furtive forays, get scared... and insult. I honestly think that this comes from the limbic region and endocrine system. I have C-PTSD, have done alot of work on trauma forums, and the ladies on these forums.. victims of sex-trafficking and attempted murder, are far more forthcoming. They seem to identify not so much as women, but as trauma-victims. When I described my abuse, at the hands of adult women... They listened. They gave-a-damn... They were my friends. There were men, here and there.. But it was mostly just girls... And my story terrified them. They could not imagine.. I think one or two of the got hard-core Redpilled because of it.

Okay, so I'm obviously drunk and rambling, but...

Well, simply put.. EWALT. Yet, most certainly.... NAWALT..

EWALT.

What do you mean there was more than one ?

Originally Posted by ChrixtheGreat

Her: He's my cousin.
Me: I see.
Her: how do you know him?
Me: he's my boss.
Her: creepy.

That would have to be the weirdest conversation I have ever had with a woman.

"Creepy" == "Shit, I have drawn the attention of a lower-status male". Which is what being an employee of her cousin makes you, of course.

Originally Posted by Mr Wombat

"Creepy" == "Shit, I have drawn the attention of a lower-status male". Which is what being an employee of her cousin makes you, of course.

Yes ! Its creepy because her status radar let her down .

lol he should have said - i am his boss it would make her drought pussy wet

W A P E!....

Her: He's my cousin.
Me: Okay.
Her: How do you know him?
Me: None of your business. Bye.

^ how I would have dealt with it.

Originally Posted by Mr Wombat

"Creepy" == "Shit, I have drawn the attention of a lower-status male". Which is what being an employee of her cousin makes you, of course.

Thinking about it, this is what I think is most likely.

Originally Posted by Resdayn

Her: He's my cousin.
Me: Okay.
Her: How do you know him?
Me: None of your business. Bye.

^ how I would have dealt with it.

This is definitely how I should have dealt with it.

Originally Posted by Alik Sakharov

lol he should have said - i am his boss it would make her drought pussy wet

I just threw up a little in my mouth.

Currently women of all ages will shit test because society in general doesn't call them out anymore on it. You probably already know working in retail that it is worse when you are on the job with customers trying to put you down as a power trip (especially female customers).

The way I deal with female clients saying absurd things to me is laughing in their face like they are toddlers.

Creepy is, in a word, is the female discontentment with reality. The reality that 80% of men are completely undesirable, but still - very useful, even necessary.
Feminism alluded to the complete sexual control of men and male sexuality, and the utter disposability of 80% men. "We don't need no man." (femspeak for "beta bux whoredom is no longer required!")

So, women now want (and largely get) covert slut-hood with Alpha Fux (Tinder, etc). and the Beta Bux from Big Daddy Gubmint.

I'm surprised women don't want 80% men culled from society. Some feminists have suggested just that - to cull 95% of men from the world and keep 5% around for breeding stock.

Women, by themselves, left unbridled, are terrible creatures that - when congregated in a social situation immediately go full tribal. We see proof of this as feral women go all-in on the Alpha Fux Beta Bux mating strategy... and have kids from all kinds of men before looking for that "Beta Bux Good Guy" to "settle down" with. (Of course, any man who goes for an ex-carousel rider in Marriage 2.0 is a utter goddamned fool...)

The problem for today's women is that because of socialism, there's all these CREEPY LONELY UNWANTED TAXPAYING MEN lurking about.

Perhaps we should be relegated to caves, or outside the city walls, so as to no longer be an affront to these fine ladies' sensibilities... (read: stop triggering entitled, narcissistic cunts).

Originally Posted by Insidious_Sid

Perhaps we should be relegated to caves, or outside the city walls, so as to no longer be an affront to these fine ladies' sensibilities... (read: stop triggering entitled, narcissistic cunts).

Or, since everbody that matters seems to think that the first astronauts to Mars should be women, perhaps all women should move the fuck to Mars. They could terraform their feminist paradise there.

Mars, the women are on their way!

Originally Posted by devilcomeknockin

A: You grow your own food in your apartment? Hydroponic? I plan to set up something like this in the future, because Food Security is simple, easy, and GOLD.

I think this is a cool topic and I see it is getting interest and with great pictures so I moved selected posts to its own new thread so it won't get lost:

New thread: Aquaponic/Hydroponic Gardening

Thanks.

For what I recall they usually use that word for two major cases.

1) When a guy that doesnt qualify in terms of looks or status attempt to behave confidently or god help us...tries to approach a girl with the belief it may work.

2) When they have to attack a guy implying their common shaming tools (unable to get women, unable to be appreciated, ugly, low status, lame, cheap), they basically say creepy to sum them all.

Notice that being called asshole is not an insult nowadays, creepy basically substitude the old meaning of it.

Nowadays if a woman calls you assholes she means that you successfully harm her or defuse any of her manipulation with no apologies about it.