Thread: The Myth that Men are the more Horny/Perverted Gender

So I used to work at a Ski Area as and Instructor. Taught little kids and adults. Most of the other instructors were women that winter. So one day I'm getting ready to head out with a class of kids to get em skiing and two of the more hot/slutty instructor bimbettes are telling me about a little boy in one of their classes was gonna "grow up to be hot" they were so sure of it. Like these thots were going in detail of how "hot" this little kid was. I laughed it off and got on the mountain, then thinking about it throughout the day realized how that would be a job ending thing if a dude said that shit about a little girl.
This is but one example of how women really do get away with some weird perverse shit because they are the "cute" gender that is so kind and gentle. Also GTFO out of here wiith "Men are hornier" Women can Orgasm nonstop they are constantly horny. Geez our society is weird when you start seeing this shit.

Look at all the women commenting on various tik tok videos of men gyrating. Cringey.

Yup Social Media has done none other than expose most women for what they are, horny self absorbed brats.

Originally Posted by mattbronn

.... hot/slutty instructor bimbettes are telling me about a little boy in one of their classes was gonna "grow up to be hot" they were so sure of it.

I don't know about them but I have seen it..... I worked with the father, just a huge guy likely a 5 SMV he was making good money, and his wife.... Her face looked like she was hit by a freight train, and the best part was still on the loco.... Their oldest girl likely 5 at the time, was the cutest kid ever... She was jaw dropping gorgeous, it was how can two ugly parents come up with a kid like that? Everyone that I knew that knew them marveled at the looks of the daughter. I have lost touch with them, I wonder what the daughter looks like now. When you see it, you know, but it doesn't happen often.

Women have a strong sex drive.... well.... A strong drive to find the best to reproduce with. Sex is high on the list with the right males. All part of female nature... People that have had teenage girls living in the same house know how sexually motivated they are.

Originally Posted by RustyNuts

Their oldest girl likely 5 at the time, was the cutest kid ever... She was jaw dropping gorgeous, it was how can two ugly parents come up with a kid like that?

Probably Chad's kid.

I’ve noticed similar dynamics at past jobs. Women congregate like little schoolgirls at the front desk when an attractive male customer is present just to stare. Everyone thinks it’s a big joke, especially when their talk turns sexual after he leaves or is out of earshot.

Let a group of guys congregate at a front desk to stare and objectify a woman who walks through the door. Have that same group of guys make comments about her ass and breasts in the presence of female coworkers. HR would appear faster than the goddamned roadrunner and all those guys would be axed.

Typical, entitled, one-sided bitches. I’ve worked with that type at just about every job I’ve had.

I laughed it off and got on the mountain, then thinking about it throughout the day realized how that would be a job ending thing if a dude said that shit about a little girl.

Agree, but additional comment.

It should be career ending, but likewise for a woman.

Women definitely have a sex drive, probably pretty close to ours on average, but I still think men take the horny cake overall. Look at porn stats, for instance. If women were as horny as men, wouldn't they use porn as much as men do? Yet the porn audience is mostly men. Or look at evolutionary logic. Men need to be hornier because their prerogative is to spread the seed far and wide. Women need to be choosier. Or look at marriages, where it's almost always the man who wants more sex, not the woman.

Yeah, I know you can point to all kinds of examples of female sluttiness. And meanwhile, you've got men suppressing their sexual expression/urges. I just think a lot of that is a reflection of social conditions (feminism encouraging it, birth control,, media promoting it, #metoo, decades of complaints about male objectification or abuse, men curtailing themselves, etc.), rather than the innate biology.

Ehhhh,

Does anyone else find a discussion about little kids being “hot” disturbing, even if it is 3^rd 4^th or 5^th party?

Simple glimpse at the sex toy market products and sales and you have your answer.

When i was inter in psy it wasnt rare i would see some 14yo and up who had their first experience to later being diagnosed with nomphomaniac as they couldnt not stop touching themself of play with whatever they could get. Water bottle, game on! They would blow the bottle with dirty eyes toward the other patients as a sign of "lets get it on". When possible they had to be isolated and or under surveillance. Even under surveillance they would try to seduce the gardian.

I cant find it but lately a study has been posted here confirming wamen cheats more than man for whatever reason.

Originally Posted by Eddie Haskell

Look at porn stats, for instance. If women were as horny as men, wouldn't they use porn as much as men do? Yet the porn audience is mostly men.

You are assuming men and women think the same... Female porn is fantasy or fiction. Romance novels, fictional romance short stories, romance movies etc. Where Chad finds the poor girl lost in the woods and takes her back to his mansion, feeds her and makes passionate love to her...

Originally Posted by Jackoff

Ehhhh,

Does anyone else find a discussion about little kids being “hot” disturbing, even if it is 3^rd 4^th or 5^th party?

If this comment is about my earlier post, you have misunderstood what I was trying to get across about the girls looks. Her looks were not in any way sexual at age 5. Her facial features made her gorgeous, the eye spacing, shape and size of her nose, shape of her face. It's rare, like only maybe a couple of times in a life span would you see it in RL.

The kids they put in the beauty contests in America, I can agree with you there, that is creepy. What kind of mental damage does that do to the kid and to promote sexualising of children, that's just wrong!!!

What's just as disturbing is those female instructors were likely treating the "attractive" kid with favoritism while shunning or disrespecting the kids they felt weren't attractive. This is what is so disturbing about them. Everything is based on their shallow, superficial determinations of other people.

Professionalism comes naturally to us as men- the idea that we treat all people the same. But to women, mistreating kids based on a "Hot or Not" assessment is actually 'natural' to them. We are not the same.

Originally Posted by RustyNuts

You are assuming men and women think the same... Female porn is fantasy or fiction. Romance novels, fictional romance short stories, romance movies etc. Where Chad finds the poor girl lost in the woods and takes her back to his mansion, feeds her and makes passionate love to her...

But that's conflating sex with romance, status, intrigue, access to resources, and a bunch of other stuff that shows up in romance novels. I'm just talking about the general drive toward sex.

The fact that women need all that other stuff in romance novels to get the juices flowing -- the whole narrative structure, with mystery, intrigue, danger, drama, the promise of financial wealth and excitement, all of that -- suggests that the woman's drive is much more narrowly tuned, more conditional. Which fits with evolutionary logic.

I'll grant you that a woman's sex drive is probably very strong towards those particular men -- the "alphas," so to speak (although I think that term is stupid) -- but it's not stronger on average. Not if you're talking about sexual attraction toward men in general. You can see this in stats about women getting tired of sex in LTRs long before men do, or in the stats that show women find 80% of men unattractive.

Men don't require all those conditions. There aren't romance novels for men. Well, I'm sure there are, they just don't sell much compared to the ladies'. Men can get horny at the drop of a hat, toward all sorts of women, including ones they would be embarrassed to admit to (not that I know anything about that...).

Originally Posted by Societysucksmyass

I’ve noticed similar dynamics at past jobs. Women congregate like little schoolgirls at the front desk when an attractive male customer is present just to stare. Everyone thinks it’s a big joke, especially when their talk turns sexual after he leaves or is out of earshot.

Let a group of guys congregate at a front desk to stare and objectify a woman who walks through the door. Have that same group of guys make comments about her ass and breasts in the presence of female coworkers. HR would appear faster than the goddamned roadrunner and all those guys would be axed.

Typical, entitled, one-sided bitches. I’ve worked with that type at just about every job I’ve had.

Yeah Reality as it currently stands is quite literally the opposite of what women want to think it is. Men are easily destroyed in most cases if they cross a woman and the woman decides she wants to destroy through hearsay, rumor, slander, backstabbing and all manner of dark side abilities. Its mindblowing how much people like to live in a fantasyland in their head with this idea that men utterly control women at all times and women dont and cant destroy a mans life on a whim.

One other stat I came across last night... gay male couples have 9 times the sex as lesbian couples. Men are hornier.

Also, unfortunately, the sexual abuse stats (e.g., child molestation, rape, sexually sadistic serial killings) are all male-dominated. So it's hard to argue that women are the more perverted.

Not saying that women aren't horny and perverted in their own way. But I do think men are the hornier and more perverted gender overall. Yay, men! We're #1!

Originally Posted by mattbronn

This is but one example of how women really do get away with some weird perverse shit because they are the "cute" gender that is so kind and gentle. Also GTFO out of here wiith "Men are hornier" Women can Orgasm nonstop they are constantly horny. Geez our society is weird when you start seeing this shit.

Women were called the weaker sex, not because they are physically weaker, but because they are weaker in dealing with temptation.

Women were considered the HORNIER sex until the 1600-1700s in the West, which is why civilization had an ancient and long standing tradition of locking them up and watching them like a hawk until they got married. Back in the Greek and Roman era, into the BCs, and in the Bible, it is overtly or implicitly suggested that women had to be locked up and watched, and flat out told that marriage was for children and family alliances and they were not to endanger that by running off with their desires.

Women may not be horny for every man, but consider: The average woman, growing up in a village of a few hundred people, only had a few score potential mates within a reasonable distance. There was no tinder and no 100km drives for dates or booty calls. Going a mile or so outside the village was literally dangerous with bandits, wolves, raubritters, etc. Men generally did not do so except in groups or in areas they knew very well. Pilgrims had to be escorted by armed individuals.

90% of Women lived in what would today be called villages or small towns were EVERYBODY knows everybody else's business and has known them since birth. No TVs, Xboxes, or headphones, and voices carry. Old Grandma Wilhelmina would blab if she so much as saw the young Milkmaid hiking her skirts with Hans the Herdsman walking a bit behind her.

So their circle of choice was smaller, so the definition of Chad was broader. Basically any non-maimed male with a living was a Chad to them.

Originally Posted by Montauk

Old Grandma Wilhelmina would blab if she so much as saw the young Milkmaid hiking her skirts with Hans the Herdsman walking a bit behind her.

lol, love it!

BTW, has anybody noticed the onslaught of "Open Marriage" requests by Female Fiances and Wives 25-35 being made in the past few years?

And the positive stories about it in the mass media (and ignoring the 95% of the time it destroys the relationshit in mere months, and in fact the relationshit was doomed before the request), Psych Associations, etc.? Especially in women's magazines and outlets?

It used to be a Male Satyr who knew his SMV was higher than the chick might make that request, but nowadays it's women asking for it more often than not.

Originally Posted by Eddie Haskell

If women were as horny as men, wouldn't they use porn as much as men do?

They do.

Back in the day, you could go into any newsagent and see shelf after shelf of "romance" novels. Those cheap little Mills&Boon books are porn. They are not "novels", they are porn. What makes them porn? Their intended use - they are for masturbating. Yes, they don't have pictures; yes, they are not structured the way men's porn would be. But the fact that they don't turn you on doesn't mean anything - they are not meant for you. They work perfectly fine for the readers for which they are intended. And there's plenty of women as profoundly addicted to their preferred form of porn as any teenage male with and internet connection.