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    The Chad life

    Haven't seen Bam lately. Though he didn't like being dissed by Unboxxed, I reckon Eddie saying his MGTOW knowledge was dated was what done him. I was dumb to sometimes support him, but he wasn't always wrong. And if you're really a jerk you'll end up banned sooner or later.

    I learned some too, though not what he thought. When young being a Chad looked like a good gig. I couldn't pull average, while their dumping cheerleaders.

    But beyond looks and sex, what do hotties have to offer? Your nothing to them, just a trained animal they'll throw out soon as they get bored. They might make your dick happy but seems to me it would mess with your head. If you hang with assholes long enough some is sure to rub off.

    Bam probably had more women in a month or two than I got in my whole life. But when you consider what a bunch a loser's he had to hang out with and how little they thought of him I'm not so envious anymore. You could argue AWALT, but carousel riders sound like they are the worst.
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    Like Wombat, I found myself myself agreeing with his posts, though he could have softened the delivery a bit.
    I hope his absence is temporary, perhaps due to in real life matters, and that he'll return.

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    Quote Originally Posted by johnsmith79 View Post
    Like Wombat, I found myself myself agreeing with his posts, though he could have softened the delivery a bit.
    I hope his absence is temporary, perhaps due to in real life matters, and that he'll return.
    He could, but his ego won't let him. Being a common member of the pack has no appeal to Bam.
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    Most if not all the Chads I've known had a few blown fuses up in the brain area, and it didn't take a detective to spot it. So I guess I was always repulsed to some extent, down at the instinctual level, knowing that that kind of behavior was neither healthy nor wise in the long run.

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    But beyond looks and sex, what do hotties have to offer? Your nothing to them, just a trained animal they'll throw out soon as they get bored.
    One of my early mentors in life jokingly gave me a piece of advice, but there was a kernel of truth to it, concerning seeking a GF: "Go ugly early."

    Now I don't think he meant that quite literally, but the warning there was against the dangers of chasing and trying to date or marry a 'hot chick.' Think about it:

    1. Most of them have suffered personality-wise from a lifetime excess of 'pretty privilege.' They haven't needed to work or try very hard at anything, because in this society a woman with top-tier looks will always be given everything she needs or wants by those around her. Most that I have known over the years are shallow and boring to talk to. School to them was a social coming-out experience, not an opportunity to learn anything.

    2. If you do get into a relationship with a hottie, you better be a real competitor, and mentally ready for the never-ending grind of dealing with a constant stream of Chads, PUA's, and even 'average' guys who are turned on by her and just have to try their luck. And don't think for a moment she won't love the attention, and don't think for a moment that 'trading up' isn't always in the back of her mind, and don't think for a moment she won't cheat with someone who gives her the gina-tingles. Because she deserves it, right? That's what her mother and her entire life's experience have taught her.

    3. She's going to be expensive. After all, she's hot and she knows it, and she's constantly being showered with attention. Pay up, prole, or be prepared to be dumped as soon as she finds someone who will pay, and those guys are out there.

    The best thing to do with a hottie is admire her looks from afar, and avoid all personal interaction. Of course, those in this forum have decided that ALL women fit into this category to one degree or another, which just makes us that much wiser. But if you find yourself in a position to give advice to a blue-pilled young man not ready to unplug from the Matrix, tell him: "Go ugly early!" Or, at the very least, shoot for average.
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    Bam wasn't saying anything different to the rest of us. It was his approach and using the excuse "I'm a jerk, I know that" or similar doesn't really cut it. If you know you're a jerk than don't be one. I sometimes was undecided if he was trolling or not.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kryptic View Post
    Bam wasn't saying anything different to the rest of us. It was his approach and using the excuse "I'm a jerk, I know that" or similar doesn't really cut it. If you know you're a jerk than don't be one. I sometimes was undecided if he was trolling or not.
    I don't think his motives were that of a regular troll though he did sometimes act like one. I couldn't always tell either.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Gunnar View Post
    One of my early mentors in life jokingly gave me a piece of advice, but there was a kernel of truth to it, concerning seeking a GF: "Go ugly early."
    Now I don't think he meant that quite literally,
    It's great advice to take literally.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mr Wombat View Post
    It's great advice to take literally.
    And from the woman's perspective, she's got to know she was chosen for who she is, not for what she looks like. So in her mind that's got to count for a lot.

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    Quote Originally Posted by kru-kut View Post
    And from the woman's perspective, she's got to know she was chosen for who she is, not for what she looks like. So in her mind that's got to count for a lot.
    This is exactly why being a Chad don't look so good to me anymore. Well, that and being older than dirt.

    While plenty of people do judge me by the looks I don't have, I don't care what they think. People I do care about judge me for who I am.

    I'm doing ok, Chad can have his phony friends.
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    Chads are just men with bigger targets on their backs.

    Tall + Good Looking + Successful = Larger Divorce Rape Payout

    It's just your turn.
    Last edited by MannSplainer; January 15, 2022 at 6:04 PM.

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    I like Bam but was it ever confirmed that he is indeed a chad or are you just going off of his claim? I'm skeptical of posters who somehow found this type of forum and continue to brag about their sexual exploits. Men who bed a lot of women usually don't feel the need to talk about it,...hell, talking about it is a drag to most. But if he truly is a chad, good for him, not because he's a chad but because unlike men who spend copious amounts of time around women he's smart enough to see the lie behind the veil. He's insightful and unapologetic about his approach...I like that. Hopefully he's still around.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Gunnar View Post
    One of my early mentors in life jokingly gave me a piece of advice, but there was a kernel of truth to it, concerning seeking a GF: "Go ugly early."

    Now I don't think he meant that quite literally, but the warning there was against the dangers of chasing and trying to date or marry a 'hot chick.' Think about it:

    1. Most of them have suffered personality-wise from a lifetime excess of 'pretty privilege.' They haven't needed to work or try very hard at anything, because in this society a woman with top-tier looks will always be given everything she needs or wants by those around her. Most that I have known over the years are shallow and boring to talk to. School to them was a social coming-out experience, not an opportunity to learn anything.

    2. If you do get into a relationship with a hottie, you better be a real competitor, and mentally ready for the never-ending grind of dealing with a constant stream of Chads, PUA's, and even 'average' guys who are turned on by her and just have to try their luck. And don't think for a moment she won't love the attention, and don't think for a moment that 'trading up' isn't always in the back of her mind, and don't think for a moment she won't cheat with someone who gives her the gina-tingles. Because she deserves it, right? That's what her mother and her entire life's experience have taught her.

    3. She's going to be expensive. After all, she's hot and she knows it, and she's constantly being showered with attention. Pay up, prole, or be prepared to be dumped as soon as she finds someone who will pay, and those guys are out there.

    The best thing to do with a hottie is admire her looks from afar, and avoid all personal interaction. Of course, those in this forum have decided that ALL women fit into this category to one degree or another, which just makes us that much wiser. But if you find yourself in a position to give advice to a blue-pilled young man not ready to unplug from the Matrix, tell him: "Go ugly early!" Or, at the very least, shoot for average.
    Never underestimate what simping does. We live in a world where 2's think they're 7's. Worst is a 7 who goes on Tinder and gets validated into thinking she's a superstar when really just a bunch of guys wanted to get their dicks wet.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Hedon View Post
    I like Bam but was it ever confirmed that he is indeed a chad or are you just going off of his claim? He's insightful and unapologetic about his approach...I like that. Hopefully he's still around.
    True enough, we never really find out. Tower could be a Morman with three wives for all we know. Actually, he's the only one I'm sure of. Nobody could dream up a story like his.

    I see Bam online sometimes though he seems to have stopped posting. He might return but I don't think it's likely. He wants to be a big fish in a small pond and that's not going to happen here.
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    Quote Originally Posted by frog View Post
    True enough, we never really find out. Tower could be a Morman with three wives for all we know. Actually, he's the only one I'm sure of. Nobody could dream up a story like his.

    I see Bam online sometimes though he seems to have stopped posting. He might return but I don't think it's likely. He wants to be a big fish in a small pond and that's not going to happen here.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Hedon View Post
    I like Bam but was it ever confirmed that he is indeed a chad or are you just going off of his claim? I'm skeptical of posters who somehow found this type of forum and continue to brag about their sexual exploits. Men who bed a lot of women usually don't feel the need to talk about it,...hell, talking about it is a drag to most. But if he truly is a chad, good for him, not because he's a chad but because unlike men who spend copious amounts of time around women he's smart enough to see the lie behind the veil. He's insightful and unapologetic about his approach...I like that. Hopefully he's still around.
    Maybe itís just my own definitions here but isnít that what Chadís do? They boast and get into dick measuring contests over anything they can think of.

    Being a Chad seems all encompassing and requires a lot of energy to maintain the (self perceived) image of being number 1.

    I think thereís a distinction between a Chad and a man who simply beds lots of women. The Cjad needs to make sure everyone knows the other doesnít care.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kryptic View Post
    Maybe it’s just my own definitions here but isn’t that what Chad’s do? They boast and get into dick measuring contests over anything they can think of.

    Being a Chad seems all encompassing and requires a lot of energy to maintain the (self perceived) image of being number 1.

    I think there’s a distinction between a Chad and a man who simply beds lots of women. The Cjad needs to make sure everyone knows the other doesn’t care.

    Many a woman has taken a Chad out to the divorce rape woodshed.

    Don't hate on Chad. It's just his turn.

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    Quote Originally Posted by MannSplainer View Post
    Many a woman has taken a Chad out to the divorce rape woodshed.

    Don't hate on Chad. It's just his turn.
    And that is what Iím getting at too, Chad is just a Simp who is better at getting laid. And yes they get burned often but seldom learn.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Gunnar View Post
    .... Most that I have known over the years are shallow and boring to talk to. School to them was a social coming-out experience, not an opportunity to learn anything....
    All great points, just wanted to highlight this one. The times that I was able to talk to the 9s and 10s, the conversation was totally one-sided; ie, I was the one holding the conversation up. Now, one might say that they didn't really want to talk to me, and so being passive aggressive was their method for that.

    But overall, I don't think that's what was going on. I just think these women were horrible conversationalists, for the reason you mention. I didn't realize it at the time tho. I thought I was doing something wrong, in terms of socializing and conversing.

    In retrospect, I think it was more of what you mentioned. They just don't have to try that hard at anything, including conversation.

    And, this isn't limited to hot women either. I've had 7s and 8s that were into me, but they were horrible conversationalists too.

    An attractive women who is friendly, open and a great conversationalist is very rare. You're as likely to run into one of those as you are a space alien.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Hedon View Post
    ... I'm skeptical of posters who somehow found this type of forum and continue to brag about their sexual exploits.....
    Exactly, he was more suited to a PUA forum than this place.

    Quote Originally Posted by Hedon View Post
    ... He's insightful.......
    Uh, no. He wasn't. Nines and tens sleeping with homeless men...."C'mon man"

    Quote Originally Posted by Hedon View Post
    ...unapologetic about his approach...
    Well, this part was accurate, at least.

    I think he was a troll, whether his claims were true or not. Guys here have almost always been burned by women; it's kind of necessary for GYOW. If he was so successful with women, what was he doing here?

    I really doubt the veracity of what he was saying; it just doesn't (didn't) make sense.

    To each their own, but if he has flown the coop then I (at least) am glad about it. I don't think I'm alone in that sentiment.


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