
Originally Posted by
Malinois
I’ve got a few good friends that have been through this. And, I’ve talked with women that we’re going through it.
Now, I, myself have so for been spared, for what ever reason because, during the winter of 2016-2017, I hit an extreme low and began raw dogging some broad and not pulling out…
9 months later, the threats of taking me to court began calling in. Every year, she tries to get at me with the same old shit. I ignore her now. The last thing I texted her was “Have me served if you want any money”.
I’m not going to help her put me on the hook, she has to do that all by herself.
What I noticed from even my friends was that I should just run down to the health department and submit a dna test, or try talking to her, or send her some cash, or at least answer the phone.
Bullshit. She started with the threats and I cut her all the way off.
The boy is going to be 6 next month. I have never met him. I’ve seen pictures and videos, and he looks like me but, he still might not be mine.
My one good friend allowed himself to be railroaded by his whore of an ex-wife to the point that he was still paying her even when he took over full custody…The gobbermint does not give a rat’s ass about the man, even if he is in the right…
I’ve been stacking cash, growing a 401k, sliding money into stocks, keeping out of debt, and having a lawyer on retainer. It can only go a few different ways:
1) She has me served for paternity testing and the boy is mine. In this case, I will at worst get 50% custody and have to pay roughly 25% of my income to her because she won’t work. (I already save nearly 50%). I will have to deal with her drama occasionally and will just ignore her most of the time. I will be painted as the deadbeat spermdonor but, the boy will learn to see otherwise by the time he becomes a man…I will incur minimal lifestyle changes to adapt because I have been financially planning and will get to spend time with my son…
2) I am served the papers to test and I am not the father. Weight will rise off of my conscience and I will breathe a little easier…
3) She dumps the boy off at my doorstep. Then I will employ my lawyer to see to it that he is mine and that she is deemed unfit to be a mother, losing any custody rights…
4) She comes at me sideways, without the law, because she doesn’t want to get caught up. Example: Multiple cars park in front of my house, multiple people beating on my door, yelling for me to come out. Possibly doing the same to any of my family…Won’t probably happen because they will assume I’d just call the law rather than deal with their indigent outlaw way of handling things.
5) I get offed by one of her simps that buys into her story because he’s thirsty for her gash. I’m usually armed, and always keen on my surroundings…
My situation is unique, I know. But, maybe there’s something in there that someone can use.
Now, my Bro, that I just wrote about last month, he’s paying his ex every paycheck without court order, living on his bosses couch, and doesn’t think he needs to talk to a lawyer…I just cussed him up and down last night. He’s setting himself to become another statistic by trusting the broad and trying to keep her happy…I just hope his kids don’t turn on him…He punched a wall when he found out that she wasn’t paying the bills, so she kicked him out for being angry and scary…
The women I’ve talked to, know the system. It’s like they study it in between changing diapers. They know how to lie, they know what buttons to push to get the guy to hang himself, they know they can charm the cops, the lawyers, and the judges into believing their spin…Some are more malicious than others, but they want the same thing: Victim status and not having to work for their money…
The last girl I dated, wanted to get married. She came on very strong. But, when I told her I’m only open to marriage if is doesn’t involve the government, her pussy dried right up…
Marriage without the government involved means that the woman actually has to be a good wife and keep her man pleased, to actually work as a team for the mutual benefit of the family. And, the man is the one holding the power. Everyone knows, especially our precious women, that the government will ensure that the woman maintains complete control of the man. And, that man will be destroyed if he falls out of line.
My brain’s a little foggy today, and I’m no expert but, this is just my take…