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    She has slept with about 65 - 75+ men...why does it matter?

    Would you marry a woman who has been with 65+ men (no STDs or anything)?
    I'm not exactly sure of the number but it's between 65 and 75. This year I've only slept with 2 guys, the number is that high because I was very promiscuous in my early 20s. I've never been interested in settling down until now and I didn't realize that guys would care. None of the guys I slept with cared about how promiscuous I was, only the guys who want a relationship. I don't care how many women a guy has been with. Why can't guys be the same? It's just stupid.
    I'm not necessarily talking about marriage, but a serious relationship where you see a future. Be honest please.
    This sounds a bit like the one that was asking about why a guy wouldn't date her after he discovered she had a threesome...

    I'm not the only one to pick up on that...

    you were the same girl that had three gangbang and your friend didn't want to date you.

    Currently the survey shows that 62% of guys and 34% of women say ''absolutely not''.

    Oh by the way ..surprise surprise the age range of the OP is 25-29 bwhaha

    Another comment from a woman..

    Why should the number of men a woman has had in the past matter? The past is the past.
    A comment from a man..

    lol id be a friends with benefits but if she things im going to do anything other then bone her she's crazy. a women like that isn't worth commitment. she already gave her best years to other men and now she wants commitment. thats kind of insulting to be honest. id be insulted if a women like this was interested in me.
    I never will accept this level of "feminism" to force men dating any trash and be shamed if the women don't take advantage of the "feminism" to shaming men who don't want trash.

    The exact term for it is: Damaged Goods- which I always 'throw n reject'


    Update:

    She has posted another question asking the following..

    Girls, have you ever been rejected for your sexual past? Guys, have you ever rejected a girl because of her sexual past?

    One of my best friends told me that he wasn't interested in me because of my sexual past. He wasn't mean or anything, he just said that he wasn't attracted to me any more. It was very hurtful because I have never been ashamed of my sexual past. It's done now, I guess, but it's still upsetting. Has this ever happened to you?
    Note that the term ''best friend'' refers to her beta backup who she assumed would be waiting for her after she'd finished with the 65 - 75+ hookups...


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    Re: She has slept with about 65 - 75+ men...why does it matter?

    Oh, man. The hamster is strong with this one.

    Pop culture is full of references to the fact that it really bothers men when the woman he's in a long term relationship is is a slore.

    For example, the famous scene from Clerks where Dante's girlfriend admits how many dicks she's sucked:



    Not an example of a woman's past, but the Offspring's song Spare me the Details speaks generally to the fact that men get turned off when they hear about their woman's sexual exploits with other men:

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    Re: She has slept with about 65 - 75+ men...why does it matter?

    Because whores don't make good partners or good mothers.

    NEXT!!
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    Re: She has slept with about 65 - 75+ men...why does it matter?

    Terrence Popp taught us about the dick-stacking test. Basically, you take the number of guys she's been with, calculate the total length of the dicks she's had in her (end to end), and ask yourself if she'd injure herself if she jumped from that height. If yes, then she's failed the dick-stacking test. In the case of this woman above, assuming an average length of 6", that's 32 and a half feet of individual cock that's been through her.

    A fall from that height would definitely result in an injury.
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    Re: She has slept with about 65 - 75+ men...why does it matter?

    A woman needs a man like a fish needs a bicycle...

    Other women usually dislike the 'town bicycle' as well...

    So why would any man (a bicycle) want a used one?

    And too, if you equate her to a fish instead of a bicycle, who wants used 'fish'?

    - Is that a new product 'pork' infused 'tuna'? - No, just no. no one wants that.

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    Re: She has slept with about 65 - 75+ men...why does it matter?

    Putting aside the fact that whores are miserable and damaged human beings, I think it's pretty much statistically guaranteed that this gal will give you herpes & HPV. And that's a best case scenario.

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    Re: She has slept with about 65 - 75+ men...why does it matter?

    She lacks the tools for LTR/marriage and she wants to immediately jump in without the effort or hard work to gain experience in pair bonding? Women with high sexual partner counts have a hard time pair bonding, but without the LTR experience it probably is even worse.

    Trying to build a house without a hammer is a waste of everyone's time IMVHO.

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    Re: She has slept with about 65 - 75+ men...why does it matter?

    Fuck off ... for me i mean the past is past but if a girl bangs more than 2 other men at a time its a no no . Cause STDs guaranteed .

    70 is not too a lot if she started at 18 ... Its in the hundreds nowadays and they start at 13 (conservative) , its mostly blowjobs but still .

    But dont blame the girls themselves ...its their mothers that teach them since early teens to spin plates until you land a rich one .
    You cant keep a player down!
    Dont hate him , hate your fuking bullshit game !

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    Re: She has slept with about 65 - 75+ men...why does it matter?

    Imagine eating out a pussy that you know 70 different guys have cummed in..... No. No, thank you.

    But I gotta give her friend props for rejecting her. Most beta back ups would take the deal and make excuses for the girl. She fucked around during her best years with everyone but you, and now she is coming to you when she's dried up? no thanks.
    Sad, but one day our kids will have to visit museums to see what a lady looks like.

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    Re: She has slept with about 65 - 75+ men...why does it matter?

    Quote Originally Posted by Nasir Jones View Post
    Imagine eating out a pussy that you know 70 different guys have cummed in..... No. No, thank you.
    This is precisely why I ghost. I possess enough dignity and self-respect to not debase myself by subjecting my body or time to the disgusting fluid exchanges of the modern whore.

    If you enjoy being sloppy 80ths, go ahead. I prefer not to put my mouth or my dick somewhere the DNA of dozens or hundreds of other men has been. The STD transmission and prevalence statistics as published by the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention are well known. The contemporary twat is a Petri dish of venereal disease. Playing around with a bitch in today's society will get you really sick and on expensive medication for the rest of your life, or just outright kill you.

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    Re: She has slept with about 65 - 75+ men...why does it matter?

    Quote Originally Posted by Alik Sakharov View Post
    Fuck off ... for me i mean the past is past but if a girl bangs more than 2 other men at a time its a no no . Cause STDs guaranteed .

    70 is not too a lot if she started at 18 ... Its in the hundreds nowadays and they start at 13 (conservative) , its mostly blowjobs but still .

    But dont blame the girls themselves ...its their mothers that teach them since early teens to spin plates until you land a rich one .
    I am glad you brought that up. Women are definitely taught to spin plates at a young age to land a rich man. This is why PUA men utilize spinning plate strategy as it is simply a copy and paste of what women have always done. Which is why the PUA lifestyle can sour some men fairly quickly because it requires putting on a fake front instead of being you sometimes.

    That is why PUA tactics are changing from mirroring female tendencies and strategies to being more of the indifferent Lone Wolf McQuaid or just being a grounded version of yourself.

    But after a while this doesn't fill a man's ambitions and aspirations of spinning plates as he wants to do what really makes him happy all the time not a short period of time.

    Quote Originally Posted by Nasir Jones View Post
    Imagine eating out a pussy that you know 70 different guys have cummed in..... No. No, thank you.

    But I gotta give her friend props for rejecting her. Most beta back ups would take the deal and make excuses for the girl. She fucked around during her best years with everyone but you, and now she is coming to you when she's dried up? no thanks.
    I think since this friend has first hand knowledge of her inner workings and inner thoughts he could make better judgement about her. Since he is an orbiter of her in close proximity he probably saw the worst of her not just her best moments. So the fantasy of a princess faded long ago, and this sealed the deal for him. Still, there are some men so pussy whipped that they are best friends with a woman and they will still defend toxic behavior of their best friend.

    Quote Originally Posted by secularscientist View Post
    This is precisely why I ghost. I possess enough dignity and self-respect to not debase myself by subjecting my body or time to the disgusting fluid exchanges of the modern whore.

    If you enjoy being sloppy 80ths, go ahead. I prefer not to put my mouth or my dick somewhere the DNA of dozens or hundreds of other men has been. The STD transmission and prevalence statistics as published by the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention are well known. The contemporary twat is a Petri dish of venereal disease. Playing around with a bitch in today's society will get you really sick and on expensive medication for the rest of your life, or just outright kill you.
    HPV is often cited as big risk to women, but there is a massive media blackout on the risks towards men.

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    Re: She has slept with about 65 - 75+ men...why does it matter?

    Quote Originally Posted by Azure Nomad View Post
    She lacks the tools for LTR/marriage and she wants to immediately jump in without the effort or hard work to gain experience in pair bonding? Women with high sexual partner counts have a hard time pair bonding, but without the LTR experience it probably is even worse.

    Trying to build a house without a hammer is a waste of everyone's time IMVHO.
    Good you bring this up. The average girl is not capable of long-term commitment these days

    One time a girl asked for my commitment. This girl was 27 and she had been in one relationship (from 15 to 19) with a very controlling guy. Carousel rider since then.
    My response was that I thought she was not capable of commitment herself, so she should not ask it from other people.

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    Re: She has slept with about 65 - 75+ men...why does it matter?

    Quote Originally Posted by ikbenrein View Post
    Good you bring this up. The average girl is not capable of long-term commitment these days

    One time a girl asked for my commitment. This girl was 27 and she had been in one relationship (from 15 to 19) with a very controlling guy. Carousel rider since then.
    My response was that I thought she was not capable of commitment herself, so she should not ask it from other people.
    When I was in my early 20's I told a woman straight up that I would not rush into marriage because I lacked LTR experience. The woman said I was being inconsiderate (lol) for thinking this way as "luv" can happen any moment and length of time doesn't matter she said.

    There is a difference between LTR and marriage and that is the relationship degrades from what I have seen and talked to with other men. And the same with dating a woman for a few months versus a year. Even in the mainstream world they say the 2-3 year mark is the litmus test of how a relationship will progress. Beyond the first year is when you first encounter how the relationship will really be. Often I pull the plug well before the 12 month mark, because I know it is just downhill at that point.

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    Re: She has slept with about 65 - 75+ men...why does it matter?

    Quote Originally Posted by secularscientist View Post
    Playing around with a bitch in today's society will get you really sick and on expensive medication for the rest of your life, or just outright kill you .....
    If the diseases don't kill you, the child support / alimony / losing half your wealth / rape accusations / domestic violence bullshit will.
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    Re: She has slept with about 65 - 75+ men...why does it matter?

    How small would somebody's self esteem have to be to want to be with a woman like that? As small as mine once was, since I tried it once years ago. It was, ironically, a twenty five year old woman who not only had been with probably this many men, or more, that opened my eyes to the truth about female nature - by her own admission and anecdotes.

    She'd also had affairs with much older married men (50s/60s+), and was proud of that fact, saying she gave them the attention they were deprived of from their wives. She also told me that every single one of her friends from her high school class cheated on their boyfriends.

    Why? Because she said they could, because they see men as too stupid to find out. I may be generalising, but I'd say being a whore, cheating, lying about it, and even being proud about it, are all features of a similar kind of person, and not one anyone should have anything to do with.

    And like Alik stated, 65-75 is not even an unusually high number for the modern female.

    I would allege when it comes to dick stacking, you wouldn't even need to put the penises length wise alongside each other. More than a few women these days only need to stack the penises one on top of the other, girth wise, to bring the stack up to a height that would be dangerous to jump from.

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    Re: She has slept with about 65 - 75+ men...why does it matter?

    For me, there is a "basic differences of beliefs." She thinks sex is a game and I do not. She had no troubles losing control of her more basic instincts and "being a slut." That is a huge disconnect for me.

    "The past is the past." What a load of bullshit. Your past is what helped define/form you for today.
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    Re: She has slept with about 65 - 75+ men...why does it matter?

    She chose to fuck her future up, nothing to see here. I feel no sympathy just as I feel no sympathy to those who marry, they made a deal with devil and now they pay the price.

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    Re: She has slept with about 65 - 75+ men...why does it matter?

    For me the number of men that a woman has been with does not matter to me, however as you can tell their is a "but" that goes along with this. So before you all start throwing rocks at me, hear me out. First off as long as she he disease free and clean, what are how many does not matter in terms of the numbers. Bottom line is that I've been with a lot of women and I've been in more fights than I can count. I've actually had a few women that I was dating reject me due to my past because they were afraid that I was just some violent fuck. Not the case, never was, so I don't take or reject based on a number from the past.

    Now for the "but" part of this. It does not matter if her numbers are 10 or 100 or 1,000 still just a number at this point. However usually the higher the number the more she is going to brag or even drag you in front of these guys. As we have all seen before, often times she will still have a few of these guys hanging around as "friends". If your lucky she thinks it's okay to go hang out with them, however knows that you probably don't and will allow you to stay behind without much trouble. Truthfully that happening is rare, what often happens is that you go to parties, BBQ's and such with her to a "friends" place. You enjoy the day, hell maybe you've been hitting this same friends house for months. Only to find out that she's done threesomes for him, let him do anal and all kinds of other stuff that you will never get from her. Why is this, well your the guy that pays her bills, she is not their to fulfill your sexual desires. Often times you will find out about these things while your at the party or BBQ because someone could not keep their drunk mouth shut. So now your standing there and just became the center of attention because everyone knows that not only did your old lady do this other guy or guys, everyone knows she has not and will not do it for you. Bottom line is that this is what usually happens as the numbers go up..

    Getting thrown under the bus as described above is not the only problem. Often times she will voice her opinion by comparing you to the past guys. I never understood this one since if the last guy was so great then why is she with me? If a woman has racked up a high body count and still lives in the same area this can be troublesome. If a guy is lucky the woman is honest, tells her old man were they might bump into an ex and such and even avoid these places. Once again this is usually not the case. Often times you will bump into these guys for months even years and usually find out by someone else that this is one of her one night stands or "hot guy" she did crazy shit for. Now this is usually a problem because, hell what guy wants to go to a movie theater only to find out that three other men in the theater has also dumped a load in your old lady. This is something that I find to be very degrading to the man she is with.

    Another thing that is bad is often times that old lady wants you to be friends with her ex-lovers. Oh yes this is something that every guy dreams of, to hang out with someone that has been deep inside of there girlfriend or wife. However I will admit that I have personally seen this backfire on them, I know because I have seen ME do it. When I was real young (late teens, early 20's) I was dating just such a woman. She had been with a lot of men, claimed "past is past" bullshit. However she also often brought up these other men, I found out later she paraded me in front of some of them without my knowledge and so forth. Sometimes she would trade innuendoes with these guys which tipped me off. Often times I would feel like a third wheel upon running into these guys. Thing was that I was never jealous before dating this woman and now I was feeling jealous. It took me a bit to understand why I was feeling this way. It came down to the fact that she was showing me no respect or love by her actions. It was not the number or the other guys, it was her. However I did ended up becoming friends with one of her ex's, mainly because the guy was cool and understood. He even warned me that what she was doing then was just the start, this gal enjoyed tanking a guy's self-esteem and would not stop until she broke the guy. So this ex of her's that I became friends with helped me get a hold of about 20 of her past lovers (we could not track down the others, wanted a higher number) and we set things in motion. All of us showed up at a club that this woman would be at every Friday night. Now at the time we are still a couple, however the look on her face when she seen us all sitting together was priceless. It only went downhill for her because we asked her to join us since we were comparing her performance in bed. Of course we went down a list, why did guys 1, 5, 8, etc always get blow jobs but the other guys never did. By the time we were done she was running out of the place crying, saying that we were all being mean to her and such.

    Now again that actual number to me does not really matter as long as she is disease free and clean and if she treats you as the one and only. I can handle hearing about the high body count, however being treated as less than is not something I can handle. To me the higher the body count the more she better work to make me feel like I am special to her. If she starts taking things off the table that she has done sexually with others, I'm gone. I don't even discuss it farther than "You will do that and more for me or fucking walk". The past can and does matter if you are being treated as less than. If you think about it, no woman would put up with you buying expensive clothes and jewelry for past lovers and not her. Oh some women may cut a bit of slack if your having a hard time with money right then. However she expect you to get your shit together and buy her that stuff. So if she expects your best, then why the hell won't she give you her best in the bedroom? My thought is that if she wants me to treat her like a princess then she had better fuck me like a porn star.

    Women claim ignorance about matters such as her past actions hurting there men of today. However women do know and have known since they were young that men see the level of love or desire a woman has for a guy by what she is willing to do in bed with him. If she surprises you with a threesome that includes her two best hot friends, then your the "hot guy" she wants. If she tells you of this threesome that she did for the other guy and how your different and she does not feel right doing this with you. Then your the "provider guy", the guy that gets a few thrusts a week, however it is just enough to justify paying her bills. The very last girlfriend I was with had a rude awaking on our first actual date. I told her that I was not really wanting a relationship and I have reason for it. Well after being questioned I simply told her that I plan on getting myself into a few threesomes with two or three women at once. Of course she told me that she does not do that and never has. I retorted with "that's okay you can either join in or not. Because it will happen with or without you". I got the line of "your telling me your going to cheat on me"? I told her "nope, I am telling you what I am going to do. It is up to you if you want to be with me or not". Later on she even told me that I was making her pay for what my ex-wife did to me and a few other women. I told her "nope, something I've always wanted to do and I figured out that it is more important to me than any relationship with any woman. I gave up that fantasy once and it bit me in the ass, no more will a woman cheat me out of any fucking thing". Thankfully with her bullshit was at a low level, however I just don't put up with any shit from women anymore. I tell them like it is and usually send them running. Yes dear your past is the past and you can't change it. However is what you can do today is show me that you will utilize your past for me to make me feel your worth wild to be with and safe with her. I mean after all, what good is it if she can give a great blow job but you only hear about the past guys she did this for and never get one yourself? It is like having a wife that is a chef that invites and ex-lover over and serves him steak and lobster and then serves you a McDonald's cheeseburger, fries and a coke that was just microwaved. I'm willing to bet that most of us would be pissed off and taking that motherfuckers steak from him. This is why I say that if she does not fuck you like a porn star and gives you 110% or more of herself to you, then don't waste your time. Numbers is not really my thing. I say this because I was with a woman that had only a couple of lovers (confirmed by trustworthy sources) and she made it very known that I was the provider that was lucky enough to get duty sex and nothing more. I've been with other women that had a high body count and for a time actually made me feel like she wanted me. If you really want to fuck with a woman that says "the past is the past" just get a look of relief on your face and say "I'm glad you feel that way, I really did not want to cash in another 401k in order to buy jewelry. I want our relationship to be different and non materialistic." She will play it cool at first, however as time drags on she will get more and more pissed. Once this happens you remind her that "the past is the past".
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    Re: She has slept with about 65 - 75+ men...why does it matter?

    "A key that can open many locks is a master key, but a lock that can be opened by many keys is a shitty lock."

    Bonus points--you are a MISOGYNIST according to some feminist sites if you dare say this mantra.

    Well, give me that Superman looking shirt with a Capital M, please!

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    Re: She has slept with about 65 - 75+ men...why does it matter?

    If a man are looking for a relationship,a woman SEXUAL HISTORY IS IMPORTANT.
    Thats why women should marry at a early age.If they do,they will have a much higher rate,
    of NOT CHEATING on their husband....but this is so old school.
    I believe a woman will "get fucked up" totally in her head,if she sleeps with to many guys;
    not so with us men however.
    Regarding the original post;is 65/75 sex partners so much in todays society??
    I think there are women out there who had far more than that;maybe hundreds or even
    close to thousands of men.Besides,who cares? These woman are nothing more than pump and dump.
    There may be some white knight mangina out there who will eventually rescue/save her,in the end,
    but thats up to him.


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