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    Sex is Overrated

    Hey folks. Finished writing a brief piece on why I think sex is overrated. Check it out if you are so inclined. I had fun with it.

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    Re: Sex is Overrated

    The most overrated/overinflated commodity indeed. It's the urge driven by the mixture of neurochemical cocktails that heightens the pleasure not yet experienced when if assessed with a sober mind one would realize the juice isn't worth the squeeze.

    The more investment or stock we put into something the more the disappointment when achieved and there is not an activity men put more energy into achieving than sex.
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    Very true. I know I've had my share of regretful sexual interactions. Nothing heinous, just disappointment in not thinking logically and convincing myself to do something I didn't really want to do, especially with women I didn't want to do it with. Oh well, I'm human, not perfect. And even good humans are works in progress.

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    I agree about it getting boring after a year or two. In my experience that’s when women wanted to start breaking out the toys…swings, rings, lubes, orating this or that, etc. Some people can convince themselves they have then become kinky and new, but I just saw it as desperation and artificial crap getting in the way. I’m in awe of people who can honestly say sex is satisfying after 4-5+ years with the same person…ESPECIALLY with women who have hit the wall and don’t present themselves the same as the first few years.

    What especially got on my nerves is when I’m paying all the bills and doing all the grunt work yet a woman thinks she can lord over me by giving or taking away sex…after a few years when I start seeing it’s all you have to offer I’m turned off. And the more insight I get into how women think the less I want them regardless of how “good” they look.

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    Re: Sex is Overrated

    Quote Originally Posted by Edwardhaskell View Post

    What especially got on my nerves is when I’m paying all the bills and doing all the grunt work yet a woman thinks she can lord over me by giving or taking away sex…after a few years when I start seeing it’s all you have to offer I’m turned off
    Far too many of them think they have the "golden pussy." Sadly, plenty of guys are easily motivated by sex and allow themselves to be controlled by women, this reinforcing this BS. Look at the return of "sex strike" nonsense over Roe v Wade. Some of these feminists actually think men care. A. Most of them aren't seeing or sleeping with men, at least not with any regularity. B. Even the few that actually have boyfriends/ husbands, are likely in dead bedroom situations anyway. Nothing quite kills sex like a long term relationship, especially marriage.

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    It definitely gets boring, that is why people switch partners and come up with stupid positions and crazy places to do it. They are trying to make the same act different but in the end it is still the same thing.

    I also realized it was over hyped the first time I had sex. I was 17 but the woman was an escort and a solid 8 out of 10 so not lacking experience or looks. I just recall thinking it was going to be this mind blowing experience and it was fun and ok but just not the big deal I expected.

    Also not worth the effort and as mentioned in the article, the naysayers will always accuse people who don't think it is the most amazing thing ever to be doing it wrong etc.

    I actually came to realize that what I really wanted was just an orgasm and I can give that to myself. And I am not even wanting an orgasm for sexual release, it is just an overall release and relaxation thing.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kryptic View Post
    It definitely gets boring, that is why people switch partners and come up with stupid positions and crazy places to do it. They are trying to make the same act different but in the end it is still the same thing.
    I got so bored that I just flat out told my ex this. About all sex aside from woman bent over is basically missionary at slightly different angles. The angles don’t really change the physical feeling of the vagina that much…it’s just all psychological….ohhhh…we are standing….ohhh…in a swing with legs up…ohhh…on the washing machine, etc, etc. It’s almost all the man’s pelvis area between the woman’s legs with the penis going in and out. After you’ve done it quite a few times and tried the popular positions it can and does get boring.

    I think that would be the case even with the hottest of the hot women…perhaps that’s why celebs/super rich like say a Leonardo DiCaprio constantly break up with the hottest of women.

    I also get a sense that a lot of “modern” women think their friends and other women are having some sort of amazingly kinky sex. My ex went to these sex toy parties (same idea as Tupperware parties) with other women where they had catalogs to order a bunch of overpriced sex toys/lotions/handcuffs/outfits/vibrating panties/etc.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Edwardhaskell View Post
    I got so bored that I just flat out told my ex this. About all sex aside from woman bent over is basically missionary at slightly different angles. The angles don’t really change the physical feeling of the vagina that much…it’s just all psychological….ohhhh…we are standing….ohhh…in a swing with legs up…ohhh…on the washing machine, etc, etc. It’s almost all the man’s pelvis area between the woman’s legs with the penis going in and out. After you’ve done it quite a few times and tried the popular positions it can and does get boring.

    I think that would be the case even with the hottest of the hot women…perhaps that’s why celebs/super rich like say a Leonardo DiCaprio constantly break up with the hottest of women.

    I also get a sense that a lot of “modern” women think their friends and other women are having some sort of amazingly kinky sex. My ex went to these sex toy parties (same idea as Tupperware parties) with other women where they had catalogs to order a bunch of overpriced sex toys/lotions/handcuffs/outfits/vibrating panties/etc.
    It is all in the head and what is considered taboo, which is another topic again. In this day and age is anything really taboo? But people still act like it is, “oh we did it standing up!” Who cares? And as you say most positions are just variations on missionary. I also noticed most vaginas feel the same. I would prefer a head job or even hand job as it requires more technique than just lying there.

    I have been with some really hot looking women, almost all of them paid for but still top shelf quality. I have never understood the men who see the same hooker every session!

    Modern society has got women worked out so well. Make them believe someone else is getting a better deal and that they should have it too! Throw in some booze and a stripper just for good measure.

    In Australia we had a company called Fuckaware that did just that!

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    Excellent article, EH. Liked the inclusion of the Hedonic Treadmill, which is something I'd somewhat innately understood, but didn't hear of officially until last month.

    Unwanted pregnancies can destroy one's life. STDs are often permanent. Sex and 'love' very often provide for a false sense of security, leading to destroyed lives later down the road. They can also lead the unaware/unwitting into cohabitation situations, which the state is always looking to convert into forced marriage through carefully obfuscated gyno-landmines such as Palimony, Committed Intimate Relationships, Compulsory Conjugality, De Facto Marriages, Feminist Activist Judges Bench Born Legislation and Common Law.

    Sex can also result in stalking, extortion, false accusations, job loss, career destruction, social shaming, physical abuse, mental health issues, exploitation, marginalization and degradation.

    Free sex is rare. Usually, it comes with a price. Sometimes, the price can even result in the destruction of your entire future. Just ask most divorced guys.

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    Indeed it is, like it's cool and all to shag but it's ridiculous easy to swap out a women for a pocket pussy.

    In fact, it usually better and more enjoyable to fuck a pocket pussy. You can use it anytime you want. No worries of std, spermjacking or false accusations. Just lube up a go

    A great DtN ratio compared to women

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    I am so grateful I've never felt this way.

    I still enjoy feasting on the right woman to this day.
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    The issue is, indicas and sativa's. Sex after smoking some good bud is what life is about. You gotta bust that nut with a slowed respiratory system which is a game changer instead of having sex sober. Having sex and your not drunk or high is a complete snooze fest after awhile.

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    Sex is one thing, making love is another.
    The only way you'll have an exhilarating experience with sex is if you're madly in love, then it's a fusion of souls,,,, but we all know the horrific cost that leads to. It's the basis of just about all female exploitation of the male.
    In the beginning it's used to trap, then sex becomes a means of control.

    Sex with a woman without love is just mutual masturbation. It's good but not worth the effort involved. It's almost always awkward the moment it finishes, unless she's been paid in advance so both people know exactly where they stand.

    We all know the mind is the biggest sex organ and if that's not involved as in "Lovemaking" then the next best thing is to be alone and let your imagination fly.

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    Im middle-aged now. My FWBs that i can bang with not too much effort nor regrets are in their 40s. Women get worn out,esp these high mileage modern women.( put a piston in a worn bore, u still not going to get any compression)
    This leaves me very frustrated. The whole sex thing is pointless when ive got to go to the bathroom to finish off by myself....

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    Quote Originally Posted by Scrawler View Post
    Sex is one thing, making love is another.
    The only way you'll have an exhilarating experience with sex is if you're madly in love, then it's a fusion of souls,,,, but we all know the horrific cost that leads to. It's the basis of just about all female exploitation of the male.
    In the beginning it's used to trap, then sex becomes a means of control.

    Sex with a woman without love is just mutual masturbation. It's good but not worth the effort involved. It's almost always awkward the moment it finishes, unless she's been paid in advance so both people know exactly where they stand.

    We all know the mind is the biggest sex organ and if that's not involved as in "Lovemaking" then the next best thing is to be alone and let your imagination fly.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Scrawler View Post
    Sex is one thing, making love is another.
    The only way you'll have an exhilarating experience with sex is if you're madly in love, then it's a fusion of souls,,,, but we all know the horrific cost that leads to. It's the basis of just about all female exploitation of the male.
    In the beginning it's used to trap, then sex becomes a means of control.

    Sex with a woman without love is just mutual masturbation. It's good but not worth the effort involved. It's almost always awkward the moment it finishes, unless she's been paid in advance so both people know exactly where they stand.

    We all knowthe mind is the biggest sex organ and if that's not involved as in "Lovemaking" then the next best thing is to be alone and let your imagination fly.
    Hogwash! Pure hogwash.

    Sex has always fed the raw maleness of me. The deep down animalistic part of being a man. The whole warrior conqueror thing. I've always relished my maleness. Along with the power and rewards it brought me. Didn't have shit to do with lovemaking. Or melding my soul. I'm not saying I didn't love. Or protect or provide. Sex was a reward of my maleness.

    As a man in my prime I worked as a salesman. Sales can be a very adversarial thing. You had to conquer the objections of the customer. Win the battle of wits and will to make that sale.

    On days where I had an outstanding day. Made myself a ton of money. I had and gigantic urge to reward myself with the pleasure of a woman. The women in my life during those times would sometime call me at work. Just to see how sales were going. Because they were thrilled and excited as I was if they knew I was having a massive day. They knew I would be leaving work and looking to tear me some pussy up. They loved it. So did I.

    Living that way made me feel like a beast. It gave me a raw male energy that was noticeable to others. It attracted women. It's how I learned that women wanted to be the object of my desire. The more I desired and feasted. The more they gave. Only complaint it ever brought is if I shifted my desire to another woman. That would only happen if she made herself less desirable to me. In any of the thousands of ways women can do that.

    After feasting myself sexually, it only brought on more powerful maleness. The next day at work I'd kick ass again. I was pumped. I was as fired up as a man could be.

    I'd become almost unstoppable. The money flowed in from that as I sold more. The nice cars, nice house all followed. Along with some damn fine sex. It all played an important role in keeping me at my peak. Bullshit that behind every great man is a great woman. The truth for me was underneath me is where a woman belonged. It was the very reason to have one.

    So I may be one fucked up individual. By other peoples standards. You would never know it unless I told you. I never forced myself on a woman. Nor would I ever. I never had a complaint about doing anything to them in the bedroom. Quite the opposite in fact. It fueled the women to pleasure me as much as they could. To bring out that maleness even more the next day. To increase their chances that I would look to reward myself with them the next time as well.

    Now as a senior citizen the beast factor has faded in me a good 90%. I'm very comfortable in life. One could almost say on cruise control now. However, a vigorous session in the bedroom still adds to my male energy. I need that energy to keep myself in check nowadays. To not want to rage against all the shit about toxic manhood. Whack job attacks on my being older and white and so forth. I listen to these idiotic man bun wearing pussies and laugh to myself. I can't even fathom going through life as anything less than a full blown raging male. Aware of my power. Aware of the things I can accomplish and do.

    I lived the bulk of my life this way. The attitude only started to fade in my late fifties and early sixties. I would not change a thing either. Now I just smile quietly at those who shame being a powerful male. As only an old man who knows better can. And secretly pity them for living such pussifed lives.

    Sex will never be overrated to me.
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    Spoken like a young tiger woods. How did that all work out for him in the long run.

    Quote Originally Posted by O.G. View Post
    Hogwash! Pure hogwash.

    Sex has always fed the raw maleness of me. The deep down animalistic part of being a man. The whole warrior conqueror thing. I've always relished my maleness. Along with the power and rewards it brought me. Didn't have shit to do with lovemaking. Or melding my soul. I'm not saying I didn't love. Or protect or provide. Sex was a reward of my maleness.

    As a man in my prime I worked as a salesman. Sales can be a very adversarial thing. You had to conquer the objections of the customer. Win the battle of wits and will to make that sale.

    On days where I had an outstanding day. Made myself a ton of money. I had and gigantic urge to reward myself with the pleasure of a woman. The women in my life during those times would sometime call me at work. Just to see how sales were going. Because they were thrilled and excited as I was if they knew I was having a massive day. They knew I would be leaving work and looking to tear me some pussy up. They loved it. So did I.

    Living that way made me feel like a beast. It gave me a raw male energy that was noticeable to others. It attracted women. It's how I learned that women wanted to be the object of my desire. The more I desired and feasted. The more they gave. Only complaint it ever brought is if I shifted my desire to another woman. That would only happen if she made herself less desirable to me. In any of the thousands of ways women can do that.

    After feasting myself sexually, it only brought on more powerful maleness. The next day at work I'd kick ass again. I was pumped. I was as fired up as a man could be.

    I'd become almost unstoppable. The money flowed in from that as I sold more. The nice cars, nice house all followed. Along with some damn fine sex. It all played an important role in keeping me at my peak. Bullshit that behind every great man is a great woman. The truth for me was underneath me is where a woman belonged. It was the very reason to have one.

    So I may be one fucked up individual. By other peoples standards. You would never know it unless I told you. I never forced myself on a woman. Nor would I ever. I never had a complaint about doing anything to them in the bedroom. Quite the opposite in fact. It fueled the women to pleasure me as much as they could. To bring out that maleness even more the next day. To increase their chances that I would look to reward myself with them the next time as well.

    Now as a senior citizen the beast factor has faded in me a good 90%. I'm very comfortable in life. One could almost say on cruise control now. However, a vigorous session in the bedroom still adds to my male energy. I need that energy to keep myself in check nowadays. To not want to rage against all the shit about toxic manhood. Whack job attacks on my being older and white and so forth. I listen to these idiotic man bun wearing pussies and laugh to myself. I can't even fathom going through life as anything less than a full blown raging male. Aware of my power. Aware of the things I can accomplish and do.

    I lived the bulk of my life this way. The attitude only started to fade in my late fifties and early sixties. I would not change a thing either. Now I just smile quietly at those who shame being a powerful male. As only an old man who knows better can. And secretly pity them for living such pussifed lives.

    Sex will never be overrated to me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by O.G. View Post
    man bun wearing pussies and laugh to myself.
    That's funny you say that because, as an aside, I was in the grocery store an hour ago and again saw one of those fellows. This one had the man bun and earrings and the tight-ankled pants. They have no idea that they look like a housewife from the 60s, especially when cleaning the house where she puts her hair up like that. They are too young to see the association I make. It amuses me every time.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Unboxxed View Post
    That's funny you say that because, as an aside, I was in the grocery store an hour ago and again saw one of those fellows. This one had the man bun and earrings and the tight-ankled pants. They have no idea that they look like a housewife from the 60s, especially when cleaning the house where she puts her hair up like that. They are too young to see the association I make. It amuses me every time.
    Wardrobe and hairstyle aside. I see how they act around their girlfriends or wives. The feminization runs so much deeper than the look. I guess it works for them.


    Spoken like a young tiger woods. How did that all work out for him in the long run.
    Scotty- Really don't see any similarity at all. Tiger was a cheater. I never was. I'm also not a major celeb. Who's behavior is in the limelight. All the time. Things didn't work out for him.

    Of course I wasn't talking about him. I was talking about me. So I have to ask. Is 45 years of living the way I described, long term enough for you?

    I'm not trying to convince anyone to live like me. Just providing a different view point. One that makes me not think sex is over rated.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Unboxxed View Post
    That's funny you say that because, as an aside, I was in the grocery store an hour ago and again saw one of those fellows. This one had the man bun and earrings and the tight-ankled pants. They have no idea that they look like a housewife from the 60s, especially when cleaning the house where she puts her hair up like that. They are too young to see the association I make. It amuses me every time.
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