Thread: Relationship progress BS in first person

I found this text file on my PC I had copied from somewhere that's quite brilliant. It's a progression of the BS any man in a relationship will be hearing as his life spirals down into the pits of blue pill hell. Take a read and feel the day brighten up as the realization that you do NOT have to put up with all that crap hits you.

Why did you buy that? We need this. Oh that is so cute. Your place needs more color. I got you this. What are we doing for X holiday? I was invited to a party, are you coming with me? Do you like my friends? Are you having a good time? I want you to meet more of my friends. When are you going to introduce me to your friends? I think you should meet my parents. My best friend hates you. I don't like your friends. I think so-and-so is a bad influence. Do we have to have them over again? Why are you playing a game? Did you take the trash out? Honey, not now, I'm tired. I have a headache. I am so bloated. Do you love me? You're not going out of town with your friends are you? I'll be so lonely without you. Yes, I know you didn't go with your friends, but this is just a girls night. We're together like all the time. You should go do something, just not with any friends I don't like. Those are off limits.

No, leave me alone. No I'm fine. I know I've been upset for a few days. I was late and I thought I was pregnant. I cried when I wasn't. I never thought of having a baby like this before. Where do you think this relationship is going? We should move in together it will save money too and we'll have more for us. If we're going to live together, I need more space for my stuff too. Unless you're not serious about our relationship. I hate that picture. I can't believe you still have this furniture. I have always hated it. You've got no tastes for decoration. You should pack this other stuff up. I packed this stuff up for you. That packed up stuff is taking up space. You should sell it. Or dump it.

I think I'm late. Yes, I have been taking my pills, but I'm late, it's probably stress. I'm pregnant. I don't know, it happened. What are you going to do about it? For the last time, yes, I always took my birth control. The doctor said that antibiotic I took might have messed it up. Yes, he warned me, but we've not been using protection for so long, I didn't worry about it. We both hate condoms anyway. Don't you love me? Yes of course it is yours. Why are you acting like you don't trust me. Well my friends got engaged, and they weren't even pregnant.

We're going to need a bigger place. We can't raise a baby in a place this small. You need a better job. With both of us working, we'll be fine. I don't feel like going back to work yet. I think I need to stay home with the baby. We'll cut back on some things, we can do it. We need a new car. I know I'm not working, but my car isn't running and I can't be stuck at home all day. I hate being home all day. You go to work, you see people.

You're keeping me stuck at home. You don't love me. All the baby does is cry all day. Yeah, I know you're working, but at least you get out of the house sometime. You never take me anywhere. I know we can't afford a babysitter, but what about my needs? Don't touch me. No, I'm tired. I'm sick. I feel gross. You never want to be with me anymore. How do you think it makes me feel to be rejected by you like that? You were rejected? You felt what? Oh please, that's not even the same thing.

I'm looking for a job. And we need that new car if I am going to work. Yes, ok, I know most of what I earn just pays the daycare. I like not having to stay at home. God I hate my job. Are you trying to be funny? Going to work is not socializing. Does everything have to be about you? Maybe I said that before, but you try being stuck at home all day. I think I am going to quit my job. Well, it's better than going to work all the time. I'll figure something out. I think the baby should be in daycare a few days a week so I can do errands easier. Why are you complaining?

Why don't we have any money. OK, I know I agreed to work, and that's why we could afford daycare and a new car, but stop it. Well, work didn't work out well. I don't know why you let me do that anyway. What were you thinking? Daycare? It's good for the baby and gives me free time too.

We need to talk...

TL;DR: Me, me, me, me, me, ad naseum.

I was going to suggest #1 would make a great script for a horror movie, but then I realized that many if not most men live that shit daily, so why would they want to pay to look at more of it.

I can't believe how lucky I am not to have traveled that path. Whenever I'm having a shitty day, I gotta remember how much worse millions (tens of millions!) of men have it. And sometimes it's due to just one poor decision.

Thanks, I'm Gone. Great post. Seriously.

Hahahahaha...you know what I love most about being red-pilled? It's that I don't give a FUCK about having a woman in my life or not. So literally the SECOND they start in on me with any of that demanding, nagging, ear-chirping bullshit, I can dump that bitch without an ounce of regret.

I've dumped girls for some really funny and trivial shit. I dumped a girl once because she tried to guilt me after I flaked on her to go hang out with my brother. I have dumped multiple girls for not putting out enough, after they got theirs and thought they didn't need to finish servicing me. You better believe if a girl nags me, insults me, or otherwise adds to my stress level, I will drop her without a second thought.

I can't imagine the kind of guy who would just stand there and take it...and KEEP taking it. That's one of the biggest weaknesses of blue pill guys. They make their own life a living hell...and they also have no idea how much it turns a girl on when you stand up to her, don't take her shit, impose your will on her, dominate her...the whole reason they pull all that bullshit is because they WANT the guy to put her in her place, but he never does. So they just end up being miserable together until she completely loses respect for him and cheats on him or dumps him, but hopefully not before marriage/children.

That's probably the greatest irony of the red pill. When you understand female nature, you can actually make it work in your favor...but once you understand it, you just get sick of it, and you don't even want to deal with it anymore.

Originally Posted by kru-kut

I was going to suggest #1 would make a great script for a horror movie, but then I realized that many if not most men live that shit daily, so why would they want to pay to look at more of it.

I can't believe how lucky I am not to have traveled that path. Whenever I'm having a shitty day, I gotta remember how much worse millions (tens of millions!) of men have it. And sometimes it's due to just one poor decision.

Thanks, I'm Gone. Great post. Seriously.

As a writer who writes as a hobby I'm into metaphors, and the other day I was reflecting on my cross country trip out here right after my own shit show with my last unicorn. I was driving down the highway at night and in the distance I could see hundreds of aircraft warning lights going off in unison. I wondered what it was. It turned out to be a giant windfarm. All I could think was, "Look at them all!" Now, I realize the reason I was so struck by the sight. Those lights were a metaphor for me for all the men out there who had gone through what I had just endured. It represented those millions off us that are terrorized everyday with these new laws to protect women. Why is it that in order to protect women we must persecute (and prosecute) men? The 21st century has turned into a nightmare for some, and an odyssey for others. Is it any wonder folks are walking away from this shit show in droves?

Originally Posted by Joetech

As a writer who writes as a hobby I'm into metaphors, and the other day I was reflecting on my cross country trip out here right after my own shit show with my last unicorn. I was driving down the highway at night and in the distance I could see hundreds of aircraft warning lights going off in unison. I wondered what it was. It turned out to be a giant windfarm. All I could think was, "Look at them all!" Now, I realize the reason I was so struck by the sight. Those lights were a metaphor for me for all the men out there who had gone through what I had just endured. It represented those millions off us that are terrorized everyday with these new laws to protect women. Why is it that in order to protect women we must persecute (and prosecute) men? The 21st century has turned into a nightmare for some, and an odyssey for others. Is it any wonder folks are walking away from this shit show in droves?

I got a metaphor, navigating the gynocentric legal system is kin to a hang-glider navigating a massive wind-farm during a micro-burst!

Originally Posted by Xanthine

Hahahahaha...you know what I love most about being red-pilled? It's that I don't give a FUCK about having a woman in my life or not. So literally the SECOND they start in on me with any of that demanding, nagging, ear-chirping bullshit, I can dump that bitch without an ounce of regret.

I've dumped girls for some really funny and trivial shit. I dumped a girl once because she tried to guilt me after I flaked on her to go hang out with my brother. I have dumped multiple girls for not putting out enough, after they got theirs and thought they didn't need to finish servicing me. You better believe if a girl nags me, insults me, or otherwise adds to my stress level, I will drop her without a second thought.

I can't imagine the kind of guy who would just stand there and take it...and KEEP taking it. That's one of the biggest weaknesses of blue pill guys. They make their own life a living hell...and they also have no idea how much it turns a girl on when you stand up to her, don't take her shit, impose your will on her, dominate her...the whole reason they pull all that bullshit is because they WANT the guy to put her in her place, but he never does. So they just end up being miserable together until she completely loses respect for him and cheats on him or dumps him, but hopefully not before marriage/children.

That's probably the greatest irony of the red pill. When you understand female nature, you can actually make it work in your favor...but once you understand it, you just get sick of it, and you don't even want to deal with it anymore.

To just understand is hardly enough .

You better have something to show for together with your understanding . At least above average money , looks or big personality .

Its like homeless people that been through it all . They have wealth of wisdom , out of this world grasp on this world ... and yet nobody cares . And you cant come back to normal life because you have nothing .

That was freaking epic!

I love that I'm avoiding that. Still, for the lurkers and guys still trying to salvage their marriage or relationships, we need to strategize how to handle all that hamstering.

Basically, if you walk with a woman, you need to at least pretend to be purple pill, (but also have an exit strategy.)

Why did you buy that?


I didn't. I stole it.


then when she starts to shriek say" The security guard chased me out, so I shot him and stole his wallet. If the police show up, tell them I'm not here. (women love bad boys)






We need this.

Why do we need it? (women want you to challenge them)

Whatever her answer is, keep antagonizing her in a playful way, then finally give it, then act like it was your idea to get that thing and act as if you deserve her praise for the idea to get it.



Oh that is so cute.

You could either go with "not as cute as you" or "not as cute as me"


Followed by "do you want me to steal it for you?" (bad boys)



Your place needs more color.

That's why I'm dumping you for a black chick.




I got you this.

Act excited like it is exactly what you wanted and tell her she can now have her way with you, which is obviously what she want's, as if you believe that's why she got it for you.




I want you to meet more of my friends.

"You have friends??!!"


My best friend hates you.

"She's just angry because she wants my body and knows she can't have it"


or "a three way will straighten her out"



No, leave me alone. No I'm fine. I know I've been upset for a few days.

Your mood swings are normal, just ride it out. i'll take you out to eat tonight. (that's some old school relationship advice)


If she attacks you when she's moody, whatever she says, agree and exaggerate.


"You're an idiot!"


"I know! I'm SUCH an idiot. I'm also an abusive alcoholic and a communist"




I was late and I thought I was pregnant. I cried when I wasn't. I never thought of having a baby like this before. Where do you think this relationship is going? We should move in together it will save money too and we'll have more for us. If we're going to live together, I need more space for my stuff too. Unless you're not serious about our relationship.


bail




I hate that picture.

"My dead mother painted that!" or "that's a priceless Rembrant!"



I can't believe you still have this furniture. I have always hated it. You've got no tastes for decoration.


"I'm, like, all into minimalism. It's so Zen and earthy!"


You guys get the idea.

Originally Posted by Alik Sakharov

To just understand is hardly enough .

You better have something to show for together with your understanding . At least above average money , looks or big personality .

Its like homeless people that been through it all . They have wealth of wisdom , out of this world grasp on this world ... and yet nobody cares . And you cant come back to normal life because you have nothing .

If I did not know any better, I'd think you were a female trolling the forum.

Here the guys are talking about HOW they flipped the script. I liked how Xatherine talked about dumping chicks over trivial stuff.

This is an important part of recovery from being a FORMER nice guy/doormat. I think the perfect place of the pendulum swinging from doormat to asshole is back in the center.

But if they want to stay on the so-called "angry" side-- that's better than being a spineless doormat!

Alik, I'm not one to mince words...But like a covert female, you try to put the newly and righteously empowered male back into their so-called place.

I disagree and think Xatherine is absolutely correct here. I also got a kick out of being trivial with chicks too! Not because it made up for my overly accommodating sins in the past. But because no longer was I gonna take it!

One does NOT have to be a so-called alpha to draw a line. If anything, at moments where things don't seem right... you need to draw one more than the alpha would actually, if you really think about it. That's does not mean that you are being being difficult or rigid.

But sometimes when you think you're losing the battle to win the war where you ACTUALLY lose the motherfucking war! Don't let too many things slide, in other words. (I'm not lecturing you guys with what I just wrote in the last paragraph but myself so I remember it and continue to live by it. Signed, a recovering Nice Guy)

Originally Posted by Ace Francis

If I did not know any better, I'd think you were a female trolling the forum.

Here the guys are talking about they flipped the script. I liked how Xatherine talked about dumping chicks over trivial stuff.

This is an important part of recovery from being a FORMER nice guy/doormat. I think the perfect place of the pendulum swinging from doormat to asshole is back in the center.

But if they want to stay on the so-called "angry" side-- that's better than being a spineless doormat!

Alik, I'm not one to mince words...But like a covert female, you try to put the newly and righteously empowered male back into their so-called place.

I disagree and think Xatherine is absolutely correct here. I also got a kick out of being trivial with chicks too! Not because of made up for my sins in the past. But because no longer was I gonna take it.

One does NOT have to be a so-called alpha to draw a line. If anything, at moments where things don't seem right... you need to draw one more than the alpha would actually, if you really think about it. That's does not mean that you are being being difficult or rigid.

But sometimes when you think you're losing the battle to win the war where you ACTUALLY lose the motherfucking war! Don't let too many things slide, in other words. (I'm not lecturing you guys with what I just wrote in the last paragraph but myself so I remember it and continue to live by it. Signed, a recovering Nice Guy)

The pendulum between doormat and asshole you mention? When it comes to me the fulcrum broke and I swung past asshole and fell on fucking asshole! I just can't find it in myself to give a shit about women or anything to do with them, in fact, I like it here in fucking asshole! it's the only position that I can get along with them, otherwise I'm a fool!

I could not agree more.
My last relationshit/FwB drummed this into my head.
The sex was great, and being 15 years younger it was a huge ego boost.
Despite knowing how it would end, as AWALT and it's just your turn, it still never fails to amaze me.
More on that another time.

Originally Posted by Alik Sakharov

To just understand is hardly enough .

You better have something to show for together with your understanding . At least above average money , looks or big personality .

Its like homeless people that been through it all . They have wealth of wisdom , out of this world grasp on this world ... and yet nobody cares . And you cant come back to normal life because you have nothing .

#1..... Alik, I respectfully disagree with you on both statements. I have had below average money, very average looks, & a low key personality. Understanding can never buy money, looks, or personality, ever.

#2.....A woman forced me out of our home, thru false accusations, Which did indeed make me homeless. Today, I certainly DID come back to an ABOVE AVERAGE NORMAL life......all because of that understanding. The understanding of how cruel women can be, & to be without the precious things you, or I have worked so hard to acquire. ( & we all KNOW how cruel some men can be, men who kick you when your down, men who deceitfully engage in trickery with married women, as in my former wife, all to worship the almighty cooze, the tuna can, the wizards sleeve, the slit, the glorious hole, & have no problem stabbing another man in the back, those treacherous pua's, the alphas, the bullies )

Those experiences I would never trade in. One of the world's wisest man to live once wrote: "Wisdom is the most important thing, so acquire wisdom, And with all you acquire, acquire understanding. Highly esteem it, and it will exalt you. It will honor you, because you embrace it."
King Soloman at Prov. 4:7,8

I clawed back from being homeless & losing nearly everything, aside from my personal possessions. I didn't do it alone. Wisdom, understanding, & knowledge, (in this case of human cruelty, female cruelty) , brought me back. What's great about a comeback, is that the comeback is not a one time event. The comeback keeps expanding in ways I never knew.

So to put a wrap on this thought, my personal experiences of losing everything are the very things that did indeed bring me back, but not to a normal life, a better, richer, and enduring life.

I have the exact same block of text stored in my ever-growing mgtow.txt file. I think I found it on reddit a few years ago, back when there were only around 10-20k subscribers, and the content was much higher quality. I have a ton of gold like that saved over the years.

Originally Posted by Ace Francis

If I did not know any better, I'd think you were a female trolling the forum.

Here the guys are talking about HOW they flipped the script. I liked how Xatherine talked about dumping chicks over trivial stuff.

This is an important part of recovery from being a FORMER nice guy/doormat. I think the perfect place of the pendulum swinging from doormat to asshole is back in the center.

But if they want to stay on the so-called "angry" side-- that's better than being a spineless doormat!

Alik, I'm not one to mince words...But like a covert female, you try to put the newly and righteously empowered male back into their so-called place.

I disagree and think Xatherine is absolutely correct here. I also got a kick out of being trivial with chicks too! Not because it made up for my overly accommodating sins in the past. But because no longer was I gonna take it!

One does NOT have to be a so-called alpha to draw a line. If anything, at moments where things don't seem right... you need to draw one more than the alpha would actually, if you really think about it. That's does not mean that you are being being difficult or rigid.

But sometimes when you think you're losing the battle to win the war where you ACTUALLY lose the motherfucking war! Don't let too many things slide, in other words. (I'm not lecturing you guys with what I just wrote in the last paragraph but myself so I remember it and continue to live by it. Signed, a recovering Nice Guy)

Come on just leave it already for fuck sake .

My point was when people claim they get it about this game and MGTOW and still try to somehow make it in the plantation . And think this red pill knowledge will give them advantage .

Like confidence against exceptional looks to pick up women . Of course looks will win cause looks are for women ...and confidence is for you .

But since you know the game you dont care about winning anything .

But when you have neither that is when it becomes very hard even for yourself and if you are thinking to go into heated debate with someone it will look laughable .

There are fucking lol males that have the fucking full package that laugh at this MGTOW stuff and i would love to see a MGTOW shutting them up eye to eye .

Its easy when we pat each other on the back but wouldnt be so easy in real life .

Originally Posted by Alik Sakharov

Come on just leave it already for fuck sake .

My point was when people claim they get it about this game and MGTOW and still try to somehow make it in the plantation . And think this red pill knowledge will give them advantage .

Like confidence against exceptional looks to pick up women . Of course looks will win cause looks are for women ...and confidence is for you .

But since you know the game you dont care about winning anything .

But when you have neither that is when it becomes very hard even for yourself and if you are thinking to go into heated debate with someone it will look laughable .

There are fucking lol males that have the fucking full package that laugh at this MGTOW stuff and i would love to see a MGTOW shutting them up eye to eye .

Its easy when we pat each other on the back but wouldnt be so easy in real life .

Vast majority would crumble even against an above average woman .

Even at your job the upper management guys make your heart race every day . And they are not even close to being full package .

I sometimes see it happen even on the internet on fitness videos lol i dont know why i watch that garbage still .

Someone starts "fuck them bitches go MGTOW" and the meat heads start ridiculing them ... and always fucking make the MGTOW poster shut up . Its way too easy to do so . And that on internet .

Thats why i always say - know what you know and shut up .

Originally Posted by Alik Sakharov

Come on just leave it already for fuck sake .

My point was when people claim they get it about this game and MGTOW and still try to somehow make it in the plantation . And think this red pill knowledge will give them advantage .

Like confidence against exceptional looks to pick up women . Of course looks will win cause looks are for women ...and confidence is for you .

But since you know the game you dont care about winning anything .

But when you have neither that is when it becomes very hard even for yourself and if you are thinking to go into heated debate with someone it will look laughable .

There are fucking lol males that have the fucking full package that laugh at this MGTOW stuff and i would love to see a MGTOW shutting them up eye to eye .

Its easy when we pat each other on the back but wouldnt be so easy in real life .

Originally Posted by Alik Sakharov

Vast majority would crumble even against an above average woman .

Even at your job the upper management guys make your heart race every day . And they are not even close to being full package .

I sometimes see it happen even on the internet on fitness videos lol i dont know why i watch that garbage still .

Someone starts "fuck them bitches go MGTOW" and the meat heads start ridiculing them ... and always fucking make the MGTOW poster shut up . Its way too easy to do so .

Thats why i always say - know what you know and shut up .

You SURELY (as in SHIRLEY) sound like one ANGRY-AT-GYOW female troll to me.

Or more likely a MODERATOR'S SOCK PUPPET to me. (I see NO OTHER WAY one would get away with so many anti-male LIES/shit-posts!) SORRY, ALICE!

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Originally Posted by Ace Francis

You SURELY (as in SHIRLEY) sound like one ANGRY-AT-GYOW female troll to me.

Or more likely a MODERATOR'S SOCK PUPPET to me. (I see NO OTHER WAY one would get away with so many anti-male LIES/shit-posts!) SORRY, ALICE!

Make sure you are sober before posting .

All that booze is the most anti male thing one could do to himself .

I remember sitting at the bar and this guy (he's 50) started telling us a story about a woman that tried to rip him off...an old girlfriend. He swore he would never get married. But, he's dating one of the waitresses, and she's in her twenties. Ever hear the saying, "There's no fool like an old fool"? I'm not saying this guy is getting married again, but I'll bet she ends up pregnant. And we all know where that will take him. I quit going to that bar. I just didn't want to watch him fuck himself and then listen to all the complaining afterward. The blue pillers keep making the same mistakes and then laughing at us for not getting laid. When he's on the courthouse steps and he's just been robbed by the state, he'll be pissed with himself not us, and we do too get laid. We just don't try to set up housekeeping with one afterward. That's the difference between wisdom and knowledge.

Originally Posted by Joetech

I remember sitting at the bar and this guy (he's 50) started telling us a story about a woman that tried to rip him off...an old girlfriend. He swore he would never get married. But, he's dating one of the waitresses, and she's in her twenties. Ever hear the saying, "There's no fool like an old fool"? I'm not saying this guy is getting married again, but I'll bet she ends up pregnant. And we all know where that will take him. I quit going to that bar. I just didn't want to watch him fuck himself and then listen to all the complaining afterward. The blue pillers keep making the same mistakes and then laughing at us for not getting laid. When he's on the courthouse steps and he's just been robbed by the state, he'll be pissed with himself not us, and we do too get laid. We just don't try to set up housekeeping with one afterward. That's the difference between wisdom and knowledge.

Yep . Cause women dont just move in with you . Guys invite them . Then if they are business owners invite them to their business .

Here it very often happens that upon break up a former gf or wife demands to be paid her former salary or she goes to the tax inspection and will spill the beans about the under the table dealings .

Originally Posted by SteelEye

#1.

Those experiences I would never trade in. One of the world's wisest man to live once wrote: "Wisdom is the most important thing, so acquire wisdom, And with all you acquire, acquire understanding. Highly esteem it, and it will exalt you. It will honor you, because you embrace it."
King Soloman at Prov. 4:7,8

I clawed back from being homeless & losing nearly everything, aside from my personal possessions. I didn't do it alone. Wisdom, understanding, & knowledge, (in this case of human cruelty, female cruelty) , brought me back. What's great about a comeback, is that the comeback is not a one time event. The comeback keeps expanding in ways I never knew.

So to put a wrap on this thought, my personal experiences of losing everything are the very things that did indeed bring me back, but not to a normal life, a better, richer, and enduring life.

Even Wise King Solomon made dreadful mistakes because of his wives

Nehemiah 13:26

Did not Solomon king of Israel sin by these things? yet among many nations was there no king like him, who was beloved of his God, and God made him king over all Israel: nevertheless even him did outlandish women cause to sin.