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    Re: Pussy Recovery - it's an addiction!

    You know.....if I had more expendable funds I would buy a Doll.... I am getting so tired of painting a face and gluing wigs to my fist............ Ho Hum... :/

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    Re: Pussy Recovery - it's an addiction!

    Quote Originally Posted by Manuallaborer View Post
    The key to beating a debilitating addiction is to reach a point where your only choice is death or abstinence. "Rock Bottom".

    Wives do this to men all the time with the meat grinder of divorce.

    However, time heals all wounds if you live long enough. This explains why a man once raped in divorce court could wed a second or even third time. It also explains how a drunk could get behind the wheel of a car impaired again after previously suffering the indignity and financial hardship of a DUI.

    In my moments of weakness, I have remembered the best times of the companionship I once shared. It is only after I focus on the spiteful bitterness that developed later that I come to my senses.

    Sharing with other men that have hit the bottom and survived helps to keep me strong.

    Recovering addicts and alcoholics will have an addictive personality for the rest of their life, sober or otherwise. This can be flipped into an asset. Focusing this inherent energy on work can produce financial success. This can also lead to compulsions of other forms (pornography, prostitutes).

    As successful as I've been remaining sober, I've never made it a priority to curb my interest in pornography or women for rent. I suppose I rationalize this as the lesser of available evils. My trouble comes when I begin to wonder if I could enjoy casual sex on a continuing basis with an agreeable lady with none of the associated repercussions of a LTR.

    Of course we know this type of relationship doesn't exist outside of fantasy. And the search for the elusive can put oneself at risk of MeToo accusations.

    Maybe no-fap is the next step to enlightenment? Can anyone testify to life enhancing benefits to abstaining from ejaculating?
    I could give you links with youtubers making such claims, but I have yet to achieve it.

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    Re: Pussy Recovery - it's an addiction!

    Quote Originally Posted by pbisque View Post
    I could give you links with youtubers making such claims, but I have yet to achieve it.
    Nofap seems pointless to me. Why deny yourself the feeling of pleasure when everything in life is already attempting to deny you that?

    I've gone without for awhile, and personally just felt the build up of desire even more. Granted i only went a few weeks, but still felt pointless in the end.

    After awhile i asked myself:
    "What am i doing this for anyways?"
    "How does this make me better, or does it make me feel worse?"

    Drinking and drugs dont have to be a horrible addiction if you can practice willpower. Overabundance in all things can be harmful of course, but punching the clown doesnt seem as dangerous to me as drinking yourself into a blackout.
    In the end, i think that the best policy for most things is "Moderation is key". Otherwise, i am just a 'functioning masteurbater'!

    The drive to find love would be what most men would be suffering from, i suspect. Feelings of loneliness will come and go in life, it's just natural. Overcoming these feelings will get easier with time. Tell your heart and your dick to shut the fuck up.. your logical brain makes all the decisions from now on, or the whole system {you} gets destroyed. This was my mgtow moment before finding the community btw.
    I refuse to be a part of the Three Ring Circus: Engagement ring. Wedding ring. Suffer ring.

    You can't be king of the world if you're slave to the vag.

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    Re: Pussy Recovery - it's an addiction!

    So the Hindu world calls nofap Brahmacharya. Here is a pdf to a good book on it.

    https://25iomb2inafk28vsyu3mqxdf-wpe...-Sivananda.pdf

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    Re: Pussy Recovery - it's an addiction!

    Quote Originally Posted by pbisque View Post
    So the Hindu world calls nofap Brahmacharya. Here is a pdf to a good book on it.

    https://25iomb2inafk28vsyu3mqxdf-wpe...-Sivananda.pdf
    From what I know, Brahmacharya refers to complete celibacy, instead of merely nofap. Which means avoiding "real" sex/relationships, even if there are nawalt unicorns around.
    A clever fighter not only wins, but excels in winning with ease. His victories bring him neither reputation for wisdom, nor credit for courage. He wins his battles by making no mistakes. Making no mistakes is what establishes the certainty of victory, for it means conquering an enemy that is already defeated.

    Sun Tzu in The Art of War
    MGTOW is about making no mistakes against gynocentrism.

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    Re: Pussy Recovery - it's an addiction!

    Quote Originally Posted by mgtower View Post
    Yes, they sensed something, they're like a domesticated herbivore, they'll ignore you, and retreat when approached, but turn your back on them and they can't stand it, they think you're hiding something to eat and the next thing you know they're breathing down your neck looking to get some action!

    When their gravitational tractor beam stops working, they acknowledge it, then start adjusting it to see if they can get it working again! All the time it's you jamming the signal! The moment you give in, it's back to playing cat and mouse again, until she has you as an orbiter, then you're put on a shelf for a rainy day tampon.
    A man with freedom and free time = lots of resources. Women are like heat seeking missiles when it comes to this as they are able to read these social cues while blue pill men can't connect the dots. I guess that is why there exists women that throw themselves towards male drug dealers because of the free time and resources that they have access to.

    If men are addicted to the intimacy that men want to give to women then I suppose women are addicted to the resources that come with that exchange. But breaking away from that cycle is true to really seeing the big picture in the end. Personally speaking watching the sun rise and the sun set is a far more human cycle to experience on a day to day basis. Breathing in the crisp air, relaxing, and not letting the mind wander in a million directions. Just clear focus on the tasks ahead for the day. That is how man should live IMO.

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    Re: Pussy Recovery - it's an addiction!

    Here is a new to me nofap youtuber. Out of all the ones I've watched, I like his take on it the best. Your mileage may vary.

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EljiV2ECFkk

    Here are a few others:

    GoldJacketLuke

    Ajax is Unchained with Spirit

    Greg Strattner Jr

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    Re: Pussy Recovery - it's an addiction!

    Anthony Spade isn't a nofap youtuber per se. He has a MGTOW channel and yes he has had a bit of controversy lately because he did a few anti MGTOW videos back in the day.

    At any rate, in this video, he touches on the difference between the wall and the relative SMV of women. It is relevant to this topic because he talks about the practice of nofap done through self discipline and the sort of thing you see with forced celibacy that you see in prisons.

    Celibacy done in the absence of the associated mental work to take the pussy of the pedestal is worse than useless. It must be done concurrently with developing the discipline to think with your big head instead of the little one.


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    Re: Pussy Recovery - it's an addiction!

    I have stated before that I believe that NoFap is an ideal to reach, but I do not believe it should be enforced by oneself, rather let it come naturally.

    Applying any philosophy on a solely intellectual level brings its own problems. Denying ones emotions is just as bad as giving in to them, maybe even worse.

    Personally I don't see much of a downside to knocking one off occasionally, so long as it's occasionally and not ten times a day.

    So why would I deny myself that feel-good moment? It just doesn't make sense to me. When the desire fades, fair enough, but until then its fap fap fappity fap.
    "Do not go where the path may lead, go instead where there is no path and leave a trail." - Ralph Waldo Emerson

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