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    Purple unicorn? A very rare gem.

    Hi, I'm new and this is my first post.

    15 years ago after my divorce left me homeless and penniless, I changed my life for the better and went mgtow. For the past 10 years or more I have basically been a ghost. I don't want or trust anyone anymore, I do my own thing and can trust the few friends that I do have.
    I was out riding my dirt bike about 6 months ago and ran into another person out riding, which is weird because nobody else is usually out there. They flagged me down to come over, so I did. It was a woman!! She was alone! She asked me for directions and mentioned that she was low on fuel and had come from several miles away. I took her back to my truck, filled her fuel tank and showed her where we were on my map. We started talking and everything she said made sense to me, she is smart and has her shit together. She was cool enough that we exchanged phone numbers. Ive introduced her to mgtow and she has read "The Predatory female" by Lawrence Shannon. She agrees with both and has mentioned several times how messed up people are nowadays. After this 6 months she has become a good friend of mine. I have learned that our female counterparts have just as hard of a time with relationships as we do. In her case she always picks out the physicaly abusive asshole. She is a very good woman, takes care of herself.

    We are only friends. I am 27 years older than she is, I have no intention on trying for a relationship other than friendship with her and I'm sure she feels the same.

    (Mod note: the following paragraph is awful, awful advice. To discover just how awful, read a bit further in this thread. This trainwreck is a great example of just how easily and completely we are fooled. OP was so sure this nice young woman was different from all the rest ...)

    For me, mgtow is here to make ourselves better, to help us learn to pick out the Predatory female and avoid all the b.s. I write this because I want the younger mgtow members who might still want a relationship to know that there are some good women out there. Knowing what I know now, If I was 25 years younger I would be pursuing this young woman. I believe whoever sweeps her off her feet is going to have a very good woman. There is a shimmer of hope left in the shit house we call society. I found a rare gem, a purple unicorn so to speak. A very rare find indeed. But they do exist!
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    Re: Purple unicorn? A very rare gem.

    we know they exist. it's just risks/ rewards ratio isn't worth it.
    it's a bigger gamble. Love these days is worse than lottery.
    that's why most single men nowadays try to maximize their chances so to speak.
    (don't get married, self -improvement, some don't date, some get snipped... and more)

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    Re: Purple unicorn? A very rare gem.

    Both previous posts released from moderation only now so am bumping thread for them to be seen.
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    Re: Purple unicorn? A very rare gem.

    Quote Originally Posted by KingQuad View Post
    We are only friends. I am 27 years older than she is, I have no intention on trying for a relationship other than friendship with her and I'm sure she feels the same.

    I found a rare gem, a purple unicorn so to speak. A very rare find indeed. But they do exist!
    She's good isn't she???

    I see this as: You have shown her that she can benefit from you by keeping you as a friend. RE: Briffault's Law. She's got a tank of fuel from you, what else besides time and conversation have you invested into this "Friendship"? What has she invested besides time and a sweet smile?

    I don't believe in unicorns, I believe in chameleons....

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    Re: Purple unicorn? A very rare gem.

    Quote Originally Posted by KingQuad View Post
    Hi, I'm new and this is my first post.

    For me, mgtow is here to make ourselves better, to help us learn to pick out the Predatory female and avoid all the b.s. I write this because I want the younger mgtow members who might still want a relationship to know that there are some good women out there. Knowing what I know now, If I was 25 years younger I would be pursuing this young woman. I believe whoever sweeps her off her feet is going to have a very good woman. There is a shimmer of hope left in the shit house we call society. I found a rare gem, a purple unicorn so to speak. A very rare find indeed. But they do exist!
    As this is your first post, perhaps I should speak to our other newest members.

    A man who is wanting a relationship with a woman is what we walked away from. He is blue pill.

    Of course we do not advocate the blue pill life.

    I think the membership here is pretty solid, but if there are any registered members reading this who want a relationship with a woman, you should do the honorable thing and self-ban. If you're here, you should have walked away from emotional relationships, not looking towards them.

    What you don't want to do here is promote having emotional relationships with them. Think of it as bringing alcohol to an AA meeting.

    If a guy says he's MGTOW but only until the next relationship comes along, then I am proudly clean and sober between benders.

    No such thing as MGTOW-fluid where you anticipate redefining yourself when your one-and-only shows up. The future always remains unknown, that's still true, but be resolute right now. If you anticipate a blue pill thing in your future, if you leave that option open in your thinking, please leave us.
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    Re: Purple unicorn? A very rare gem.

    The reality is some countries are feminist where women wear the pants and some countries are macho where men wear the pants. A single guy is safer in a macho country where there are no sexual harassment complaints and men get the benefit of the doubt - Mexico, Russia and Saudi Arabia come to mind as macho countries. Feminist countries are extremely risky since men are targeted for shakedowns by lawsuits and feminists . . . English speaking countries come to mind, such as the USA, Australia or UK. Examine where you met this unicorn - Mexico or USA? How much risk are you willing to take, such as false rape accusations, sexual harassment lawsuits etc - if none, go to Mexico, Russia or the Middle East. Check out the P4P section on this blogsite for options to the Monk lifestyle . . . Oneitis is risky and it looks like you are headed down that road . . .

    Quote Originally Posted by KingQuad View Post
    Hi, I'm new and this is my first post.

    15 years ago after my divorce left me homeless and penniless, I changed my life for the better and went mgtow. For the past 10 years or more I have basically been a ghost. I don't want or trust anyone anymore, I do my own thing and can trust the few friends that I do have.
    I was out riding my dirt bike about 6 months ago and ran into another person out riding, which is weird because nobody else is usually out there. They flagged me down to come over, so I did. It was a woman!! She was alone! She asked me for directions and mentioned that she was low on fuel and had come from several miles away. I took her back to my truck, filled her fuel tank and showed her where we were on my map. We started talking and everything she said made sense to me, she is smart and has her shit together. She was cool enough that we exchanged phone numbers. Ive introduced her to mgtow and she has read "The Predatory female" by Lawrence Shannon. She agrees with both and has mentioned several times how messed up people are nowadays. After this 6 months she has become a good friend of mine. I have learned that our female counterparts have just as hard of a time with relationships as we do. In her case she always picks out the physicaly abusive asshole. She is a very good woman, takes care of herself.

    We are only friends. I am 27 years older than she is, I have no intention on trying for a relationship other than friendship with her and I'm sure she feels the same.

    For me, mgtow is here to make ourselves better, to help us learn to pick out the Predatory female and avoid all the b.s. I write this because I want the younger mgtow members who might still want a relationship to know that there are some good women out there. Knowing what I know now, If I was 25 years younger I would be pursuing this young woman. I believe whoever sweeps her off her feet is going to have a very good woman. There is a shimmer of hope left in the shit house we call society. I found a rare gem, a purple unicorn so to speak. A very rare find indeed. But they do exist!

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    Re: Purple unicorn? A very rare gem.

    No such thing as far as women

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    Re: Purple unicorn? A very rare gem.

    We know they exist. I personally know at least two. My sister and my mother.

    But guess what, they are both happily married. Mother at 19, and sister at 23. And they both married to their highschool sweethearts..

    Unicorns do exist. But they often marry to other nice-guys. And by virtue of being a unicorn, they are unlikely to divorce either.

    If you haven't found a unicorn by the age of 27-28, you will never find one.

    Not only that unicorns are rare. But also the window of finding one is also very narrow. And there are 5 times more fake-unicorns than real ones.

    This whole makes the act of searching of unicorn a 'wild-goose chase'...
    MGTOW gives you the alternative.

    Your approach to MGTOW is perfect. We dont have to shun relationships with women. As long you avoid romantic interactions and keep your relationship platonic with decent women. You can still enjoy a great life.

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    Re: Purple unicorn? A very rare gem.

    Yes, the keepers marry young and stay married, I've noticed that through out my life.

    Im only friends with her, she rides with me and sometimes my friends, she has been accepted among the group and is basically 1 of the guys now, that's not easy to do with my friends.

    About 1 week ago she found herself a new boyfriend, or victim, let's see how it plays out. She already bought him a set of tires for his SxS

    For being part of the tide pod generation, she is very modest and old school.

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    Re: Purple unicorn? A very rare gem.

    Quote Originally Posted by Unboxxed View Post
    As this is your first post, perhaps I should speak to our other newest members.

    A man who is wanting a relationship with a woman is what we walked away from. He is blue pill.

    Of course we do not advocate the blue pill life.

    I think the membership here is pretty solid, but if there are any registered members reading this who want a relationship with a woman, you should do the honorable thing and self-ban. If you're here, you should have walked away from emotional relationships, not looking towards them.

    What you don't want to do here is promote having emotional relationships with them. Think of it as bringing alcohol to an AA meeting.

    If a guy says he's MGTOW but only until the next relationship comes along, then I am proudly clean and sober between benders.

    No such thing as MGTOW-fluid where you anticipate redefining yourself when your one-and-only shows up. The future always remains unknown, that's still true, but be resolute right now. If you anticipate a blue pill thing in your future, if you leave that option open in your thinking, please leave us.
    Going off my past experiences I agree with you. There is a very good reason we are MGTOW. 99% of the women we deal with are not worthy of our time, unfortunately ill say the same about most of the men I have to deal with. That is why my social circle is so very small. Life sucks. Get over it. Better yourself. Cover you own ass. Do your own thing!

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    Re: Purple unicorn? A very rare gem.

    I had another post and tried to edit it and it deleted. Not the first time this happened. WTF??

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    Re: Purple unicorn? A very rare gem.

    Quote Originally Posted by KingQuad View Post
    I had another post and tried to edit it and it deleted. Not the first time this happened. WTF??
    I don't know what happened, but I undeleted one from you and it's above as Post #9.
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    Re: Purple unicorn? A very rare gem.

    Quote Originally Posted by KingQuad View Post
    In her case she always picks out the physicaly abusive asshole.
    Jesus Christ, KQ - run a mile.

    Option 1: she's lying. Once she's done with a man, he magically transmogrifies into an abuser.

    Option 2: she's telling the truth. She has a string of criminal psycho exes each of which is a mortal danger to any man around her.

    This whole situation is sketchy AF. Out alone? Women travel in packs, because they are timid. Running out of fuel? How often does that happen? Who goes dirt-biking on some deserted trail where people hardly ever go without double checking they have enough fuel to get back?

    For me, mgtow is here to make ourselves better, to help us learn to pick out the Predatory female
    Learning about predatory women does you no good unless you actually apply it when you meet one. They always seem nice.

    --- EDIT ---

    This thread was posted October 12. In another thread, I see this on October 21:

    Quote Originally Posted by KingQuad
    I used to think one of my friends was a unicorn. She just got a boyfriend, I can tell now that she is most definitely a gold digger. Women ARE human trash.
    https://www.goingyourownway.com/mgto...52/#post165652
    And there it fucking is. A week and a half later. Amazing. I wish I had caught this thread way earlier. Maybe it looks like I'm writing in retrospect, but STG I read the initial post on this thread just now and instantly thought the story sounded fishy.

    Even the nice ones have no honour. The nicest, most intelligent leech in the world is still a leech: they can't help it. Women live by exploiting men. It's instinctive. It's not like only "bad" women do it, it's an ineradicable part of being a woman, it comes with the package. Women can't survive on their own. They live by exploiting the labour of men. It might be done with honour in a marriage. It might be done by proxy via taxes and welfare. But men produce, women consume. Always was, always will be.

    -- EDIT 2 --

    The other thing to note - and I'm sorry to have to point this out, KQ - is just how prone we are to deceive ourselves. I'm talking about "I'm totally cool we are just platonic". If KQ was so cool they were Just Friends™, why was he so cut when she got a b/f? Why the "God, I was such a fool" bitterness? Full disclosure: I feel for you man. Been there. Maybe 'll go more into it one day. I don't blame the woman, it was my own stupid fault I broke my heart.

    If a woman is attractive and she's nice to us, we want to fuck her. 27 year age difference doesn't matter. That's kinda what "attractive" means. We like her, we want to be around her, we can't help it, and they know it. Not only do they know it, they think we are wicked and bad for feeling that way, and that that makes it fair play to take advantage of it. And they do.

    Red pill is the truth. Everything else is deception.
    Last edited by Mr Wombat; November 9, 2021 at 2:49 PM.

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    Re: Purple unicorn? A very rare gem.

    When I first read the thread, before the last post, I wondered how long it would take before a different truth appeared. Even if not intentional, it appears this "unicorn" is putting on an act to seem agreeable to men, just "one of the boys". But when it comes to closer relationships, she's picking out abusive men. Could it be she's sending a signal of being a financial provider, buying tires for a boyfriend she's only known for a week, then turning the tables and expecting a more traditional male provider? When it doesn't happen the guys turn abusive, because they acted on her signals of being a self sufficient modern woman.

    This kind of stuff seems to be happening all the time, due to the mixed up social situation. The problem for us is, the legal system is now totally supportive of the female position, and any abuse is automatically the fault of the male. Maybe the guys really are "assholes", but then why the hell is she buying them tires after a week? She isn't going to attract a provider by giving out expensive gifts way before it's appropriate. Maybe she's a gold-digger, or just totally wacked mentally. Either way the lesson is keep clear..

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    Re: Purple unicorn? A very rare gem.

    Quote Originally Posted by KingQuad View Post
    Going off my past experiences I agree with you. There is a very good reason we are MGTOW. 99% of the women we deal with are not worthy of our time, unfortunately ill say the same about most of the men I have to deal with. That is why my social circle is so very small. Life sucks. Get over it. Better yourself. Cover you own ass. Do your own thing!
    There is no “we” here. You are as blue-pilled as it gets.

    Jesus fucking Christ, this is some cringy tradcuck nonsense.

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    Re: Purple unicorn? A very rare gem.

    Quote Originally Posted by CPRA View Post
    The reality is some countries are feminist where women wear the pants and some countries are macho where men wear the pants. A single guy is safer in a macho country where there are no sexual harassment complaints and men get the benefit of the doubt - Mexico, Russia and Saudi Arabia come to mind as macho countries. Feminist countries are extremely risky since men are targeted for shakedowns by lawsuits and feminists . . . English speaking countries come to mind, such as the USA, Australia or UK. Examine where you met this unicorn - Mexico or USA? How much risk are you willing to take, such as false rape accusations, sexual harassment lawsuits etc - if none, go to Mexico, Russia or the Middle East. Check out the P4P section on this blogsite for options to the Monk lifestyle . . .
    Those “macho countries” are also the countries with the highest male suicide rates. Those are the worst countries to be a man!! And hell no, men do NOT wear the pants there. In countries like these, the women manipulate the men to do all the dirty work for them, by making them believe they are somehow in charge when they really are not.

    Please read Ester Villa’s “The Manipulated Man” to hear how this works straight from the horses mouth.

    For fuck sake, please read up on some basic MGTOW philosophy before posting. It’s really frustrating to read so much tradcuck-nonsense
    in response to the bizarre unicorn-fantasies the OP posted.

    I come here to sometimes be reminded about things myself and not to argue with people about the very basics.



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