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    Been personally attacked over on another board

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    Don't respond there - but I feel I need a bit of moral support...

    I've used the site contact page to report the personal direct attack...

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    Re: Been personally attacked over on another board

    Forums can be full of frustrated people that fail at life and self-medicate by abusing others on forums. Happened to me yesterday on another MGTOW forum. Some people have no measure, just start behaving like animals when they would never do that in person. Just ignore it and the attacker will lose interest and seek other prey.
    If you see an average human as a logical actor you might be dissapointed. If you see them as an input/output device you might not be.


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    Re: Been personally attacked over on another board

    Remember, the person abusing you is just a guy on the internet. That's the thing about the internet, unless what you say is useful, it doesn't matter. And think about it this way: What you said upset them so much in real life that they felt compelled to respond to you with a screed that will only diminish them in the eyes of any sober-minded observer.
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    I lol'd at how fast they quickly relinquished the fact that feminism in its form now is not "about being abusive/unequal". It might have been when Warren Farrell started it with that woman (whose name I forgot, as well as the term), but right now, radical feminists are the norm and not the exception. They aren't tricking anyone who knows about this subject more than the normal person, I guess there is enough proof out there both in internet and real life about the fact that femicunts say something, yet they do something else. This is a 100% politician tactic: fool the people stating something "official", yet do the exact opposite behind their backs, then deny that they were involved by bending the truth.
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    Re: Been personally attacked over on another board

    I'd say just walk away. That's what I did when I found myself arguing with a bunch of clueless women and manginas on a forum. There just isn't shit you can do with the wilfully ignorant.

    Or ignore the stupid and vicious, while continuing to make your point. If you get all riled up about, you're only hurting yourself.
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    I was surprised at how fast it happened. Group mentality and Queen Bee shit.
    All through it all was the "you just don't get it" trope.

    Oh well...

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    Re: Been personally attacked over on another board

    Quote Originally Posted by VLazarusC View Post
    I lol'd at how fast they quickly relinquished the fact that feminism in its form now is not "about being abusive/unequal". It might have been when Warren Farrell started it with that woman (whose name I forgot, as well as the term), but right now, radical feminists are the norm and not the exception. They aren't tricking anyone who knows about this subject more than the normal person, I guess there is enough proof out there both in internet and real life about the fact that femicunts say something, yet they do something else. This is a 100% politician tactic: fool the people stating something "official", yet do the exact opposite behind their backs, then deny that they were involved by bending the truth.
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    I am extremely selective on the places I will inhabit.

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    Re: Been personally attacked over on another board

    It happens on the internet. The problem is that you both donīt know each other. You donīt knwo who you are dealing with. There are people out there who get a perverted pleasure out of attacking and hurting people they donīt now. Think sociopaths.

    You will never know the true reasons why a person is attacking you online. The attacker might have a emotional connection to the subject and just want to hurt you because he sees you as pure evil or as the enemy. Happened to me sometimes on feminist forums. If you are not prepared for it, it can be quite harsh and really mess you up for a while. Later I understood that often those people are just damaged. And some of them will really try to hurt and damage you or at least scare you. (I had a heated discussion with a feminist on a forum and after that I did a screenshot of everything I wrote because she threatened to drag me to court. I can laugh about it now but at that moment it wasnīt so sunny. Of course, nothing ever happened after that incident. Never heard from her again.)

    Be carefull who you engage with. Some people are really crazy and have way too much time. And some are even crazy enough that they will try to fuck with you, just because you pissed them off.

    Never take anything they write about you personal. They donīt know you so you shouldnīt give a fuck about their opinion about you. Doesnīt matter what names they call you. Ignore it.

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    The problem is that you both donīt know each other.
    The other problem is that the 'other' can get to know Alex quite well because Alex has been careless with his online presence, if the other wanted to.
    'Crusading' was the reason given for sanction on TSOF, though there is a particularly nasty looking white-knight 'orpheo' you 'Alex' had some defenders and they may have a point in the 'crusading' thing since its easy to think that if you realise one of lifes 'truths' (true for you) its only right to share it. That itself is not true, only alienating as per the ongoing discussion within MGTOW. Google yourself once in a while and dont use your real name and photo in contentious situations.
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    Yeah - I'd been on Ship of Fools for a long time - and thought it was a safe space.
    Quite a few of them have known me for over a decade.

    Was one of the first boards I signed up to when I went live on broadband - went to Shipmeets etc back when everything was a damn sight more benign - and before the abuse surfaced again.

    And I was old-school. Back in the day when we could positively ID ourselves online without hassle.

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    I never thought I'd see the day when while trying to reclaim my life I would be classed a dissident...

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    Re: Been personally attacked over on another board

    alcockell,

    No matter what forum you are on, you are at risk for a personal attack. The odds of this increase greatly the more broader the differences of opinions that are posted. Okay if you take most of our MGTOW forums you will notice that sometimes us men will have a difference of opinion. However that difference is tempered by having a common belief. So most men on a MGTOW forum will not resort to personal attacks just because their is mutual respect for what we have been through concerning family courts, laws or even just a crazy ex-girlfriend. Without that common belief or bond then the personal attacks will become somewhat ridiculous. Now don't get me wrong, you will have some people that will not agree with you and try to state a logical retort to what you have written. However the ones that resort to personal attacks are just trying to make you loose your cool. It is an old tactic that is used to discredit someone, get them to loose their cool then most people will dismiss them. I would suggest reading the book called "The Art of War" because it clearly lays out the reasons for personal attacks such as the ones you are talking about. Now truthfully any such person attacks should just be ignored or even laughed at. I usually take great pleasure in finding a creative way of exposing the personal attack. This actually puts the attacker on the defense then. I guess you could say it is like martial arts, were instead of blocking the punch you just redirect the punch. Allowing the attackers momentum to be used against him. Only this time we are doing it with words, so this is were it pays off to be a good wordsmith.

    Some things that can help you do this or how I like to do it is something like this. I first research what I am going to talk about, for example you are talking about more men being abused by women than women being abused by men. So I would find articles or statistics to support this statement, the more independent the better. Now I will write what I want to say about "more men being abused by women" and try and present it in a neutral way, either by phrasing it as a question or even just an opinion. Now we let the ball start rolling, your first few post will probably be people just disagreeing with you, however nothing personal. You want a few of those people on their because your waiting for your knockout punch. That knockout punch comes when you get that personal attack and he challenges you. This is were we use a little bit of word kung fu on the personal attacker. We first expose the personal attack, call it out not in a mean way. Use a bit of humor to call it out, this will often get the attacker more upset than if you retorted with just facts or even calling them names back. For example,

    "The OP must be ignorant or a troll, maybe a bit of both because I find it hard to believe someone is this stupid".

    This here is a classic statement because either way it tries to paint you into a corner. So you may respond with

    "Well stating that I am either ignorant or a troll is good psychology, next time why don't you say something bad about my mom while your at it. I came up with this question because of my own personal experiences and did some research on it. This is what I had found out (link) and then I looked here (link) oh and the statistics are here (link)".

    Now by exposing your facts later rather than the beginning your are holding your ace card. Using this humor shows the attacker that his words mean nothing, if anything they are laughable. Posting the links to the facts then not only exposes the attacker, it even calls out the ones that were respectfully retorting you. By doing it this way even the most dedicated attackers will soon back off. Normally they will resort in more name calling, which again is easy to point out in a humorous way. After a few tries these attackers will leave with their tail between their legs. Remember to think of it as a debate, let the other guy make the first move. Then counter that move, use humor and facts to back yourself up. Remember you just had the last word on the last attack, that is what people will remember right now. The humor will help the people remember it tomorrow. Always pick apart that personal attack, sometimes if they get careless you can use their own words against them. However in the end you have to remember what you are dealing with. The attacker may be some guy that is praying that some broad out their will let him stiff her pussy since he was defending her. The attacker may also be another woman that is trying to show you as being out of touch or paranoid. She is doing this because she is pushing 40 and is praying her looks will hold out long enough to snag some chump that she normally would not be caught dead with so that he can pay her bills.

    When I posted on loveshack.org you would be surprised at the personal attacks that I got. I even came here to get some directions on were to find some facts to back up my statements. Even with the facts this one woman was so flustered that she tried several personal attacks on me. At the end it came down to me making some simple statements of facts. Those facts were simple and that was that I am happier and under less pressure being single. Then I had asked that if I was such a misogynist would it not be better for me to remain single then. I had exposed the fact that her argument was centered around the idea that she was upset because I chose a life without a woman at my side. By doing this I also exposed the fact that she was treating men as sub-human and that she felt I was doing wrong by not allowing a master to choose me. My one thread got over 4.5k hits on it and I forgot how many responses. So let them retort, let the personal attacks come. Be armed with your facts and humor. Then expose them for what they are. Never take a personal attack on a forum personally. I know for a fact that if you were face to face with that person they would never have the balls to make such a personal attack. Truck drivers usually call these guys "C.B. Rambo's" because they can talk tough over the C.B. however face to face they are cowards. Another thing to remember is that a lot of people who lead with personal attacks are doing so because they are trying to feel better about themselves. This is why that humor works so well, because it shows that the personal attack failed badly. If you need any help always feel free to PM me and I'll do what I can. For now just work on your humor and practice your wordsmith kung fu grasshopper.
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    mother russia has a blast to make it through....a navy bean

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    i never never lost the blast

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    high func psychic

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    I am sorry for being a blasst in your past....I will spray a USA machiine gun for you....I will wander you

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    alcockell,

    I just read that board you were posting to. Those people are fucking insane over their. The Mods and the Admin are only interested in showing everyone how much power they have (which is none). I mean really?? How old is that admin, 20? That admin reminds me of a security guard (no offense to you guys) getting his badge pinned on him the first day and thinking that he is the chief of the NYPD. I mean, WOW, that fuckstick does not even try to pretend to be professional at all.

    Okay you and I may have a bit of differences in politics. Hell I am from America and yes you may call me one of the Tea Party nuts or some crap like that. To me I just want the .gov to leave me the fuck alone, that is because their help usually either cost me a lot or cost me my freedom, neither of which I choose to give up. Truthfully I don't give a frogs fat ass how anyone else wants to live, the way I see it, that is their choice. That board is full of reason why I will never be part of a left wing party or socialist group. The very reason is (which is very obvious their) that you are free to have your opinion as long as it matches up with everyone else. There is no freedom of expression their what so ever. Now please do not get me wrong this is not an attack on your political beliefs or anything like that. It is just that I have witnessed some distasteful things over the years in my country by the left wing and I want no part of it. However really think about it and understand a few things. First off is that you have the right to your own political belief as far as I am concerned. I would encourage anyone to really think about how free your speech really is. For example you can post here that your thinking of moving in with a woman that your in love with. Most if not all would tell you that may be a bad move, they will do their best to convince you not to. However in the end, no one will take away your man card for doing so. The people on that other board went apeshit because you posted a topic that they did not agree on. They did everything they could to spin it or derail it and turn it into something that it is not. The one other guy that was posting about being raped they politely suggested that he stop posting. Mainly because as his story was coming out it was obvious that his facts were fucking up their reality. Remember free speech is not what you are told to say.

    I've posted on other sites before and some have stricter rules than others. However when someone disagrees with you the retort should be respectful and backed up with facts. Sure you will get a few that will name call and such, however you usually don't have an admin that is changing rules just for you. That turd was literally telling you that you were not allowed to post facts to back up your argument. Hell it makes me wonder if he has taken lessons from the family court systems here in the States. As you know there are thousands of forums out their to post on. Watch them a bit to see if you fit in, then join up. I mainly post here because this is a safe place for me. I know I don't have to defend myself if I state things that may be unpopular such as avoiding relationships with women. Truthfully I use to think loveshack was bad because that is about as blue pill mangina as you can get, but that forum you found.... WOW!!! I do have to admit that I did like the way you told off the admin their, that was pretty good. However don't worry, you probably made the admins day that he got to show his little power. That should make the admin of that site feel better while he is waiting outside in the car while his girlfriend is getting laid inside the house. Okay I have to go, however I would not last a second on a site like that. You did much better than I ever could. Cheers bro..
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    Re: Been personally attacked over on another board

    It's best not to engage with feminists in any forum. They're vile, miserable creatures doomed to a life of cats, Effexor, and wine (after they're finished cleaning out a husband or two). I made this mistake last night on another forum that I belonged to (past tense).

    Basically, these twats were blowing a gasket over this article on The American Conservative and accusing the author of supporting a child rapist and pedophile. I made the point that while the subject of the story did commit a crime and should do the time, that I thought that he was different than an actual pedophile since the girl discussed in the story was about 16. I also said that I thought she had at least some part to play in the whole affair, since they carried it on for months before getting caught.

    By the reactions I got, you would have thought I just strangled their favorite cat! I mean, pure venom, accusations, and hate. I got the fuck out of there. No need for that negativity in my life.


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