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    'Parasite singles': why young Japanese aren't getting married

    "Roughly a quarter of Japanese people between 20 and 49 are single, according to government data, and while people of this age routinely express a wish to get married, increasing economic pressure is making tying the knot more and more difficult

    Tokyo (AFP) - A sharply dressed crowd of Japanese singletons shuffle awkwardly around conference-room tables, exchanging small-talk and CVs in an attempt to find a marriage partner -- all of them accompanied by their parents.

    Sociology professor Masahiro Yamada from Tokyo's Chuo University told AFP that the norm of single people living with their parents until marriage means there is less immediate pressure to find a partner.

    "They think it's a waste of time to have a relationship with someone who does not meet their conditions" and can afford to wait for a better catch, he said, dubbing these people "parasite singles."

    Although long-term financial security with a husband or wife is seen as important, the difficulty of finding affordable housing adds to the incentive to stay with mum and dad, he said.

    Shigeki Matsuda, a sociology professor at Chukyo University in central Japan, blames the country's falling marriage rate on a phenomenon known as "hypergamy".
    "Japanese women tend to seek men with stable employment and education levels" higher than them, he explained.
    Anecdotal evidence from the match-making party seemed to bear this out, a small queue of women forming to exchange contact details with one of the men who, it emerged, had the highest income of the group . . . "
    https://news.yahoo.com/parasite-sing...031514178.html

    Commenters: "Young Americans are also not getting married. Economics do seem to be at the core. Young people have huge debt. Its not just huge college debt. Auto and credit card debt is out of control. Most have to rely on their parents to keep themselves financially afloat. Men and women are auditioning partners based on income and economic security. As Cyndee Lauper said, "Money Changes Everything." I find the same thing as an older single American. Every first date I have had seemed more like an IRS audit."

    "...Anecdotal evidence from the match-making party seemed to bear this out, a small queue of women forming to exchange contact details with one of the men who, it emerged, had the highest income of the group. -- yes, here in the states we call those women gold diggers.
    That's all women not just Japanese."

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    The reason I will not marry. If you marry you give control of your life to the state. From that point a judge that has no clue to your individual situations will dictate your future and attorneys will get rich."






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    Re: 'Parasite singles': why young Japanese aren't getting married

    If men start playing the same game as women, and it looks like they have, no one will ever get married in the future. When the first question a woman asks is "What is your credit rating", time to bail.
    Why should just the men take on a bucket full of debt, for a piece of tail? Seems renting is the best option.
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    Re: 'Parasite singles': why young Japanese aren't getting married

    Quote Originally Posted by CPRA View Post

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    The reason I will not marry. If you marry you give control of your life to the state. From that point a judge that has no clue to your individual situations will dictate your future and attorneys will get rich."
    Sorry if this seems to be a bit of a sidetrack, but I think this interesting.

    Attorneys, good trial attorneys (lawyers), are all about convincing a group of people that their view is the right view. They practice the art of deception and slight of hand to the highest degree almost always without incurring any penalty or even lasting stigma (for the individual that is, not the profession).

    So here's my point.

    Who do the politicians turn to before making an important announcement? Their lawyers! Why? To make sure they say nothing 'unacceptable'.

    Who do news stations rely on to make sure every word they say is 'safe' to say on air? Their lawyers.

    Who do union leaders turn to for advice on whether a case has merit? More lawyers.

    If you personally have suffered an injury, who do you turn to to see if you have a claim? Your lawyer.

    What group of people are singularly in the best position to influence almost everything in society today? Well, I'll let you answer that, I think my choice is clear.

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    Re: 'Parasite singles': why young Japanese aren't getting married

    Marriage, like higher education, is failing the cost benefit analysis for men. Well, they wanted to demonstrate their strength and independence, so all I can say is. 'You go gurls!' Far, far away from me....

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    Re: 'Parasite singles': why young Japanese aren't getting married

    Well women of all income (their look, youth and femininity) are all taking part in an auction to buy a ferrari (top LMS men) yet those who can barely afford a toyota decide to walk waiting for the next auction.

    For some reason those selling toyotas are now moving to different markets or simply parking the car in their garage....ohh and they also dont bother to show it when some woman of even lower income says that she is interested.

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    Re: 'Parasite singles': why young Japanese aren't getting married

    What basically happens in Japan is that women right off the bat make an instant judgement about your suitability. If you do not fit the requirement - you are not welcomed.

    It's actually fairer in the Far East, because you don't have to go through manipulations like dinners, drinks, LOL love and LOL intimacy and 'getting to know each other'.

    IT's easier to save money that way. Oh well, shame for Japanese women, because Japanese men must be having a great time. Free time for hobbies, saving money, reading, video games, sleep, travel and the occasional p4p.
    A mother cannot raise a boy to be a man, not because he needs a father figure; but because she favours team vagina over her own son.

    Tradcon women are the most manipulative of all kinds of women, because they infect you with false hope.
    Radfems are your best friend, because they hate you and verbalise it - that's honesty!

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    Re: 'Parasite singles': why young Japanese aren't getting married

    men and women just don't get along anymore.

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    Re: 'Parasite singles': why young Japanese aren't getting married

    Quote Originally Posted by CPRA View Post
    "

    Shigeki Matsuda, a sociology professor at Chukyo University in central Japan, blames the country's falling marriage rate on a phenomenon known as "hypergamy".
    "Japanese women tend to seek men with stable employment and education levels" higher than them, he explained.
    Anecdotal evidence from the match-making party seemed to bear this out, a small queue of women forming to exchange contact details with one of the men who, it emerged, had the highest income of the group . . . "

    https://news.yahoo.com/parasite-sing...031514178.html

    Commenters: "Young Americans are also not getting married. Economics do seem to be at the core. Young people have huge debt. Its not just huge college debt. Auto and credit card debt is out of control. Most have to rely on their parents to keep themselves financially afloat. Men and women are auditioning partners based on income and economic security. As Cyndee Lauper said, "Money Changes Everything." I find the same thing as an older single American. Every first date I have had seemed more like an IRS audit."
    Watch this educational video from Jon the Other.

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rDpqYO47J3U

    Men seek women who are young and beautiful for short term relationships, virtuous (not a slut) and with pleasing personalities for long term ones.

    Women seek men who have physicality and alpha traits for short term relationships, re$ources and pleasing personalities for long term ones.

    Of course Japanese women will gravitate to the guy with money. How can the Powers that Be breed the Japanese out of existence if the jobs will pay a man a decent enough salary so that women stop working and can afford to buy a house and have kids?

    Just 7 weeks till my next jaunt overseas. Anyone care to join me?
    Last edited by sam luis obispo; December 7, 2019 at 12:17 PM.
    An escort is a woman you occasionally financially support only when she has sex with you.

    A date is a woman you occasionally financially support in the hope she will have sex with you.

    A wife is a woman you constantly financially support even when she is not having sex with you.

    An ex-wife is a woman you constantly financially support with alimony so she can have sex......with someone else.

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    Re: 'Parasite singles': why young Japanese aren't getting married

    Quote Originally Posted by Hyaku Shiki View Post
    men and women just don't get along anymore.
    men and women just don't get along... And never did...

    Quote Originally Posted by sam luis obispo View Post
    Just 7 weeks till my next jaunt overseas. Any game to join me?
    What sea are you jumping or destination shore? If you're coming here, BYOSAB (bring your own shovel and boots) we're getting heavy rain next week, atop of this weeks nor'easter, and make sure you rent a 4X4 with power and lots of clearance, if you can, and get one with snorkel!
    Last edited by mgtower; December 7, 2019 at 12:21 PM.

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    Re: 'Parasite singles': why young Japanese aren't getting married

    Quote Originally Posted by mgtower View Post
    What sea are jumping or destination shore? If you're coming here, BYOSAB (bring your own shovel and boots) we're getting heavy rain next week, atop of this weeks nor'easter, and make sure you rent a 4X4 with power and lots of clearance, if you can, make sure it has a snorkel!
    I am leaving Sex Prison, USA, and going to where the weather is warm, the beers are cold, and the women are hot. See previous trip reports in the P4P section.
    An escort is a woman you occasionally financially support only when she has sex with you.

    A date is a woman you occasionally financially support in the hope she will have sex with you.

    A wife is a woman you constantly financially support even when she is not having sex with you.

    An ex-wife is a woman you constantly financially support with alimony so she can have sex......with someone else.

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    Re: 'Parasite singles': why young Japanese aren't getting married

    Quote Originally Posted by sam luis obispo View Post
    I am leaving Sex Prison, USA, and going to where the weather is warm, the beers are cold, and the women are hot. See previous trip reports in the P4P section.
    I like that! Sex Prison USA! It's true! Unless you want to chance STD's with these high mileage cumdumpsters that had the lids torn off long ago, full of dents, and rotted out along the entire bottom!

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    Same here! Off to Hong Kong Gentlemen's Club in Tijuana this afternoon to watch college football and strippers!

    Quote Originally Posted by mgtower View Post
    I like that! Sex Prison USA! It's true! Unless you want to chance STD's with these high mileage cumdumpsters that had the lids torn off long ago, full of dents, and rotted out along the entire bottom!

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    Re: 'Parasite singles': why young Japanese aren't getting married

    You guys are gonna get me back into womanizing, and then I'll be fucked, figuratively, literally, and actually! I'd rather go back to drinking again! No wait, that'll make my womanizing go off the charts! I'll be jailed in some foreign land facing capital offences for cultural differences!

    Now I know why my mom told me I'm in a bad crowd!

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    Re: 'Parasite singles': why young Japanese aren't getting married

    Quote Originally Posted by Hyaku Shiki View Post
    men and women just don't get along anymore.
    No, it didn't "just happen." It was part of a plan.

    Disrupting and undermining family formation in Japan and the West are part of a plan.

    Family formation allows for stability, the raising of children into based and independent citizens and not serfs, and allows serfs (whether the traditional or modern version) to elevate themselves into citizens.

    Every social engineering project since WWII has worked to undermine that. From feminism, from the transformation of the economy, to globalism, to promiscuity, to various slut/single mom/sexual minority/welfare/fat acceptance movements, to multiculturalism, to turning citizens into consumers, from savings accounts to credit cards, it was all designed to break down the family (working man, wife, non-feral children) and all the civil society organizations, so that nothing would be able to compete or eventually resist ever growing national and global governments.

    So, ask yourself, who benefits from this plan?

    It is as if someone said to themselves, "Hmmmm, the Japanese are safe, happy, industrious, and homogeneous. How can we mess with that?"
    An escort is a woman you occasionally financially support only when she has sex with you.

    A date is a woman you occasionally financially support in the hope she will have sex with you.

    A wife is a woman you constantly financially support even when she is not having sex with you.

    An ex-wife is a woman you constantly financially support with alimony so she can have sex......with someone else.

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    Re: 'Parasite singles': why young Japanese aren't getting married

    Quote Originally Posted by sam luis obispo View Post

    Every social engineering project since WWII has worked to undermine that. From feminism, from the transformation of the economy, to globalism, to promiscuity, to various slut/single mom/sexual minority/welfare/fat acceptance movements, to multiculturalism, to turning citizens into consumers, from savings accounts to credit cards, it was all designed to break down the family (working man, wife, non-feral children) and all the civil society organizations, so that nothing would be able to compete or eventually resist ever growing national and global governments.
    It goes back to the Rothschild starting rumors, cornering markets, then selling bandages and bullets to both sides. Along with that, on this side of the ocean we had the civil war, it started the industrial military complex with no stand down, 12/7/365 ready and able to engage in war, from then on it's been industrialized slaughter, along with the woman's movement against family principles that were once mutually profitable, now they're lopsided and causing men to refuse to engage.

    By my recollection we're at the 150 year mark in this altered timeline that has men depraved on a road to perdition, or escaped slaves like us that know history and marked all the social structure changes. We are by all accounts 2nd. class citizens, until we meet the challenge head on and decimate!

    Sorry ladies, the new deal is no, go fuck yourselves!

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    It's alright, everything is going great. Women are happier than they've ever been. Now instead of being oppressed by loving husbands who work 40+ hours a week at miserable jobs to support their wives who stay at home cooking and playing with children, now they get to go out and work to death too! They're so strong and empowered. Working until you die barren, childless and alone is what all young women should be striving for.

    I'm just happy to see more women doing this, because you know...they deserve it.

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    Re: 'Parasite singles': why young Japanese aren't getting married

    Quote Originally Posted by Xanthine View Post
    It's alright, everything is going great. Women are happier than they've ever been. Now instead of being oppressed by loving husbands who work 40+ hours a week at miserable jobs to support their wives who stay at home cooking and playing with children, now they get to go out and work to death too! They're so strong and empowered. Working until you die barren, childless and alone is what all young women should be striving for.

    I'm just happy to see more women doing this, because you know...they deserve it.
    The problem is, they do NOT work themselves to death. They use affirmative action to get the educations for elite professions (displacing male candidates in the process), then use affirmative action to advance in those professions (again, displacing men), and then, before they hit the wall, they decide they don't want to work like men, but want to have children like women. At that point, they find a beta provider and they waste the years and money that was spent training them to be physicians, corporate lawyers, etc.
    Last edited by sam luis obispo; December 14, 2019 at 12:55 AM.
    An escort is a woman you occasionally financially support only when she has sex with you.

    A date is a woman you occasionally financially support in the hope she will have sex with you.

    A wife is a woman you constantly financially support even when she is not having sex with you.

    An ex-wife is a woman you constantly financially support with alimony so she can have sex......with someone else.


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