Are they really into it to begin with? Maybe they just list it to attract men and then when they have to talk about it they are lost so they run away? It's like women who say they like computer games, do they really? Maybe some, but I don't think they all are genuine.
They also impregnate a lot of women and are expected to pay for their kids. I agree as people age their tatts and weird piercings go from looking "edgy" to "loser". Middle aged and older women are the worse. The saggy skin, the now blue tattoo of their babies face or name.