Thread: My husband is died in the war five minutes ago I'm destroyed and alone again

Nowdays, I find it hard to tell whether women are joking or really expressing how they feel. The title of the thread is something I just saw on Facebook, posted by one of my Facebook "friends" (I don't know her personally): https://www.facebook.com/antonella.manca.790

If she is not joking (and I hope she is - how can you find out of somebody's death in war 5 minutes after they die?), 5 minutes after her husband's death, her main concern is not about him dying, but about how his death affects her personally, and herself being alone. I guess that's what Hillary Clinton understood when she pandered to women about women having always been the primary victims of war.

That reminds me of my own mother 37 years ago, after my father shot and killed one of our neighbors. She seemed less concerned about him rotting in prison, and was instead bitching about him having "created us enemies" (even though all my father did was respond to a neighbor who basically asked for it). What she was concerned about was how that affected her, and probably her children.

On a related note, Rollo Thomassi had an article or paragraph addressed to men who believe in oneitis, reporting the numerous women who report that the years after their husband died were the best in their lives, as they started going out to dance and socialize much more than they used to. It shows how strong their bond was to their husband in the first place.

Originally Posted by Abdenour

Nowdays, I find it hard to tell whether women are joking or really expressing how they feel. The title of the thread is something I just saw on Facebook, posted by one of my Facebook "friends" (I don't know her personally): https://www.facebook.com/antonella.manca.790

If she is not joking (and I hope she is - how can you find out of somebody's death in war 5 minutes after they die?), 5 minutes after her husband's death, her main concern is not about him dying, but about how his death affects her personally, and herself being alone. I guess that's what Hillary Clinton understood when she pandered to women about women having always been the primary victims of war.

That reminds me of my own mother 37 years ago, after my father shot and killed one of our neighbors. She seemed less concerned about him rotting in prison, and was instead bitching about him having "created us enemies" (even though all my father did was respond to a neighbor who basically asked for it). What she was concerned about was how that affected her, and probably her children.

On a related note, Rollo Thomassi had an article or paragraph addressed to men who believe in oneitis, reporting the numerous women who report that the years after their husband died were the best in their lives, as they started going out to dance and socialize much more than they used to. It shows how strong their bond was to their husband in the first place.

In history mostly men died and the women were left alive. These women went out to find new men to leech off, pretty much like a parasite, because men changed in women's life they didn't need to bond to men. Women were the same, are the same, and will be the same. A good example would be for what it's like for a woman to lose a man: it's like for a stockholder to see her company ruined, she will be mad because of the time, effort put in it and the loss of resources.

Originally Posted by Mr. Fenrir

In history mostly men died and the women were left alive. These women went out to find new men to leech off, pretty much like a parasite, because men changed in women's life they didn't need to bond to men. Women were the same, are the same, and will be the same. A good example would be for what it's like for a woman to lose a man: it's like for a stockholder to see her company ruined, she will be mad because of the time, effort put in it and the loss of resources.

Men's analog of the title of this thread: My employer went bankrupt five minutes ago, and now I am devastated and unemployed again.

Originally Posted by Abdenour

Men's analog of the title of this thread: My employer went bankrupt five minutes ago, and now I am devastated and unemployed again.

Let me add on little item; " and now my pension and my lifetime medical is gone."

That is a little more how a woman sees her man dying on her. If she is older and has sons she will immediately start to transfer the responsibility for caring for her onto one or more of them. If she is younger she will still keep those sons as a backup, but will be out shopping for a replacement host before the funeral is over. Many men (of questionable morals, no judging) have reported that funerals are easy spots for a quick lay, and the widow is usually the easiest.

Originally Posted by Abdenour

Men's analog of the title of this thread: My employer went bankrupt five minutes ago, and now I am devastated and unemployed again.

Yeah.. I once read a book about "men's studies" and it asked "is losing one's job 'rape' for men??"
(two words about that.... good question.. I did feel a bit "violated" when I got downsized from my last full-time position... although I have placed an indefinite boycott of their products.. I figure if I'm not worthy of working for them, they are never going to be worthy of my money)