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    Thumbs up My brother's unicorn wife isn't as good as he made her out to be

    Once again reality confirms what I have always anticipated. My brother's wife is destroying him.
    Back when he was dating her 10 years ago when they were both high school classmates she would sleep all day and stay up all night. She would eat fast food paid by my brother.

    Then, they got married and she has a kid and guess what? She's too lazy to raise up her daughter.
    She calls my brother all the time crying, telling him she wants to commit suicide etc because she can't bear hearing the little baby cry anymore. What is my brother supposed to do?

    She's just as lazy as she was when she was a high schooler.

    My brother is also hustling all day doing side gigs like selling products to people. I always go with him. He deals with obnoxious customers, scammers and people who don't even bring the money they agreed upon on the product. He also works a 9 to 5 job.

    He spends 98% of the day working. Just to finance his wife's sloth lifestyle.

    She constantly calls him and tells him to order her some expensive fast food takeout, and guess what? She only cooks once a week.
    My brother used to beat me up when I talked badly of her back when he dated her.

    Now he keeps calling my mother complaining of his wife and her family's drama everyday, saying how if it's not for his daughter he would instantly divorce his wife. But then he would have to pay 18 years of child support whilst losing the custody of his daughter.

    Ironically she's a snob whilst being from a low class section of society. All her family members are broke taking loans they never pay.

    She acts like she has transcended cooking, raising her daughter or getting a job. She was too broke to study in university so my brother stole money from my father's account to pay for her tuition. And now she doesn't want to work at all because she'd rather sit at home and watch TV and eat fast food all day.

    My brother keeps calling my mother and he speaks about how they're always fighting because my brother can't keep up with her demands and my brother always says "she never did anything for me, whereas I paid for her education, food, lifestyle and pamper to her all day".

    My brother missed out on many opportunities because of his wife. He had the opportunity to work a $5000 a month job overseas but he couldn't take her with him. Someone else got the job and now he makes $600 a month and 99% of that is spent on his unsatisfied wife.

    My brother is in the habit of parasiting on other people's cash to maintain his lifestyle and I already anticipate that he's going to latch on me when I get a job and I am not paying a dime to finance some woman's lifestyle and this is going to mean that down the line I will have to cut my relationship with my brother and minimize contact with him.

    I also realized that my brother keeps tabs on my life. When I eat fast food, or wear some new clothes he starts making passive aggressive comments about how I get to get new clothes, etc whilst my father doesn't give him $300 a month to spend on his wife. I have to literally hide what I eat/wear so he doesn't demand more money from my father.

    I never understood why my brother put her on a pedestal. She's neither pretty, loyal or good. She's anopportunist who sucks my brother dry and acts like she's a Goddess that has transcended any responsibilities she ought to perform just because she's a kweeeeen.

    I can't wait till I have the financial means to move out and not hear of her name ever again. I can't believe that I live in a third world country where the social settings force me to be dictated by the whims of some bitch that I never invited in my life. I can't believe I have to appear "poor" infront of my brother so he doesn't get angry for not financing his wife's slothery. My brother literally thinks he is entitled to taking 90% of what my father makes so he could spend it on his sloth wife.
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    Re: My brother's unicorn wife isn't as good as he made her out to be

    Take action, stop complaining, break the cycle.
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    Re: My brother's unicorn wife isn't as good as he made her out to be

    Run away, run away!
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    Re: My brother's unicorn wife isn't as good as he made her out to be

    Feed her as much McDonalds as you can and buy her a case of soda every week! Feed that bitch grease, sugar, and starch until her heart POPS! Then live in peace, prosperity, and happiness.
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    Re: My brother's unicorn wife isn't as good as he made her out to be

    Dude, what kinda fucked up country AND society do you live in? Seriously, do tell. I’d make sure I never even take a piss while I’m flying in a plane above that shithole, lest it comes back to bite me in the ass later.

    I suspect you’re very young. As others have duly suggested, RUN!!

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    Re: My brother's unicorn wife isn't as good as he made her out to be

    This sounds A LOT like my ex-wife. She was so effing lazy. It was after discovering this that I decided not to have kids with her. She would have devolved to this for sure.

    The sooner he gets out, the sooner he can find contentment. Seriously. Like the others have said, he needs to run.

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    Re: My brother's unicorn wife isn't as good as he made her out to be

    Hate to say it, but in order to get away from the situation you’ll have to move far away, so people can’t visit.

    You need to protect yourself from these aggressive parasites. They’re terrible.

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    Re: My brother's unicorn wife isn't as good as he made her out to be

    My father was the elder of the bunch (5 boys and 5 girls), and he hated all the manipulations and grudges among his sisters and mother. He started working as a doctor in the '60s, and as soon as he could, he accepted a job at the other side of the country; not for the money but to keep himself away from the drama.

    The saddest part is that even today his side of the family is split, with all the surviving sisters living together while the brothers rarely visit them. Oddly enough, none of the sisters got married!!

    So, keep yourself out of the drama, save as much as you can, and move out of that home as soon as possible. Once you can have your own place, live by your rules.

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    Re: My brother's unicorn wife isn't as good as he made her out to be

    You mentioned in another post your father was helping you through school. I hope you don't have long to go; your brother would no doubt clean you out if he could.

    There's two ways to deal with your brother when you get out of school. When he try's his help me out line, tell him plain that real family's a two-way street and he don't qualify. He'll then repent and say he'll change, but he won't. It'll be a constant battle, and like ants at a picnic, they never give up. When he finds out you're not going to be an ATM, he'll then try to get your father to ask you for help and get your money that way.

    When you get that diploma, the best thing for you would be to move far away. The trouble with this plan is your brother would really go after your father then. Especially when he finds his brothers not going to be a sucker like the rest of the family. If your parents are going to need your help, I guess you're stuck, for a while at least. But if your parents are safe from your brothers dickery and can get by without you, I'd move so far away your brother couldn't visit if he wanted.

    In America your brother would likely be as bad as his wife, and both would expect a free ride.
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    My father never contacted me once. I only met him because I went to see him, once. My mother popped out as many kids as possible, at very specific and strategic points, to trap her 2nd husband, which ultimately failed. When one set was getting ready to leave the nest, she popped out the second set, dooming them all to desperate lives.

    After her divorce, she bragged that she then found a doctor who fraudulently put her on disability and has lived off the taxpayers for over 25 years. She lies pathologically. You can't believe a word she says. She gaslights me straight to my face. She's the most despicable person I've ever personally met. She all but abandoned her younger children, with the state belatedly stepping in to finish them off.

    She tried unsuccessfully that entire time to enslave another husband and, although marrying a few more, never succeeded in doing so. The subsequent marriages always ended shortly after commencement, with the men wisely fleeing their sudden postnuptial abuse and financial exploitation. I don't know how she manged to con these men into marriage, but I'm guessing there was a whole lot of deception/manipulation involved.

    My mother has no idea how much I understand her pathology. Never tell a sociopath you know they're a sociopath. Just get as much distance between you and them as possible and limit, to the extent possible, any further communication.

    Another sister married the wealthiest guy she could find and she cheated on him constantly, pretending to visit family when she was really schtooping her bad-boy lovers. I doubt any of her children were sired by her actual husband. She took a whole lot of money from that guy and, post-divorce, is still fleecing him today. Of the female sociopaths in my family, she is undoubtedly the most successful.

    Another sister took queues from my mother and followed her path, identically. She too began living off the taxpayers at a relatively young age - through welfare fraud - and that's where she'll remain for the rest of her life.

    My younger brothers, due to the neglect and abuse they suffered all of their lives, have spent most of their own lives in prison. Both will likely die homeless and/or via suicide. Society takes care of its women. Their men? Not so much. Men are the disposable utilities and human sacrifices of women and their state pimps/violence proxy.

    Out of 7 family members, I'm the only one that became self-sustaining. All of the others, in one form or another, became wards of the state. My family scares me more than just about any other entity, even more than the mainstream media and US Government, which also frighten me substantially, so I avoid them all like the plague. I take great care to ensure I don't live anywhere near them. If one of them moved close by, I'd move to another state.

    Love. Family. Friends. Very often, they can and will become your worst nightmares. Fortunately for me, I've been able to keep them all at bay.

    I wish you the same good fortune. Don't let them ruin your life, because if you do, they will, without hesitation.

    Until they completely destroy your life, ignorance and self-delusion are sheer bliss.

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    Re: My brother's unicorn wife isn't as good as he made her out to be

    My father's parents were crap. The old man did the world a favor and died early. Grandma lived on but my father never forgave her. We lived far enough away that I never saw her more than two or three times and I'm sure it wasn't by accident. Sometimes moving is the best call.

    A pal's mother and his stepfather used to follow him round the country from state to state, sponging off him all the way. They weren't much different than your brother, but they did get old and die.
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