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    From Best Of MGTOW: Study: Women rejected by an Atractive Man more likely to Reject other Men

    Source: https://www.goingyourownway.com/mgto...e-reject-6178/


    http://www.dailymail.co.uk/sciencete...cruel-men.html

    This is becoming a trend. MGTOW theorizes it well before science catches up. We've talked about Alpha Widow syndrome. The tendency of carouselers to displace their anger on 80%'ers. So many times. A summary which includes both these is here. From the study:

    It’s the plotline of many a cheesy rom-com: Woman rejected by a good-looking lothario is scooped up by the Average Joe who’s been waiting in the wings all along.But in real life it may be a very different story, according to a study.
    Researchers found that, rather than being grateful for the fall-back option, being rejected by an attractive man actually makes a woman more likely to turn down an unattractive one, and to describe him harshly.

    It is as if distancing herself from the unattractive man helps her retain the idea that she is high status, cushioning the blow of the rejection.
    ‘Participants rejected by the attractive man also derogated the unattractive man even when the unattractive man offered acceptance,’ said the psychologists from the University of Toronto.

    For the study, researchers recruited 126 single women and created dating profiles for them.
    The participants were told that these profiles would be viewed and evaluated by two men that they could potentially meet at the end of the experiment.
    They then read the two men’s profiles (which had actually been written by the researchers); one had a photo of an attractive man attached, while the other was paired with a photo of an unattractive man.


    Afterwards the women were told whether the men were interested in meeting them or whether they had turned them down.


    Writing in the Journal of Social Psychological and Personality Science the researchers said:

    ‘Participants who were rejected by one of the men distanced themselves from and derogated him as indicated by less interest in meeting him and lower ratings of attractiveness, responsiveness, and romantic appeal compared to those in the acceptance and control conditions.


    ‘Of greatest interest, participants who were rejected by the attractive man were also relatively uninterested in meeting the unattractive man and derogated him even when he was accepting.’

    The scientists try to rationalize this somehow as justifiable by the woman. But it what it leaves out is her subsequent response to an 80% man also has to do with her generalizing her ill will towards men in general; displacing her anger. It also is a product of her insecurity as opposed to some well-conceived plan. In fact it is entirely sub-optimal for our modern civilization. Which is why these kinds of behaviors were 'written over' by traditionalism. With regression, women fall back to instinctual behaviors that are maladaptive towards modern times; they could be happy today with a man of equivalent SMV but in the jungle that was a no-no; top 6% or nothing. So again, modern female behavior unmoored by traditionalism is anachronistic but I would give science a few years to figure out what we already have.

    Anyhow, I credit science for doing some catch-up. I look forward to 10 years from now when they've covered most of our other theories on female behavior. But by then, we'll also have fleshed out many more relationship/mate-selection concepts by then.
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    Re: From Best Of MGTOW: Study: Women rejected by an Atractive Man more likely to Reject other Men

    ‘Derogating and avoiding affiliation with the unattractive man may have enabled rejected individuals to psychologically distance themselves from the stigma of being associated with unattractive others.’
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    Re: From Best Of MGTOW: Study: Women rejected by an Atractive Man more likely to Reject other Men

    Anyhow, I credit science for doing some catch-up. I look forward to 10 years from now when they've covered most of our other theories on female behavior.
    I hope so but I fear science is not behind the curve, but rather regressing. We see this most clearly with, for example, claims that "gender is a social construct". Every now and then a study like this comes up; one that skims around the edge of red-pill knowledge but dare not follow the evidence through to its logical conclusion.

    I don't think the modern establishment, both academic and political, will allow truly scientific analysis of female behaviour.

    Still, it makes for interesting reading.

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    Re: From Best Of MGTOW: Study: Women rejected by an Atractive Man more likely to Reject other Men

    I'll add to that it starts in early childhood without a stable male role model, men are no longer considered part the household, we're disposable, one after another, man after man, a long train of men and more than one father in a bastard brood of children. They can thank all the changes made over several generations that delivered us to such a gruesome timeline.
    I chose none and abstinence for sound logical reasons, not because I was angry or hurt, because I rationalized and hashed it all out and sifted through the ashes for all the evidence I needed.
    It was the wisest thing I ever did in my entire life, otherwise I wouldn't be here typing what I type.
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    Re: From Best Of MGTOW: Study: Women rejected by an Atractive Man more likely to Reject other Men

    That study you posted reads like a fucked up version of The Dating Game.
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    Re: From Best Of MGTOW: Study: Women rejected by an Atractive Man more likely to Reject other Men

    In the long run the 40-some year old single mothers waiting for their Prince Perfect are in similar boat. But instead of rejection from a man, they nurse the rejection of mother nature. It's an eternal pain every woman has to learn (i.e. develop delusions) to cope with.
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    Re: From Best Of MGTOW: Study: Women rejected by an Atractive Man more likely to Reject other Men

    Quote Originally Posted by Joetech View Post
    That study you posted reads like a fucked up version of The Dating Game.
    That gave me a stroke of genius!

    Lets start a MGTOW TV show and call it the Hating Game! Where male contestants tell how shitty their date was and why it was so shitty? We'll pin bodycams on them for reference and dub in the man's thoughts and let each man narrate!
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    Re: From Best Of MGTOW: Study: Women rejected by an Atractive Man more likely to Reject other Men

    Quote Originally Posted by BilBoRing View Post
    In the long run the 40-some year old single mothers waiting for their Prince Perfect are in similar boat.
    There is their problem right there: They are looking for the wrong person. They should be looking for Princess Perfect instead! Why? Because:

    A. Women deserve the best.
    B. Women are wonderful (i.e., the best).

    Therefore, women deserve each other. Furthermore,

    C. women need men like a fish needs a bicycle;
    D. sexual orientation is a product of the Patriarchy™.

    It follows, then, that women should date and marry each other, and forget about men already.

    There, a man is solving their problems again. Free of charge, out of the depth of my heart. Well, there is one problem left:

    E. Women want protection and provision more than sex.

    How a woman can get protection and provision from another woman without harboring astronomical levels of resentment over the fact that she also has to provide protection and provision to the other woman is a catch-22. They should probably break out of it by turning to Big Daddy Government. There, I did it again—another problem solved.

    Did I say Daddy? I meant Big Mommy Government, because

    F. Men are toxic and should be exterminated.

    But how can women reproduce on their own? And how can a female-only society get protection and provision without harboring exponentially rising levels of resentment over the fact that it also has to provide protection and provision at the same time? Both of these problems can easily be solved by women evolving to be self-fertilizing androgenous creatures living harmoniously ever after in the tender lap of Mother Nature.

    Damn, I should charge cupcakes for my services.

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    Re: From Best Of MGTOW: Study: Women rejected by an Atractive Man more likely to Reject other Men

    I would like to add the power of hero emulation to this. What I mean is this:

    Average SMV woman believes she's beautiful and deserving of chad;
    She gets rejected repeatedly by chads;
    She comes to believe this is how truly desirable people behave;
    She is desirable (in her head anyway) therefore this is how she should act!
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