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    Question Why do married men try to set you up with a woman?

    There is an unhappily married man (his admission) trying to set me up with a girl. What the hell!? Are they just jealous of my 'single-ness' and trying to get me to join their misery? Why would married men do this?

    Have you guys experienced this?
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    Re: Why do married men try to set you up with a woman?

    They do it for the same reason a crack-head or heroin junkie wants you to join them, because misery loves company.
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    Re: Why do married men try to set you up with a woman?

    Quote Originally Posted by Macavity View Post
    an unhappily married man (his admission)
    I could understand why a happily married man would do this. But he admits he is unhappily married.

    Can/did you ask him?

    I've let such opportunities slip by me years ago but if you can ask him, let us know what he says.
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    Re: Why do married men try to set you up with a woman?

    Quote Originally Posted by mgtower View Post
    ... because misery loves company.
    Took the words right out of my mouth.

    Perhaps it's a natural response, when one realizes that one is in a shitty, inescapable situation; drag a few others down to your level to alleviate the loneliness.
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    Re: Why do married men try to set you up with a woman?

    Quote Originally Posted by Macavity View Post
    There is an unhappily married man (his admission) trying to set me up with a girl. What the hell!? Are they just jealous of my 'single-ness' and trying to get me to join their misery? Why would married men do this?

    Have you guys experienced this?
    It happens all the time.

    They argue that despite the troubles it is worth it and that I am missing out. Jokes on them.

    Honestly if the goal is to be laid you don't need marriage for that and that is often a belief coming from older tradcons. But younger men that are married believe they are superior than you in social status. So, in their pea brains they believe they are helping you out by climbing the social ladder.

    In reality men that are single are higher on the social ladder. Women know this, most "alpha" men know this. But the rest of the men that are drones simply. do. not. understand. Only advantage of being married as a man is social proof to other women which fades as soon as you are seen carrying around a woman's hand bag.

    Entertainment industry has really done a number on what was common knowledge many years ago.

    Clueless indeed.

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    Re: Why do married men try to set you up with a woman?

    Quote Originally Posted by mgtower View Post
    They do it for the same reason a crack-head or heroin junkie wants you to join them, because misery loves company.
    I was going to use the same analogy but with a more common substance.....tobacco. They start with "I only smoke at weekends" and quickly end up full time addicted. But they still try and recruit you as a teenager despite the fact they can't give up and it's costing them loads of money. It's like they know it's wrong and not how they thought it would be so it makes them feel better if "everyone's" doing it.
    Men are becoming MGTOW by the millions, most without ever having heard the term. They are simply doing what all living organisms finding themselves in a toxic environment do. They adapt to it or remove themselves from it. Females are not liking either the adaptations or the removal.

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    Re: Why do married men try to set you up with a woman?

    Potential reasons
    1) His wife pushed him to ask you. His wife is trying to get her friend hitched, thus the GF will owe his wife
    2) Maybe if you had a wife/gf then the 4 of you could socialize
    3) Misery loves company, rather than jealousy

    In my experience, the only men that tried to set me up, it was with a homely daughter. Other than that, its always been women

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    Re: Why do married men try to set you up with a woman?

    I think there's a "validation factor" at work here as well. It's the false belief that if lots of people around you are doing something, then it must be right -- or at least be okay. Or at least be "not stupid." And then you don't look like a fool for doing it. So, the more people doing it, the better for one's own validation. It's just another form of relativism.

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    Re: Why do married men try to set you up with a woman?

    Quote Originally Posted by kru-kut View Post
    I think there's a "validation factor" at work here as well. It's the false belief that if lots of people around you are doing something, then it must be right -- or at least be okay. Or at least be "not stupid." And then you don't look like a fool for doing it. So, the more people doing it, the better for one's own validation. It's just another form of relativism.
    Every human interaction is encased by a thing we call "law".
    Take into consideration "law" is now groomed and trimmed way the lawmakers see fit while these same lawmakers are blinded by their own bigotry and ignorance.

    The law has been commandeered to scrub natural law away, making masculinity illegal and punishable in every facet and location.

    It's like making a law that breathing is illegal, then collecting fines and imposing prison sentences for simply being natural by breathing. This is the new altered reality and altered state we live in, masculinity is treated like a beast while all the ills and woes of female nature are getting a free pass to act naturally, to follow their instincts, to make laws to enforce their warped beliefs.

    A man walks alone in this valley of legal death and destitute desperation, otherwise we deceive ourselves and pay a terrible price for our nature.

    Life is dictated by nature's irrefutable laws, at the same time society's laws have warped into and subjected to mountains of gynocentric legislation undermining any footing or chance for masculinity to survive under these hostile and aggressive conditions.

    Punching your MGTOW ticket is the only hope of being at peace and preservation where culture is at war with nature.

    I've been off that battlefield and living in peace with tranquility for 24 years, this is home to me and I can't surrender or give it up! I'll live a thousand years like this before I'll surrender to gynocentrism and the poison it represents!
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    Re: Why do married men try to set you up with a woman?

    You know, something just occurred to me: I've had more (married) women than men try to fix me up with women. Furthermore, those single women were so wrong for me it was ludicrous.

    What was the common thread? They all worked with me, so they knew the positions I held paid well.

    And there you have it.

    (I can hear everyone on this forum, saying, "Of course...")

    What's scary is that at the time I was so stupid (or trusting -- however you want to put it) not to see the subterfuge at work.

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    Re: Why do married men try to set you up with a woman?

    Quote Originally Posted by kru-kut View Post
    You know, something just occurred to me: I've had more (married) women than men try to fix me up with women. Furthermore, those single women were so wrong for me it was ludicrous.

    What was the common thread? They all worked with me, so they knew the positions I held paid well.

    And there you have it.

    (I can hear everyone on this forum, saying, "Of course...")

    What's scary is that at the time I was so stupid (or trusting -- however you want to put it) not to see the subterfuge at work.
    Examine the criteria that enables the entire man exchange, it's the symp and pussy beggars that add to our overall disposibility, female pandering and the willingness of men to dive on available pussy drives the entire exchange and lowers our market value to nothing.

    It's rigged exchange and thank the beggars and symps for its ruination. Any decent self respecting man will surly walk away for the sake of self preservation.
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    Re: Why do married men try to set you up with a woman?

    Quote Originally Posted by mgtower View Post
    Examine the criteria that enables the entire man exchange, it's the symp and pussy beggars that add to our overall disposibility, female pandering and the willingness of men to dive on available pussy drives the entire exchange and lowers our market value to nothing.

    It's rigged exchange and thank the beggars and symps for its ruination. Any decent self respecting man will surly walk away for the sake of self preservation.
    My story was worse than this! My mothers friend actually had a young 21 female attractive nurse over. When she was drunk she asked her if she wanted to meet her son. She actually took the girl up to my bedroom. I saw the girl was drunk and I immediately asked them both to leave. I am pretty sure I saved myself from a potential rape allegation or sexual harassment.

    That being said my new strategy is just to invent a wife and buy a wedding ring on my finger. It ends all discussion.

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    Re: Why do married men try to set you up with a woman?

    Alcohol.

    As if mankind didn't already have enough issues.

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    Re: Why do married men try to set you up with a woman?

    Quote Originally Posted by ShogunRonin View Post
    My story was worse than this! My mothers friend actually had a young 21 female attractive nurse over. When she was drunk she asked her if she wanted to meet her son. She actually took the girl up to my bedroom. I saw the girl was drunk and I immediately asked them both to leave. I am pretty sure I saved myself from a potential rape allegation or sexual harassment.

    That being said my new strategy is just to invent a wife and buy a wedding ring on my finger. It ends all discussion.
    When they don't know your name, address, or who you are, then it's okay to fuck their brains out, as long as you slip back into the foggy darkness. I fucked drunk chicks and didn't know their names or where they were from. My buddy and I fucked two drunk chicks behind a tobacco barn in Connecticut and nobody new anybody's name, just two drunk dudes fucking two drunk chicks behind a tobacco barn at 3:00AM.
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    Re: Why do married men try to set you up with a woman?

    He asked directly, "Don't you want a child?" I said I'd need a wife first before I had a child. (He had a child out of wedlock so he was pressured to marry the girl.) He was very unhappy when he heard of a nerdy hobby I had continued doing (girls hate such hobby haha).

    He has expressed glee when a co-worker thought something was wrong with his girlfriend ("Maybe she's pregnant!").

    It does seem like he wants me to knock some girl up just so I'd be as miserable as he is.
    They intentionally say what we 'ought' to do instead of what we could do. For if the lion discovers his own strength, he will become uncontrollable.

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    Re: Why do married men try to set you up with a woman?

    Quote Originally Posted by Macavity View Post
    It does seem like he wants me to knock some girl up just so I'd be as miserable as he is.
    Yeah, it sounds like he doesn't want to feel like he is uniquely stupid.
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    Re: Why do married men try to set you up with a woman?

    I didn't think "happily married" men exist. If they say or show they are, its a façade.

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    Re: Why do married men try to set you up with a woman?

    Quote Originally Posted by Jesse Custer View Post
    I didn't think "happily married" men exist. If they say or show they are, its a façade.
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    Re: Why do married men try to set you up with a woman?

    Quote Originally Posted by ShogunRonin View Post
    That being said my new strategy is just to invent a wife and buy a wedding ring on my finger. It ends all discussion.
    Be aware of the concept of pre selection, a lot of women will have the fantasy of trying to steal you from your "wife".
    Men are becoming MGTOW by the millions, most without ever having heard the term. They are simply doing what all living organisms finding themselves in a toxic environment do. They adapt to it or remove themselves from it. Females are not liking either the adaptations or the removal.

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    Re: Why do married men try to set you up with a woman?

    Quote Originally Posted by stanmsl View Post
    Be aware of the concept of pre selection, a lot of women will have the fantasy of trying to steal you from your "wife".
    Yeah pre-selection is a very strong force. I went MGTOW back when I was 24 (10 years now) and thankfully I am no longer aesthetically pleasing enough for women to chase.


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