Thread: The Four Marriage Questions

"For the young ones… and the mature, as needs be…Many people marry for the wrong reasons and end up single, often with obligations, and holding a cynical view of love and relationships. But a short, simple test can help guide you toward what a successful marriage may look like.
If you and your potential spouse can both answer “yes” to most or all four of these questions, then you may end up with a great marriage. Of course, there are no guarantees. Life always has a way of surprising us.
Ask yourself each question. Can you say yes to each?
1) If this person stays just as he or she is for the rest of his or her life, would that be OK? . . . "
Full article: https://ricochet.com/926351/the-four...age-questions/





Typical comments:
"5. Do you realize that all women are crazy?


Let me be the first to say it: MEN, DO NOT GET MARRIED. IT’S NOT WORTH IT.

I tell the younger guys at work..... Go to a bar, find a woman that hates your guts, buy her a car and a house, then give her half your pay for the next twenty years and you’ll save money not having to pay attorneys fees.

Do not marry a woman with more than two sisters. My wife has six sisters, it's like the GEICO commercial with the couple who has an aunt problem.
We moved 600 miles so my wife could "spread her wings". Within a few years, 3 of her sisters moved near us. For a time, two were living just a couple of blocks away from us.
They take so much of my wife's time, on the phone, or needing help in some form or fashion.


It’s always been my attitude that a man marries a woman for who she is, while a woman marries a man so she can mold him into what she wants . . . "

Originally Posted by CPRA

"It’s always been my attitude that a man marries a woman for who she is, while a woman marries a man so she can mold him into what she wants . . . "

and when she's changed him and split him off from his friends, family and support network, complain he isn't the man she fell in love with and divorce him.

An interesting article, especially from the blue-pill / trad-con perspective.

Not to disparage the post, these things need to be looked at also.

So, the originator of the article seems to say that the perfect marriage is possible:

The daughter answered “no” to all four.

She canceled the wedding, and in two years she married a wonderful man. And they now have three beautiful children.

So far, so good. And I’m sure the children are indeed beautiful and happy.

But what of the man, the husband? Where is his say?

Originally Posted by Jackoff

But what of the man, the husband? Where is his say?

If he's lurking here, he's saying; "I wish I did what Tower did, he's light as a feather when it comes to carrying responsibility".

Originally Posted by Jackoff

But what of the man, the husband? Where is his say?

The husband? What does he matter? As they say in that world, "Happy wife, happy life." There are no other concerns.

Originally Posted by WheelBarrow

The husband? What does he matter? As they say in that world, "Happy wife, happy life." There are no other concerns.

Hahah, when was the last time you heard "happy husband, happy life"? Oh, right. That would be never...

No wife, happy life...