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    What kind of lie do you usually use to control what co-workers think of you being alone?

    I guess we all agree to the fact that at work its not wise to say that we're mgtow, so wondering what excuse do you use for when you're asked why you are single or why you avoid informal meetings and getting to close with women even at work.

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    Re: What kind of lie do you usually use to control what co-workers think of you being alone?

    I'm retired now but, when I was young, I ran around with the coworker party crowd after work so that was status enough. When I was older, nobody cared, and that worked for me. I've always been a private guy, never joining in at work with the chatter and the women's stories and always keeping it strictly business-with-a-smile, grooming everyone with my stoicism to think the rare moments of my candor were like comments from an oracle. LOL.
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    Re: What kind of lie do you usually use to control what co-workers think of you being alone?

    Quote Originally Posted by Jackal View Post
    Iso wondering what excuse do you use for when you're asked why you are single or why you avoid informal meetings and getting to close with women even at work.
    Why would you tell anyone at work about your personal life?
    It ain't their business, they don't need to know.

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    Re: What kind of lie do you usually use to control what co-workers think of you being alone?

    "I haven't found the right one yet" usually seemed to be a response on other mgtow forums.
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    Re: What kind of lie do you usually use to control what co-workers think of you being alone?

    Its pretty easy for me, I say the truth. " I escaped the plantation, and Im not going to go back."

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    Re: What kind of lie do you usually use to control what co-workers think of you being alone?

    I give the person who's asking me the same death stare USMC sniper Carlos Hathcock keeps giving his interviewer in this video, when he's not smiling:

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vEIWEMiCg8I

    ... and then I say, quietly, "I'm not going to go into that at this particular time."

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    Re: What kind of lie do you usually use to control what co-workers think of you being alone?

    I've never been asked at work if I date, who I'm dating, or anything about that. Are you actually being asked or just thinking you will be? Most people just care about themselves. Anytime they're "listening" to you they're really just thinking about their response.

    If I WERE asked I'd say "Thats kind of personal eh?", leave a short awkward silence and move on or maybe say "Oh I date thanks. So did you see on the TPS report that ... "

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    Re: What kind of lie do you usually use to control what co-workers think of you being alone?

    You have to develop the kind of personality where people would not even think of asking you that question. You have to be friendly - it is work after all, but when it comes to private matters, you simply don't reply.

    Someone asked me where I lived the other day, I said "so and so area in London" and they said "oh very nice, is it near so and so coffee shop?"; I just kept quite and didn't repost, they got the clue that I don't divulge personal info.

    If you develop that peronsality - or at least portray that image - people will generally leave you alone. You might be considered a rude and uncooperative person - but it far better than them getting more ammo to use against you in the future.

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    Re: What kind of lie do you usually use to control what co-workers think of you being alone?

    In my blue pill late 20s it was a nightmare being made to feel a failure because I wasn't going down the house, marriage, kids route.
    I suppose now 99% of the time I don't even need to say anything as my actions show otherwise.

    I am contracted at work to do overtime but have the option of giving it away if others want it more which I always do. I'm friends on Facebook with most of my work colleagues so they get to see dozens of photo albums of my world travels. So they can put these together and see I'm doing well for myself.

    In my department in the last 5 years.

    2 people I work with got massively ripped off with their exs involving credit cards.
    1 Got married, divorced and is now engaged to a single mother.
    1 Left his job and moved 100 miles away to accommodate his girlfriends career move (he was 25 at the time)
    Several have become dads before the age of 30.
    I bet most of the rest are in sexless marriages or wives have turned into land whales.

    Anyone telling me to "settle down" is trying to justify their own life choices.
    Men are becoming MGTOW by the millions, most without ever having heard the term. They are simply doing what all living organisms finding themselves in a toxic environment do. They adapt to it or remove themselves from it. Females are not liking either the adaptations or the removal.

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    Re: What kind of lie do you usually use to control what co-workers think of you being alone?

    Only shame can bring a person to lie about their feelings or status in life. I'm bold enough to spout out the worst statistics on relationshits, marriage, and coexisting with the other gender. Often times I can use a person's life choices to mitigate any shamming tactics they choose to apply on me. I use their own dirty bathwater on them. I don't do this offensively but rather sparingly and conservatively.
    I'm careful to avoid unnecessary awakenings from BP slumber, but may attack without warning when anyone tries to gas me with BP sleeping gas! Live and let live has given me the ability to tolerate and even be friendly with flaming BP liberals that contribute to me economically. Okay, it isn't as bad as sucking dick, but it's pretty damn close!
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    Re: What kind of lie do you usually use to control what co-workers think of you being alone?

    Bit of a diversion here, but I wonder if we'll ever get to the point where being shackled to someone is considered the oddity rather than the norm. I mean, I see more and more guys in their mid-late 20s for whom being in a relationship (let alone being married) isn't even on their radar. And it doesn't seem to be a conscious decision, or a fight against something. It seems to be some innate, default DNA warp inside these guys. Like their wiring is different right from birth. And these guys aren't gay, either.

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    Re: What kind of lie do you usually use to control what co-workers think of you being alone?

    Quote Originally Posted by kru-kut View Post
    I mean, I see more and more guys in their mid-late 20s for whom being in a relationship (let alone being married) isn't even on their radar. And it doesn't seem to be a conscious decision, or a fight against something.
    I think that's more of the 80/20 rule in action, many of these men would still have settled if they only had the chance. I know I would have done (cold shiver down spine as I typed that!!!!).

    Quote Originally Posted by kru-kut View Post
    It seems to be some innate, default DNA warp inside these guys.
    Men instinctively know that the post wall leftovers with kids are not worth the trouble. That's why women have to shame men into doing it.
    Men are becoming MGTOW by the millions, most without ever having heard the term. They are simply doing what all living organisms finding themselves in a toxic environment do. They adapt to it or remove themselves from it. Females are not liking either the adaptations or the removal.

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    Re: What kind of lie do you usually use to control what co-workers think of you being alone?

    As Stan says, this is the Pareto principle at work.

    With the advent of social media, hypergamy has been hypergamised!

    I would say that in the bigger cities, like London for example, the Pareto principle is more like 97/3.

    That is that women are only sleeping with the top 3% of men. And as much as they moan, they actually prefer it that way than having to date an average man.

    And shame only comes from the female caretaker, she raises you up to be a "good" boy - and be a slave to the female imperative.
    A mother cannot raise a boy to be a man, not because he needs a father figure; but because she favours team vagina over her own son.

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