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    "Ladies First"

    The other day, I was standing in line at a gas station to buy a Red Bull. There was a woman in front of me who this older fat guy had said something to before everyone got in line with their things. So I'm waiting for the cashier to ring up some (other) guys items, when this older fat guy appears at the front of the line with some bags of ice. He tells the young woman in front of me to "go ahead" because of "ladies first". The man wasn't even in line, cuts in front of everyone, and then tells this woman "ladies first". I will forego the (harsh) words I hurled at this man as they are not important. What is important here is this notion of "ladies first" and why I'm tired of it.

    We live in a culture that is attempting to grant equity between men and women in terms of social status, wages, sexual autonomy, etc. Yet, for some reason, women (and simps) still believe in this concept of "ladies first". I don't understand how this can still be a concept with the current state of feminism telling all women they are equal to men and should be treated as equals. Until it's time to pay for your things first. Until it's time to evacuate a burning building. Until it's time to pay for a first date. Until it's time to fight in a war. Until it's time to hurl insults at "deadbeat dads" for not taking care of their children, even though the same woman hurling said insults has had 4 abortions prior to. It seems as though "equity" and "equality" for women conveniently excludes equal accountability, equal responsibility, equal burden of performance in caring for a child, and waiting in line to pay for your shit like everybody else.

    "Ladies first"? Why? I thought the point of feminism was equality between the sexes. Why would such a sexist phrase even still exist in our lexicon if the goal was equality? Human beings being first because of their genitals is pretty UN-equal. Human beings with one set of genitals being expected to hold the door open for human beings with different genitals is pretty UN-equal. Accountability for all of society's ills being placed on the shoulders of men and never (EVER) on the shoulders of women is pretty UN-equal. The rates of suicide of men vs the rates of suicide of women is pretty UN-equal. The statistics on divorce court proceedings and the ensuing financial, psychological, and social burdens placed on men is pretty UN-equal. The rates of rape in male prison vs the rate of rape in female prisons is pretty UN-equal. The amount of battered men's shelters in comparison to the amount of battered women's shelters is quite UN-equal. If equality was the goal, why are so many things UN-equal? And why are women fine with it?

    Women don't want equality at all. They want privilege. They don't want freedom (true freedom would mean they go and build their own fucking society, infrastructure, power grid, forms of government, etc.) they want more freedom than you. They don't want equity, they want you to make less money than them so that they can call themselves "boss bitches" and demean you for making less than them. Women want all of the benefits of sexual freedom and want to project all of the consequences of said freedom onto you. They don't seem to care at all about any sort of revolutionary practice in the laws and courts that prevent them from being able to literally ruin men's lives... why? Because they don't want equality or equity. They want privilege.

    Ladies first? I say: NAY!

    Men first!

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    Re: "Ladies First"

    Quote Originally Posted by Lupercal! View Post
    I don't understand
    You see things correctly. Women will say anything to get what they want. And really, when has it never been this way? If there is no real penalty to them except hearing of a bunch of unknown men shaking their heads, what's it to them? A man offers her chivalry in a gas station, she might just take it from him.


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    Re: "Ladies First"

    Women want privileges and first go is because they feel special because they're always pampered.
    It's a man's world and we need to take it by the throat and make it give us what we desire.

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    Re: "Ladies First"

    Quote Originally Posted by Lupercal! View Post
    "Ladies first"? Why? I thought the point of feminism was equality between the sexes. Why would such a sexist phrase even still exist in our lexicon if the goal was equality?
    Equality or to be equal is a myth. To be equal would be, to be the same, we are not. Male and female are different, physically, mentally, psychologically, and socially. Evolution has forged human nature to make us who are are today, without it we would not likely have survived as a species.

    The "Equality" Feminist movement has only one goal in mind and that is un-equality. The phrase "Ladies First" has a purpose to remind everyone of the days when women were repressed so "We must fight harder for equality" Feminists do not want these phrases to disappear. It's smoke and mirrors they use to say they have not achieved equality, in reality more inequality suppressing men.

    Besides giving more privileges (than boys/men) to girls/women to show society is willing to change, women have also been slowly feminizing boys in early childhood learning. This is starting to work against them. Equality here is not what they find attractive in a man.

    Same as tomatoes and lemons are both fruit they will never be the same or equal or gain equality. Men and women can never be equal or gain equality, we are different, we think different, we have different needs, we even love different.

    Good rant, I know where you are coming from...

    Equality is a myth that can never be achieved.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ResidentEvil7 View Post
    Women want privileges and first go is because they feel special because they're always pampered.
    LOL.... Yep, and you know who does the pampering... Blame men for that!!!

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    Re: "Ladies First"

    Never forget:
    "Equality" = equality of opportunity.
    "Equity" = equality of outcome.
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    Re: "Ladies First"

    Quote Originally Posted by Eddie Willers View Post
    Never forget:
    "Equality" = equality of opportunity.
    "Equity" = equality of outcome.
    The fact that they want both is not lost on me. They complain that they do not make as much money as men even with the same access to education and jobs. They tend to choose jobs and majors that pay less than men. Literally exercising the rights given to them. And they insist that they should be making as much as men. Its insanity.

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    Re: "Ladies First"

    Quote Originally Posted by Lupercal! View Post
    The fact that they want both is not lost on me. They complain that they do not make as much money as men even with the same access to education and jobs. They tend to choose jobs and majors that pay less than men. Literally exercising the rights given to them. And they insist that they should be making as much as men. Its insanity.
    We're 50/60 years down the path of perditions manifested in law and culture.

    It's safe to say there's been a cultural revolution in the US and the west at large, with MGTOW being the furthest out on the limb that's closest to freedom and why we're hated so much.

    Our culture, "the man that's had enough and resorts to walking away" represents an unfathomable crack and tectonic shifts in this modern culture and all its constructs, we represent the end of their world and everything in it.

    We're the brightest flame of individual freedom in a world smothered in chaos and darkness. I say let it shine so bright, that even if they're blind, they'll feel the heat!
    Marriage, dating, divorce, and breakups, are on the rocky road of female empowerment, a road that goes nowhere else but misery and hardship.

    What if I told you there's another road, a road less traveled, a road straight and narrow, free of bandits, checkpoints, taxes, and tolls?

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    Re: "Ladies First"

    Quote Originally Posted by Lupercal! View Post
    The fact that they want both is not lost on me. They complain that they do not make as much money as men even with the same access to education and jobs. They tend to choose jobs and majors that pay less than men. Literally exercising the rights given to them. And they insist that they should be making as much as men. Its insanity.
    ^^^^ YES!!!^^^^

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    Re: "Ladies First"

    Quote Originally Posted by Eddie Willers View Post
    Never forget:
    "Equality" = equality of opportunity.
    "Equity" = equality of outcome.

    Damn Eddie, you got there before me. I was just thinking the same.

    I’d like to add two definitions of feminism:

    The woman and the mangina claim it means: “Equal rights for women.”

    For those of us that see it means: “Rights for women.”

    Only one word of a difference, but fek does it change the meaning!


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