Thread: Is online dating better than nothing?

Hey guys, here is a little introduction about me if you are interested:
http://www.goingyourownway.com/mgtow...48/#post124548

Long story short: I am a 23 year old virgin.

I got drunk and made a dating account the other day. A few females messaged within a week or so. Most of them are fake but some are real. Of course, I will never meet these people because I told them I live in N.Y, when reality I live in Texas, so they were mostly from the east coast. I just made one out of curiosity and drunkenness.

I can't imagine what type of female would make a dating account and drive miles just to fuck me or anyone else. I see females get hit on all the time. I am pretty sure they will have some nasty STD or something. I know I could use a condom, but I will still feel their spit via kissing during sex.

However, is this better than nothing. Any other experiences with online dating/hookups?

Hi, just a quick question...

When you are starving, do you look in the trash bin or you go out and buy something to eat?

Online dating is like anything virtual: NOT REAL!

Do you think we are having a conversation here? A virtual dialog? In a public forum?

I am also sad that you identify yourself as a 23 years old virgin... Do you still have your hymen intact? YOU HAVE NO HYMEN! Therefore being virgin is meaningless to a man.

How would anyone know you are a virgin? They wont unless you tell them.

And here comes the rub: you are online announcing "I am a virgin" like is anyone's business to know something as private as this.

You are the one placing value in having a woman. You have been brainwashed to a level that you shame yourself. For something that is meaningless!

In our days and age, especially if you are red pill, you know its unhealthy to pursue women in any way. Apply your time in doing what you enjoy and what you need towards a good future.

Women are like pests, they are everywhere. You cannot get rid of them. If you ignore them, they will harass you. Then you can find your unicorn, marry and live happily ever after!

JUST KIDDING! Unicorns do not exist! Dont make anykind of compromise with females or they will f* you up and f* your life.

Pump and dump, or rent a pro if you are starving.

But value yourself and never lower your level to "online dating". Establish your standards and live by them, because you are a MAN!

Thanks for the link to your introduction.

We had another thread last month about dating.

I think we concluded that for most women, it is a way for them to get entertainment, resources, attention, and validation. For them, there is no such thing as a bad date (unless things turn criminal) as they always come out ahead.

There have been some recent YouTube videos about "Foodie Calls," vs. "Booty Calls."

Once you few dating as transactional, you can separate the women that are interested in you from the one that are interested in you paying to make them feel attractive, desirable, an not bored.

For example, after getting to know a woman, find out if she will help YOU move, drive YOU to the airport, help YOU install a new appliance. You know, all the things that they expect the men in their "friend zone" to do for them....without actually being their friend.

If a woman is really into you, she won't insist that your first date will be taking her to a restaurant she could never afford to go to, where she will order the "puta platter"* to see if you object to paying for something that costs more than half a week's salary, which she will only pick at while she barely takes her eyes off her phone.

Save your money. I mean that in two ways.

First, don't waste your money having a lot of fruitless first dates with women who don't really want to get to know you.

Second, set aside your money for a quality P4P experience once in a while: invest what you would pay for a fancy date that would consist of three of the following - drinks/dancing in a fancy night club/dinner/movie or play - for a memorable experience. Do your vetting, don't cut corners for a "bargain" experience but avoid renting a

$13 million dollar Rolls-Royce Sweptail

when a couple of hours with a $55,000 BMW M2 would give you just as memorable a lifetime experience.

Pay for the time, not for shot-on-goal, in case you have a hair trigger, and once you get comfortable with her, let her know it is your first time, and if she is a quality provider, she will treat you right.

*Puta Platter:
- The most expensive dish on the menu. Usually ordered as a "shit test" to see how much compliance and resources she can extract from you in the future. Sometimes ordered as a way to satisfy her curiosity.

- Always ordered capriciously, because ordering something that costs more than she earns in a week, or that costs more than the monthly allowance daddy gives her, something she would never order if she had to pay for it herself, gives her a momentary thrill.

- Never mind that it will break your budget for the month; after all you are not a real person, not like she is, you don't really exist, not like she does. Even showing discomfort with the cost, or questioning her choice means you are not worthy of her further attention, "not a real man" by which she means, "not a reliable ATM/beta provider."

- It gets funny when waiter brings the plate and she discovers that "escargot" and "crudite" means "snails" and "raw cut up carrots" in French.

- She wasn't really hungry for "9-Seafood Smorgasbord," or the "2 Foot Long Sashimi Boat" that requires all the sushi chefs to stop what they are doing to prepare it for an hour, or the "Texas Governor's Steak & Maine Governor's Lobster Supreme" that requires half the waiter staff to bring out. No, she will take a picture, send it to her friends with some caption that basically translates to "Look what this chump bought me! Aren't you jealous, bitches?", take two bites, ignore the meal that would have been enough to feed the all the prisoners in John McCain's POW camp for a week, and then make strange faces at you when you ask the waiter for 3 or 4 "to-go" boxes at the end of the meal.

Don't waste time or money on "Plenty of Fish (aka Fatties)" Save up money and take a trip out of the land of divorce lawyers aka USA. In Tijuana, there are no sexual harassment lawsuits, no divorce lawsuits and no alimony if you stay in the Hong Kong Club and party with the strippers - you are in a safe space so long as you do not marry them! Hong Kong's Gentlemen's Club | Welcome or happierabroad.com

Find some friends and hit some raves. Get out and party with the intention of ignoring woman. They will flock to you when you ignore them.

Dude, if you really want a woman that bad,......this being your only topic. Go back to your religious roots. You can find one rather easy in church.

I think you have things a little backwards.... "Nothing", by far , is better than online dating. Dating is even worse.

Originally Posted by Knarley Bob

I think you have things a little backwards.... "Nothing", by far , is better than online dating. Dating is even worse.

LOL you are just too good !!!!

Originally Posted by CPRA

Don't waste time or money on "Plenty of Fish (aka Fatties)" Save up money and take a trip out of the land of divorce lawyers aka USA. In Tijuana, there are no sexual harassment lawsuits, no divorce lawsuits and no alimony if you stay in the Hong Kong Club and party with the strippers - you are in a safe space so long as you do not marry them! Hong Kong's Gentlemen's Club | Welcome or happierabroad.com

How is the Chicago Club and Adelitas doing these days, CPRA?

Originally Posted by 743 Roadmaster

Dude, if you really want a woman that bad,......this being your only topic. Go back to your religious roots. You can find one rather easy in church.

Please see my recent thread on "church as beta-male provider academy" that attracts post-wall, post-cock carousel "born again virgins."

Also, please check out female condoms. Look up Reality FC-2 condoms.

Women in North America need to eat less. Not more.
Don't buy women food. Buy them gym memberships.

All women need to do is not get too fat and not get too crazy.
They can't even manage that.

I consider online dating as "legal larceny"..... even though I used free sites.. seems I would have had a lighter wallet and nothing to show for it...
besides... aren't over half of the female profiles on those un-sites phony anyway???

Personally, I think dating sites or investing time and energy into dating and women is WORSE than nothing.

Think about it. With nothing, you get to save 100% of your time and energy for yourself, to devote to your own life, goals and passions. With nothing, there is absolutely 0% risk of ever being a victim of unintentional pregnancies, STD's, false rape/abuse accusations if things go wrong, divorce, alimony, child support, etc etc etc.

I don't really see women bringing enough to the table to be worthy of sacrificing any of your time and energy, even if it wasn't for all the risks. A bored and psychotic female (aka most women) may set out to ruin your life for no reason at all, just because they can. Or because they want to use the state to take your resources and freedom.

What do they really offer? Other than sex, there is nothing. Conversations with them are, at best, painful. They are not loyal, honest, or moral. They do not love or respect men. They are completely selfish, narcissistic, solipsistic parasites who want nothing more than to ruin your life for profit, attention, and "likes" if possible. Why invite that into your life?

If one happens to come along and basically offers herself up to you, I guess that's your call, but keep in mind it could easily be a trap, or it could become one as soon as you say or do something the female doesn't like. I will admit, I still date and hook up every once in awhile, but it scares the living fuck out of me every time I do. I am very close to the mindset needed to go completely monk. That is, I value my own life, freedom, and self-preservation more than anything any woman can ever give me.

That's just my take on the matter though. Do what you will, just be careful, protect yourself at all times, and good luck!

No, everything is better than online dating, because online dating is worth nothing...

Originally Posted by Neo

No, everything is better than online dating, because online dating is worth nothing...

actually.. its so worthless, its going into negative numbers.....

Originally Posted by Eiji

actually.. its so worthless, its going into negative numbers.....

I have met and banged quite a few hottest chicks in the world through online dating . ( and still have one prime pussy on the hook, a fucking jack pot )

It still wasnt worth even 1% of the time spent ... And it was back then when it worked . And it was still not worth it .


Now it doesnt work ... Just think about it .


Now if you want to just wank looking at pictures and some odd responses then yeah its quite good for that . But again its not gonna be anything like it was 15 years ago .

Online dating had its' time and like all things, its' time has come But it also depends on the place you're in.

There is a reason a concept like the Sexual Market Place exists sir, because that is what it is..
I was astounded at how many 8/9/10 grade women sent me messages on tinder when I was in south America. Here in England, I wouldn't even get a reply from a 4/5 grade.

Originally Posted by Opaque

Online dating had its' time and like all things, its' time has come But it also depends on the place you're in.

There is a reason a concept like the Sexual Market Place exists sir, because that is what it is..
I was astounded at how many 8/9/10 grade women sent me messages on tinder when I was in south America. Here in England, I wouldn't even get a reply from a 4/5 grade.

I loved how you said south america everybody is just like ay arriba , ay arriba oiiiiiii ay arriba , ay arriba , fuck work maybe manana , maybe tomorrow after manana .

This is Mexico right here gringo

Originally Posted by Opaque

Online dating had its' time and like all things, its' time has come But it also depends on the place you're in.

There is a reason a concept like the Sexual Market Place exists sir, because that is what it is..
I was astounded at how many 8/9/10 grade women sent me messages on tinder when I was in south America. Here in England, I wouldn't even get a reply from a 4/5 grade.

Women want Protection, Provi$ion, Social Status/Validation, and Entertainment.

In First World countries, the state provides them with the first two. For those women that cannot marry a celebrity, the media provides them some of the third thing.

What can you provide them with? Entertainment.

So, that is the difference between South America and England. The men there have not been reduced to being jesters in the court of Queen Vagina III.