Thread: 'I'm too old to find The One and I want a baby': Anonymous women confess on secrets app why they SETTLED for their current partner rather than chase true love . . .

"In a recent thread, anonymous users have admitted why they called off the search for a soul mate and 'settled' for their current partner instead.
And the uncensored answers stated a whole host of reasons - including being ignored by the real object of their affection, the fear of being alone and their desire to start a family . . . "





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I wonder if they ever stop to consider that maybe their "true love", "soul mate", whatever was the victim of an abortion? No, of course not. If they ever make that connection, look out.

Teh wimminz is full of regrets - some bitter, none sweet. Incapable of introspection as they are, they'll be no understanding of the futility of regret.

I wish that these "second-choice loves," the guys these girls are trapping, could learn of the disparagement the girls are sharing on this Whisper app ... and that they could cast themselves loose of their termagants-to-be, rather than get strangled by the red-tape nooses of Family Court.

And I'm grateful that I was born before Roe vs Wade.

(And my dear-departed Mom had ample reason to be grateful that she didn't 'abort' me, too!)

LMFAO What a bunch of LOSERS!! .... Okay, okay, that's a bit harsh but seriously. I don't understand why people are SO deathly afraid of being alone.
So what if you wind up alone?

I don't understand it at all. I'm glad I never had this big fear of being alone. I prefer being alone. Alone but not lonely.

Edit: OMG, and one commenter had the audacity to blame men in this! Lol wtf!

notasignorantasyou, elk falls, United States, 5 hours ago
Don't settle thats what is wrong with men there not real men nowadays. They settle for what they dont really want the lowest I go for is a dime and I prefer C notes to that. Why settle and be unhappy forever if you act like a real man you can have almost any women you want.

"The One" doesn't exist. As I've said to my wife many times, she's just an average looking woman with a lower than average amount of baggage. She'd classify me as an average looking guy that wanted a wife and would reluctantly agree to having a kid.

"The one" for me would be an amazingly hot supermodel earning a high income, wants sex all the time but not kids and is happy to be left home alone to do housework all weekend while I go fishing. Why o why can't I find her??

It's kind of sad to me, really. All these women unhappy they 'settled' and ruining innocent men's lives for whatever sick agenda they have, because men=utility to be used and disposed of. I hope all these men learn the truth and become MGTOW.

Anyone of these cows that claimed they 'Had no choice' when they clearly did, is just wack. The "fear of being alone" is for dependent children, not mature adults. Grow the fuck up, ladies.

for the best comments click on the worst rated comments..as the wimmenz have been voting down the good stuff..heres some..

For most of these women the two most important attributes of a man, 1) Will he submit 2)His earning potential(divorce payday). Have fun being alone ladies, tick tick tick

Most of these women are utterly delusional, they have long bullet point lists demanding the highest standards, yet they themselves invariably have little to offer. Young men; you have been warned, do not get "oneitis"- over 50% of the world's population are female. She is not one in a million, rather she is one of millions and very easily replaceable. Also remember they don't want "nice" guys, they want the bad boy Alpha males that didn't want them back. This explains their bitterness as they lose their youth and realise that SATC style culture has sold them a pup and how spinsterhood beckons.

agree with Vlad, uk, United Kingdom, 1 day ago

This is why women try to trap you with a baby a.s.a.p. Ive seen three mates in the last few years get caught with the 'ole unexpected baby' trick....what started as a little fun on the side has now ruined their lives......make sure she's taking her pills !




chancel, manchester, United Kingdom, 1 day ago

If their freedom is that important then they should have worn a condom, don't throw all the guilt on the women






Agree with Vlad, uk, United Kingdom, 1 day ago

Your not gonna wear a condom if she says she's on the pill.....you lot know exactly what your doing

I bet you most of the women complaining are fat, unattractive, 35+ year old women who think they deserve a rich, handsome, doctor

Originally Posted by WheelBarrow

I wonder if they ever stop to consider that maybe their "true love", "soul mate", whatever was the victim of an abortion? No, of course not. If they ever make that connection, look out.

It reminds me of the pious family who dies in a car accident, goes to heaven, and starts asking why the Bible promised the return of the messiah but he never came.

"Shhhh..." they are told, "that's a touchy subject with God. He's mad."

"Why?"

"Well, things started to go bad down on earth the last 50 years, and he kept sending Jesus down there to be born, learn the world and then save it. He was convinced that the most effective way for the new Messiah to get God's word out would be if he was born and raised in the West. Heck, this time, Jesus would have been an American."

"An American Jesus! Oh, joy! But what happened? How come it didn't come to pass?"

"That's what is bugging the Lord. You see, your women kept aborting him."


In another joke, Jesse Jackson dies, meets St. Peter, but is not admitted into Heaven because of the sin of Envy. He died jealous that Obama was the first black president and not him. When he is cast down to Hell, he asks the Devil what his eternal torment will be. Jackson is led to comfortable theater seat, given snacks, and forced to watch non stop news reports of him winning the presidency, being given four terms, and having his face added to Mount Rushmore. He doesn't understand this at first. When he asks how this is supposed to be an eternal torment, he is told that the events depicted is what would have happened if he and the civil rights movement had not sided with the feminists and backed the legalization of abortion and the death of millions of potential black voters.

I know off a few women in there 30's that can't get men. They focused on there careers and thought they still had time. Thing is men want younger women if they want them at all. As much as they try and pretend there cool with it i can sense the panic. I have one female friend who cant keep a man cause they cant put up with her. She has finally found a mangina so might be ok. She keeps in regular touch with all the men in her life as a kind off insurance policy and thats very smart.

Originally Posted by YourTipOfTheDay

Edit: OMG, and one commenter had the audacity to blame men in this! Lol wtf!

Anyone who can't tell the difference between "there", "they're" and "their" is not someone I'm going to take any sort of advice from..

I wonder how much misery the pressure to pair-bond has forced on men and women alike.

I think the simple truth is, if you can't be happy on you're own you can't be happy full stop. Any new toy or new partner is just a temporary distraction.

So on average, would they have been worse of with an arranged marriage?

Hilarious that they think their whispers are anonymous. If 'whispers' isn't full of spam, then you have to log in and be authenticated.

My first thought was - women always feel like they're settling...and here ya go:

"I fear I'm settling for him because on paper he's everything I always thought I wanted"

Check out how the caption tries to spin it:

"Some users recognised that while they didn't share a spark, their relationship made sense practically"

It amazes me that so many people still buy into the whole 'fall in love and live happily ever after' scenario. They set the expectations so high that they're bound to be disappointed by reality. While a newly married couple driving off into the sunset might make for a great movie ending, in reality, they'll be arguing about the dirty dishes soaking in the sink a week later. I wouldn't be surprised at all if 90%+ of married individuals were unhappy with their marriage. They've been sold snake oil. Many simply going through the motions because they've been told that's what needs to be done in order to be happy & successful in life.

Originally Posted by 2late

"The one" for me would be an amazingly hot supermodel earning a high income, wants sex all the time but not kids and is happy to be left home alone to do housework all weekend while I go fishing. Why o why can't I find her??

Lady lurkers, you've been trained by feminists to see the above statement as incredibly sexist against women. Just so you know, that's EXACTLY what you sound like to men when you recite your laundry-list of traits your ideal man must have.

2late, your ideal woman sounds pretty awesome. Except I like kids

The siren call of the baby rabies is second to the siren call of the cock carousel.

Its a script all too familiar, after the corousel come the rabies after which antidepressants, cats and dildos follow in quick succession.

They should teach young girls of that fate. But do you think most will heed the lessons needed to avoid it? Don't hold your breath.

Realize all these women are chasing the top 10% or 20% of the alphafux


These ladies referring to 'The One' are all alphafux who DON'T want to 'settle' for these ladies because they aren't hot enough.


That's why all these ladies are having their hearts broken.


Plus these guys are entertaining multiple enraptured women... why stop now?


Once bitches realize they are all chasing the same men, will they possibly reconsider reassessing true SMV - ie you DON'T deserve better .... nah never happen.