Thread: I’m an Overprotective Girlfriend and I Have 8 Strict Rules for my Boyfriend

New York Post ^ | May 12, 2022 | Yasmin Harisha
But one woman has sparked a heated debate after she revealed she sets her boyfriend eight rules which he must abide by . . .

“Number one – Block anyone you had a romantic interaction with.
“Number two – No following new women since the day we started dating. Period. I don’t want to give an explanation.


“Number three – No searching girls’ names in the handlebar. Like, what are you searching for? No, but really what are you searching for? Because you should find it in me . . .

Some people praised her for being reasonable, whereas others believed they were controlling and showed that she has trust issues. Explaining her rules in the video, she said: “Today, we’re doing controversial rules I make my boyfriend follow, Instagram edition because I was telling my guy friends and they called me a psycho bitch . . .

Commenters:

I wouldn’t want a man who would put up with being talked to like this.


Back in the day we called them p***y-whipped.


SIMP is a regularly used red pill term now.

Rule #9 BRING YOUR OWN LEASH


Ew, a vapid, self-absorbed zillennial feminist yapping away as if she thinks what she has to say is important.

Her boyfriend? Looks deBalled!

Imagine a man doing the same thing? Not to mention how is she going to enforce these things? She doesn't sound over protective either, she sounds possessive and insecure. If a man did the same he would be branded toxic and the article would not be trying to be so balanced.

Your Admin is a little behind the times.

These are cell phone rules, right?

What does "following new women" mean? Is this an online thing? What website? What do you get if you "follow" anybody? Why do you follow anybody in the first place?

If this is a dating maneuver, or a chasing maneuver, or a self-dicktease maneuver, then I can see stopping it once I became exclusive in a relationship. I could see expecting my partner to stop it once we became exclusive.

Does the fact that this woman have these rules mean that her choices of men all do that? And is that because she finds these men on the same dating apps that she now bans them from participating in? She allows existing women as ok to still follow? What sense does that make? Are there men who don't do any of that stuff? Or has that ship sailed in this culture of ours?

Boy, am I out of touch. I still don't know what "swipe right" signifies.

(Admin ducks his head awaiting responses.)

What are the odds that her inboxes are filled with exes and potential suitors?

"WhY aRE U sO InseCuRE? hE iS JUsT A FriEnd"

Originally Posted by CPRA

New York Post ^ | May 12, 2022 | Yasmin Harisha
But one woman has sparked a heated debate after she revealed she sets her boyfriend eight rules which he must abide by . . .

“Number one – Block anyone you had a romantic interaction with.
“Number two – No following new women since the day we started dating. Period. I don’t want to give an explanation.


“Number three – No searching girls’ names in the handlebar. Like, what are you searching for? No, but really what are you searching for? Because you should find it in me . . .

Some people praised her for being reasonable, whereas others believed they were controlling and showed that she has trust issues. Explaining her rules in the video, she said: “Today, we’re doing controversial rules I make my boyfriend follow, Instagram edition because I was telling my guy friends and they called me a psycho bitch . . .

I won't bother sorting through all of her rules. But what I'll say is that if someone wants a relationship, there's absolutely nothing wrong with setting rules and red lines. Set the expectations upfront so that neither side gets surprised later on. Where's the harm in that, honestly?

However, let's make sure that both sides abide by the same rules, eh? None of this "different rules for each partner" stuff. Two people, same rules for both. So, if he has to block his exes, no problem. But she's blocked all of her exes too, right?

I mean, I would hate to think that the rules apply only to him.

The only "rules" I respect are the ones that are court ordered, all others NULL&VOID. Which is why I don't associate with little tyrant psycho bitches like her! She's a court summons waiting to happen! FTB! (fuck that bitch)

All women want their men under their control. Most of them are smart enough not to let on until the guy's hooked, and then the controlling behavior begins. And if it works at a low level at first, then she'll start ramping it up.

But this woman gives away the plan right from the get-go. She's basically saying, "I'm going to make your life suck." Well, I guess that's okay, if she wants some desperate, self-loathing loser looking for a dom/sub relationship. Because that's all she's going to get.

I get the sense she's trying to resolve her last relationship's issues by punishing the next guy for what the last guy did to her. That's guaranteed to fail and bring her even more misery. Next step: blue hair dye and marching in the streets with other female undesirables protesting... oh, I don't know... something or other.

Women telegraph what they want by making these statements. And they want exactly the opposite. If you follow her rules, you'd be off like a prom dress in no time because you ARE following her rules.

I always said a woman's love is conditional. They want control and compliance.

I'm sooooooo glad I'm MGTOW.

Never again will I have to deal with such BS from women.

Originally Posted by MannSplainer

I'm sooooooo glad I'm MGTOW.

Never again will I have to deal with such BS from women.

The fact any man would put up with it is mind blowing. Why would someone want to be a slave ? It makes no sense. Those same men wouldn't put up with it if their guy friends acted like that. They need to stop bowing to women.

Originally Posted by MGTOWFOREVER

The fact any man would put up with it is mind blowing. Why would someone want to be a slave ? It makes no sense. Those same men wouldn't put up with it if their guy friends acted like that. They need to stop bowing to women.

The Plantation. It has rules. Lots of rules.

Originally Posted by MGTOWFOREVER

I always said a woman's love is conditional. They want control and compliance.

Absolutely. The only problem with that is then they lose any attraction for the man they control. Then the need for drama and excitement starts up. Then they start seeking the aforementioned drama/excitement with an uncontrolled, masculine male. Then they blame their indiscretion on their boyfriend's/husband's lack of attention/romance. Then they rinse and repeat the cycle after wearing down another dipshit.

The men who have the most success with women either A. Lay down the law earl on, holding frame in incredible perpetuity, never allowing the woman to wear them down (very, very difficult). B. Leave women before they have a chance to wear him down in the first place (commitment phobic/player type).

Your average man lacks the emotional arsenal necessary to deal with a woman's endless barrage of tests and manipulations over months/ years. Most men only realize their defenses have been destroyed when the breakup comes out of left field, the divorce papers get served or they find their gf/wife in bed with another dude.

Originally Posted by MannSplainer

The Plantation. It has rules. Lots of rules.

Yes indeed, but they're all different depending on which plantationer you're talking to. But you better keep up because tomorrow all the rules will be changed.

Originally Posted by Jackoff

Yes indeed, but they're all different depending on which plantationer you're talking to. But you better keep up because tomorrow all the rules will be changed.

Oh yeah. The only constant in life is change. If you don't keep up, you'll get steamrolled.

It's all about control!

If you refuse to be controlled, a couple of scenarios may develop:

A) she becomes incredibly resentful and wrathful towards you, and tells you to fuck off!

B) she becomes incredibly aroused and horny by your demeanor, and tells you to fuck her!

Or even possibly, a combination of both of the above!

Originally Posted by Granola Junkie

It's all about control!

If you refuse to be controlled, a couple of scenarios may develop:

A) she becomes incredibly resentful and wrathful towards you, and tells you to fuck off!

B) she becomes incredibly aroused and horny by your demeanor, and tells you to fuck her!

Or even possibly, a combination of both of the above!

I agree. Control is the name of the game, always has been and always will be.

But you left out option C): she becomes incredibly resentful and wrathful towards you, and decides to take you for everything you’ve got. She’ll make up all sorts of shit to get revenge for your not submitting to her whims even to the point of getting you jailed.

It's never enough! They want it all but never give in return without so much as a thought.

So this bitch has rules for her man? I learned from Arnold Schwarzenegger that one of the golden rules for success in life is to break rules. If he breaks her rules, she'll get pissed for a while longer, but keep ignoring her and she'll eventually give up and leave and he'll be the most happy fellow.

Originally Posted by Toolband89

Absolutely. The only problem with that is then they lose any attraction for the man they control. Then the need for drama and excitement starts up. Then they start seeking the aforementioned drama/excitement with an uncontrolled, masculine male. Then they blame their indiscretion on their boyfriend's/husband's lack of attention/romance. Then they rinse and repeat the cycle after wearing down another dipshit.

The men who have the most success with women either A. Lay down the law earl on, holding frame in incredible perpetuity, never allowing the woman to wear them down (very, very difficult). B. Leave women before they have a chance to wear him down in the first place (commitment phobic/player type).

Your average man lacks the emotional arsenal necessary to deal with a woman's endless barrage of tests and manipulations over months/ years. Most men only realize their defenses have been destroyed when the breakup comes out of left field, the divorce papers get served or they find their gf/wife in bed with another dude.

I went through it all. If you hold frame then you are a stubborn asshole. If you are just like "fuck it whatever. Dont care anymore" then you are a pussy pushover who avoids conflict. But if you give into conflict then you are gaslighted.

I avoid women. They mean nothing to me.