
Originally Posted by
manaloneforever
Considering the amount of adult children that live at home in America and can't survive without their parents is making me really suspect that we have A LOT of covert narcissistic parents.
The enabler
Were you raised by one?
Alot don't realize they were until it's too late. The enabler is arguably the worst part of having narcissistic parents because that’s how the narc can keep abusing on a permanent basis.
It keeps them in the picture. Most don't have any retirement or savings... relying on their child to take care of them in future.
Alot of them also have becky in their ear....don't get a man.... you don't need a man.....
“Karens have a best friend - Becky. She's the one who goes with them to talk to the manager and backs them up and remains silent when she calls the cops on suspects she sees in her area. Becky is Karen's tag-team partner and an enabler. Don't be a Becky.”
Can a woman by herself raise a man? 95% can't.
The object of teaching a child is to enable him to get along without his teacher and most women miss this...as they are in that situation themselves and decided to have a kid and bring you into their misery, and misery loves company.