Thread: How do I feel about this situation?

She’s a colleague from my previous employment who got my number on the last day before I left. She’s 6 years above my age but I don’t mind. We got along so well with each others characters like we can be playful and serious at the same time which is an amazing feeling.

But recently she called me fickle minded which affected me down to the core , I’m not sure why which is weird. Is it because she’s my crush and I have feelings for her that whatever she say seem to affect me in a certain way?

I usually don’t get affected or think too much when people call me names or “attack” my character/personality but what she said affected me

As to why she called me fickle minded is because of a job topic that in order for me to accept a job offer it would have to be close to where I live but when she asked me again another day I simply told her I’ll accept it if the salary is acceptable etc.

Maybe I’m overthinking the situation?

"Maybe I’m overthinking the situation?" Yessir you are! It's the simp mind set letting a female get inside your head...

Sounds like you were lured, or being lured back to the plantation.
You're allowing yourself to be "validated" by this female...don't do that.

The last thing you want to do is work for her.
Nothing good will come from it.

Fickle minded has no meaning. It's just nonsense talk. It's this particular female using nonsense talk that has you feeling weird because female and dry penis.

Go jerk of a few times and see just how much this female and her opinions are worth to you.

Originally Posted by NothingToConsider

She’s a colleague from my previous employment who got my number on the last day before I left. She’s 6 years above my age but I don’t mind. We got along so well with each others characters like we can be playful and serious at the same time which is an amazing feeling.

But recently she called me fickle minded which affected me down to the core , I’m not sure why which is weird. Is it because she’s my crush and I have feelings for her that whatever she say seem to affect me in a certain way?

I usually don’t get affected or think too much when people call me names or “attack” my character/personality but what she said affected me

As to why she called me fickle minded is because of a job topic that in order for me to accept a job offer it would have to be close to where I live but when she asked me again another day I simply told her I’ll accept it if the salary is acceptable etc.

Maybe I’m overthinking the situation?

Hi NothingToConsider,

You joined our site after we stopped making the Intro mandatory so I can understand how you are here. But, registered membership on this site is not just for men who have discovered MGTOW, as you put it in an earlier post, but is for men who no longer have romantic attachments or infatuations themselves, or nurse them, or ask advice on how to manage aspects of one, and the hope implied in this. You are not going your own way yourself, although I understand why being here is good for you, but it's not good for us. It would not work for us to have this site populated with posts asking each other how to feel about romantic connections with women. That's not who we are. We are men who have moved past all of that, and no longer speak in present tense language as you do. An Intro done properly would have borne this out.

I'm closing your account as purple pill.

Good luck.