Link: https://www.abc.net.au/everyday/rent...r-ex/101342746
Bummer. That must suck.Mia* broke up with her long-term boyfriend months ago but hasn't been able to move on.
Not because she's still in love with him, but because they're still living together.
Australia is in the grip of a rental crisis, with the national vacancy rate falling to its lowest level on record.
Aww, she's scared."I think with so many people applying, they have the pick of whoever they want, and being a single mum with three kids, and a dog — it's hard."
Her ex (who is not the father of Mia's children) owns the home they live in, and despite contributing financially, Mia knows he could ask her to move out at any time.
"Living with my ex, it's scary. Because at any point he could tell me to leave, and we have nowhere to go," she says.
Scared of nothing. Nothing at all. This man has done nothing but love her and care for her and provide for her and her kids. All she ever had to do was smoke the bone occasionally and maybe cook.While Mia says the relationship with her former partner was never violent, she does feel like she's "walking on eggshells".
Wasn't that the deal?
She got herself a man with a house, fucked him for a bit, doesn't fuck him anymore (because why bother?), and now lives there. She "contributes financially" - we all know how that goes. She regards paying for her own kid's food and clothing as her financial contribution to the household, if she even covers that, and regards herself as a saint and a martyr for doing so.
So unfair! Especially not being able to go out and get some fuck, which is unendurable for a woman.I can't go on dates or meet new people."I'm stuck in negative circle of coming home to a house I shared with someone I thought I would be with forever."
Mia says she won't be able to cut emotional ties until she has her own space.
"You can't go through the break-up process while still in their presence," she says.
"It's confusing, scary and it's unfair."
What shits me about this article is the absolute, absolute blindness, unsympathy, callousness towards this man, never given the dignity of a name, always "Mia's Ex", who provides a roof and a home, and I'll bet pays the lion's share of the bills, for this woman and her three crotchfruit, and receives nothing in return but suspicion and the condemnation of the ABC for the crime of owning a home.
Three kids. Two or three fathers. Why isn't she collecting child support from all of them? Because they can't be found or have no money or (likely) are in prison. Stupid woman - correct method is first to nail down a provider, then proceed to have children to some genetically suitable bad-boys.
The guy - "Mia's Ex" - owns a house. Why? Because he has a job, he's responsible, he can get a loan. And despite the catastophic stupidity of taking up with this person, it seems he had the good sense and foresight to wear a franger every singe time. Unless he cucked out and got a vasectomy because she already has three kids, which sadly is a possibility.
What's unfair? What's unfair about a dude with a productive job owing a house; and a woman who has done nothing with her life but fuck a succession of men not? How about she simply get a job as a petroleum engineer, or garbageman?
Simply this: she, being the woman, ought to have all the things. It's unfair that he has anything at all.
Fuck the ABC.