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    Getting rid of single friends

    Married women seem to really dislike their partners having strong, independent single friends.

    I can really understand why because well it means they have a harder time manipulating hubby to get resources and to have thoughts of their own...

    Anyone here have any examples of females trying to get rid of their partners single friends and how that played out?
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    Re: Getting rid of single friends

    On the other hand, I've known men whose personalities changed when they got married. They weren't as fun or, for that matter, rational as they were when they were single. It's as if they were like computers running a different operating system.
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    Re: Getting rid of single friends

    Quote Originally Posted by Quarter Wave Vertical View Post
    On the other hand, I've known men whose personalities changed when they got married. They weren't as fun or, for that matter, rational as they were when they were single. It's as if they were like computers running a different operating system.
    Sure, that too. I guess having a new mummy, who likes to steal most of your things and decide how everything should be can do that to a man.

    It's like they aren't even running their own operating system, they get their binary instructions injected from someone else.

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    Re: Getting rid of single friends

    A proper home and ride is only the first part of a wife's plan. Bike's, car's, sport's, hobbies, and last but not least, friend's, it's all got to go. Hubby has to grow up and put his past life behind him. Or else.

    Being independent don't help, but it probably would of happened anyway. Too bad they all feel the need to erase a guy's former life, but that's the way it is. Being looked on as hard to train no doubt saved me some serious trouble in the old day's.

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    Re: Getting rid of single friends

    Quote Originally Posted by ManInBlack
    Married women seem to really dislike their partners having strong, independent single friends.
    Bill Maher had a funny joke about this:

    "I'm the last of my guy friends to have never gotten married, and their wives - they don't want them playing with me. I'm like the escaped slave - I bring news of freedom."

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    Re: Getting rid of single friends

    <---------------This guy.


    I've probably mentioned my buddy who's wife cheated on him (2 times that we know of) here before. She detests the fact that I can do as I please and assumes my buddy is up to no good when he's out with me. She cheats on him and he gets the short leash. Woman with a double standard, who would have thought?

    I was the one who caught her and told him, so I'm guessing she really hates ol' Uncle Cap.

    Like anything else, in the end, they want everyone to suffer if they are. Misery loves company, standard female doctrine.

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    Re: Getting rid of single friends

    The more insufferable a woman is, the more controlling she has to be in order to keep your friend around. That's why she tries to fill his free time up with shit, because god forbid the guy gets a day to himself and realizes how great being single is.

    And on top of that, if she takes him away then who is going to be there to empower your friend? Who is going to tell him that her behavior is way out of line and that he needs to dump the bitch? NOBODY.

    It's all strategic with women, Sun Tzu type shit.
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    Re: Getting rid of single friends

    women don't like having friends who are single when they themselves are married.

    they also don't like having married friends when they themselves are single.

    they don't like their husband having friends.

    they don't like their husband/boyfriend/SO.

    they don't like anyone who likes/hates their SO.

    in fact, they don't like anyone, ever.

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    Re: Getting rid of single friends

    Quote Originally Posted by Ace Francis View Post
    Bill Maher had a funny joke about this:

    "I'm the last of my guy friends to have never gotten married, and their wives - they don't want them playing with me. I'm like the escaped slave - I bring news of freedom."
    And like most jokes that are funny there's a lot of truth to them, just the fact that no ones wants to mention the elefant in the room... Except the stand up guys... And me

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    Re: Getting rid of single friends

    Quote Originally Posted by Da Patriarch View Post
    The more insufferable a woman is, the more controlling she has to be in order to keep your friend around. That's why she tries to fill his free time up with shit, because god forbid the guy gets a day to himself and realizes how great being single is.

    And on top of that, if she takes him away then who is going to be there to empower your friend? Who is going to tell him that her behavior is way out of line and that needs to dump the bitch? NOBODY.

    It's all strategic with women, Sun Tzu type shit.
    Head on nails man... It really is strategic, problem is that I can see through it all. I know myself really well as well as others, so I guess that will make me win a thousand wars?

    First thought was to confront head on, but that would just make her win. I have to serve this one cool...

    It's interesting though how you always will se a different side with women when they feel in control of things...

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    Re: Getting rid of single friends

    Quote Originally Posted by Quarter Wave Vertical View Post
    On the other hand, I've known men whose personalities changed when they got married. They weren't as fun or, for that matter, rational as they were when they were single. It's as if they were like computers running a different operating system.
    This really is a bizarre situation to watch. I'm only 24 so I haven't seen shit hit the fan quite yet with people my age getting married off in waves. I just see it more with my relatives. There's a tipping point where the men seem not to even be embarrassed or ashamed that they have no freedom. They're just simply too exhausted to try anymore. The wives have infinite bitching and nagging energy, and men just cannot handle this meaningless shit forever. Even men with "game" aren't going to enjoy constantly keeping their wives in check - because she's going to be constantly trying to fuck with him. Peaceful women don't exist. Either you supply the drama or she does. These single, free friends may make fun of the married men, and earnestly try to help them, but it falls on deaf ears. They have to rationalize their bad situation in order to stay partially sane. "Sane" only in relation to his wife, not reality.
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    When I was married it was a virtual prison. Sure, I *could* come and go as I pleased, but if stepped out of line in any way - the standard being set by a capricious toddler's mind - there were "consequences".

    And I was young when I married. I missed out on much of the freedom a twenty-something year old man would usually have, at least in this day and age. It was like living in a cage. Every time my mates were out having fun, if I had the temerity to join them, there'd usually be some sort if screaming match when I got home. In hindsight, I should've simply used dread game, but that won't stop you from receiving a false DV accusation - cupcake has all the power now - "putting your foot down" is fraught with risk.

    Women want to "domesticate" their husband. Much like how dogs are trained. If you mess up, your nose is rubbed in shit. Again, the law gives them the leash. But it's up to you if you wish to wear it or not.

    l now I know better. Every woman I involve myself with is kept at arms length. The less entwined they are with your life, the less power and control they may exert.

    This precludes one from having a family, but we're living in an Orwellian time and that cannot be helped.

    And yes. My married friend's wives think I'm a little "weird" - funny how most of them flirt like crazy when around me though - it can become quite uncomfortable at times.

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    Re: Getting rid of single friends

    Quote Originally Posted by Nuggets View Post
    This really is a bizarre situation to watch. I'm only 24 so I haven't seen shit hit the fan quite yet with people my age getting married off in waves. I just see it more with my relatives. There's a tipping point where the men seem not to even be embarrassed or ashamed that they have no freedom. They're just simply too exhausted to try anymore. The wives have infinite bitching and nagging energy, and men just cannot handle this meaningless shit forever. Even men with "game" aren't going to enjoy constantly keeping their wives in check - because she's going to be constantly trying to fuck with him. Peaceful women don't exist. Either you supply the drama or she does. These single, free friends may make fun of the married men, and earnestly try to help them, but it falls on deaf ears. They have to rationalize their bad situation in order to stay partially sane. "Sane" only in relation to his wife, not reality.
    Not only rationalize to stay sane, but because they invest so much into it, so it has to be worth it. Cupcake has to be worth it. SHE HAS TO BE.... yeah...

    The more you can get people to invest, the more you have them on the hook... Hmmm now I see why cupcake acts like a vacuum cleaner that can't be turned off... Interesting.... I'm starting to see the bigger picture now.

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    Re: Getting rid of single friends

    One of my buddy's old lady hit on me and I wouldn't bite, so she told him I was making advances towards her. I quit coming around.
    Another of my buddy's old lady hit on me and again, I didn't bite, and she never told but it was awkward around there. I quit coming around.
    I'll let you boys guess whether either marriage is still solvent. Hint (no)

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    Re: Getting rid of single friends

    Quote Originally Posted by FapMaster View Post
    One of my buddy's old lady hit on me and I wouldn't bite, so she told him I was making advances towards her. I quit coming around.
    Another of my buddy's old lady hit on me and again, I didn't bite, and she never told but it was awkward around there. I quit coming around.
    I'll let you boys guess whether either marriage is still solvent. Hint (no)

    Women will do whatever it takes to get their way. Ruining friendships is just one step on the road to destruction.
    Did the friendships last?

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    Quote Originally Posted by ManInBlack View Post
    Did the friendships last?
    The one whos wife didn't tell and I talk every once in a while on the phone. He ended up moving for work. The other one, sadly, no.
    And he was a damn good dude, now I guess he thinks I'm a snake.
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    Re: Getting rid of single friends

    I think I need to clarify something. My post makes me seem somewhat of a narcissist. Nothing could be further from the truth actually, I'm a big ugly, loud, muscular, knuckle draggin', take charge and brutally honest shrek lookin' kind of guy. Most dudes like me around cause I get shit done.

    On the other hand women generally fall into one of two categories, either hate my guts or their panties get wet. The story above was from the latters. And for the record I would never hit on a buddy's old lady. If a man wants to look for happiness far be it from me to interfere, true happiness is elusive in this world.
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    Re: Getting rid of single friends

    Quote Originally Posted by FapMaster View Post
    I think I need to clarify something. My post makes me seem somewhat of a narcissist. Nothing could be further from the truth actually, I'm a big ugly, loud, muscular, knuckle draggin', take charge and brutally honest shrek lookin' kind of guy. Most dudes like me around cause I get shit done.

    On the other hand women generally fall into one of two categories, either hate my guts or their panties get wet. The story above was from the latters. And for the record I would never hit on a buddy's old lady. If a man wants to look for happiness far be it from me to interfere, true happiness is elusive in this world.
    I'm the same way

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    My only victory from my blue pill days is that I didn't allow this to happen to me. Not sure why I chose that one place to stand my ground, but I couldn't be happier that I did so!
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    Re: Getting rid of single friends

    Quote Originally Posted by FapMaster View Post

    Women will do whatever it takes to get their way. Ruining friendships is just one step on the road to destruction.
    Some years back I needed a place to crash for a couple of months, so I askee a military buddy if I could use his spare room for the summer. What happened after I moved in was this-

    His wife blatantly hit on me, and did so in his goddamn face.Im not talking about conversational innuendo-the woman physically touched me as I exited the bathroom shirtless.Needless to say, thats a friendship which has hit the skids. Damnned shame, cause I came up the military ranks with her husband.

    The fat girl of the group made a pass at me-I rejected that notion harshly. She took up with some beta dude who hates my guts because of that rejection.

    A different chick downed pill bottles the night I shot down her relationship proposal-something to do with her STDs and a general unstable nature.Count another military friendship burned the fuck down-since naturally her suicide attempt was MY fault, somehow.

    Its gotten to the point where I have to mind my social Ps and Qs carefully. If I see a guy's spouse throwing mad IOIs, I eject from the whole group. Its preferable to the alternative; last month I got in touch with a Christian guy regarding a car project, and noticed his gym-rat wife throwing attraction signals like a fucking interstellar pulsar the whole time. Dude had no idea just how paper thin his "Godly" wedding vows actually were, and I wasnt gonna be the jerk who helped him find out.

    Each time, the women didnt give a molecular fuck about how broken the men would be from their actions.


    Quote Originally Posted by ubermensch View Post
    When I was married it was a virtual prison. Sure, I *could* come and go as I pleased, but if stepped out of line in any way - the standard being set by a capricious toddler's mind - there were "consequences".
    Reminds me of the latter stages of my last conventional relationship. I realized one day this relationship was a psycological war of attrition, and I was going to fucking lose big time like the Empire of Japan. My ex had psycholgical resources of infinite drama, and the support of her family, my employer, MY family, organized society, and the two nuclear bombs of motherhood and marriage.It was clear after a pregnancy scare with her that once she Hiroshima'd my ass with a kid, she'd drop the "Fat Man" marriage bomb and there'd be nothing left of Octavian bigger then a twig.

    I remember looking in the mirror at my operations office and wondering who the hell was staring back.Im not suicidal at all, but I would honestly eat the barrel of my Colt before ever going back to that state of affairs. Those drones wandering around next to their wives with their flat gaze are effectively dead men-they have a pulse, but their sense of identity and independence was vaporized by one of these long ago by cupcake:



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