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    To me : Getting laid won't get me anywhere and so to other fellow virgins

    Hey everyone I have been black pilled
    I am a 22 year old virgin, I used to have the incel mentality, I never kissed a girl and dated twice in my life.

    Friends and acquaintances used to tease me about me being a virgin, It made me angry and furious, but when I took the black pill it is only used for back to the blue pill.
    I used to get ashamed of myself for being a virgin, I put the vagina on the pedestal, I got rejected by a girl who I had oneitis, it made me more incel.
    But then I discovered MGTOW and took the red pill, learned a lot about female nature and decided to stay a virgin.
    The media pushes the idea of getting laid as if it is an achievement and I think we both know why. I think getting laid isn't gonna achieve something :
    1- Nothing will change if I sleep with a girl.
    2- There are risks associated with sleeping around today:
    *I may get falsely accused
    *Unwanted pregnancy and will force me to pay child support (A woman can sperm jack me)
    *Some STIs are lethal and incurable like HIV
    *Prostitution is illegal where I live so that it makes marriage & PUA profitable to the ruling elite.) Although marriage, dating, and one night stands are legal prostitution but more expensive and toxic.


    I left r/incels like 3 months ago.
    My main goal is to become athletic, and I am putting most of my energy into yoga and gym.
    I took 1 class of Muay Thai, the coach recommend me that I should do yoga and lift weights so I build my strength and agility, and I lack these two.
    I started gyming around 3 months ago, and yoga last week.
    My next goal after becoming athletic is becoming wealthy move out of my parents house live in a luxurious apartment alone.
    I wish I could move out of their house but jobs here do not pay enough to cover basic monthly expenses like food, rent, utility bills.

    "What people call "love" is just a chemical reaction that compels animals to breed. It hits hard, Morty, then it slowly fades, leaving you stranded in a failing marriage." - Rick Sanchez


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    Re: To me : Getting laid won't get me anywhere and so to other fellow virgins

    Even when you do have sex you will realize life goes on. And that a man accomplishes things in this world through sheer will power that is outside the scope of peer pressure. When I want a roof over my head, food in my belly and money saved for an emergency I am not thinking about impressing pussy. Honestly, I can see men that have it all become complacent and think that a relationship with a woman is all that is missing in their life. That is why when a man reaches that point it is a dangerous point in his life, because you assume you can tackle the challenge of courting a woman long term.

    That is why older men I speak to will date women but they distance themselves from having a serious relationship with a woman. Unfortunately there are man out there that feel strongly they must marry multiple times to avoid the shaming from their own family. I have discussed with men that have been married multiple times why they went through the process again and again. They all relayed to me that men are the ones tasked with trying over and over again despite failures, because that is how they view masculinity.

    It is true that masculinity is about resiliency and relies also on perseverance. However, it should be a razor sharp focus onto the man himself and if it benefits the rest of society so be it. But masculinity is also about learning through failure and trying again using a different approach IMO.

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    Re: To me : Getting laid won't get me anywhere and so to other fellow virgins

    Don't work only in your body and wallet, work your mind, also IMO an luxurious apartment in a bad choice for now (a very bad choice if you want to be wealthy), you can save lots of money if you rent something small and affordable, then, when you own a decent bank account rent something better in a better area if you still want to, also having expensive things and a good body makes AWALTs want to take it all from you, that's is why many of us become ghost and don't show off how many money we made.

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    Re: To me : Getting laid won't get me anywhere and so to other fellow virgins

    You need to ghost any so called 'friends' of yours who ridicule you about it. Even if they are long time childhood friends. They see you as subordinate to them if they think it's OK to antagonize you about anything.

    Guys will sort of rip on each other as male bonding, but you need to draw the line and get rid of them the same way you would a toxic female in your life.

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    Re: To me : Getting laid won't get me anywhere and so to other fellow virgins

    Quote Originally Posted by AxFa View Post
    Don't work only in your body and wallet, work your mind, also IMO an luxurious apartment in a bad choice for now (a very bad choice if you want to be wealthy), you can save lots of money if you rent something small and affordable, then, when you own a decent bank account rent something better in a better area if you still want to, also having expensive things and a good body makes AWALTs want to take it all from you, that's is why many of us become ghost and don't show off how many money we made.
    Thx, a healthy mind lives in a healthy body, do u think a small apartment and cheap decent car are enough?


    Quote Originally Posted by Tangent View Post
    You need to ghost any so called 'friends' of yours who ridicule you about it. Even if they are long time childhood friends. They see you as subordinate to them if they think it's OK to antagonize you about anything.

    Guys will sort of rip on each other as male bonding, but you need to draw the line and get rid of them the same way you would a toxic female in your life.
    My closest friends are actually virgins and they understand mgtow, they are purple pillers. I have seen my other toxic folks for over 4 months, I don't need to see them.

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    Re: To me : Getting laid won't get me anywhere and so to other fellow virgins

    What are the charges for solicitation of prostitutes in your country? Fine? Jail? Are you put on some "offenders list"?

    I would scope out the prostitution access points. Talk to men you know who have used them - find out if there is a lower risk way to hire one. I must say, when I was a young man a friend and I were going to hit the phone book one night and get a couple of "instant girlfriends" but we were completely not trusting phone book ads.... could be cops with their own ad! Here we have 'massage parlors' where full sex can be obtained, and it was NOT illegal because the agreement is made in private (not solicitation, which is done in public). Now, in Canada, we have the Nordic model which says ALL solicitation for "sexual services" is illegal in all of it's forms (except marriage of course, ha ha ha that's the most expensive sex you don't pay for!!)

    I would seriously look at getting rid of your virginity. It seems to be bothering you, and I know it bothered me when I passed 18 years and was still a virgin. One of two things will happen:

    1) You'll realise that sex is great but no big deal and that as good as it is, it's really a pain in the ass to "get" the way society says it's okay to "get". (All the blue and purple bill bullshit which really comes down to paying for sex AND kissing a woman's ass and putting up with her shit). At that point, you can stop obsessing about getting sex and losing your virginity and working on your plan to be more successful and independent.

    2) You'll realise "what you were missing" and chase pussy like mad. You'll maybe get game, or work out and get new clothes, or both. But if you get a need for more sex, you will invest probably most of your time and energy (without even realising it) goes into impressing females and being sexually attractive. Now, you might find that craving sex makes you more aggressive, and assertive and that helps your drive to be more successful and independent. It's okay if pussy gives you INCENTIVE to become successful, but if you become successful only to get pussy, pussy - I am afraid - is going to get you.

    When I was in my mid-twenties I cleaned up my act, quit drinking, quit smoking and starting cycling and weight lifting. I got myself some nice clothes. I got a new car, and kept it shiny showroom clean. At that time, chat rooms were all the rage so I would spend hours and hours chatting and checking my "LavaLife" mailbox. There were even "phone chat services" that I used once in a while.

    So basically, my life was:

    a) Making money so I could,
    b) Keep up my clothes, car, and pay for dates and
    c) work out and exercise so I could meet women and
    d) spend MOST of my remaining free time trying to meet women

    And I got laid a lot. My room-mate could not believe how much @$$ I could bring home. Sometimes 3 or 4 different women in a single month. These were not ugly or fat women either - and some were far better looking that i could have ever hoped (Surely in a few cases people would say "What is SHE doing with HIM?!" when we were in public.)

    Then I would get into a relationship with a woman for 6 to 12 months. Then, it would be back into the mating arena for more sex.

    Was I a sex addict? Well, if an addict lives their whole life just for drugs, I was pretty much living my whole life just for pussy. And I lived like that from about 25 to about 32 when I met my wife. 15 years ago. Now, I'm divorced and have very little money left over, so even if I wanted to chase @$$ I would not be able to afford it. I might be able to afford one or two dates per month, but if a relationship ensued I simply could not afford it.

    This is why prostitutes have a certain appeal to me. If I ever want to "get it wet" again I am sure I will use a prostitute.

    That's my take on it, anyways.
    - Feminism is Cancer.
    - Where have all the good men gone? Away. Far far away... from you.
    - NAWALT? Maybe, but EWALT means Russian Roulette is a much safer bet...


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