I too got friend requests (wow, two) over the last week or so. Not sure what you do, but I'm in. Thanks guys.
I had been a member about a week when Toolate explained how a sick child had kept him married to a crazy wife for longer than he would of been otherwise. This hit me right between the eyes, and I posted back that compared to him, I didn't even deserve to belong to the forum. Toolate was on line, and he got right back to me with some good advice that I've never forgot. He said "yes you do belong. This is not a contest to see who's suffered most." Guy's been my hero every since.
That's the difference between us and the rest a the world. Most guys would a yelled "that's nothing, I had two sick kids."