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    DevilComeKnocking......I actually do hope it changes without any form of violence brother. But I have become a pessimist as of late..... shame on me I guess.

    I'd like to be a whiteKnight.......but I would want that to be for ALL people in need, and not simpleton bitches......I'd love to before I die... be a strong role model for kids,...young men and whoever else with their head on correctly that wants to learn TRUTH and hard work (you know what I mean?)
    Shit bro...I am not ready to give up on Human society yet. But I also don't own a pair of rose-colored glasses! hmmmmmmmm

    Untill they come and ask me....I will just sit back with a glass of scotch and a nice cigar ,...and just watch

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    Quote Originally Posted by Hoppes#9 View Post
    DevilComeKnocking......I actually do hope it changes without any form of violence brother. But I have become a pessimist as of late..... shame on me I guess.

    I'd like to be a whiteKnight.......but I would want that to be for ALL people in need, and not simpleton bitches......I'd love to before I die... be a strong role model for kids,...young men and whoever else with their head on correctly that wants to learn TRUTH and hard work (you know what I mean?)
    Shit bro...I am not ready to give up on Human society yet. But I also don't own a pair of rose-colored glasses! hmmmmmmmm

    Untill they come and ask me....I will just sit back with a glass of scotch and a nice cigar ,...and just watch
    You have more of a heart than me. My heart is so broken with people that I ignore the world. I have fed people that were hungry and helped so many people out only to be shit on. I will help others out as long as they are helping themselves out. Other than that, I am dead to them.

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    Being fairly new here, and to online posting in general I have had thoughts of moving on for a few reasons.

    Mainly because I have felt like I have little to contribute as others here are not only far more knowledgeable on the subject, but are also more eloquent in describing their views.

    I mean I have my own stories to tell but they are soon told. So what else do I have to say except to scour the interweb looking for things to contribute, and as I've said others can do this better than I.

    Also, before joining here I was at almost total peace with life. Reading many of the posts here has re-ignited some of my former red-pill rage and I didn't like it, after all I'd spent years fighting the rage. However, now I think a little rage would do me some good.

    You see, being in my fifties and feeling good about life has left me without any drive. Sometimes a little anger at one's own acceptance of things can be a good thing.

    While I often advise other men to indulge in hobbies and improve their financial situation, I haven't been applying that philosophy in my own life because when you don't think there's any way out of the shitfest it's easy to stop trying and just give up.

    The posts I've read here about self-improvement have forced me to rethink where I'm headed and while I'm not there yet I can feel the incentive increasing.

    So instead of moving on, I'll try to continue posting as the honest feedback I get from you guys can do nothing but help me in my outlook - we're never too knowledgeable nor too old to read something that we haven't heard before. And hopefully some of my own posts might just help some poor unfortunate soul somewhere.

    I believe it is very important to keep these conversations going, even if we repeat ourselves. What 25 year old wants to read a 4 year old post? It may be relevant to his situation but he'll never know because he hasn't read it.

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    This place is not a contest to see who's the smartest, and even if it were, your doing fine. The rest a you rookies too.

    You should a seen this place five years ago, it was overflowing with sharp guys way ahead of their time. They were here to help too, I don't remember anyone looking down on the rest of us. Most a these guys are gone now. A few remain, but that's about it.
    Every day I make the world a little bit worse.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jackoff View Post
    Being fairly new here, and to online posting in general I have had thoughts of moving on for a few reasons.

    Mainly because I have felt like I have little to contribute as others here are not only far more knowledgeable on the subject, but are also more eloquent in describing their views.

    I mean I have my own stories to tell but they are soon told. So what else do I have to say except to scour the interweb looking for things to contribute, and as I've said others can do this better than I.

    Also, before joining here I was at almost total peace with life. Reading many of the posts here has re-ignited some of my former red-pill rage and I didn't like it, after all I'd spent years fighting the rage. However, now I think a little rage would do me some good.

    You see, being in my fifties and feeling good about life has left me without any drive. Sometimes a little anger at one's own acceptance of things can be a good thing.

    While I often advise other men to indulge in hobbies and improve their financial situation, I haven't been applying that philosophy in my own life because when you don't think there's any way out of the shitfest it's easy to stop trying and just give up.

    The posts I've read here about self-improvement have forced me to rethink where I'm headed and while I'm not there yet I can feel the incentive increasing.

    So instead of moving on, I'll try to continue posting as the honest feedback I get from you guys can do nothing but help me in my outlook - we're never too knowledgeable nor too old to read something that we haven't heard before. And hopefully some of my own posts might just help some poor unfortunate soul somewhere.

    I believe it is very important to keep these conversations going, even if we repeat ourselves. What 25 year old wants to read a 4 year old post? It may be relevant to his situation but he'll never know because he hasn't read it.

    I imagine that you wouldn't be alone in thinking like that Jackoff. It could be the very reason that many lurkers decide not to join in, but continue to visit.

    We have all traveled different paths and gained our experiences via many different situations - but all our roads have led us to one similar destination. A destination that didn't even exist many moons ago.

    Your individual experiences are no more and no less worthy than anybody else's on here and we don't rate or rank members in accordance to their previous levels of suffering, or levels of posting material.

    Some members contribute often, some not so much. It doesn't matter which type of member that you are. It's pretty simple - if you have something to say on a certain subject, say it. If you don't...don't worry.

    Having said that, if you don't start posting a lot more than you have done - we'll definitely be kicking you out. Just you see if we don't, Mister!!! (only joking )

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    A lot of our ex-members likely still lurk and I know a few have accounts over at HQ.

    A lot of really good members have been banned, some more than once, for letting red pill rage get to them so much that they attack other members here, which is pretty much our Prime Directive not to do that.

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    Quote Originally Posted by MGTOWFOREVER View Post
    You have more of a heart than me. My heart is so broken with people that I ignore the world. I have fed people that were hungry and helped so many people out only to be shit on. I will help others out as long as they are helping themselves out. Other than that, I am dead to them.
    It never stops honestly where those that have blinders on life have to shit on other people to make their shitty lives feel better. All you can do is shrug your shoulders and move on. I can't feel sorry for those that refuse to acknowledge help or reciprocate that kindness.

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    So I looked and see that I joined back in 2014. I have primarily been a reader over these last 5 years, but have thrown out comments when appropriate.

    I'm past the rage and have reached a level of acceptance.
    I reaced a point where I truly believe that romantic love doesn't exist in the long run and that those females that you allow to get close will eventually destroy you without remorse if its in their interest or if they feel like it at any given point. I dont think this is evil of them, it is just where we are at this point in time and it's what society currently teaches them to do. It would not be this way if the power were not given away by men. So where does that leave a man?

    It leaves me at a point where I must take responsibility for protecting myself. This means no marriage and being totally ready and willing to end a relationship with a woman at any moment if she should try to limit me or give me any cause. Now I know its better to be ready and willing to walk away than to try to work on a relationship, because the moment you're willling to "work" on things, it signifies to her that you're willing to compromise. And THAT is the beginning of the downward spiral.

    So I'm just enjoying life and I still have relationships although they are on my terms or not at all. I still check in here occassionaly because it reminds me of how things were for me and to always be vigilant to keep from ever finding myself in that place again! I appreciate all those who post here. It's those shared stories and experiences that teaches others and let's those that are new to the forum know that they aren't crazy and that things do get better.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Azure Nomad View Post
    It never stops honestly where those that have blinders on life have to shit on other people to make their shitty lives feel better. All you can do is shrug your shoulders and move on. I can't feel sorry for those that refuse to acknowledge help or reciprocate that kindness.
    Dude you have no idea. There is one thing being like me and being straightforward(i.e. Water is wet , The sun is hot,etc) but there is the types that claim to "tell it like it is" and its nothing but insults. The latter is what I deal with. I have fed people that were hungry, gave them help, etc only to be shit on. I refuse to help anyone out unless they are currently helping themselves. Anything that involves giving money is out of the question cause I know I will never see it again. People love to crap on and bully others to build themselves up. I know a woman that is fat, ugly, and very cruel. She acts like she is a young hot to trot supermodel and calls it "confidence". Nope its bullying with an ego trip. She constantly belittles me cause I avoid confrontation. But confrontation to her is constant fighting over something that is neither right or wrong. I try to stay away from people in general. Too much bullshit.

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    Quote Originally Posted by MGTOWFOREVER View Post
    Dude you have no idea. There is one thing being like me and being straightforward(i.e. Water is wet , The sun is hot,etc) but there is the types that claim to "tell it like it is" and its nothing but insults. The latter is what I deal with. I have fed people that were hungry, gave them help, etc only to be shit on. I refuse to help anyone out unless they are currently helping themselves. Anything that involves giving money is out of the question cause I know I will never see it again. People love to crap on and bully others to build themselves up. I know a woman that is fat, ugly, and very cruel. She acts like she is a young hot to trot supermodel and calls it "confidence". Nope its bullying with an ego trip. She constantly belittles me cause I avoid confrontation. But confrontation to her is constant fighting over something that is neither right or wrong. I try to stay away from people in general. Too much bullshit.
    People with high self esteem don't have to proclaim that they are confident, successful, etc. That is a sign of low esteem if they are vocal about this, and they try to lower your higher self esteem to their level. Crabs from the bottom trying to pull crabs at the top back to the bottom over and over again.

    Unfortunately in the blue pill world bullying people, passive aggressiveness and unwarranted remarks is equated to being a high value and high self esteem person. IF I find myself in a group of people that use that value system I don't merely walk away. I run!

    These type of people will keep pushing your personal boundaries until they destroy your life.


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