Thread: Dudes, watch out, inflation has put a target on our backs

Originally Posted by O.G.

I'm on blow job number god knows what since leaving the plantation. The best one never made me think for an instant of going back.

Oh well. I'll do me . And so will some she, do me. On occasion. As I see fit. I find it hard to believe I'm the only guy out here who thinks this way. I might well be.

Ain't nothing wrong with gettin' blowjobs. The problem is that acquiring said blowjob comes with interaction with women. Assuming that one isn't looking to see a pro, that interaction has to be logistically set up in something called a 'date'. Those dates involve spending money and time and generally being a dancing monkey.

I mean, if a woman in a supermarket was just handing them out - I would probably get one.

Originally Posted by Jacknife

Ain't nothing wrong with gettin' blowjobs. The problem is that acquiring said blowjob comes with interaction with women. Assuming that one isn't looking to see a pro, that interaction has to be logistically set up in something called a 'date'. Those dates involve spending money and time and generally being a dancing monkey.

I mean, if a woman in a supermarket was just handing them out - I would probably get one.

WTF is wrong with a date?? I mean really. I'm no dancing monkey trying for one either. Nor do I spend all kinds of money either. I'm not dealing with chasing lounge bunnies. Or women who show no interest in me. I only spend my time where it is worth my time. At the ages of the posters who talked about women noticing them. Well many women will just hand them out. To someone they are attracted to. That is still the same as it is for younger guys.

Back to the date thing. As if my time is so important or valuable to not want to have some fun. Or some sex. What's wrong with spending some time grabbin some ass and titty? In my experience a woman who approaches me, is ready to escalate the game. Have not been proven wrong yet. Yeah I date. In my way. I'm no womans fool.

Went to home improvement store when doing a kitchen project. Kitchen design broad is my age. Has an awesome rack on her. See's me grabbing some assemble yourself cabinets. Starts to chat me up if I've had a pro design my kitchen remodel. How I could benefit from the expertise. I catch on to the message. She wants to set a time to come over to measure the kitchen. I set it up. The day comes and here she is. Within an hour and a half, she's wiping my load off those big tits. Putting herself together to go back to work. To design my kitchen.

Turned into a great FWB for years. She was pretty broke. However knew how to even things out. If I bought dinner one time. She showed up at my place next time. With all the fixins for a home cooked meal. That she brought. Then she steps into the bedroom. Comes out in the panties , seemed stockings and garters, she is topless with those awesome hooters on full display. THEN proceeds to cook and serve dinner to me that way. I'd say that was a good return of my dinner purchase for her at a chain restaurant. You may not feel that way. Or that I somehow overpaid? Or did not spend my time wisely, by myself, working on my hobbies?

There is a huge difference between dating like a fool. Or dating a woman who wants to spend time with you. I did her for a few years. 2-3 times a month. Had a literal blast each time. My point is it's not as bad as is often over exaggerated here. I'm just stating what it's been in real life. Not what I think it's like. Again just my experience.

Originally Posted by O.G.

I must be the horniest old dude left on the planet. At least you guys make me feel like it. Plus I must be into extreme danger as well. All this talk about dressing down, hiding cars, alligators, crocodile's, cop's knocking on my door, faking being gay, #4,365 cock count and so forth.

Originally Posted by O.G.

Am I really O.G. the barbarian? To face down all those extreme challenges and survive? Might even say emerge the victor. I don't think so. Not at all. Could it be shit gets taken to unrealistic extremes here? I think that is way more the case. It's all fine. We all go our own way.


What I do know in my experience. At 55 years old or more it's tough to find a virgin. Like I would want one. What if my pussy count comes close to her cock count? Do we both just call it a day? That's it. No sex for either of you. You've both had too much!!


I'm on blow job number god knows what since leaving the plantation. The best one never made me think for an instant of going back. None of the often touted disasters has befallen me. Still no kids. Still no moving van moving her shit into my home. No greedy hooks into my assets. Still have all my hobbies. I just know this. I would be fucking some of those women talked about in this post. Most likely found a FWB or two from it.


Oh well. I'll do me . And so will some she, do me. On occasion. As I see fit. I find it hard to believe I'm the only guy out here who thinks this way. I might well be.

We all draw our line in the sand. I will not deny that I get horny, I rubbed one out this morning and last night. The only difference is a female burps your worm and I use my hand.


I think MannSplainer’s tagline states it very well, “Sex is the bait. Marriage is the trap. Divorce rape is the goal.”


You manage to take the bait and avoid the trap, good for you. I am not interested in the bait because burping my worm on my own is more peaceful.

Originally Posted by GrnB

We all draw our line in the sand. I will not deny that I get horny, I rubbed one out this morning and last night. The only difference is a female burps your worm and I use my hand.


I think MannSplainer’s tagline states it very well, “Sex is the bait. Marriage is the trap. Divorce rape is the goal.”


You manage to take the bait and avoid the trap, good for you. I am not interested in the bait because burping my worm on my own is more peaceful.

I respect that viewpoint 100%. Not here to convert your thinking. It's your way, and the way of many others here.

I also see value to presenting a different outlook. It is not all gloom and instant doom out there.

Originally Posted by O.G.

WTF is wrong with a date?? I mean really. I'm no dancing monkey trying for one either. Nor do I spend all kinds of money either. I'm not dealing with chasing lounge bunnies. Or women who show no interest in me. I only spend my time where it is worth my time. At the ages of the posters who talked about women noticing them. Well many women will just hand them out. To someone they are attracted to. That is still the same as it is for younger guys.

Back to the date thing. As if my time is so important or valuable to not want to have some fun. Or some sex. What's wrong with spending some time grabbin some ass and titty? In my experience a woman who approaches me, is ready to escalate the game. Have not been proven wrong yet. Yeah I date. In my way. I'm no womans fool.

Went to home improvement store when doing a kitchen project. Kitchen design broad is my age. Has an awesome rack on her. See's me grabbing some assemble yourself cabinets. Starts to chat me up if I've had a pro design my kitchen remodel. How I could benefit from the expertise. I catch on to the message. She wants to set a time to come over to measure the kitchen. I set it up. The day comes and here she is. Within an hour and a half, she's wiping my load off those big tits. Putting herself together to go back to work. To design my kitchen.

Turned into a great FWB for years. She was pretty broke. However knew how to even things out. If I bought dinner one time. She showed up at my place next time. With all the fixins for a home cooked meal. That she brought. Then she steps into the bedroom. Comes out in the panties , seemed stockings and garters, she is topless with those awesome hooters on full display. THEN proceeds to cook and serve dinner to me that way. I'd say that was a good return of my dinner purchase for her at a chain restaurant. You may not feel that way. Or that I somehow overpaid? Or did not spend my time wisely, by myself, working on my hobbies?

There is a huge difference between dating like a fool. Or dating a woman who wants to spend time with you. I did her for a few years. 2-3 times a month. Had a literal blast each time. My point is it's not as bad as is often over exaggerated here. I'm just stating what it's been in real life. Not what I think it's like. Again just my experience.

You lucky stiff! I always attract the psychos like a magnet being dragged through a scrap yard! My friends named one girl "Psycho Bitch" and me "Psycho Magnet", oh look, hers comes Psycho Magnet and his new girlfriend Psycho Bitch... (shit-u-not)

Originally Posted by O.G.

I respect that viewpoint 100%. Not here to convert your thinking. It's your way, and the way of many others here.

Originally Posted by O.G.

I also see value to presenting a different outlook. It is not all gloom and instant doom out there.

I agree it is not all gloom and instant doom. Not once was I seriously falsely accused. In a playful way I have been accused of ass grabbing when I happened to bump someone at work. I responded with, "I do what I want, with who I want, whenever I want."


This was years ago, when I was younger, ignorant, and willing to take risks at work. She liked that response very much and we would have sex after work.


Eventually it dawned on me, what if the female did not find me attractive? How might this have gone differently if she accused me of ass grabbing, I only bumped her accidentally, and I responded in the way I did? I came to the conclusion that the service she was providing was not worth the risk.


This is not to say no female is ever worth the risk. On my routine hike last week a woman stopped my friend and I and asked, "How often do you do this hike?"


"A few times a week." I responded. We have a quick conversation where she mentions she has seen us on the mountain. She is attractive, I could ask her for her number to see if we might have a quicky. I do not ask for her number and we split ways.


I am at the super market, two chicks are working at the deli, I make eye contact with one look her up and down, then the other one and look her up and down, they are both smiling at me. During my PUA days this would have been an indication of interest and I would begin a conversation with them. I smile and continue shopping.


Why did I change?


Attractive women warp my mind if I pursue them. The transcendent state I have found where there is very minimal suffering and desire evaporates. In this transcendent state I am not a consumer whose hidden instinctual desires are manipulated to sell them goods and services to advertise their value on the sexual market.


This is not to say I am better than the consumer. This is to say that I am in a different state, a state that is less volatile.


This is not to say that I believe the consumer should not exist. This is to say that I do not want to become a consumer.


This is not to say I believe life is all about avoiding pain, suffering and all risks. I hike a mountain a few times a week because it causes me pain. There is risk I could slip and fall and break my leg or crack my skull. That is a risk I am willing to take.


A risk I am not willing to take is placing my sexual pleasure in the power of women.


When am I willing to have sex?


If an attractive sober female comes along, and asks me to have sex with her. In this circumstance I am not giving her power over my sexual pleasure, she is giving me the power. This may never happen and that is a risk I am willing to take.

Originally Posted by O.G.

Within an hour and a half, she's wiping my load off those big tits. Putting herself together to go back to work. To design my kitchen.

Turned into a great FWB for years. She was pretty broke. However knew how to even things out. If I bought dinner one time. She showed up at my place next time. With all the fixins for a home cooked meal. That she brought. Then she steps into the bedroom. Comes out in the panties , seemed stockings and garters, she is topless with those awesome hooters on full display. THEN proceeds to cook and serve dinner to me that way. I'd say that was a good return of my dinner purchase for her at a chain restaurant. You may not feel that way. Or that I somehow overpaid?

Mate, you didn't overpay. You got yourself a unicorn there. All I'm sayin is, that's about as likely for me as winning the jackpot on the lottery.

Last woman I had a relationshit with, in the beginning asked me if she could pay me cash money for the cost in fuel or train tickets to come to her house and fuck her every weekend while her daughter was at her ex's house.

I went to her place and she would cook dinner. A couple of times she barbequed some steaks with halloumi cheese and veggies. There was always quality wine. She liked scotch and always had some to go with movies. Introduced me to the whisky mac. I got her some rye bourbon once for xmas like I would have done for a fella. No stress.

Yeah, she was also an Oxford graduate with a director level job. That's what I saw in the begining; educated, rational, willing to pay cash money for what I was committing to. What she turned out to be was =a feminist with daddy issues, to add to the single mother red flag.

So for me, that was the last straw for me and women. No matter how good it looked at the front end, once you get involved it always turns out to be a a venus fly trap that devours you whole.

LOL.....you guys must be really attractive for your age or something.

I'm in my 40s and never run into this at the grocery store.

Getting back to the original topic of this thread:

Coach Greg Adams warned us to "beware the hobo-sexuals."

Not seeing it. Actually ask them out and see what happens. Like always they just want attention. Ask them out and they'll immediately start playing their same old game and say no and then brag to their friends how some guy was after them. I'm almost your age and still get that same notice from women but I can assure you if they're even slightly attractive they have boyfriends or are married. Like I said, it's just their same old game.

Originally Posted by Brock

LOL.....you guys must be really attractive for your age or something.

I'm in my 40s and never run into this at the grocery store.

Yes, I gave up drinking at a young age and never smoked or touched drugs. These three things age people more than anyone wants to admit. And I'm in decent shape for my age. Not great but decent. I still get noticed by young women but I can tell you it's meaningless. As I stated in my other post these women are always already taken. It's just a game to them.

My thoughts exactly. For a man who's truly gone his own way, the interest of the modern woman will not entice.

It happened again yesterday at the store, A 30ish yr old woman, about 30 lbs overweight came near me in the aisle, said 'Hello' and said 'Hi' and walked away and finished by shopping

Its gotta be the inflation
Around here, rents are up 30%, now food and gas prices are following
I think they are at their wits end to signal a guy twice her age

btw- I noticed a few content creators showing tik toks of women REQUIRING men to pay some of their bills in return for a relationship. One, she must have been a 5 at best, gave the laundry list, $3800/mo

IM LIKE WTF?? These women are delusional

If we really wanted to be jerks, we could comment with something like

"Honey, you are beautiful ! I just cant afford that now, but things are looking up for my business, so I will check back if things improve"

or

"My buddy pays $5400/mo in bills for his girlfriend, and you are much better looking"



LOL

Originally Posted by FrankS

It happened again yesterday at the store, A 30ish yr old woman, about 30 lbs overweight came near me in the aisle, said 'Hello' and said 'Hi' and walked away and finished by shopping

Its gotta be the inflation
Around here, rents are up 30%, now food and gas prices are following
I think they are at their wits end to signal a guy twice her age

btw- I noticed a few content creators showing tik toks of women REQUIRING men to pay some of their bills in return for a relationship. One, she must have been a 5 at best, gave the laundry list, $3800/mo

IM LIKE WTF?? These women are delusional

If we really wanted to be jerks, we could comment with something like

"Honey, you are beautiful ! I just cant afford that now, but things are looking up for my business, so I will check back if things improve"

or

"My buddy pays $5400/mo in bills for his girlfriend, and you are much better looking"



LOL

Unless a bitch is willing to spend all day in a my rice patty doing menial shit work dusk to dark I have no use for her!

Just because they could be useful doesn't mean they are! Let them till their own fields or starve, I wasn't created to pick up anyone's SLACK!

Can you imagine them filling out a cohabitation resume?---

Feed me, cloth me, warm me, help me, and fuck you!; doesn't cut it in my HR!

Originally Posted by FrankS

I noticed a few content creators showing tik toks of women REQUIRING men to pay some of their bills in return for a relationship

If we really wanted to be jerks, we could comment with something like

"Honey, you are beautiful ! I just cant afford that now, but things are looking up for my business, so I will check back if things improve"

or

"My buddy pays $5400/mo in bills for his girlfriend, and you are much better looking"



LOL

Nah mate, that is really nowhere near being a jerk, not in my estimation. As someone who lives in England, "jerk" is not part of my vocabulary. Its a word I only ever hear in television and movies. But assuming that I've grasped the meaning correctly as something like "being a dick", then you would be letting them off very lightly with comments like that in my view.

The first comment starts off with a compliment and makes out that YOU are the one that is too poor to save a whore.

The second one validates the concept that men in general should be renting girlfriends. Accepting its credence as the basis for relationships.

Here are a few suggestions off the top of my head.

"Well you are obviously not one of those strong, independent women I keep hearing about. I only date them" (Joke's on her, I don't date)

"I will rent you as a girlfriend on one condition; I get to roll up the bills into a wedge and stick it up your arse"

"Yeah, but YOU have to pay ME when you are on the rag"

"Here's my email address. Ask me again when you've lost 30lbs"

"If you never have children, and get a cat instead, that might be worth some money. Call it a payment for services to humanity."

Originally Posted by Chris007

Come on MannSplainer, don't you want to be number 4,365 on her cock count?

Your comment reminded me of the scene from Interstate 60...

https://youtu.be/vnFfMTnz_NU

Originally Posted by Jacknife

Nah mate, that is really nowhere near being a jerk,

Let me explain
She is toast, her fate is sealed , no reason to be a jerk to her, she has a lifetime of disappointment and misery ahead

the jerk part is leaving the comments so OTHER women read the comments and think they deserve the same or more

Originally Posted by Brock

LOL.....you guys must be really attractive for your age or something.

I'm in my 40s and never run into this at the grocery store.

Nah....at our age women no longer check the bulge in the front of your pants. They are now looking for that worn out spot on the back pocket of your pants. The pocket where you keep your wallet.

How's your wallet bulge lookin Brock?

my counter offer to women who want me to pay their bills in exchange for a relationship: "I'll keep my money, and you keep the relationship. Let's see who goes hungry first..."

Originally Posted by O.G.

Nah....at our age women no longer check the bulge in the front of your pants. They are now looking for that worn out spot on the back pocket of your pants. The pocket where you keep your wallet.

How's your wallet bulge lookin Brock?

Not much of a bulge at all.

I carry very little cash.