Thread: Do any of you have (much) younger women hitting on you?

I am pretty sure I have read some related posts here from time-to-time. I figured the guys posting these stories were a perfect 10.

I'm in my 40s and have had a few women in their 20s expressing interest in me as of late, over the past month or so.

I wouldn't say I'm a 10 but have been building some muscle as of late (and also some fat) so I might look a little better than before (at least with a shirt on - not so good with it off). Other than that, not much difference.

I was at the drugstore a few weeks ago and had just had my ears pierced (which I have since let close) and was looking for something to clean the new piercings. This girl (20 something) that worked there was all bending over backwards to help and then started telling me about her piercings.

Anyway....I let the piercings close and wore a hat to my visit to another store this week. I didn't expect to be approached.

I was in the shampoo section and trying to decide which shampoo to buy out of the thousand options. This girl came over and started talking to me. The conversation started about shampoo and then about common interests and work and other things. It was a friendly conversation and ended in a handshake as she asked for my name and gave me her name and her card. I looked her up and it looks like she had just graduated high school a few years ago. I figured she was closer to 30 and maybe she thought I was in my 30s.

And there was the girl at Home Depot (also in her 20s) who was a bit flirtacious on more than one occasion.

The last time I was on a dating site, I couldn't get responses from fat women that were older than me with kids.

Not sure what to make of this. I never attracted attention from women in that age range when I was in my early to mid 20s. Maybe it has something to do with the economy? Or something to do with the pandemic restrictions having been lifted and people wanting to mingle again?

The only one interested in me lately was one of those land whales that would break the bed if she jumped on it. Young enough to be my granddaughter too.

The pandemic has changed things. Some people are actually nicer than before. Some are worse too, but I think there's a few more of the nicer one's. It's an ill wind that blows nobody any good.

Probably economy. Men value freedom, women safety. And I don't think that for the last year they had a reason to feel safe.
Pandemic made every woman freak out. Promptly after pandemic, OF tried to divest from 304's. Then you have economic crisis and Roe vs Wade.
I think it is reasonable to assume that this is a sign of growing desperation amidst women. Either that or you are carousel material.

Hammerhand made a great video during the peak of pandemic panic. UNFORGIVEN - you are on your own . He makes an interesting obeservation - every woman he sees looks worried and men as if they didn't care. He points out that men no longer help women, they don't even flinch upon seeing a woman that clearly needs help. He says that in his experience it is way more common to see women help other women than a man even entertaining the possibility.

Also during the pandemic his ex-GF have tried to hit him up. He made two recordings of their meeting (they are somwhere on mgtow.tv). She was really despaired - heavily insinuated towards intercourse from the very beggining, and when she was not, she tried to get his address.

R.P.M also recently notices similiar behaviour. He revels in growing desperation of women. He is a deliveryman so he sees many things indeed. Cherry on top - his ex-wife is really panicked recently and tries to make ammends.

I don't have any personal experiences to share. Though you can feel disturbance in the force indeed.

They see the hard times ahead (if not already here) and are looking for someone to take care of them. When times are good, women are 'strong, independent, kick ass warriors'. When the chips are down, 99.9% are scared ass bitches looking for a man to take care of business.

Funny you bring this up, OP. Back in my BP days I felt like the invisible man. I got angry with friends who told me: "remember this/ that girl 3 months ago? She was hitting on you!" Angry for telling me now and not back then. After TRP when I lost interest in women (sure, I enjoy nice curves. I'm still a man) I "finally" could see women hitting on me. TRP taught me all their stupid mindgames/ signalling tricks and now women are so blatantly obvious. I just pretend I'm not seeing it and complete my interaction with them. And I still remember my simping "tactics" as backup plan. In case she's insisting, I'll go back to acting really insecure, I'll start talking about my emotions and act very nice and polite to them. As we all know: those are excellent thot repellents. (-;

Edit: not specific age brackets in my case, OP. I also dee heavily walled women hitting on me. And no: not all. But quite a few.

Back when I entertained lovers I had a few women a decade or two younger than I. Not many though and it was never a goal.

Now nothing, because I stopped dating entirely.

Originally Posted by Brock

Not sure what to make of this. I never attracted attention from women in that age range when I was in my early to mid 20s. Maybe it has something to do with the economy? Or something to do with the pandemic restrictions having been lifted and people wanting to mingle again?

It may have something to do with your age, then and now. And their age, if they are getting close to 30.

There's a story out there that, as women approach the age of 30, they want to end their former hookup ways (aka are now hitting the wall) and settle down and hook a man for security's sake. All of her friends are getting married, etc. They wouldn't see a man in his 20s (your younger self) as a candidate for this, but would see your current self (and assumed wealth, which they will make it a point to discover from you) as desirable for this. Earlier, they were getting too much attention from guys to have approached you. But, times are a-changing for them as they age, and attention is dwindling. The guys are now pouring on the attention to chicks younger that they have now become.

The moral of this story is that a given guy might think that a sudden attention from women means women are finally coming around to a maturity in appreciating him, when they used to ignore him before. Nah, it means it's your turn to get used.

Originally Posted by Brock

I am pretty sure I have read some related posts here from time-to-time. I figured the guys posting these stories were a perfect 10.

I'm in my 40s and have had a few women in their 20s expressing interest in me as of late, over the past month or so.

I wouldn't say I'm a 10 but have been building some muscle as of late (and also some fat) so I might look a little better than before (at least with a shirt on - not so good with it off). Other than that, not much difference.

I was at the drugstore a few weeks ago and had just had my ears pierced (which I have since let close) and was looking for something to clean the new piercings. This girl (20 something) that worked there was all bending over backwards to help and then started telling me about her piercings.

Anyway....I let the piercings close and wore a hat to my visit to another store this week. I didn't expect to be approached.

I was in the shampoo section and trying to decide which shampoo to buy out of the thousand options. This girl came over and started talking to me. The conversation started about shampoo and then about common interests and work and other things. It was a friendly conversation and ended in a handshake as she asked for my name and gave me her name and her card. I looked her up and it looks like she had just graduated high school a few years ago. I figured she was closer to 30 and maybe she thought I was in my 30s.

And there was the girl at Home Depot (also in her 20s) who was a bit flirtacious on more than one occasion.

The last time I was on a dating site, I couldn't get responses from fat women that were older than me with kids.

Not sure what to make of this. I never attracted attention from women in that age range when I was in my early to mid 20s. Maybe it has something to do with the economy? Or something to do with the pandemic restrictions having been lifted and people wanting to mingle again?

Hmmm, upgrades.

Originally Posted by Brock

I am pretty sure I have read some related posts here from time-to-time. I figured the guys posting these stories were a perfect 10.

I'm in my 40s and have had a few women in their 20s expressing interest in me as of late, over the past month or so.

I wouldn't say I'm a 10 but have been building some muscle as of late (and also some fat) so I might look a little better than before (at least with a shirt on - not so good with it off). Other than that, not much difference.

I was at the drugstore a few weeks ago and had just had my ears pierced (which I have since let close) and was looking for something to clean the new piercings. This girl (20 something) that worked there was all bending over backwards to help and then started telling me about her piercings.

Anyway....I let the piercings close and wore a hat to my visit to another store this week. I didn't expect to be approached.

I was in the shampoo section and trying to decide which shampoo to buy out of the thousand options. This girl came over and started talking to me. The conversation started about shampoo and then about common interests and work and other things. It was a friendly conversation and ended in a handshake as she asked for my name and gave me her name and her card. I looked her up and it looks like she had just graduated high school a few years ago. I figured she was closer to 30 and maybe she thought I was in my 30s.

And there was the girl at Home Depot (also in her 20s) who was a bit flirtacious on more than one occasion.

The last time I was on a dating site, I couldn't get responses from fat women that were older than me with kids.

Not sure what to make of this. I never attracted attention from women in that age range when I was in my early to mid 20s. Maybe it has something to do with the economy? Or something to do with the pandemic restrictions having been lifted and people wanting to mingle again?

I'm guessing you must be wealthy. If you want to stay that way, you must avoid women. They're experts at making us feel good, gaining our trust, which they'll then use against you to rob you blind.

Sometimes. I have a very closed off kind of demeanor so often I don't notice others except to avoid them and I know I am off putting in terms of being approached/spoken to. I like it that way.

But every so often I do notice a woman, younger or not smiling at me or looking at me etc. I still check women out sometimes too, I won't give up that part of myself as it seems natural and healthy. Checking out doesn't mean going any further. I sometimes get caught doing that by the woman and I have noticed their reactions are positive. I get the "ask me out/come hither" look.

I've always been terribly slow at picking up on cues and I am not a great talker, factor in that I don't give a shit and nothing happens lol.

It tends to be rare that a woman will be more direct about it though. I did have one woman who was chatting to me on the train a few months ago. She wasn't younger though. I just saw it as chatting but she was happy to see me in the elevator later and kept chatting. I think she was hitting on me. I don't really know about these things. Years back I was in the plant section of the hardware store looking at veggies for my garden and a woman started to chat to me, I didn't think anything of it but she looked bummed out later on. I also suspect she was trying to hit on me. I read that women do this a lot at Hardware type shops where there are lots of men.

Originally Posted by Kryptic

I also suspect she was trying to hit on me. I read that women do this a lot at Hardware type shops where there are lots of men.

Yep, they will go to a store where men will be to hit them up.... You would think women should hunt men at the grocery store, chances are he is single if he's doing a weekly shop.... Nope, if he's single he is not as desirable or something is wrong with him... A mate use to wear his wedding ring after he was divorced to pick up women... A ring doubled his chances of getting laid he figured.

Originally Posted by Kryptic

Sometimes. I have a very closed off kind of demeanor so often I don't notice others except to avoid them and I know I am off putting in terms of being approached/spoken to. I like it that way.

But every so often I do notice a woman, younger or not smiling at me or looking at me etc. I still check women out sometimes too, I won't give up that part of myself as it seems natural and healthy. Checking out doesn't mean going any further. I sometimes get caught doing that by the woman and I have noticed their reactions are positive. I get the "ask me out/come hither" look.

I've always been terribly slow at picking up on cues and I am not a great talker, factor in that I don't give a shit and nothing happens lol.

It tends to be rare that a woman will be more direct about it though. I did have one woman who was chatting to me on the train a few months ago. She wasn't younger though. I just saw it as chatting but she was happy to see me in the elevator later and kept chatting. I think she was hitting on me. I don't really know about these things. Years back I was in the plant section of the hardware store looking at veggies for my garden and a woman started to chat to me, I didn't think anything of it but she looked bummed out later on. I also suspect she was trying to hit on me. I read that women do this a lot at Hardware type shops where there are lots of men.

That's where come in, that moment is in the art of womanizing! It's scary knowing how easy it is to gain entrance and how easy it is finding the whores! You'd be surprised if you just went for it, never mind trying to set things up!

I ran with that plan from age 11 to my final trip over the wall in my 30s'! It's the how-to wear out one's commit'o'odometer! The final number just runs out! When it's over it's over, time to heal, time to grow, time to hit every mountain around and take 20 years off to go skiing! Nothing removes love bonding agents like living in late last century when everything awful was encouraged to bloom!

For the last two+ decades I feel like a neutral observer aboard the Freddy Krueger line in the bowels of hell itself! It's a full blown hellfire! I caught just a glimmer of a world where men and boys had short hair, women and girls wore dresses, uniformed attendants worked at gas stations, drive in theater not more than 15 minutes away, and girls on roller-skates hooking trays to your window to hold your burgers and soft drinks.

It was a world prior to the burning of bras and the endless outrage spawned in the spirit of feminism, blooming to gynocentrism, and culminating to our mutual assured destruction under this now matriarchy where men are legally made to endure lawfully beset disadvantages and discriminations, these include

1. Selective services.

2. Affirmative action (apartheid).

3. Food and shelter assistance.

4. Gender affiliated cancer research (all for women, none for men).

5. Retirement equity, men work longer hours, put in more time and effort, pay more in taxes, and on average die years sooner.

6. Education, 60% of higher education grads are women, yet they enjoy the privileges, advancements, and advantages of Affirmative Action as a minority graduate, victims of alleged gender disparity.

7. Divorce law, child custody, child support, and who gets free housing and who gets jail when families fail and incomes vanish.

There's more on this topic than I care to repeat, but one thing's for sure, men have been demoted to modern day Toby, based entirely on gender and the social reconstruction over the last HALF CENTURY!

All aboard! The Krueger Express is departing! MGTOW exempt!

Originally Posted by 2_Time_Loser

They see the hard times ahead (if not already here) and are looking for someone to take care of them. When times are good, women are 'strong, independent, kick ass warriors'. When the chips are down, 99.9% are scared ass bitches looking for a man to take care of business.

All three of these women have jobs though....although not high paying. I couldn't imagine someone who works at a drug store or hardware store making that much. The other one is a personal trainer, probably does not make all that much as well.

From what I've observed in the past, it's women in their 30s that are more concerned with a paycheck and financial stability. These women are in their early to mid 20s. Women in that age range tend to go for the bad boys. Perhaps that is changing.

Originally Posted by bazalgette

Probably economy. Men value freedom, women safety. And I don't think that for the last year they had a reason to feel safe.
Pandemic made every woman freak out. Promptly after pandemic, OF tried to divest from 304's. Then you have economic crisis and Roe vs Wade.
I think it is reasonable to assume that this is a sign of growing desperation amidst women. Either that or you are carousel material.

Carousel material.....I've never really thought of myself that way.

I've had plenty of attention in the past but it was usually at work where I was dressed up and perhaps they thought I had money or something. It's very rarely happened when out in public shopping or roaming around town while wearing jeans or shorts and a tee.

When I first had the earrings in and the "styled" hair, I went to the mall and did get some attention there as well as the drugstore I mentioned in the OP. One older women approached me at a store that had a Father's Day sale and told me it was for me (I'm a father? Really?) She then approached me two more times to tell me about some discounts they had and was all smiley and flirty. I don't know if it was the hair or the earrings or both, but the saleswomen seemed friendlier than usual.

I thought maybe it was the hair or the earrings that gave me a certain look....but then I had this early 20 something approach me the other day. I had let the piercings close up by then and was wearing a tee and shorts with a hat (which covered up my bald spot on top). I wonder if she would have even said anything if I was not wearing the hat. She made a comment about guys rarely wanting to "take care of their hair' and one of her first questions was "is this for your wife?". Maybe she thought I was married and safe to talk to. Or she was trying to see if I was available. She is a personal trainer at a local gym (a topic that I am passionate about) so that's how we connected. I did admire her passion and enthusiasm, not yet jaded like most women my age are. I must admit that I enjoyed the conversation. I'm under no illusion that any kind of dating or relationship would work with her being so much younger. While I cannot see myself getting married (or even a LTR), I cannot say that I am convinced it would be a horrible thing to make a new friend or do business with someone that happens to be a younger female.

Originally Posted by Unboxxed

It may have something to do with your age, then and now. And their age, if they are getting close to 30.

If my research is correct, the one is in her early 20s as she just graduated from high school a few years back. I thought she was closer to 30 though, judging by her look (not bad looking but more mature) and the way she spoke and carried herself. Maybe they are wanting to settle down younger these days?

I'm not sure how she would know my financial status by the way I was dressed as I was dressed plainly (shorts and a tee). I did have a basket full of stuff that she might have noticed, although I had left it in the aisle before I bumped into her. Maybe she say my basket earlier and then followed me there. Hard to tell.

Originally Posted by TigPlaze

I'm guessing you must be wealthy.

Not really, and even if I was, it's not like these women would know it.

Originally Posted by TigPlaze

If you want to stay that way, you must avoid women. They're experts at making us feel good, gaining our trust, which they'll then use against you to rob you blind.

Words of wisdom!

Originally Posted by Kryptic

Sometimes. I have a very closed off kind of demeanor so often I don't notice others except to avoid them and I know I am off putting in terms of being approached/spoken to. I like it that way.

But every so often I do notice a woman, younger or not smiling at me or looking at me etc. I still check women out sometimes too, I won't give up that part of myself as it seems natural and healthy. Checking out doesn't mean going any further. I sometimes get caught doing that by the woman and I have noticed their reactions are positive. I get the "ask me out/come hither" look.

I've always been terribly slow at picking up on cues and I am not a great talker, factor in that I don't give a shit and nothing happens lol.

I can certainly relate to this.

Originally Posted by Kryptic

It tends to be rare that a woman will be more direct about it though. I did have one woman who was chatting to me on the train a few months ago. She wasn't younger though. I just saw it as chatting but she was happy to see me in the elevator later and kept chatting. I think she was hitting on me. I don't really know about these things. Years back I was in the plant section of the hardware store looking at veggies for my garden and a woman started to chat to me, I didn't think anything of it but she looked bummed out later on. I also suspect she was trying to hit on me. I read that women do this a lot at Hardware type shops where there are lots of men.

I once had a woman chat me up on a train once. It was full and she ended up next to me. She was all friendly and everything....and then told me that she was engaged to a guy in the front of the train, who was seated with his family.

Another time, I was watching a game at the bar at a sports bar. A woman sat next to me and started a conversation. It was all friendly and then she told me she was there to pick up her boyfriend, who was a cook there. LOL

Nobody's been hitting on me- I'm in my 50's and a little south of even typical 'dad bod.' Add to that my permanent, stoic resting bitch face, and that equals 'not approachable.'

That aside, I'm not surprised to hear about more men being approached. These are not good times, especially in America, and they are going to get a lot worse before they get better- if they even do get better in my lifetime. Women, among their many traits, are seekers of security. Double digit inflation, through-the-roof energy costs, impending shortages, and rampant crime do not spell security or good times. Women are going to fall into two broad categories (pun intended): 1) Those living on the financial edge who are going to want a man for his resources, and 2) Those who don't need the resources per se, but want a protector with some physical strength and some marksmanship skills to protect what she does have. Plus his resources.

That's my general take on it. I think women sense that times are going to get worse than they already are. Historically speaking, those are bad times to be female.

Originally Posted by mgtower

That's where come in, that moment is in the art of womanizing! It's scary knowing how easy it is to gain entrance and how easy it is finding the whores! You'd be surprised if you just went for it, never mind trying to set things up!

I ran with that plan from age 11 to my final trip over the wall in my 30s'! It's the how-to wear out one's commit'o'odometer! The final number just runs out! When it's over it's over, time to heal, time to grow, time to hit every mountain around and take 20 years off to go skiing! Nothing removes love bonding agents like living in late last century when everything awful was encouraged to bloom!

For the last two+ decades I feel like a neutral observer aboard the Freddy Krueger line in the bowels of hell itself! It's a full blown hellfire! I caught just a glimmer of a world where men and boys had short hair, women and girls wore dresses, uniformed attendants worked at gas stations, drive in theater not more than 15 minutes away, and girls on roller-skates hooking trays to your window to hold your burgers and soft drinks.

It was a world prior to the burning of bras and the endless outrage spawned in the spirit of feminism, blooming to gynocentrism, and culminating to our mutual assured destruction under this now matriarchy where men are legally made to endure lawfully beset disadvantages and discriminations, these include

1. Selective services.

2. Affirmative action (apartheid).

3. Food and shelter assistance.

4. Gender affiliated cancer research (all for women, none for men).

5. Retirement equity, men work longer hours, put in more time and effort, pay more in taxes, and on average die years sooner.

6. Education, 60% of higher education grads are women, yet they enjoy the privileges, advancements, and advantages of Affirmative Action as a minority graduate, victims of alleged gender disparity.

7. Divorce law, child custody, child support, and who gets free housing and who gets jail when families fail and incomes vanish.

There's more on this topic than I care to repeat, but one thing's for sure, men have been demoted to modern day Toby, based entirely on gender and the social reconstruction over the last HALF CENTURY!

All aboard! The Krueger Express is departing! MGTOW exempt!

It took me a while to realize that stuff but even once I did, I still didn't want to take the chance of getting involved with women. I was born in the early 70's, there was still this thing where we were meant to believe women didn't really like sex and only did it for the benefit of their man. That you had to be polite to them and romantic etc to win them over.

I realized that it was all bullshit and the best approaches were usually direct. That women liked the surprise, a man just approaching them out of nowhere and talking to them. Not even asking if they wanted to go for a drink, but telling them that was going to happen etc.

I would imagine now it's even easier. I just never cared enough to follow through, even when I was younger and did make the approach on occasion. It never appealed to me enough to take the leap.

Originally Posted by Brock

I can certainly relate to this.



I once had a woman chat me up on a train once. It was full and she ended up next to me. She was all friendly and everything....and then told me that she was engaged to a guy in the front of the train, who was seated with his family.

Another time, I was watching a game at the bar at a sports bar. A woman sat next to me and started a conversation. It was all friendly and then she told me she was there to pick up her boyfriend, who was a cook there. LOL

My experiences with various types of sex workers has taught me that women tend not to have any loyalty. The amount of them that have partners (even female partners) and yet still do that work. I had one happy ending massage where she was telling me she has a boyfriend, he doesn't know about what she does but in her mind she isn't doing anything "that bad". No, she is just jerking guys off illegally for non taxable cash.

She even threw in extras without charge and without me even asking for them!

One attached stripper told me she had a boyfriend and I asked if he minded what she did for work and her response was "well if he loves me, he should accept it" well, if he loves you he might not want you grinding against other men. Not that he knew anyway lol.

On the eve of Independence Day in America, I content myself with the knowledge that one of my forefathers probably shot one of Spooky's forefathers.

I'm out. Peace.
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