Thread: "Dilemma", R Kelly Feat. Nelly

No matter what I do (woo)
All I think about is you (uh huh)
Even when I'm with my boo
Boy, you know I'm crazy over you (check it)

<record scratch> WTF? "Even when I'm with my boo"?

That's the thing. Easy listening, gentle-sounding chick song. About love. But then check out the lyrics. Her "boo", of course, is the guy that pays the bills, the guy with whom she goes grocery shopping. And being "with" soneone, in context, means fucking. This easy-listening number is about a woman dreaming of someone else while she is in bed fucking her "boo".

I shouldn't be surprised, I guess. I just has a read of the rest of the lyrics to write this post. Holy shit. It's disgusting, what's going on.

Two points to note.

One: all those sappy romantic chick songs are about sex. They are about fucking. That's what "romance" is. That's what "relationships" is. It's all about getting wet and getting something up there. Women have a thousand ways to describe the most sordid things with pretty hearts-and-flowers. Don't be fooled by the language.

Two: all the bitches know the words. Watch 'em singing along. I'm listening to the music, hearing the beats, the chords, the melodies. But that's just the package. Women - the verbal sex - are listening to the words. And the words are telling them that their solemnly-sworn vows, their kid's futures, are nothing in comparison to the all-important importance of "love".

And maybe a third point for the non-mgtow lurkers out there:

But oh no, oh no
She got a man and a son though
But that's okay 'cause I
Wait for my cue and just listen, play my position
…
I see a lot, and you look, and I never say a word
I know how niggas start actin' trippin' out here about they girls
And there's no way
Nelly gon' fight over no dame (I ain't gon' fight over no dame)

The only reason the dude doesn't just swoop in and take this chick is the threat of violence. Real, even deadly violence. That's the only thing stopping these two from getting together, and taking the son with them. In times past, seducing a married woman was a crime in and of itself. But now, there's nothing.

If you are blue or purple pill, if you dream of relationship, love, even a wife and kids, keep in mind that you must be able to defend what's yours. Literally. In our situation now, where the state, the law, society in general doesn't support you doing that, you cannot defend what's yours. It's illegal.

No advocacy of violence on this forum, people.

Men who took the blue pill are happy when their wife is happy. Happy wife, happy life! They support her, they are okay when she feeeeels like open the marriage and when she feeeeeeels like having other sexual encounters. It is soooooooo liberating and empowering you can't imagine. Defending her? Excuse me, mister, that's some serious patriarchal stuff right there. Besides, men who took the blue pill don't want to risk to loose her and with her their friends, their kids, their home, their car, their job, their wealth, their worth and their balls.

Originally Posted by Mr Wombat

If you are blue or purple pill, if you dream of relationship, love, even a wife and kids, keep in mind that you must be able to defend what's yours. Literally. In our situation now, where the state, the law, society in general doesn't support you doing that, you cannot defend what's yours. It's illegal.

But it's not yours to defend... The idea that "She is yours" is only yours or your idea. She does not belong to anyone, she is her own being. You can not control her actions (maybe influence her actions), she will do as she pleases. To try to "Defend what is yours" when she doesn't want it, drives her farther away, when she does want it only promotes more "Shit tests".

If she displays any actions to wanting to be with another person, say good bye and let her go. Calling her bluff shows your strength, if she wasn't bluffing it was the correct thing for you to do.

I think the best a BP man can hope for if he still wants to get married have kids etc. is that the kids are his kids, not the bad boys kids that want to entertain the wife in the afternoon while you are slaving away to support her. My biggest fear was paying for years for someone else's kid....

"My Wife", "My Girlfriend", My Partner" hints of ownership, there is no ownership in a relationship. Both parties are there because they want to be, once one party wants out the relationship becomes unbalanced and is doomed for failure. That is why the idea of marriage is out dated and commitment is taken the wrong way.... The Disney Dream should be dead.

It's not R Kelly. It's Kelly Rowland.

I remember that song around 2002 and 2003. I was in high school and the girls would sing that song. Outkast's Hey Ya was another one it was the original twerk song(Shake it like a polaroid picture). Along with that dumb ass Milkshake song. Eminem's Superman too. Sit yo drunk ass on that runway ho!

I was just meeting my ex wife at that time. Thanks for bring back bad memories you asshole! (Wombat, you know I'm just kidding around!)