Thread: Bumble Dating Site Woman Are Only Allowed To Ask Men For A Date, Men Cannot Initiate Contact

"From Bumble Home Page: Why Bumble? Bumble was first founded to challenge the antiquated rules of dating. Now, Bumble empowers users to connect with confidence whether dating, networking, or meeting friends online. We’ve made it not only necessary but acceptable for women to make the first move, shaking up outdated gender norms. We prioritise kindness and respect, providing a safe online community for users to build new relationships . . . "

Comments: "New Dating site . IPO was yesterday. Womens empowerment site. Only women are allowed to ask men out on the site. Men not allowed to initiate contact. You know what is gloing to happen. Women will only ask the most attractive males..after a few rejections from the males let's see how this site works out because women do not take rejection well."
"That upsets the natural order, turns the men into submissives. No man in his right mind should be on that site." " No, marriage did that."
"My wife told me to tell you that’s not true, and that I should not listen to you anymore. I agree with her."

"Old Maid would be a better name."

"I might sign up just too get some free dinners. Now the women WILL be paying for dinner if they ask me out, won't they?"

"This comment by a woman sums it up: Horrible dating app. Most men on there are F boys only looking to hook up or get their ego stroked. Deleted the app after a few months and will never go back. Didn’t meet anyone decent genuinely looking for a relationship. Yes pretty much a hookup app for men who like to be chased like a woman. Sorry, I’m more into manly man, not immature little F boys."

Not only that, but they only reveal a match if both the man and woman like each other. In other words, the women are not going in cold, the man has already indicated an interest. So the women don't have to fear rejection. Its like life on easy mode.

Bumble will fail because it does not provide the ego-boost that Tinder does.

On Tinder, even a woman who has no intention of going on a date will sign up, just to receive hundreds, even thousands of approaches by men.

On Tinder, even a below average woman feels like highly desired prize, because of the all ego-stroking messages she receives.

What she doesn't realize is that the come-ons are coming from 'thirsty' average men and "slumming" top tier men.

She also doesn't realize that men are playing a numbers game, sending out dozens of "lost leader" "free samples" of interest, and even if they are genuinely interest, it is an interest for sex, not commitment.

Bumble exposes women to rejection. They don't like that.

Pre-wall women don't like it, because they are not used to it.
Post-wall women hate it, because they don't WANT to get used to it.

"This comment by a woman sums it up: Horrible dating app. Most men on there are F boys only looking to hook up or get their ego stroked. Deleted the app after a few months and will never go back. Didn’t meet anyone decent genuinely looking for a relationship. Yes pretty much a hookup app for men who like to be chased like a woman. Sorry, I’m more into manly man, not immature little F boys."

Reverse the sexes and all of that that applies to Tinder.

My second point is that in my area at least, the women on Bumble between 45 and 53 are impressive. They are 90% blonde, 90% divorced and/or 1-2 kids, the usual for a dating website.

What is impressive is that 20% are fit fit. This is a big fitness area so there are an unusual number of fit women.

What is more surprising is that this is the biggest list of girl power high flying successful career women i have ever seen. Doctors, lawyers, directors, managers, vice presidents, etc.

MD, PhD, JD, MS, MBA, ivy league , big 10, etc.


These women are on a dating website at 45 to 50 y.o. looking for husband 2.0.

Dating apps are so full of simps in 2021, even the most ugliest women are getting hundreds of free meal proposals and dick pics. It has got so funny now that women just link men to their onlyfans or instagram - and the men actually sign up and follow them expecting somehow to get a date while the other 100 simpians wait in line with their dick in their hands. We ran an experiment and we used some really awful looking women and ran into the copy/paste message of some Justin/Chad on numerous occasions, along with the mass horde of NPCS.

Women now just treat dating like its a sport. I read an article the other day where a girl is using a spreadsheet to rank her dates. I cannot blame them to be honest as men we would do the exact same thing. The dating apps generally do not work which is why they are all littered with 1 star angry reviews. The dating apps are not there to find the average guy a date, its there to sell male attention to women, and give guys some illusionary control over his dating life with a catalogue of women.

Technology of this kind created a recession-like dating economy. If a female recieves 100s of applications, they will up their criteria and expect more. The funny thing is even the ugliest women are doing this and just getting humped and dumped. The most good looking guys are not settling down and why would they? So now you can see why female PUA has surfaced (Female Dating Strategy) of course the media are positive about it but were negative and framed every pua as Charles Manson five years ago.

I would say right now the top 15% of men are having all the women. When I say top 15% I mean literally just the highest social status / good looking men. In a sex journal it stated 1 in 3 men are now sexless in UK, USA, Germany and rising across other western countries. Some quick propaganda came about saying it was due to marriage rates, but could not account for why womens sex is the same and of course gay mens sex is the same.

My post may be a tiny bit bitter but I've felt real sorry for a lot of guys out there. Society has done nothing to take this impending almost fatal social problem, who have driven vans into crowds because of their anger. Not saying we should appease them in the slightest, but these symptoms are giving a clear picture. If feminism wants to call this natural law, then natural law it is. Why should women even have the vote? Men are stronger end of. Of course this opinion is awful, as a society we should be collaborating together to ensure our world is working for everyone.

However i've witnessed some MRAS bring this up and take the democratic route, which is met with deaf ears. The governments right now are focusing on population control, and trying to take capitalism back to the top and defeat covid.

As a MGTOW, im glad to be out the dating game. I would rather be my own man then cater my entire life to chasing some girl who expects the world but doesn't really have nothing to offer - and quite a few women are in agreement with us and would have done the same.... Of course im sure there are a lot of women out there who do offer some good things, but the negative outweighs the positive. Its been a little bit difficult with COVID as I have not seen escorts. But id rather monk then deal with the games of the dating market, and jump through numerous flaming hoops. Modern women (in this age) are just not worth going for - which I say very sadly.

Originally Posted by ShogunRonin

Women now just treat dating like its a sport.

Looking back over 40 years (approx.) it has never been any different. The only difference is now they can do it online and get hooked up a lot easier.

Dating sites are merely “hypergamy amplifiers.” They allow a woman to advertise her wares to more men in a day than your grandmother met in her entire life. In the 1950’s, only the pretty nurse at Alcatraz Prison or Fort Benning or on the wharf welcoming a docking aircraft carrier could tease so many thirsty men.

This is a great change for women, it is very powerful stuff. Unfortunately, when it comes to women, with great power, comes great hypergamy.

As MGTOW, we understand that dating used to be a process to interview women and select the most chaste, tattoo/child/debt free, pleasant, and youthful one for marriage and a commitment to provide/protect/provision them.

We know that women have turned dating into another means of transferring resources from women to men. Either you are satisfying their vagina tingles, or you are providing free entertainment, or you are a “foodie call.”

So, dating is a scam, and dating sites are a weapons-grade scam.

If you the kind of man that gets women’s panties wet, dating site is a happy hunting ground where you can find plenty of women who will open their legs, either to scratch an itch or in the hopes of getting someone with more SMV to commit to them.

Unless you are near the top of the Dating site food chain, the only way to win that game is not to play. You will not find your AWALT or your unicorn there.

In the near future online dating will only consist of high SMV men (top 15%) and women. This is where the power dynamic will reverse. Women will complain and then the governments will cater to their whims almost instantly. Infact you see it now - female journalists in the UK are starting to shame high smv men who ghost women. They tried to shame men for not dating single mothers and if i remember correctly, actually started governmental campaigns in the UK, it was met with a negative response, this while the average incel guy and many average guys can't even get a single message.

The injustice is real.

I hate dating because if I want to get laid I can't be my usual asshole self, I have to pretend I'm a nice guy.

In the old days being an asshole worked in my favour!

NB I don't really consider myself an asshole, only in the eyes of society. Of course any man who demands sincerity, reciprocity, integrity.. will be an asshole. And even abusive!

I've had a good, hard day's work painting. Now I've just eaten a nice takeaway and drinking a cool beer, catching up on highlights of several sports. Good times. Cheaper and more fun than dating some THOT.

In the near future online dating will only consist of high SMV men (top 15%) and women. This is where the power dynamic will reverse. Women will complain and then the governments will cater to their whims almost instantly. Infact you see it now - female journalists in the UK are starting to shame high smv men who ghost women. They tried to shame men for not dating single mothers and if i remember correctly, actually started governmental campaigns in the UK, it was met with a negative response, this while the average incel guy and many average guys can't even get a single message.

The injustice is real.

I honestly don't naturally want to 'settle down'. But the people I feel most sorry for are the men who want to, and have been denied that. Back in the day pretty much everyone could find someone to be with, and count on having a family and a home. Now we have shitloads of men with no chance, or no choice but to remain MGTOW. I only hope they can find some happiness while being unfulfilled in that sense.

Originally Posted by happybachelor

I've had a good, hard day's work painting. Now I've just eaten a nice takeaway and drinking a cool beer, catching up on highlights of several sports. Good times. Cheaper and more fun than dating some THOT.

Just so!

The guys who want to "settle down" but can't, and wind up being disappointed, are running with antiquated information. They've failed to inform themselves on what the current M/F situation is actually like: the legal and financial hazards that are part of every marriage nowadays. So, I kind of feel bad for them, but not all that much. After all, we do have the Internet. It's not a stretch to expect the average man to be able to dig into all the available information, get the real facts, and set his expectations according to those rather than according to outmoded and blatantly false notions of romance and Happily Ever After. It was never anything but nonsense.

Originally Posted by kru-kut

The guys who want to "settle down" but can't, and wind up being disappointed, are running with antiquated information. They've failed to inform themselves on what the current M/F situation is actually like: the legal and financial hazards that are part of every marriage nowadays. So, I kind of feel bad for them, but not all that much. After all, we do have the Internet. It's not a stretch to expect the average man to be able to dig into all the available information, get the real facts, and set his expectations according to those rather than according to outmoded and blatantly false notions of romance and Happily Ever After. It was never anything but nonsense.

They'll never know happiness because there are no contentious matters when you're single and enjoying life! There's no grinding gears or locking horns, just peaceful bliss day after day, year after year, unhindered, unharnessed, freedom of choice and directive beyond comprehension!

I'd rather go swimming wrapped in a chain link fence than live under their proverbial loaded gun! It spells nothing but death to me!

I wonder if it's insecurity-driven.

"What will people say?" (Who gives a shit? Is it their life, or yours?)

"But I'll be all alone!" (Well... that's the point, isn't it?)

"What happens when I get older?" (You'll still have zero aggravation and all your money.)

"What do I do for sex?" (What, like there aren't any other options for getting rid of a few CCs of baby juice?)

"But I want kids!" (Dude... better have a look around the real world and re-think that.)

Insecurity + lack of facts = wrong decisions = miserable life. And all it takes is ONE wrong decision. Like signing up at any dating site, whether innocuous-looking or blatantly-edgy. No good can come from either. It's just the first step on the well-camouflaged road to Hell that millions of honorable men die on each year. Why even start the process, right?

Originally Posted by happybachelor

I honestly don't naturally want to 'settle down'. But the people I feel most sorry for are the men who want to, and have been denied that. Back in the day pretty much everyone could find someone to be with, and count on having a family and a home. Now we have shitloads of men with no chance, or no choice but to remain MGTOW. I only hope they can find some happiness while being unfulfilled in that sense.

The best way is to remain MGTOW. How many men do you know that are actually happy in a LTR or marriage? Not many and the ones that are won't remain like that, it will change. Nobody knows what goes on behind closed doors in reference to "happy" relationships, in most cases its just a charade. Many people stay in them because they cannot be alone and are stuck in misery and depression. I'd rather be on my own then stuck with someone who i don't want to be with. And most men eventually see that and leave relationships.

Originally Posted by Jesse Custer

The best way is to remain MGTOW. How many men do you know that are actually happy in a LTR or marriage? Not many and the ones that are won't remain like that, it will change. Nobody knows what goes on behind closed doors in reference to "happy" relationships, in most cases its just a charade. Many people stay in them because they cannot be alone and are stuck in misery and depression. I'd rather be on my own then stuck with someone who i don't want to be with. And most men eventually see that and leave relationships.

I get what you're saying and agree with you 100%. This is how bad it is is now for those lurkers and people who have been out the dating game for a while; A handful of my friends who have decent jobs, are honest/reliable who have muscles (six pack) who put in a lot of effort with women and are decent people, who have had their profiles professionally made, cannot even get a single date on Tinder. These were blue pillars a few years ago. At this point they do not even hate women, but they are starting to question everything. My advice to them is to go MGTOW and work on survival (i.e combat) as it isn't a stretch to see the collapse is coming soon. I personally work out 5 days a week in combat training and survival skills. It may be difficult to defend yourself if you are overweight, I do to it to protect my family.

I know many mgtows who laugh at incels and I cant as I see where they're coming from. Maybe 10 years ago guys didn't put in any effort but many incels have put in effort and worked on themselves for years. Society needs to re-examine this social problem. I do fear for society and where it is going. I would say in the near future we have a serious problem on our hands. Many of us MGTOWS will sit back and laugh but those who have not ghost need at least a functioning society.

I believe in the future 95% of mgtows will be ghost, this is where it is headed.

Originally Posted by ShogunRonin

I get what you're saying and agree with you 100%. This is how bad it is is now for those lurkers and people who have been out the dating game for a while; A handful of my friends who have decent jobs, are honest/reliable who have muscles (six pack) who put in a lot of effort with women and are decent people, who have had their profiles professionally made, cannot even get a single date on Tinder. These were blue pillars a few years ago. At this point they do not even hate women, but they are starting to question everything. My advice to them is to go MGTOW and work on survival (i.e combat) as it isn't a stretch to see the collapse is coming soon. I personally work out 5 days a week in combat training and survival skills. It may be difficult to defend yourself if you are overweight, I do to it to protect my family.

I know many mgtows who laugh at incels and I cant as I see where they're coming from. Maybe 10 years ago guys didn't put in any effort but many incels have put in effort and worked on themselves for years. Society needs to re-examine this social problem. I do fear for society and where it is going. I would say in the near future we have a serious problem on our hands. Many of us MGTOWS will sit back and laugh but those who have not ghost need at least a functioning society.

I believe in the future 95% of mgtows will be ghost, this is where it is headed.

That, sir, is exactly what's under attack from all sides including the insides. I have blood relationshits that are thinner than acetone. Did I make it this way? No! I did what you're doing and discovered exactly who's "indoctrinated" and the extent of their indoctrination.

I'm of the opinion it's best to dissolve all meaning of family when it comes to these indoctrinated individuals, their personas are extremely narcissistic, self serving, and extremely toxic to anyone with any vestige of family values, they are a fox in a chicken coupe when offered family advantages. It's like having a traitor within. They are dead to me, I offer nothing and expect the same in turn because corruption is the currency they use and the exchange rate is 100% for nothing at best, or 100% for -100%, less than no return.

I'm evolved beyond family, that was deliberately destroyed by the education system and the obscenities they pass off as good, normal, and wholesome, when in fact it's more toxic than arsenic.

Leave them to wander in their indoctrination confusion and don't add to it by offering them family advantages, it'll only confuse them more, at the same time you'll only be sickened by the toxic interaction and constant drain of finite personal resources.

My family is the people who agree with me.