Thread: Black female Incel complains about dating in Australia.

https://www.theage.com.au/culture/tv...14-p5atj2.html

She actually won a prize for this shit too! She complains about dating in Australia. It's too subtle for her, well that's because even the Blue Pill Simps are terrified to say straight up what they want. She complains that men don't approach and she feels it is because she is black. Because we don't have black people in our multicult hell hole. Apparently she feels people are intimidated by her blackness and they don't know what to say!

As per usual we have a Feminist who wants the man to make the approach, to take the risk. She is not attractive. She would probably be rude and bore you with discussions about Wokeness.

She doesn't identify herself as an Incel but if a man wrote the same thing he would be labelled one.

As usual the comments offer the real insights. They didn't publish mine or many at all probably because of the backlash! Mine was probably too cutting and MGTOW! But the ones below come close.

"that it may be because I am a black woman". Woah, welcome to PC land. Big possibility of fellas, damned if you do and safer you don't. There are some big toughies out there, ready to box the ears of any flirt or advances, white or black. Sorry to say when it comes to anyone referring to someone as black unless it is a black person themselves doing the referring, here in this country it could likely be used against someone not black. I really really dislike sharing this.

Why the constant big deal with race? Why are people still trying to divide and make groups of victims and make issues where there are none?

People don’t care what your colour is or race. People are people.

They closed the comments with what, five messages. Guess they weren't getting the answers they were looking for.

What was her beef anyway? Where have all the good men gone? Seemed like kind of vague complaints to me, but I'm just a man.

Playing hard to get when you're already hard to want isn't a very good strategy for getting laid.

Think it's got the memo yet? Or do you think it's still standing there with it's arms crossed looking pissed off?

Originally Posted by frog

They closed the comments with what, five messages. Guess they weren't getting the answers they were looking for.

What was her beef anyway? Where have all the good men gone? Seemed like kind of vague complaints to me, but I'm just a man.

4 comments and I just noticed they shut them down! I'm not surprised, people are over it. Blaming race or gender for everything. Yeah it was a vague complaint. And what does she bring to the table? She doesn't say what she has to offer. It can't be her looks or personality.

What is she even looking for? Nothing. Just expectations and demands.

Originally Posted by alphalpha

Playing hard to get when you're already hard to want isn't a very good strategy for getting laid.

Think it's got the memo yet? Or do you think it's still standing there with it's arms crossed looking pissed off?

It seems to be how they all are. Even the fugly ones have a huge list of demands they expect to be met!

It got rewarded to the tune of $15,000 for it's dating failures and whining so I don't expect it to be changing anytime soon!

As an Australian: fuck 'em. Go home. It's not just this black woman, there's this other one, we gave her citizenship (why?), she spent the next few years shitting on Australia. Then she renounced her citizenship, went to the UK, and is currently shitting all over them. Why did she ever leave the Sudan? Oh right: because it's the Sudan.

Originally Posted by Mr Wombat

As an Australian: fuck 'em. Go home. It's not just this black woman, there's this other one, we gave her citizenship (why?), she spent the next few years shitting on Australia. Then she renounced her citizenship, went to the UK, and is currently shitting all over them. Why did she ever leave the Sudan? Oh right: because it's the Sudan.

As a first generation born Aussie myself, I totally agree and relate. People come to live here from other countries and then complain and want Australia to be more like where they just ran from. It's not a new Woke thing, I went to school with plenty of immigrant/first gen Australian kids and it's like they are still living in their homelands.

Had enough of these people and their attempts to move their countries into our borders.

Originally Posted by Kryptic

As a first generation born Aussie myself, I totally agree and relate. People come to live here from other countries and then complain and want Australia to be more like where they just ran from. It's not a new Woke thing, I went to school with plenty of immigrant/first gen Australian kids and it's like they are still living in their homelands.

Had enough of these people and their attempts to move their countries into our borders.

Now you know how us Yankees feel. F**k that s**t! Go back to your s**tholes and take your "culture" with you!

Am I right?

Overweight, unattractive, woke, chip on her shoulder.

Tag her with any nationality. What's not to love?

Originally Posted by Kryptic

https://www.theage.com.au/culture/tv...14-p5atj2.html

She actually won a prize for this shit too! She complains about dating in Australia. It's too subtle for her, well that's because even the Blue Pill Simps are terrified to say straight up what they want. She complains that men don't approach and she feels it is because she is black. Because we don't have black people in our multicult hell hole. Apparently she feels people are intimidated by her blackness and they don't know what to say!

As per usual we have a Feminist who wants the man to make the approach, to take the risk. She is not attractive. She would probably be rude and bore you with discussions about Wokeness.

She doesn't identify herself as an Incel but if a man wrote the same thing he would be labelled one.

As usual the comments offer the real insights. They didn't publish mine or many at all probably because of the backlash! Mine was probably too cutting and MGTOW! But the ones below come close.

I'm half black. I will never date a black chick. They're all deceitful and scheming as hell. And they wonder why black guys refuse to date black chicks. I know that more than half of black guys prefer white or asian chicks. Most black guys will go for white chicks, as they are better than most other races. But black women? Hell, no! Fuck them cunt to hell! I would not breed with black chicks. They're racists as fuck, when you get to know them. Yes, black chicks can be feminist, and should be avoided, at all cost.

Look, I'm chill guy. I don't care about being superior, but I know this, I will never mixed my genes with a black chicks. I rather mix my genes with a white chick, since they have excellent traits. Look, don't look at me like that. Women are fucking shallow as hell, and always look for Alphas to breed with. So why can't I do the same thing? Men should breed with women they desire a trait. Men have the choice.

By the way, I'm still staying away from women, and I don't seek relationship. But to get laid?? That, I'm down for.

Originally Posted by UnKnownSurviving

I'm half black. I will never date a black chick. They're all deceitful and scheming as hell. And they wonder why black guys refuse to date black chicks. I know that more than half of black guys prefer white or asian chicks. Most black guys will go for white chicks, as they are better than most other races. But black women? Hell, no! Fuck them cunt to hell! I would not breed with black chicks. They're racists as fuck, when you get to know them. Yes, black chicks can be feminist, and should be avoided, at all cost.

Look, I'm chill guy. I don't care about being superior, but I know this, I will never mixed my genes with a black chicks. I rather mix my genes with a white chick, since they have excellent traits. Look, don't look at me like that. Women are fucking shallow as hell, and always look for Alphas to breed with. So why can't I do the same thing? Men should breed with women they desire a trait. Men have the choice.

By the way, I'm still staying away from women, and I don't seek relationship. But to get laid?? That, I'm down for.

Color never mattered to me. Character always has. I married a Spaniard because I loved her. She lived a short life due to genetic predisposition (diabetes). She lost her kidneys, legs, the remaining vision in her one eye, and finally her life.

Race/color never mattered.

Originally Posted by The Captain

Now you know how us Yankees feel. F**k that s**t! Go back to your s**tholes and take your "culture" with you!

Am I right?

Yep. When I was growing up in the 70's and 80's my mother would go on about Ukraine and she had friends who would do the same. One day she put a political protest sticker on her car, some guy in prison in Ukraine/USSR. I just thought, "Keep your wars out of my country!" So I am fair about it. I am like that about my own heritage as well as other people who try and bring their shit to my country.

Originally Posted by Gunnar

Overweight, unattractive, woke, chip on her shoulder.

Tag her with any nationality. What's not to love?

Nothing I would love more than to spend a relaxing evening listening to Feminism 101, Toxic Masculinity and the evil's of Donald Trump whilst drinking expensive wine and watching her order big on the menu, because she certainly knows she won't be the one paying for it!

Not to mention being grilled regarding my earning power and family background, knowing I am being assessed for future divorce rape potential.

It would just be amazing in any colour.

Originally Posted by alphalpha

Playing hard to get when you're already hard to want isn't a very good strategy for getting laid.

Think it's got the memo yet? Or do you think it's still standing there with it's arms crossed looking pissed off?

Even looks/personality/age aside feminists have taught men for years that no is no. They pushed for laws and movements that would punish cold approach. In some places you can literally be thrown in jail for that shit right now.

You reap what you sow.

Originally Posted by alphalpha

Playing hard to get when you're already hard to want isn't a very good strategy for getting laid.

Think it's got the memo yet? Or do you think it's still standing there with it's arms crossed looking pissed off?

Brilliant!

Originally Posted by UnKnownSurviving

Like I said, not every Puerto Rican is racist. We are a very mixed race. There's so many colors. I might have some white blood in me, and some native american blood. But i would have to check with my dna test. Obviously, I'm half black, on my biological father's side. Many people thought I was Mexican. Strange compliment. On my mother's side, full blooded Puerto Rican. Many white women thought her skin was dark, but nope. My mother's fair skin, really pissed off few white women, after the skin comparison was made. It turns out that my mother's skin was way whiter than theirs. Well, that's so weird.
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Beware of DNA tests.

- Many of them get processed in China, which is compiling everyone's information.

- Many lab workers like to play pranks and toss in small percentages of oddball ethnicities for the LOLs.


I would recommend doing it anonymously, and getting it done with 2 or more services to see how wildly different each one comes back.

Originally Posted by UnKnownSurviving

Totally get you. I'm not obsessed with race, but I do have my preferences. Due to my experience with black chicks, they do not have good behavior traits, and a black girl with extremely good traits, is rare. So, many black guys prefers white chicks, because we experience good experience with white women, and we rate them higher than black chicks, we notice huge differences with white chicks.

Me and my guy friends don't fuck with asian chicks. Though, they aren't too bad. Just that asian chicks just do not know social cues as well as whites. But it doesn't mean they are not smart. They are. But they are also liars.

Frankly, I do not have lot of experience asian chicks, but I might give them a chance again. I do have some experience with white chicks, and I just had an experience with a fat black woman. Note this black woman, I did not call her a chick, because she was just fucking fat. And it was a horrible experience.

So for me, I'm avoiding Black women. From my experience, it seems that black women take advantage of black men right off the bat. And I hate this kind of experience. So, I blocked her number. Didn't give her closure. Why should I give women closure?? They as hell don't give me closure when they cut me out of their life.

I don't think I'll ever, ever, be with a black woman. To be frank, I think they're kind of disgusting, because of their way they are taught, like with feminism.

If a black chick, ask me out, I'm running for the hills. Right now, a lot of them think I'm "racist", because I wouldn't date their black women. Fuck, woman, I don't like you, okay? Get the fuck out. I prefer white chicks. And you ain't a chick.

Right now, when I'm whenever I'm with a hispanic chick, she gets quiets around me, because I loathe black chicks. At a lot of our Spanish/Puerto Rican families have European traits, so they intend stick with people that are light skinned. So there might be some racism there, But not all of it, is racism. So, you'll meet some or lot of Spanish family that lean toward light-skin people. Or There's some mixture of the two, and there's some European pride. We do have small typically German communities in Puerto Rico, that might espouse European culture, and speak Spanish in Puerto Rico.

Like I said, not every Puerto Rican is racist. We are a very mixed race. There's so many colors. I might have some white blood in me, and some native american blood. But i would have to check with my dna test. Obviously, I'm half black, on my biological father's side. Many people thought I was Mexican. Strange compliment. On my mother's side, full blooded Puerto Rican. Many white women thought her skin was dark, but nope. My mother's fair skin, really pissed off few white women, after the skin comparison was made. It turns out that my mother's skin was way whiter than theirs. Well, that's so weird.



Anyway, who cares. I'm straying off here. I'm always with a different race, in absence of black chicks. Mostly white chicks. If I could get laid with a Russian or German chick......I would be in heaven.....

When I was on Seeking Arrangement they had a forum where we would sometimes chat. The black American women would always be upset at the lack of interest they would receive from the men on the site. Of course it was all racist. Most of the men who chatted on that forum were quite blunt. It was pointed out to these women that although to some degree their race might be a disadvantage (we were mostly white men in our late 30's to 50's, so we tended to want younger white women), it didn't mean they couldn't overcome that but behaving differently to the stereotypical black woman that put us off.

Some got it. Most just kept behaving in a way that confirmed our reservations about black women. That's what the woman in this article is reminding me of, even though she isn't American. She is just trying to shame and blame men into approaching her. She doesn't understand that you get more flies with honey than vinegar.

That said, she isn't attractive anyway and as alphalpha stated, playing hard to get when you are not in demand is not a good strategy.

Three factors explain her lack of success.

- She is 36. While she is not unattractive, the 'sell by' date is approaching.

- Blame cancel culture and #metoo. Australia, like the rest of the Anglosphere, has made it very dangerous for men to approach women.

Approach a woman who thinks she is your equal or better in SMV, and 'flirting' becomes 'sexual harassment,' just based on how she is feeling that day. Men are getting smart and refuse to risk their jobs, their educations, their ability to do banking, their credit, and the 'social credit score' McCarthyism that is lurking in the wings. This means, unless a woman comes to a space where she basically announces, "I am DTF," it is not worth asking her for anything as innocent as joining you for a cup of coffee or drinks after work.

“I find it very difficult to decipher whether a guy is flirting with me or just being nice. In comparison to being back in Zimbabwe [where] if a guy likes you, they will tell you quite plainly,” she says. “Here, it’s a lot more subtle in general. It is a lot harder to decipher people’s intentions.

Hmmm, in Zimbabwe, they stopped at 2nd Wave Feminism. Men there don't have to play football in a minefield to ask for a date. Maybe that's your clue.


- If Australian men are like American men, then they generally find black women less attractive. I would argue that it may be more of an American situation. African American women were early adopters of the "S&I woman" lifestyle, and created the avatar of the single, overweight woman with one hand on her hip, another in the air, a finger twirling in the air, her head swivelling and oscillating in a wide circle like a dough mixer in a bakery while proclaiming "I don't need no man."

7 (Surprising) Online Dating Race Statistics (datingadvice.com)

1. White Men and Asian Women Have the Highest Response Rates

Racial biases are usually negative, but sometimes they involve giving preferential treatment to particular types of people. So, the good news for white men and Asian women is they are the most sought-after demographics on dating sites.

Originally Posted by sam luis obispo

Three factors explain her lack of success.

- She is 36. While she is not unattractive, the 'sell by' date is approaching.

- Blame cancel culture and #metoo. Australia, like the rest of the Anglosphere, has made it very dangerous for men to approach women.

Approach a woman who thinks she is your equal or better in SMV, and 'flirting' becomes 'sexual harassment,' just based on how she is feeling that day. Men are getting smart and refuse to risk their jobs, their educations, their ability to do banking, their credit, and the 'social credit score' McCarthyism that is lurking in the wings. This means, unless a woman comes to a space where she basically announces, "I am DTF," it is not worth asking her for anything as innocent as joining you for a cup of coffee or drinks after work.

“I find it very difficult to decipher whether a guy is flirting with me or just being nice. In comparison to being back in Zimbabwe [where] if a guy likes you, they will tell you quite plainly,” she says. “Here, it’s a lot more subtle in general. It is a lot harder to decipher people’s intentions.

Hmmm, in Zimbabwe, they stopped at 2nd Wave Feminism. Men there don't have to play football in a minefield to ask for a date. Maybe that's your clue.


- If Australian men are like American men, then they generally find black women less attractive. I would argue that it may be more of an American situation. African American women were early adopters of the "S&I woman" lifestyle, and created the avatar of the single, overweight woman with one hand on her hip, another in the air, a finger twirling in the air, her head swivelling and oscillating in a wide circle like a dough mixer in a bakery while proclaiming "I don't need no man."

7 (Surprising) Online Dating Race Statistics (datingadvice.com)

1. White Men and Asian Women Have the Highest Response Rates

Racial biases are usually negative, but sometimes they involve giving preferential treatment to particular types of people. So, the good news for white men and Asian women is they are the most sought-after demographics on dating sites.

I also noted that in Zimbabwe society would still be mostly traditional and men would just approach women quite boldly and declare their intentions. Likewise women would probably be more respectful when declining. It works both ways but as per usual with women like the one in the article, we only hear what she wants us to.

- If Australian men are like American men, then they generally find black women less attractive. I would argue that it may be more of an American situation. African American women were early adopters of the "S&I woman" lifestyle, and created the avatar of the single, overweight woman with one hand on her hip, another in the air, a finger twirling in the air, her head swivelling and oscillating in a wide circle like a dough mixer in a bakery while proclaiming "I don't need no man."

I think the preference down here is still for white women, Asian women are also sought after, but I think it's more of a porn thing. Indian men in particular go nuts over white women and you often see an Indian guy with a land whale white woman just because she is white, bonus points if she is blonde.

My image of Black women is much like the one you describe above. In Australia we have Aboriginals as well who are mostly rather unattractive, I have never heard of anyone who has a thing for Aboriginal women.

I think one of the many backfires of Feminism is it has improved white men or at least some white men. We can cook, clean, we are polite, laid back, of course we are also adverse to wanting to talk to women but we would make great partners. Hence why women of most races prefer white men.

See graph below from same site.


What does S&I stand for?

S&I = 'strong and independent'