Thread: "Before and after the wall. The tragic tale of Julia."

Julia sounds a lot like an escort girl I used to see quite frequently.

Same red flags: kids from univolved fathers, in tons of debt, low intelligence, made really poor life decisions etc...

But she was gorgeous and knew how to fuck like a pro, so I stayed around longer than I should have. I stopped seeing her because I no longer wanted to support her degenerate lifestyle.

Now that my sex drive is waning at 33 these broads can't sink their hooks into me like before, and it's quite liberating. Sometimes as men our biggest enemies are ourselves, and our sex drive steers us down dark paths the logical brain wouldn't otherwise go down.

After a couple months she began to complain about my frugal lifestyle. She demanded I buy new furniture and kitchen appliances. She wanted me to rent an expensive high end apartment so that she could move in.

And this is perhaps the most salient point of all to me - you cannot be a minimalist if you're intimately involved with a modern woman. It just isn't possible from what I've seen.

Originally Posted by RustyNuts

Yes, and Better Bachelor did a video on this subject. The Institute for Family Studies article found:

It turns out that Americans react to infidelity differently for men and women. The gap is particularly large among women: 70% of women say that it is “always” morally wrong when a man has an extramarital affair, but fewer (56%) say the same when it is a woman who has an affair. (Nearly 1 in 4 women say it is morally wrong “most of the time.”)

70% of women say that it is “always” morally wrong when a man has an extramarital affair, but fewer (56%) say the same when it is a woman who has an affair.

Liberal and Conservative Women Have Very Different Views About Marital Infidelity | Institute for Family Studies (ifstudies.org)

This is Female Nature; this is part of TRP truths.... "She is not yours, it is only your turn"
A committed relationship or the marriage vows only apply for when they were spoken, never longer...

This is definitely an innate quality of females. They view sex differently than men. For them sex is a tool to gain provisioning or to to manipulate the men around them, they mostly do not do it for love or pleasure especially in a progressive society. They view men having sex differently. They believe we only have sex for love or pleasure that's why they believe that a polygamist male is a villain but they justify the behaviors of a polyamorous female.

I noticed this behavior in a lot of the sugarbabies I dealt with. They would get piped down by multiple men but they would get jealous of me having multiple girls in my harem. They attempt to guilt me into exclusivity with them even though they plan to keep multiple sugar daddies on their roster. They really feel like what they are doing is different.

Originally Posted by stanmsl

For some reason those lines just jumped out at me. Ethical whenever it suits her.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uOVJ...ist=WL&index=2

The Chinese Communist Party called.

They are having a congress and they want their red flags back.

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"10% of 'something' beats 100% of 'nothing at all.'"

You were at your best when you were getting sex but not letting her move in. The FWB phase is the "10%".

You were 'Chad' when you were the guy she was having sex with after some other guy paid for her fancy dinner.

If she had not moved in with you at the 'fixer-up' house, you would have had a sweet deal.


You were probably very content during the years you were saving up money and taking the P4P trips. Glad to see that you have returned to that.

Now is the time to start setting something aside for the last 20 years of your life. OPP (Old, Poor, and Powerless) are no way to end your life.

To be continued....... Julia now is in her middle 50's. Her hourglass figure and runway model looks are long gone via advanced alcoholism and drug addiction. She is overweight to the tune of about 3 bucks. She drifts from job to job. She somehow manages to still find suckers to pay for her stuff but most quickly realize she is a train wreck and dump her. Her family no longer speaks to her. Oh wait, that's about my sister. Still there are many paralels to your story.

Originally Posted by Mrkoolkat5249

To be continued....... Julia now is in her middle 50's. Her hourglass figure and runway model looks are long gone via advanced alcoholism and drug addiction. She is overweight to the tune of about 3 bucks. She drifts from job to job. She somehow manages to still find suckers to pay for her stuff but most quickly realize she is a train wreck and dump her. Her family no longer speaks to her. Oh wait, that's about my sister. Still there are many paralels to your story.

The wall defeats them all.