Thread: Another Blue Pill Man - Waking Up To Red Pill Reality

Guy I just talked to. Good guy. Quite religious, but still decent to be around (not a pious prick). He has the "Religious Man as Head of the Home" mentality. He married a young lady from church who works a low-skill cubicle job. He's got a professional career (P. Eng.). I always thought of her as somewhat cute but ultimately, I think she got a pretty good deal and married into a pretty good family.

So anyways, today he tells me that his little wifey, who insists she works (but doesn't need to), is tired of the rigors of parenting and bored with the marriage.

This is a SOLID GUY we're talking about here. Handsome, funny, witty, easy going, dedicated worker and father. She's tired. She's bored. Kids are hard. Life is hard. They don't have enough fun. Guys, this dude is easily a top 20% guy. This girl is mousy and average looking.

They have two kids.

Guys, don't get married. Women these days CANNOT BE SATIATED.

Being a "good husband and father" is meaningless and lost on these insatiable women.

Being with a respectable, stable family man kills their vagina tingles. Every single time.

DON'T BE THAT GUY.

Originally Posted by Insidious_Sid

Guy I just talked to. Good guy. Quite religious, but still decent to be around (not a pious prick). He has the "Religious Man as Head of the Home" mentality.
DON'T BE THAT GUY.

The worst part is that you know this guy is going to be the type to try to figure out what he did wrong and how he can make things better for HER. He's probably got a long road ahead of him.

Good example of a good man about to be screwed by some twat. This is what feminist have done, destroyed the family unit. Just like that asshole from PragerU that tries to shame men into a traditional role of husband, father and provider lacks foresight and education about current laws verses laws of the 1950's. You see women today will joyfully marry men because they get all the benefits of a married woman and none of the responsibilities. All a woman has to do is remain married for 10 years in most states, some 8 years and poof, she has lifetime alimony. She pushes out a few kids and child support for at least 18 years as a bonus. If the man has some luck she will tell him of her troubles of boredom and how hard she has it before she leaves him. In most cases she usually goes out and has an affair with Chad Thundercock and laugh to herself as her husband eats this guys DNA from her snatch. One couple I read about the wife cheated and caught herpes and then gave it to her husband. The fucked up part was that she only had one or two mild breakouts, while her husband had bad breakouts and often. She then went on to talk about how rough it was to stay with him because the breakouts reminded him of her affair. Yes that is right, she cheated, caught an incurable virus and she thinks she is the victim.

Marriage today is much like not looking to see if your strapping on a backpack or a parachute before jumping out of a plane. You have roughly a 50% chance that your strapping on a backpack (provided there are only two bags their). Your odds are even worse if either has had a previous marriage. Sure that gal may look good, she may clean your house, be very loving and cater to your needs, she may seem to look like she will make a great wife. In the end are you willing to bet half your retirement, half your income, your kids (if you have any), your house, your car and all your other shit on the illusion that she will make even a half-ass wife? I don't know about you, however I am not that kind of an insane gambler.

Now this is not saying that all women are bad or that they would do cruel things such as I have listed. I am sure that there are women out there that would make a great wife and mother. However I am also sure that all women are capable of turning into a cheating, greedy slut because the laws protect them and the feminist encourage these women to do so. Getting married is betting that the woman you marry today is the same woman 5 and 10 years later. Now if any of you can predict the future, I seriously need to talk with you private. I need serious stock tips, and just about every sporting event that you can think of. Simply put men, just don't fucking marry. It is not worth losing your property and income over a full time piece of ass and what you think is a friend and companion.

I have always wondered the advice of many tradcons to marry a woman young and with a low partner count. A low partner count reduces the chance of divorce being initiated by a woman . But I counter with the obvious point that the hamster can't be restrained. The reason why the hamster can't be restrained is because society bends the rules for women all the time and the game is literally rigged against men. That is why the best rule for men is to simply not marry.

Why do so many men not understand this point or worse try to argue otherwise? The only reason I can think of is the urge to have children and to pass on a family heritage. But do you really need to marry a woman to achieve this? In my opinion absolutely not if I am to be blunt.

I feel sorry for anyone on the wrong side of unlimited liability caused by information asymmetry.

Marriage is NOT DOABLE. It's a ticking time bomd and an insanely one sided contract supported by a crazy system set up to completely side with the woman at all costs. Sorry.

Originally Posted by Azure Nomad

I have always wondered the advice of many tradcons to marry a woman young and with a low partner count. A low partner count reduces the chance of divorce being initiated by a woman .

The cunts understand this and attempt to exploit the fact by hiding their sexual history as much as they can and only admitting to the ones you are likely to know / find out about. It's not like there is a mileage counter on her vagina that says "460 different cocks and 3,492,864 miles of cock".

Cupcake will try and convince you that she only does serious relationships and the losers that you know about in the past were all a mistake.

Yeah. Right.

Originally Posted by Delmore Schwartz

The cunts understand this and attempt to exploit the fact by hiding their sexual history as much as they can and only admitting to the ones you are likely to know / find out about. It's not like there is a mileage counter on her vagina that says "460 different cocks and 3,492,864 miles of cock".

Cupcake will try and convince you that she only does serious relationships and the losers that you know about in the past were all a mistake.

Yeah. Right.

Yeah it is common knowledge among women that they can not form bonds with a single man if they have feelings for every past man that has come into their lives. At that point it doesn't matter if you are alpha, beta, gamma etc hold frame, indifferent, etc. A woman that can't form bonds of empathy at that point has internalized sex as an exchange of resources and not building a family.

Before science showed strong evidence of this, it was common knowledge with the ancient civilizations of the world.

To recap: All women know this, the ancients know this, but guess who is left out of this little bit of info? The modern man.

Originally Posted by Free and Clear

I feel sorry for anyone on the wrong side of unlimited liability caused by information asymmetry.

Precisely on the mark. It is information asymmetry purposefully engineered to keep men in the dark, so society can keep churning. The show must go on no matter how grisly it truly is which is sad that most men will never understand the information warfare and conditioning waged against them on a daily basis.

Just yesterday I was at the office coffee area and I cound not help but overhear a conversation between a coworker whom I do not know very well and an older woman pretending to lend a sympathetic ear. He is your typical decent guy, very hard working, overweight, desk jockey, very beta, etc, etc.

Key terms I from the overheard conversation......."Unfair"......"I can't beleive this"......"She won't listen to reason"........."Why did she do this"......"I don't know what to do"........

You guessed it......another decent married guy with children just entering into the family court male destruction machine.

I will eventually hand-write the web address to this site on a piece of paper and send it him anonymously via inter office snail mail (untraceable).

Marriage can't work! In Muslim countries cheating carries the death penalty and women still do it. If death can't stop a woman what will.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tA_tJ095Alc

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9g9hz9mFjws

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zpZ6mFtBoGY

Now here is the kicker. With Tinder in hand, a woman can go to the other side of town, find a man and bang him. No on has to know. With no possibility of the death penalty for cheating, imagine what is going on.

Originally Posted by Insidious_Sid

This is a SOLID GUY we're talking about here. Handsome, funny, witty, easy going, dedicated worker and father. She's tired. She's bored. Kids are hard. Life is hard. They don't have enough fun. Guys, this dude is easily a top 20% guy. This girl is mousy and average looking.

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DON'T BE THAT GUY.

Indeed! Even my conservative father identified the situation of one of this kind of guy. My father said similarly:

I don't understand the leverage of this 'woman'. And the slavish obedience of this guy.

He is solid, good looking, handsome, a dedicated worker with a very good payed job. No drugs, no smoking, no alcohol. She comes from a broken home. Unattractive looking, cold, lazy, artificial behaviour and no drive to accomplish something in life. And after her mediocre degree no company wanted to recruit her.

Then he repeated: I don't understand this. He could have many other women.

Marriage in North America is dead.
I try to make sure young men understand this, and why it is this way.
I consider it to be a moral responsibility.